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Good afternoon, fellow nairalanders.

I am so sad and confused right now. There is this guy I am in a relationship with for almost four years now ad we really love each other.

We had our first big fight two weeks ago ad we said some few hurtful words to each other and we apologised... Buh the issue now is even though i have forgiven him ad he also claim he has forgive forgiven me.... He still insist I we avoid each other. I have begged him buh he still give me attitude. Even though I love him buh I can't just bear his attitude anymore, so pls advice me.... Should I move on?

Greatness111:
Good afternoon, fellow nairalanders.

I am so sad and confused right now. There is this guy I am in a relationship with for almost four years now ad we really love each other.

We had our first big fight two weeks ago ad we said some few hurtful words to each other and we apologised... Buh the issue now is even though i have forgiven him ad he also claim he has forgive forgiven me.... He still insist I we avoid each other. I have begged him buh he still give me attitude. Even though I love him buh I can't just bear his attitude anymore, so pls advice me.... Should I move on?

You both love each other on the surface.

He too is showing signs of immaturity because he is still hurt at what you said and plenty ego that men have o

Words are like eggs... Once broken can not be taken back again

You both didn't have a solid foundation for the relationship.... In marriage many words will be exchanged and many fights but the couples must fight even harder to stay together... The fairy tale love story does not exit..

Aunty even you are throwing in the towel after four years? Then your love for him was just for the cool times and not for the turbulent times.


This period is where cheating can occur easily so get your heads straight.... Else it will be story for the gods soon.

Both of you need a counselor (that is if the relationship was ever heading somewhere)

If by now you don't know what can soften him up then you have failed as a partner. Men can move on more easily than women.... But I guess you don't know that yet.


You both must have each other's mumu button for times like these, so once it's pressed the other person starts behaving better and everything goes back to factory setting.


Have you prayed? It works o

Most single people needs married friends of the same sex who have good homes so they can really have sense to know what relationship is about and stop expecting false results.

Ladylite:
You both love each other on the surface.

He too is showing signs of immaturity because he is still hurt at what you said and plenty ego that men have o

Words are like eggs... Once broken can not be taken back again

You both didn't have a solid foundation for the relationship.... In marriage many words will be exchanged and many fights but the couples must fight even harder to stay together... The fairy tale love story does not exit..

Aunty even you are throwing in the towel after four years? Then your love for him was just for the cool times and not for the turbulent times.


This period is where cheating can occur easily so get your heads straight.... Else it will be story for the gods soon.

Both of you need a counselor (that is if the relationship was ever heading somewhere)

If by now you don't know what can soften him up then you have failed as a partner. Men can move on more easily than women.... But I guess you don't know that yet.


You both must have each other's mumu button for times like these, so once it's pressed the other person starts behaving better and everything goes back to factory setting.


Have you prayed? It works o

Most single people needs married friends of the same sex who have good homes so they can really have sense to know what relationship is about and stop expecting false results.

Thank u.