Weselion:
A friend of mine was asking this young lady out (the lady is also my friend). She told him point blank that she couldn't date him.

Some years later, my lady friend got admission into my school and we got talking. My friend that she rejected said I should help him monitor the babe. I couldn't do that because I knew hey we're not in any serious relationship.

Now his lady wasn't dating my friend but she was asking for things, food stuffs, school fees, e.t.c.

When I ask my friend for money he tells me stories but when this lady asks for money, he borrows to give her. Sometimes he even calls me to borrow from me.

My male friend helped his crush get two jobs at two different times (she was a part time student). Even with the job, she was still demanding things, my friend was still giving.

I told my male friend to leave this babe but him no gree. She told me why she couldn't date him saying he was too childish, didn't know what he wanted etc. She was right.

I told my male friend that his crush had mad up her mind. I gave him hints of what she said. I told him she was dating someone else... A soldier who lied to her that he couldn't get his salary because of BVN issues and she believed.

She was crushing on the soldier guy but the soldier wasn't sending Shi** throughout her days in school.

My male friend wouldn't listen to me. So I gave up on advising him.

Me and the lady were still in the same school but we lost touch.

Fast forward to 2019, my friend called me and asked me why I haven't been telling him things. He said his crush came to his house pregnant to carry her stuffs (her bags were in his house).

Even me was just hearing about the pregnancy for the first time.

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At one point, this same friend of mine was asking one Delta babe out. Same thing happened with the previous babe, she was demanding things but wasn't ready to be in a relationship with him.

This one even told him point blank that she is dating up to 10 guys and she will pick the best amongst them and that he should also do the same.

When she was about writing her final project, she called him for money. My friend told me about this and I told him he was just wasting his time and limited resources. Luckily for him he listened.

This happened while he was still asking the other out

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This my male friend was an apprentice, he was learning a trade while all this was happening.

Immediately he finished learning his trade, he started getting jobs and making money, furnished his house well.

Three months ago, he called me to tell me that a lady got pregnant for him.

He got married early this month.

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I have another friend who was taking an ND1 student tutorials. I knew this lady was not ready for any relationship. Me and another friend tried to talk this guy out of it, but he wouldn't budge because this lady was beautiful.

They started dating and she was just using this guy to collect free tutorials, feeding and maybe se**X.

My friend had a change of heart when he went through her WhatsApp message and saw her chat with another guy saying she can't even think of marrying him because he's fat, not rich etc.

My guy was still attached but with time they eventually broke up.

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If you are in school, ah aware will get tired of hearing news like this.

I believe we guys are the cause of our problems.

A lot of Young girls in high institutions are not ready for any serious relationship. It always ends in tears.

It is a law that cannot be changed.

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

milemimi93:
Hi, can we talk privately?

Preshy561:

Nope.

Thanks

milemimi93:
Pls. It's important

gregyboy:



Oga leave nigeria women

Dont come here to start posting how she broke your heart ooh

CAPSLOCKED:


WE PLENTY WEY GET MENTAL PROBLEM HERE SHA.

Omar09:


Well, the girl didn't just accept the boyfriend recently, she had a boyfriend and you are just the fall guy and she did this to milk you. You should have bounced when she told you she wanted you as a friend. What stopped her from accepting you initially, should be your breaking point.

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

Madlov3:
like seriously?? She wasn’t married to me yet so she’s a free bird? Ppl like you are ppl that go ahead with wanting to sleep with a lady even after telling you she has a boyfriend. Smh

uruba23:

Unfortunately I am not one,but don't come and demonize Nigeria Girls simply because your Eve feel for the Apple again. Just man up and move on ...no offense intended.

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

Preshy561:
Give it up to Nigerian women.
No miseducation, no red pill, no hating of male gender or online whinning.

But they are still winning codedly.

CHoccolaTE:
Lol
Nigerian men are professional complainers
Endless threads from these whiners

Preshy561:

Nope.

