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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by studentofTruth: 5:58pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Brightergrammer: It baffles me that people like you think that masturbation is all about using hands. Real addicts can masturbate by simply lying or moving their genitals against any firm surface — mattress, pillow, floor, chairs, table, wall, and all have you! |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by kenodrill: 5:59pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 6:05pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Vick4rill: You can quit it. Many have done so. But the best and the easiest way to do so is through the religious way. I know scorners will deride this. Masturbation, like all addictions, has a very disturbing spirit behind it, and unless the spirit is dislodged it is very difficult to quit the habit. It is destructive spirit. It takes away your peace, drains away your prosperity, your marital blessings will not fully realised, and it causes sexual dis-satisfaction and arthritis. Find a deliverance inclined church (like MFM) to attend, go alone to their altar, tell everything desperately to GOD, including your desire to quit the habit. If you do so sincerely, believe me the addictive spirit will leave you alone, and you will recover the peace of mind that has been eluding you over the years. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Kingchineme6(m): 6:11pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Ikennablue(m): 6:14pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
horpigee1:worse than suicide. You, can you do it? |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by SKINDOGGY: 6:17pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
I masturbate but is once in a a while to reduce anxiety or when ever I loose alot of money to betting I just bring sm olive oil nd jerk it off I will get myself instantly. I once bot a intimacy gadget I use it once in a while nd den I destroyed it. Thinking of buying fleshlight. I watch porn too but am not addicted I do it any time I want to ease myself from unnecessary pressure. I drink beer but am not addicted to it I can tk it once in 3months. Never make any form of satisfaction an habit it kills more Aids. Try to control ur mind wen ever d urge comes up tell it to stop dat u ar d master of ur body not ur dick. Addiction of anything is bad do it moderate. Masturbator helps me alot wen ever am feeling depressed too but I will never be addicted to it never!! It can never control my mindset but rather I will control it ND do it any time I feel like not it commanding me to do it. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by studentofTruth: 6:24pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Vick4rill: You can't abruptly stop masturbation — no amount of prayer or deliverance that can abruptly stop it. If you try, withdrawal symptoms will obviously pull you back. My advice is this: don't fight masturbation, just ignore it! How do you that? By keeping yourself busy as much as you can and masturbate only when the urge interferes with your work. This way, you will drastically reduce the number to 1 or 2 a day. With time, it will reduce to only once or none a day. If it doesn't affect your sleep, with good understanding and management of your emotions, you will eventually start going weeks and months without masturbation. Avoid getting worked up. Doing what you love will help. If it affects your sleep, you need to see a therapist for cognitive behavioral therapy! |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by mechanics(m): 6:25pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Greyman11:I was not quick to quote bro, because his case requires real deliverance by genuine men of God. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 6:27pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
It's. Good thing to masturbate so as to ease the tensions from HIV /AIDS ravaging puna.. Or you shld Hussle for more money so that you will marry someone that can be having sex with you regularly. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by degamemaster(m): 6:28pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
ArticleBeast: Sounds like personal experience... |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by dtk: 6:30pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Vick4rill: Bro, I can relate with this perfectly. We live in a spiritual world. I had this same issue for over 15 years and got delivered now for close to 2 years. This is really a destiny destroyer. I tried to stop in my own strength but kept going back – a power was just controlling me till one early morning, something like a beast left me and that was how Jesus delivered me. It is not ordinary but clearly a satanic oppression. Get genuinely born again by giving your life to Christ, fast and pray that Christ empowers you to overcome this evil, flee from all other sins, get your mind delivered by the Word of God by whatever means. Take this seriously-stop sin before sin stops you completely. May the Lord give you wisdom. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:30pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Surrender your life to Jesus Christ, Masturbation is a sin and you can't overcome sin without power in the blood of Jesus Christ. Bible says satan has come to steal, kill and destroy but Jesus has come to give life in abundance. Masturbation is one of the sins satan is using to kill, steal and destroy 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Hypnotise: 6:31pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Kaysalas:Purchasing is quite expensive. Do you have a blender? |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by raphy(m): 6:32pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
funny people up there some people even think is only vasline thy use to self-service. the Vaseline gang already knighted him. anyway guy just stop watching too much porn and even me watch porn before but and i get over it icaht even know how to help you stop it. maybe u need deliverance. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by stevups(m): 6:40pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
The end of masturbation in your life has come, because God will help you. Vick4rill: 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by sylve11: 6:42pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by WarriFirstBorn(m): 6:44pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Let me share my own testimony of how God delivered me from masturbation. I am not ashamed to say it. I will not hide under an anonymous moniker to say it because it is testimony and I am glad God did it for me. I can boldly say it even in public. I masturbated for more than 12 years. No matter how hard I tried to stop it, I couldn't. I was so addicted to it that most nights, I was engaged in the act. I was also a addicted porn lover. My data was always running low because of frequent visits to porn sites to download videos and also watch online. As a result, this was also taking money from me more than it should. It was getting worse by the day. It got to an extent that I just gave up hope of ever quitting the habit. I made up my mind that there wasn't hope for me. If I manage to go one week without masturbating, I will