Ohhh no see wetin dis our country girls dey cause making tins hard for men it's not fair

MajorWarren:
That’s deep, Where do you find time to self-service that many times in a day

The guy has been jobless and depressed.

ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

Have you watched Wolf of Wall Street?

I will advice that first you should pray to 0God for grace to quit, and ask Him to forgive you.
Then get busy with something like a job, exercise regularly.

Very important, write it out that you want to stop masturbation and talk to yourself everyday that you can do it. If others came out you can.

Then, if you have a job, get married. And I pray for the grace of God that helped many to overcome this habit including me will grant you help in Jesus name.

If you have not given your life to Jesus Christ do so now. He will give you rest from that destructive habit in Jesus name

horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro

. God point, these point has helped alot of people quit Masturbation.

Let's be realistic here. What this gentleman just shared is touching. It calls for those with deep concern for him. Really, it's not a laughing matter. He needs help, and i strongly believe he's been perusing through this threads to see who will offer him the advice he needs to get out from the mess he has found himself. Unfortunately, there are many people like him out there on the street struggling in similar situation. Just last week, a young man called me pouring his heart out on how masturbation is dealing with him. I asked him how he got my number? He said from my outreach poster he saw on the street. Well, today he is FREE. I will soon tell you how he got his FREEDOM. My friend, let me begin by applauding your courage for pouring out your heart here in this forum. Really, it can only take someone who has been in similar situation like yours to understand what you are passing through.Well, I have been there. As a young boy after my secondary school, waiting to gain admission into the university, i was always at home doing nothing, watching movie, etc. One day i decided to borrow a movie from my neighbor who just returned from the US. I picked up a movie from a basket full of VHS movie tapes. This was January 1994 to be precised. The movie i picked was titled, "Double Impact". It looks good, and i quickly went home to watch it. Unfortunately, when i played the movie, what came out from the screen was a "Blue Film". In fact, it wasn't what i expected to see. I was expecting an action movie, but here am i, sitting in front of the TV watching a pornographic movie. To stop it was a challenge because the more i watched, the more the movie became interesting. Before you know it, i sat for over 2-hours until the movie was finished. Really, i became another man when i stood up from that place. From that moment i started acting strange, having unusual desire for sex, touching my penis, and always chasing after the house help, Elizabeth, in our house. In fact, the "little girl hear am". I tore her pant one day trying to penetrate into her, but she refused. She fought with all her strength to defend herself. Wherever she is today, I salute her for her courage. I began to masturbate from that period. It became terrible...that i even masturbate while driving, after church service, and almost anywhere. My trouser was always swelling because my penis was always "on". It became so embarrassing situation for me. I was so ashamed to share it with anybody. Within that period, I became sick unto death. I was loosing weight so fast. Then my family took me to different hospitals around Lagos, and several tests were conducted on me. It was found that my backbone was growing, i was having kidney problem, heartbeat disorder, drying up like crayfish, and having an unusual headache that defiled all medication. I remember one day crying out loud to God for mercy. Then i said, Lord Jesus save me. Heal me and i will do two things for you: (1) I will not go near a lady until I get married; (2) I will preach your gospel round the world. Immediately i finished this prayer, i heard a loud voice saying, "you are healed". This was June 18th 1996, a day before my birthday (19th June). I was driving to a place in Allen Avenue called "Pintos" then, to go buy ice cream and cake with a friend. This great encounter happened at the 7UP, by Motorways Ikeja, at the traffic junction leading to Daystar Church. In that instant, all the sickness in my body left me including the MASTURBATION.The urge to masturbate died INSTANTLY from that day. Before, i can't stay a day without masturbation. But from that day, I got my freedom by the Power in the Name of Jesus. Friend, go no further. It's only Jesus that can save you in this thing. I tried using my willpower, by setting goals and trying to be more disciplined, but the force of masturbation was stronger.You know why? It's DEMONIC. It's ONLY the POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS THAT CAN CHECKMATE IT. Do you know i stayed 10-years not going near a lady until I got married in 2006. The Lord kept me. Then I realized through this, that it is possible to live clean in an unclean world. Today, i am married with children, and have traveled round the world preaching the gospel. Now, coming to the young man that came to me last week. what i did was to shared the word of God to him. Immediately, he gave his life to Christ, and I prayed for him. He was in my office yesterday and he said. Sir, I have not been able to masturbate since that day you prayed with me". What has happened to him? He opened up his heart, and Jesus took over. I bet you, that's what you need NOW to be FREE. Wherever you are right now, just humble yourself before God, cry out to him, genuinely repent, and give your life to Jesus. He will exchange His strength with yours...and you will become empowered to overcome. Hope this helps. All the best.

horpigee1:
I have solution for you if only you can do it... it sound crazy and funny..don't do it if u tink u can't stop masturbating.
(1) take ur bible or Quran, open the middle of the Bible/Quran, then say it loudly that God I don't want to be masturbate again and if you do, all the curse in d bible/Quran shall be on to you.... pls don't do this if u know u can't stop this masturbate of a thing.
(2) step on cutlass or any iron sheet, then say to urself that... if i masturbate after today, make Ogun kill u.
.
pls don't do any of the two if u know u can't stop masturbating...may God help u bro

NAWA TO U OH .
HE CANT STOP IT , AND THAT'S WHY HE IS SEEKING FOR ADVISE.

You need deliverance.Go to Mountain of fire and Miracles Ministries.But you Will need to give your life to Jesus. This is non negotiable, abstain from any sexually related or romantic video, pictures, magazine, movie etc .Then pray to destroy the strong hold of Lust and the demons behind lust in your life.