Thanks

Madlov3:
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

Martinez39:
The women filed for divorce hoping to finalise everything in 2019 so that they can get alimony for 12 years. They did not want to wait for 2020 or beyond it because it would mean alimony for 5 years.

As expected, the main stream media never reported this but it begs the question, how did the women, in great numbers, get to know of this change in law? Seems they have secret WhatsApp groups or some secret communication networks hidden from men. #sisterhood

Skepticus:


Martinez39, you have got to respect the Sisterhood/Pussy Cartel. They are the masters at scheming without elements of violence and aggression typical with male type. Plus they have existed for the beginning of our evolution as a specie till now.

Like Ubunja would say, learn from the best (women) and I have seen results learning from their mode of operation including those who are outcasts of the sisterhood (prostitutes). They always watch out for each other and for the "best deal" (genetic and financial hypergamy).

As much as we love to demonize them for their scheming, hypergamous attitudes, it's an evolutionary biological element for women to seek for the best mate (in whatever they judge as best) to carry on with our specie and this makes them highly opportunistic. In our wild primate cousins and as far as wild herbivores, like Zebra, their hypergamous demands are more stringent and brutal before a male can get a chance to mate.

We are more lucky that the improvement in the quality of life as a specie gives men more choice in mates than ever. However, they must learn that for their rational pattern of thought (men are more rational), Women are highly incapable of loving men like men would do and expect in return. This means that women are by nature, opportunistic

Martinez39:
I don't demonise women, I only speak the truth about them. I am well aware of the biological and evolutionary rationale for hypergamy. I hope you don't follow the brainless bandwagon to call me, Ubunja, and the likes women hater/basher?

Jewessgratitude:


Oh...its paining you? Let it not pain you my dear because its a norm. Why?
Now listen..

Before you condemn someone, be sure you yourself are 100% perfect.
I'm not saying what she did was right but hey both of you are guilty cos you initiating and subscribing to sex before marriage already opens the door for such women to come your way.
Any girl you ask to sleep with during dating or courtship and she doesn't kick against it, you shouldnt expect any better.
The problem is most of you always rush the girls that open their legs for you and then you'll say aahhh...this one na Sorji babe, I'll marry her but look ignore some of us who say no sex in courtship. But then as she doesnt see anything wrong in giving you to test, that is how she'll not see anything wrong in giving another guy to test as you guys are a testing spree. Also as these days nobody sees anything wrong in premarital sex cos the rate at which every tom dick and Harry engages in it and have the boldness to come discussing it openly shows it has become a common thing and hence not regarded as sacred even among married people flirting.
As long as you consent to premarital sex, those are the kind of girls you'll continue to meet. Like begat like. So why are you angry.

Keep yourself and You'll get yourself a decent woman.

HOW TO KNOW AND AVOID THEM

You dont need to tell them you dont want sex otherwise they'll pretend and play along.
Just make sexual advances at her, you'll easily know those ones cos they'll not put up any resistance and will let you have them but the disciplined ones will say no. Even from your discussion with them you will know those that will allow you and other men to test. But men...una long throat nor go gree una get sense as you feel the one who give it to you is the best for you.
Learn from your own lesson and zip up before you make the mistake of your life.

Skepticus:


I'm red-pilled as a motherfûcker! Lol.

I'm surprised that you only picked the "demonize" part! I didn't mean demonize in a negative way. Please, don't get me wrong. I lacked a better word to use on that paragraph. Don't take it seriously. I've corrected it so that some readers won't term it as hating women or being an incel.

We share the same manosphere mandate of liberalizing men from the shackles of their ignorance.

Martinez39:
Okay then. I agree with your post except where it seemed you thought I demonise women and I am unaware of the biological and evolutionary rationale for hypergamy. It is well.

Indeed, it is imperative that men are freed for the shackles and ignorance of the blue pill mindset.