praise my self for the feat. So it happened that I changed church. I started attending a Prophetic church where the man of God calls people's cases by Prophecy and prays for them. God reveals secrets through him. So, during one of our services, he mentioned that there was a boy who was a chronic masturbator(if there is any word like that). He said when he masturbates and cums, he swallows his semen. He said it is a demonic habit that the guy cannot stop on his own that he needed the help of God to break out from. The guy came out and he delivered the him. But God spoke to him that there were others also who were present in the service who are into the same act. He asked them to come out. Though reluctantly, people started coming out. You should see the number of those who came out. Now, I was sitting at the front. I was among those that were supposed to come out. The secret was known by me alone. I was ashamed of coming out, even though I needed the deliverance so bad. The Man of God counted from one to ten to give others still sitting down the last opportunity to come out. But yours truly sat down tightly. I was so ashamed of coming out. But I needed badly to stop the act. Now this is what I did. I 'negotiated' with God. Lol.... Both of us did a non verbal negotiation. I told God that I am ashame of coming out but this is what I want it to go. I promised God that I will never ever engage in the act anymore. I told God that the day I ever do it again, may I run mad. I told Him that any day I ever masturbate, may the worse evil anyone can think of befall me. I was serious o. I was praying it in my mind. I promised Him that the last one I did would be the last I would ever do. That was a risk, but I needed to take it. And as the Man of God was praying for those who came out, I was saying Amen to the prayers and claiming it. When I got home, I started to work it out myself. I didn't just relax. I started by deleting every porn videos from my phone. I uninstalled my browser and downloaded a new one so those porn sites won't be in my phone anymore. Any erotic photos was deleted from my phone. I was making efforts towards stopping the act. There must be an effort on your part. I had porn movies at home. I made sure I broke all of them. I didn't just throw them away. I broke them into pieces first before throwing them away. Before then, if I am transferring files through Xender or Flashare from someone's phone and I come across any porn video, I must surely add it. But after then, whenever I se such, I just scroll past them. I made sure I stayed complete far from anything pornography. Brothers and sisters, that's how I have been able to stay more than 1 year now without mastubating. The feelings died like that. Sometimes I will be asking myself, 'how did God do it?' Is this me? One year masturbation-free. The feelings died entirely. But I must say at the beginning it wasn't easy. The feelings came occasionally, but the promise I made God kept me going. Now, I am completely FREE. 11 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by kendological(m): 6:46pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Relax, most of us studied in the school of maturation, you are safer masturbating than fucking random holes, leaving it is a gradual process. Even married people masturbate, get more busy, try other things you enjoy other than sex. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by sundayoluwatimi(m): 6:46pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
The man needs help but you're here telling him nature supports his worries. How? To stop masturbation, think of what result you want. Think of the damage it is doing to your social image even though people don't know. You wield control over that body. Control it. When you have the urge, stand up and walk out. Above all these, you need to embrace Jesus Christ by surrendering your life to him. Stop all those relationships that predispose you to sex outside marriage. This may sound simple but you will find the power to win if you ask Jesus for grace. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Brightergrammer: 6:49pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
studentofTruth:bro, I mean the aftermath. Me that seldom self-service once in two weeks, I feel shaky, depressed and miserable afterwards. Not to to talk of the pounding heartbeat that follows 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Rolex66: 6:50pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
ceeroh:
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Rolex66: 6:54pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
WarriFirstBorn: Praise be unto God's holy name. 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by dtk: 6:55pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Gforce2015: Masturbation is not good. It is a sin. You are not just sinning against God but sinning against your body (1 Cor 6:18) meaning you are working against your existence in life. You do it once a quarter or you do it everyday doesnt make a difference. Getting married to doesn't stop it. Masturbation is shameless, once the thought comes, you find yourself devising how to carry it out - at home, in the office anywhere. We need the power of Christ to be delivered from all sins including masturbation. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Richardlove(m): 6:56pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Sup bro., there're different types of sexual gratification. Ranging from mastub, incest, gay, hetero, bestiality, rape, porn, underage sex, sex with pregnant women urge, sex with the aged, dido etc. I repeat, no human being on earth is devoid of a least one. So, yours' addictive mastub and you need solution,isn't it? Firstly note that you have no problem, you only created one for yourself. To cut the long story short, you can fight it by capitalising on the harms it has caused you than the good. Use those negative effects to wage the war by saying it to urself: I don't want this (harm) to HAPPEN again. Do this with a strong determination and you'll testify at last. email me if you want comprehensive steps on, how to control all kind of sexual challenges. I'm a sexologist. [chriskris8881@gmail.com]. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Maccoy1(m): 6:58pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
wordbank:mad man |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
swave7:uhmmm, unwarranted insult. Shey if I trear your fvkup now, you go dey shine ete like fool |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Memberclub(m): 7:03pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Vick4rill:addiction has no cure |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by jideatl: 7:04pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Simply keep your self busy always and u will be shocked you haven't masturbated in a long time |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 7:11pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Jesus can heal you from your addiction. I want you to pray with 1 Tim 1:7 tonight believing God for his deliverance. |
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by maya007: 7:13pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
First of all get a 24hours job cause by the time u come back home tired na only sleep go dey see you |
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