Haba 6 Times!!! You wan dies?

[quote author=AwkaetitiBabe post=84924075]6 times a day? your prik must be in love with your hands. [/quote



Lol, I think am OK with this your post only.

smileyoo:
bros, its very easy
to stop. 1. make-up your mind to stop it. 2. believe its not difficult to stop. 3. listen to sound christain music constantly, especially during those tempting moments. 4. always listen to great preachers of the word. 5 be a great lover of quality books, read good spiritual books daily. 6. daily embark on beneficial physical activities. if you daily occupy your mind, with positive physical & spiritual activities, each day 'll elapse without you remembering what's called masturbation. 7. see masturbation as a debasement of your manhood, instead of seeing it as a pleasure, because when you programme your mind to hate it as a vice, you may not go back to it easily.

best reply so far. this thing is a function of the mind..
the mind is where the devil attacks from.. once he can work on his mind that's all..

Akuruoulo:


NAWA TO U OH . HE CANT STOP IT , AND THAT'S WHY HE IS SEEKING FOR ADVISE.

and that was y I gave him an advise

DEBJOCH1:
. God point, these point has helped alot of people quit Masturbation.

thanks jare. u are the only one that reason with me.

SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible

Bros it is possible.

ledaman:
You need to get married or fast daily to reduce the urge!

Married will not stop it is easier to masturbate than to pfuck.

Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Really from 10 years?? Have you even started puberty sef?

AwkaetitiBabe:
6 times a day? your prik must be in love with your hands.

you ugly oo

ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

Na me give you the 800th like.
Bro you kolo

ArticleBeast:

Then u don't know addiction.... Toilet no dey office

i don die

lagdmark:

The guy has been jobless and depressed.

I agree cos more than twice seems like he hasn’t got anything else to do. Keeping busy and try filling his day with activities should help

[quote author=Vick4rill post=84923803]This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.
l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.what's difference between masturbating and sex??

Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?

Also if you can muster the strenght to pray once the urge comes. After prayer, open your bible and read any portion with the aim of getting something out, talk loud to the masturbation urge saying No, no, i wont let you win me. You would conquer. You can reach me on whatsapp 08038634494 for further private assistance.

Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Keep taking Viagra ok. When cardiac arrest/heart attack you, it will be too late.

Masturbation is normal but the frequency on a daily basis is not good.
Let me give you a good advice... Do you know you have a high level of testosterone which is mostly high or low in every man but one of the advantages of the high testosterone is that urge of sex frequently and some one of the disadvantage is aggressiveness.
But here is what you will do...
First always know masturbation is okay.we all do it be it male or female even if some deny. It's inbuilt for animals and humans. I even saw a video of a fetus masturbating. Research and see for yourself.
Secondly to take your mind off it, you have to self train yourself... It's not easy but you should try to cause no matter how much you stay with people you will do it either during the night or so.
3rd Try to visit brothels if you don't have a girl when you feel the urge. If you have a girl always tell her to try mouth action when your erection is soft
About the weakness of erection when having real sex with women... There is nothing wrong with you... It's because your thoughts are off the actual real sex... try fantasising the porn when with a girl having real sex and it might boost your erection or you know hand grips tighter than a virginal and your brain is used to the tightness so when having a real sex, a normal virginal will feel loose and your body reacts negative which causes the weak erection. So try to adjust to a normal sex and stop Viagra pills so your body can get used to the real action.
Lastly don't just eat food, take multivitamins drugs and blood capsules cause sex drains energy and blood. Eat fruits and play console games with your friends like Nintendo, GameCube, ps2, Xbox360, PS3 and so on... It takes minds off things and before you know it's stopping gradually but one thing you do most try to stop thinking of sex. It's not easy cause you can't cheat nature as to testosterone is concerned,
Good luck to you

Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

Please don't mind anyone telling you to share the story with any girlfriend... Just play it normal cause trust me they will see you as something else instead of understanding. And once you mistakenly tell a girl that sees you as a weirdo, trust me half of the nation will know about it which will defame your self confidence or image as a man judging from our Nigerian mentality and society... Nigerians knows how to defame and joke about anyone's life and you can even see the way she of them are replying to your post... Just imagine what will happen if they knew you in person... Trust me on this please don't make such mistake I beg you

vik110:
Ohhh no see wetin dis our country girls dey cause making tins hard for men it's not fair

It's not true... Even if you have something doing, you will find a time even if it's midnight... It's an addiction and that's one disadvantage to addiction.
It's not about how busy you are but it's rather a mind game and same goes to people on cold turkey

MajorWarren:


I agree cos more than twice seems like he hasn’t got anything else to do. Keeping busy and try filling his day with activities should help

Hey send me a mail makindeseriki112@gmail.com
I might just have the thing for you. But mostly I believe it's about determination

I should be treated just like others addications, you have to consult a psychologist and get helped, i hope you'll be Okay...


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Hypnotise:

Purchasing is quite expensive. Do you have a blender?

No, but wouldnt mind buying one.kindly educate me on how to go abt it

Aniex629:

you ugly oo

Imagine what a sane human commented around 1am! When responsible people are all asleep and he slinking all over NL like a rat pouring his demented frustrations on people. U probably an addict seeking cure ba and comment angered u further shey

Uduakden:

Tanks im also a victim but i hav learn from u. please i will like to get intouch with u

No qualms, one great step is to recognize our weaknesses, which energies inner being to confront it. Send pm.