₦airaland Forum

BigJoe19:
The advise you gave is the reason why rich men marry many wives when all the women are all trying not to marry a broke man, I know a man who used to be worth very close to been a billionaire but right now he is living a poor life after loosing Money from bad investments and I also know guys that were extremely broke before but now stupendously rich.

LINTUNE:
..this table u are shaking .. ..hmm

victorian:
The Pure truth from a reliable source.

I even know the woman sef.

CHoccolaTE:
I no dey shake table o
Am being realistic

I have seen two threads today where guys adviced themselves to not date or marry broke women but when women say avoid broke guys they get angry and start throwing insults.

LINTUNE:
..what's ur definition of broke, we have men that can take care of women properly,even with kids ,but due to the low mentality of most Nigerian women,the mentality that women don't need to make money,they can also be taken care of by their hubby. When a guy earning 150k has a supportive woman,who Evans say ,80k ,he is actually not broke..but when he earns 500k,and has a woman that's got no job,a woman that can only spend his money,nothing to add to his life other than sex,then such ma is broke ..try and understand where I'm coming from..we men want independent ladies..with such ladies,our average income will be able to sustain us,at least we wont be that broke.

dominique:
This happens in a lot of homes but most of the kids don't know. To the kids, daddy does all the spending while mummy has little or nothing to offer. If only they knew

CHoccolaTE:
Westin concern me?
I told them the bitter truth, if they like make dem vex

LINTUNE:
Must u fabricate stories..is it even possible for a woman to be that submissive to such man...don't lemme swear for u this night.

CHoccolaTE:
Yes I explained it in my original post that different women have different standards for what a good provider should be.

Some women are ok with a guy earning 100k and some are ok with a guy earning 500k, it depends on individual preference. The point is to avoid the struggling ones who cannot provide for the family the way they the females are ok with.

I wouldn't have made this thread but the increasing hypocrisy of nairaland men who always claim broke women are useless is what got me pissed.

CHoccolaTE:
I dey kamkpe I full ground brekete No leave no transfer

victorian:
Swear o!

It will bounce back to you, because I'm saying the truth.

I wonder why you single guys find it hard to believe?

Anyways married me don't really divulge the sacrifices their wives go through for their sakes to single guys.

So I'm not surprised

LINTUNE:
if u say for the jobless guys,I agree with u..but the hustling guy who is earning 100k, do u know if he has an independent,supportive woman,life won't be that hard..but if that same guy eats 300k and has a liability as woman,he might not even be able to feed himself properly..try and understand my point ok ..we are in the 21st century ,women should be self made too,men has been self made,ever since the day of creation..

CHoccolaTE:
Westin concern me?
I told them the bitter truth, if they like make dem vex

CHoccolaTE:
Ok women should be self made, fine

But it's the primary duty of the husband to provide for the family.

LINTUNE:
not in this 21st century..BTW I thought women are calmouring for gender equality, why do some still have this kind of crude mentally.

CHoccolaTE:
Because many men still think cleaning, cooking and taking care of children is beneath them
Majority of guys don't want equal partnership marriage, they want a woman who will obey their every command, be submissive to them and also do housework while being a co breadwinner

CHoccolaTE:
It's not entitlement young man
Every society has its rules and culture, in Nigerian society women are expected to PRIMARILY be responsible for house keeping and child bearing and child care while she submits to her husband and obeys his authority. There is an exchange going on.

The man on the other hand is PRIMARILY responsible for breadwinning and being a good leader.

Women don't just come with no contribution and expect husband to cater for them, they are expected to do his bidding and keep his house on order.

Even of you hire a housemaid to do everything your wife is doing at home, ie every day cooking and cleaning and nanny work, you will still pay the housemaid.

Buy men want women to just come live with them and do these things free of charge without expecting some sort of financial compensation from the guy.

I am not saying women shouldn't support their husbands by working or bringing money, they should do that if they want but it's not their primary duty.

