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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Memberclub(m): 7:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
Gustavofringe:


It is more than possible. Some people do more than that number.
its not possible
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Experience285(m): 7:18pm On Dec 15, 2019
Brainiac12:
Hey bro my candid advice is:
Go to sexuality section look for the masturbation quitting thread tell them your problems and first of all read the rules
It might help
#saynotofapping
whatsap me 08172964029. I will help u to break the power of incubus demons. Through prayers
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by BodePolScience: 7:24pm On Dec 15, 2019
gregyboy:


I have a similar case as you i have finally quit it but first
What are the symptoms you're experiencing

Trust me quitting masturbation is the best exprience ever i could really help you i started mine at 12 ended this yr and i am 25 too
So tell me your symptoms
does it affect one's height?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 7:25pm On Dec 15, 2019
dtk:


Masturbation is not good. It is a sin. You are not just sinning against God but sinning against your body (1 Cor 6:18) meaning you are working against your existence in life. You do it once a quarter or you do it everyday doesnt make a difference. Getting married to doesn't stop it. Masturbation is shameless, once the thought comes, you find yourself devising how to carry it out - at home, in the office anywhere. We need the power of Christ to be delivered from all sins including masturbation.

I know it's a sin. But whenever I tune my brain to fxn anticlockwise, it will usually work against my conscience and my belief.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Suremikky(m): 7:28pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible

Bros stop saying what you don’t know
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by mattfeuter(m): 7:33pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

Lawd have mercy grin grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Tigerrrr(m): 7:40pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
ok first is change your mentality! Fornicating is still a sin so??., second reduce the number of times you self-service to 1 or 2 max 3.. Stay busy maybe sports or � games!
Stop feeling guilty!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MajorWarren: 7:41pm On Dec 15, 2019
That’s deep, Where do you find time to self-service that many times in a day
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Tigerrrr(m): 7:42pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
you don't get it bro, masturbation is not all about using hand and Vaseline, just lieing down pressing my genital on the carpet or floor with sexual image makes me release. if it is issue of hand and Vaseline it would have been easier
I used to do this then �
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by dice0407(m): 7:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
1. Genuinely Answer an alter call. The Holy spirit will handle it from there.
Trust Him

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by merits(m): 7:45pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
Set your mind to stop and you will stop.but it's a gradual process,atleast from six to 5,from 5 to 4,from 4 to 3,from 3 to 2, while from 2 to 1.and from 1 to zero.and also seek God help to deliver you through fasting and night prayer.
I wish you best of luck.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Stevo35: 8:09pm On Dec 15, 2019
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by olushowunm(m): 8:19pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
You have developed what we called Porn induce Erectile dysfunction. Check my threads on it. You will need to have a stable gf that you will share Ur story with and is able to help you through this phase to become normal again. The porn addiction is now making u soft when real action beckons. U will need to be more free with this girl. Both of you enjoying companionship of each other.. Then before u know it u start getting Ur groove back and u must resolve to keep to this routine and no more porn.

https://www.nairaland.com/5587103/porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction-pied#85004426

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by kolinz01(m): 8:20pm On Dec 15, 2019
Apparently, everyone on this thread masturbates!!! shocked
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by 0monnak0da: 8:29pm On Dec 15, 2019
kolinz01:
Apparently, everyone on this thread masturbates!!! shocked
Nigerians are the world leaders
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by 66Angel(m): 8:39pm On Dec 15, 2019
Reduce ur data subscription...if possible go back to a torchlight phone...help is on the way bro
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by spirul77: 8:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
I used to do this because I am in a distance relationship but when I noticed my little man no dey too dey active again nobody advise me to stop before I stop myself.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by owoshuyi(m): 8:48pm On Dec 15, 2019
I was in your shoes too bro. The masturbation thing is DEMONIC. It all has to do with your mind. Watching porn is the fuel to the fire bro. Quit it.Read the Bible always and pray to God. He will help you. But help yourself by avoiding films, magazines, pictures, TV Shows that could arouse your sexual feelings and emotions.


Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by toye440: 8:48pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.
Bros what u dont know is, masturbation is spiritual, as in heavy spiritual conji. just imagine as cock dey pursue hen like say spiritual conji dey activated, guy masturbation is 10 times, going by the number of times he charges his preek per day, i can confidently tell u this guy na field marshal, even for inside Mumbai traffic he go charge im kporo nobody go know. well for the victim, there is no advice that would help u, cos the choice is urs. DETERMINATION is ur only way out, just like burning bridges, and to achieve this u can never b idle. Occupy ur mind with profitable activities.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ronyman(m): 8:53pm On Dec 15, 2019
Masturbating makes erection weak bro
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by toye440: 8:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
Experience285:
whatsap me 08172964029. I will help u to break the power of incubus demons. Through prayers
Trust me no amount of prayers can, its only when u take that step like i'm in charge here, bros u will still fall. Mind U 98% of men masturbates as teenagers.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ronyman(m): 8:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
grin cheesy ;Dfool
soberdrunk:
Kneel!!!! I hereby knight you Sir Wanksalot of Masturbadia!!! First of his name.....
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 8:59pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
I'd help you out of this, but I would with only money grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ronyman(m): 9:00pm On Dec 15, 2019
Mugu e possible die
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Spain007(m): 9:06pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

Correct...if at all he dey use Vaseline
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by SkinnyNigga: 9:09pm On Dec 15, 2019
ronyman:
Mugu e possible die
your papa mugu
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by horpigee1(m): 9:16pm On Dec 15, 2019
Kaysalas:

grin cant help but laff out loud on this your comment. Funny u, dont take it personal wink
yap I burst into laf when written this..It somehow funny.. this is just d only solution that came to my mind
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nicky042(m): 9:24pm On Dec 15, 2019
Get a wife
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Vick4rill(m): 9:25pm On Dec 15, 2019
greatbrian:


Op what HV learnt or seen with masturbation is it gets fuelled when u r alone. Forget those tryna be a saint. Most guys HV done it before and most are still doing it. I remember those years before I got admitted to the institution of my dreams. I was in to the act. Infact when I was in a civil uni I wikk engage in the act for like 3 tines a day when my colleagues go for lectures. It was killing me mentally, emotionally etc. Though I must confess it has some good side coz its safe sex to me. (It can even be better than the real thing). But the side effect was there.


After I got the admission into the institution of my choice and I hardly HV time to even sleep maybe 2 hours in a day (first year) dz if my roommate won't even be doing job with me thru the night I lost it for masturbation. Naturally the instinct fled. I hardly think abt it and the little time I HV alone z spend with my colleagues. Those days HV turn to years now and am less stressed in the institution but I realised those years I never masturbated HV quenched the desire for it. Infact last august made it 4 years I touched myself last.


My advise, get smfin doing with your time. Don't even get alone, forget abt deleting the porn. When masturbation hold a grip on you, you might not need porn just imaginations and you are hvin a threeaome with rihana and Beyonce. Taking up a new hobby is another way to avoid masturbation and mostly always try not o be alone. The bible is correct when it says an idle hand is the devils workshop. Try and make friends, spend time burning your energy on things that will bring you profit and channel your thinking. Truth is once u can have a grip on your thinking, you've partially won the race over masturbation. nd trust in God totally to gv you the strength to pull thru. Always remember psalm 37:5 and prov 16:3.



Don't mind the way I type. Every seconds count and I don't wanna blow ofe in this one week to Xmas break
thank u sir
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by gregyboy(m): 9:28pm On Dec 15, 2019
benn94:


How can I stop it, I am 25 too

I stop first mentally ,before i went physically

I had this philosophy that the strongest men are men who has full control of themselves,that alone i fought it mentally

Physically it was even harder , i went a day without masturbating ,days were added by it,some days it was unbearable and the urge to masterbate increase day ,like after like days abstaining from it the urge increase and most times i had to fall back to masturbating to calm the urge down ,the rest of other days i try to also abstain from it ,untill the urge rises rise again to masturbate, in total in a week i could only masturbate for 3days
The next week i try to improve by reducing it to 2 times a week
The following upper week i try to go full week without masturbating
As soon as you're following this routine your sexual urge to masturbate start dieing off even if is only one day u abstain from it
If you can go for a full week without masturbation trust me you will be able to do two weeks straight ,the more you masturbate less the more you feel less to masturbate....


Note: quiting masturbation gives you advantage over others who never indulged in it ,it gives you mental and physical sexual control of your body ,because those periods or days you try to abstain from masturbation ,You will experience a great sexual urge and if you can control it ,then there is no konji in this life you can't control

When you are experiencing this high sexual urge get yourself busy or you could stay quite and fight it mentally

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Macon1212: 9:36pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Go to Deeper life Bible Church closer to you for deliverance, it's a spiritual problem, you will thank Jesus later.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible

If really you know or you're in this SHIT.

You should be thank God that you're safe from this. I can tell you its possible, talking from experience

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