babestell:
Buy him a intimacy gadget and use it on him for the meanwhile.

Yes its not a regular advice but it does 2 things. One helps him find relief and 2 makes it an activity 2 of you partake in so that its not like he is masturbating on his own. Try and also consider giving him a hand job. The intimacy of the process could also be a stress reliever for you

Please regiter for antenatal. You don't need his permission to do so. On this I advice you stand your ground.

Thank you for this. I will, just waiting for the 12 weeks mark, plan to use a general hospital.

Sophiemama:
please,how can I get this? I'm based in Rivers State.

where in rivers?maybe we can share waybill?

Rache404:
Its not easy at all. The marriage is still fresh. I always spot and later bleed when I was pregnant with my daughter. So, I went to my doctor and discovered I had placenta previa. My placenta was lying comfortably on my cervix. We were told not to have sex till the 7th month of pregnancy. I was checked at the 7th month and luckily the placenta has moved as my uterus was growing. If I had continued bleeding, my placenta wouldn't have had enough oxygen and nutrients for the baby.
I really wish you can convince him to start antenatal or see a doctor to know why you bleeding. It might not be placenta previa Buh dont ignore anything.
About the sex issue, you can consider oral to satisfy him. You two are in this together. With time, he will learn to be very considerate.

Wow, thanks for this. I plan to pause sex till I see the doc..

Nimi22:


I'm an hippo from the way I walk plus my right hip is the definition of painful.

Hahahaha.Me I will trying to control my walking steps for where e no dey work.I just keep seeing myself walking like my jajaina wants to pull out

Prudify25:


I'm experiencing same thing too but mine doesn't kick me.

Wow..really??

Prettyuche:



Noo.I am the definition of elephant.so huge.can't stand for up to 5 mins.can't walk long distance. Bp going up and down.I am counting days.its well

Chaiii I can relate.Me I dey sleep for toilet.I no dey go anywhere that doesn't have toilet. Very annoying tiny drops eyt e go be like say na one bucket I wan pee.I can't wait o.

hapiness44:


Wow, thanks for this. I plan to pause sex till I see the doc..

Please go with your hubby to the hospital, he does not understand, that is why he is acting this way. Don't be angry with him, it's not his fault.

Try to make sure your doctor says no sex until further notice in his front and also tell him the complications that may arise if you don't adhere to it.

Simsimz:
I'm in Port Harcourt. Do you have in size 44?

It can fit anybody, its stretchy

Chat me up on WhatsApp 08154354285

hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage

I can relate very well.It was during antenatal that the nurses talked about it and all our husbands were there.They really talked about low sex libido .I just kept straight face Sidon .Me I can count how many times we did it and its usually to please him not for my sef o because that's the last thing on my mind.Na because na first time father ,with time he will understand. And if you're lucky your libido will return after some time.Tell him to read about it in Google that you're not faking it and besides its risky for now.

Rejoice04:


I just liked her post oh. Just reading this please I am not ready until 2021.

Better goan unlike it

Omawumi17:
Maternity bra for 1500

I really like this. Can I get size 46? I was using 38 before I got pregnant, October when I went shopping for baby I bought 42 only to try it on Monday and discovered its now too small for me and all the pants I bought also can't even enter my hips. The rate @ which I'm increasing now is something else.

Simsimz:
where in rivers?maybe we can share waybill?

Choba

Omawumi17:
Nationwide delivery available

Alright

Joyfulmama:

I really like this. Can I get size 46? I was using 38 before I got pregnant, October when I went shopping for baby I bought 42 only to try it on Monday and discovered its now too small for me and all the pants I bought also can't even enter my hips. The rate @ which I'm increasing now is something else.

Sure. u can get. Drop ur number let me chatvu up

Honeysweetest:
kedu ka imere nne, let's chat,maybe I can share how I keep fit in this journey,

pls share with me too

Blackfinegirl:
Experienced Mamas, whenever I turn to the left, baby will move to the left and start kicking me, when I move to the right, baby will move to the right and start kicking. It has been like this for a week. When baby kicks where I am lying on, I turn to the other size to avoid pressing baby.

Hope all is well?

it's normal.

Simsimz:
sorry. I was also like this in my first trimester- my mouth was constantly moving Just eat well abeg, u can always shed the weight later

Weight ayam looking for izz wah I'll now comman shed. Egbami, weight puleasse come

Ligxy:

Lol, pele. I wish I can eat like that tho, I'm not adding weight at all. Wish I could add a bit.