CHoccolaTE:
Yes I explained it in my original post that different women have different standards for what a good provider should be.

Some women are ok with a guy earning 100k and some are ok with a guy earning 500k, it depends on individual preference. The point is to avoid the struggling ones who cannot provide for the family the way they the females are ok with.

I wouldn't have made this thread but the increasing hypocrisy of nairaland men who always claim broke women are useless is what got me pissed.

Subzero047:
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When it comes to responsibilities this one don forget Feminism and listing the PRIMARY roles in society

Mypeople2:
You are that kind of person that can leave a banker for an oil worker .Then move to politician .Thereafter Dankote and finally marry a broke guy .We know una type .In ten years from now,we will know afar .It is not by mouth.We will see the one you will marry and what he will become after you have married him. He won't want to introduce you to guys wealthier than him because you know na sister .Finally don't forget ,ONE DISASTER CAN TURN A BILLIONAIRE TO A KOBONIAN

CHoccolaTE:
Sharapp

I haven't forgotten feminism
This topic is for women that don't want their kids to suffer in future.

victorian:
As in ehn?

The lady has been the one taking care of her husband, hoping one day he will land a job. But job is not forthcoming . So she was like OK, my husband this is what I made today, assuming it's 100k, take 70k while I keep 30k.
That's how she's been running the home.
No-one suspected she's the one taking care of the home. And do u know the guy was always sleeping, she will. Leave him at-home, go hustle, she will come back at night still see him at the position she left him on the bed chatting. He will then say he's hungry o.

Most times she complains, she takes the kids to day care, come home tired and he will expect her to cook. She will still cook. But lo and behold ,he has other plans. He's gone.

Later men will say women don't hustle, women are lazy!

Really?

Anyways such men dont suceed in life, no matter where they run away to and no. Matter how much they steal from their trusting partner.

Marry a broke jobless man at your own peril!

highcurrent:
DEAR GENTLE MENS, PLEASE DON'T DATE OR MARRY A BROKE LADY.


ACTION AND REACTION ARE OPPOSITE AND EQUAL

IT SHOULD ALSO APPLY TO THE LADIES.

Godfullsam:
Before I date a lady, I must make sure she has her own money.

I cannot take responsibility for a lady without disability..

Guys pls wise up. You don't owe any lady anything!

victorian:
News reaching me an hour ago

A young married lady who has the been carrying the family responsibilities for the past three years, when she collects her money clients pay her for her interior decorating biz, she usually give her jobless husband 70% while she keeps 30% for herself. All to make the man feel he's in control and still the head. Food, clothes, shoes, house rent, baby naming all on her neck.

Just last weekend, the husband has quietly parked out of their home in banana island, which she rented with her money not too long ago. He left his wife with his two kids and also cleared her 15million naira, which she has been keeping account of, everytime she gives him money from her business proceeds.
The plan was to build their dream home with it.

The husband is nowhere to be found with a his clothes, shoes and passport with her 15 million naira!!!

He don ja!

God abeg o!

Biglittlelois:
[s]Victorian, I am patiently waiting for guys to insult the husband, but they ain't, one had to cancel your comment lol, hypocritical lots, always yapping from both sides of the mouth lol.[/s]

dominique:
[s]This happens in a lot of homes but most of the kids don't know. To the kids, daddy does all the spending while mummy has little or nothing to offer. If only they knew[/s]

victorian:
Swear o!

It will bounce back to you, because I'm saying the truth.

I wonder why you single guys find it hard to believe?

Anyways married me don't really divulge the sacrifices their wives go through for their sakes to single guys.

So I'm not surprised

CHoccolaTE:
I no dey shake table o
Am being realistic

I have seen two threads today where guys adviced themselves to not date or marry broke women but when women say avoid broke guys they get angry and start throwing insults.

CHoccolaTE:
I no dey shake table o
Am being realistic

I have seen two threads today where guys adviced themselves to not date or marry broke women but when women say avoid broke guys they get angry and start throwing insults.