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Pals please your advice and counseling will go a long way , I and girl have been together for 4years now, I met her when I was in my 300level, then she was just a secondary school leaver. all this years she has been a backbone, support anything good, u can call her. we have really helped each other along the way, after my final year I went into teaching so I could pay my bills and stay alive. I was able to pay for her Neco (olevel) exam in the school I was teaching of which she passed, shortly I left for service(nysc), I then send some money for her to register for jamb, because of the nature of her job leaving 7am in the morning and coming back by 8pm I wasn't really expecting to her to score high but the experience will help her next time, and rewriting it the second time believing God I must have had something better doing and she will need to stop working so she could have time for her studies. thus after all said and done she got 160 ,she cried and weeped so I had to comfort her that next time will be better, before I could knew it she went for change of institution processed Post ume form to a university of education that accepts that score all on her own, now I'm back still struggling to find my feet, and she has been given admission. Pals my gal's elder brother and sister they are well to do but non want to assist her, right now she has began acceptance payment, about 70k she has had in her account she has emptied everything, now who is going to pay for school fees, accommodation, feeding, upkeep, reading material, what about other sessions, I have cried, weepped, talked, there's nothing I have not told this gal, that as we have accepted the admission let us differ the admission till next academic session, she adamantly refused, still insisting of moving forward with the plan and I don't know what to do again I'm still yet to find something to do and her family has turned back on her and she's the only one in her family that want to go this far all the believe is business but everyone cannot do business , pals please I need ur counselling, going to school to be educated is wonderful but u can't go into prostitution with the hope of developing your self , the aim will be defeated she needs a sponsor if she gets none, prostitution is inevitable and I don't want that for her. she's a struggle girl and the way she's pushing with this school stuff might lead her to prostitution because she must survive in campus, by the time I'm not sending no one in the family is sending either she must find alternative especially now that terminal sickness is everywhere and when I see that she's seeing someone else apart from me it will lead to our separation. and the idea was to grow together, she's 21years, pals please ur advice.

Make she go work na

I no wan talk wetin dey my mind.

*sighs*


How many stories like this will I read in a day on NL?

Can't you see the solution yelling at you right there from your own post?

*walks outta thread*

Her brothers and sisters are well to do
And you're here killing yourself

Omo see brother .....brother
See brother. .........brother
See brother ...............brother
Brother wey mumu ...brother



Shey your own brothers and sisters don graduate finish

Because those her siblings wey no wan help her
When you go wan marry her they go follow bring list oh and you go pay
Bro wise up

luminouz:
*sighs*


How many stories like this will I read in a day on NL?

Can't you see the solution yelling at you right there from your own post?

*walks outta thread*

Wait for me jare let's move together

Incoherent write up.

I regret viewing this thread.

my brother, let me tell you the bitter truth, you would live to regret it if you pay for her school fees because she will dump you very very soon. imagine a girl you helped to purchase a jamb form with your own hard earned money, despite all your plead to wait till next year, go again your will and make her own choice.

Is she your wife, No her own family are not killing themselves and you are.
After you have finished training her and she dumps you, I wonder how it would feel.
Everyone know how stories like this end

Too many pessimistic guys on nairaland. Ladies you guys have hurt too many guys that there's no one ready to sponsor a girl through school anymore. Smh

Nothing Can make me date school girl. so many shits.

coolestofall:
Too many pessimistic guys on nairaland. Ladies you guys have hurt too many guys that there's no one ready to sponsor a girl through school anymore. Smh

Are men ATM machines, why can't a fellow lady sponsor her to school...


We've stopped smiling with those babes...the dumb one's still do though.

Person wet dey disrespect u despite ur effort, u want kill urself for and seniors brothers don't give a f***t about her. Ok ooooo

Go and die shey be after all ur effort they go still give her free to u?