Same here. I'll add everything during pregnancy, one week after giving birth, fiam e will disappear

Omawumi17:

YES MA. I Personally have used one before. it comes in diffrent sizes

Where are you located?


Plus



_{I no even know my size sef}

Omawumi17:
Maternity bra for 1500

Do you have this in 42, and where's your location?

Blackfinegirl:
Experienced Mamas, whenever I turn to the left, baby will move to the left and start kicking me, when I move to the right, baby will move to the right and start kicking. It has been like this for a week. When baby kicks where I am lying on, I turn to the other size to avoid pressing baby.

Hope all is well?

I think it's normal. I experience this too

angeltolly:

Where are you located?

Plus


_{I no even know my size sef}

Location Ibadan

folash:
Do you have this in 42, and where's your location?

Location Ibadan. Its stretches to fit any size

Gloriousheart:

Can you find a very good hospital and doctor(s) for monitoring if you haven't done that already. It will greatly help. Sometimes, it's as simple as your doc placing you on progesterone shots n injections etc if your case warrants it. Sometimes, it takes more plus early and constant monitoring including scans . All the best.

I keep reminding my doctor that my last progesterone test wasn't really a good one but, the old professor seems to be handling thing the ancient ways.

He doesn't express any form of pressure or anxiety but, simply tells me to relax and not to worry.
All he administered was folic acid and duphostone

zaynie:
Splasshhh

Sorry about your previous losses. I believe this one has come to stay.
Àmin


First trimester losses are usually due to hormonal imbalance, rhesus factor and/or stress.
Second trimester losses are usually due to cervical incompetence or uterine related factors.
Third trimester losses are mostly due to stress, baby factor.

If you're experiencing recurrent first trimester losses, it's most likely hormonal.
After your first miscarriage, your doctor should have monitored your hormones right before you got pregnant again and given you some shots to prevent the next one if he observes that you have hormonal imbalance.

You should first do a urine and blood pt to ascertain if you're pregnant or not. I believe you can still take the shots if you have hormonal issues.

Wishing you lots of luck

Thanks dear

I have done all necessary tests but even when I mentioned taking the progesterone shots, my doctor didn't react like it was necessary yet.

His reactions keep giving me the gnugde like, worry less Mrs.

angeltolly:


Have you done a pregnancy test? Why not do it. What if its implantation bleeding? Take a test first so we know what else to think. It is well dear

My doctor adviced me to do that and I did, it was +ve. I wasn't really excited because the bleeding announces my past painful experiences and I didn't want any of those again.

It better not come at all than with complications.
God can actually give me a seed easy to tender and rip.

Well, Doctor said I should just continue with folic acid only till after a week and I will repeat the pt again.

Give me your pastor's phone number I wantu ask him something.

beyedew:
Happiness44
Better sleep was pushing me last night, I couldn't type. You mustn't pleasure him through sex alone. What happened to hand job or Mouth Action, your boobies if they are small like mine should have grown a little bit bigger by now, carry enough baby oil or coconut oil and pour in between, let him insert una junior Oga and fire on. You can use your hand and push your bobbies together to make it tighter for him. I know say nobi today I spoil .

Please register for antenatal or see a Dr for proper evaluation, na your health we dey talk about. If anything should happen to either you or your Lo, na only sorry and petting highest you go receive. You will be the one to bear the pains alone. You mustn't tell him you are going to the hospital, carry yourself and go please. It is well with you.

Splasshhh:



Thanks dear

I have done all necessary tests but even when I mentioned taking the progesterone shots, my doctor didn't react like it was necessary yet.

His reactions keep giving me the gnugde like, worry less Mrs.

He won't want you to take it cos you don't have a record of the previous miscarriages and the causes.

I see where you wrote that you confirmed the pregnancy.. Have you thought of seeing another Dr. You may request for a gynecologist or an obstetrician this time around.

zaynie:


Better goan unlike it

Yes Mami.

I carry yansh for you.

Omawumi17:

Location Ibadan. Its stretches to fit any size

Can you please drop your phone number.

Debclem:
Give me your pastor's phone number I wantu ask him something.

Pastor no dey do Nne? I heard its from their wives that the term "ride on sir" and "hmmmmmmm", "haaaaaaa" originated from.

Please my head is paining me, nobody shu come and disturb me.