uruba23:
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,most worst of his to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird.

Erediauwa:
You can't call what you had with a private prostitute a "relationship"

uruba23:
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More so you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,worst of is to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird.

Madlov3:
like seriously?? She wasn’t married to me yet so she’s a free bird? Ppl like you are ppl that go ahead with wanting to sleep with a lady even after telling you she has a boyfriend. Smh

lilmax:
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved


This is how stupid Nigerian guys are


They will always tolerate nonsense, even when they know the product of it.


The idiot said he forgave her because it's only WhatsApp

Madlov3:
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

Madlov3:
...She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.

Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

yanabasee:
You dated a Nigerian girl that is childish and haven't been heartbroken by different men...

You can't get the best from her..... if you must know, they can only be serious and ready to settle when they'd be approaching 35yrs of age....

pocohantas:


How does it work?

Age: 35
Location: Earth
Occupation: Employed.
Religion: Freethinker
Genotype: AA
Relationship status: single (i.e) not YET married.
Persons of Romantic Interest: RICH professionals with SENSE. The older the better.
Hobbies: Driving, cooking, playing chess and reading detective thrillers.
What Am I Looking For? RICH responsible man
Dislikes: Man without sense. Just have sense and we are good.

Martinez39:
They always appear like angels and wife material before marriage. It's their usual chameleon act. Unfortunately, many guys fall for this believing that their girlfriends are not like other girls only to get the shock of their lives later on. There is no NAWALT or unicorn anywhere.

Bad move! You should have discarded her at that moment.

They will always deny until you show them evidence. After showing them evidence, they will confess (half truth confessions) and bring forth crocodile tears not because they are sorry but because they want your forgiveness and they want you to take them back since you are an ample provider. Funny enough, they would do it over and over again because more careful after you have caught them.

Bullsh!t, if she likes childish stuff why did she not discuss it with you or, in the proper way, break up with you and go with the guy that likes childish stuff? She is just playing.

Oga, female nature is universal. In fact, foreign girls are worse in their countries because they are empowered socially and legally to ruin you, especially if you are stupid or naive enough to get married to them in their country and stay there. Feminism doesn't even help matters.


Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG

Madlov3:
I agree with you except in the last part. It’s the reverse Bro! Ask guys that are based abroad! They are very careful with the type of girls they bring from Nigeria if they decide to marry from Home. [/b]Most Nigerian girls become wild when they get abroad! They capitalize on the fact that the system favors them to ruin the guy. Unlike in Nigeria where a guy can put the wife away when she messes up with no fear of legal consequences, abroad is different.
I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law.

PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support

Riele:
Guess what?

No one cares .

Because one girl frustrated you , you're done with Nigerian girls ?.

Madlov3:
I agree with you except in the last part. It’s the reverse Bro! Ask guys that are based abroad! They are very careful with the type of girls they bring from Nigeria if they decide to marry from Home. Most Nigerian girls become wild when they get abroad! They capitalize on the fact that the system favors them to ruin the guy. Unlike in Nigeria where a guy can put the wife away when she messes up with no fear of legal consequences, abroad is different.
I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law.

PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support

Madlov3:

I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law.

PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support

IT'S LIKE THE ONLY TIMES YOU'LL FIND TWO WOMEN WORKING PERFECTLY TOGETHER IS WHEN THEY'RE CONTRIBUTING MEANINGFUL EFFORTS TO UNREASONABLE THINGS LIKE GOSSIPING, MALTREATING A MAID, OR CAUSING RUINS TO MEN'S LIVES.

GET OVER YOUR HEARTBREAK MY G. NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE NOT YOUR PROBLEM. YOUR CHOICES ARE. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING BEING WITH A CHILD JUST ABOVE 20? SHE'S IN HER ROAMING AROUND STAGE AND THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HER NOT WANT TO EXPLORE. MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING WOMEN WANT. A RICH MAN'S WIFE WILL CHEAT ON HIM WITH A CONDUCTOR.

Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men brings a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

Brownhypo:
I wonder why some girls will always cheat, no matter how nice you are to them

Madlov3:
Bro you still don’t get. I agree that Women nature is universal the exact reason I said you’ve got good women and bad women everywhere! There are some Nigerian women you will take abroad and despite the feminist nature of the society, they will remain with you and endure difficult times in the marriage, others will capitalize on the feminist society and wreck the guy.
Also, not all foreign girls are bad too! You’ve got some that will also endure difficult times in the marriage even though they were brought up in a feminist society.
The baseline of my argument now is, for me i have opened my mind to love from anywhere!