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CHoccolaTE:
LADIES
Please don't fall for this guy's scare tactics

You will get a rich hardworking guy that can provide for his family and give his children quality life, don't settle for broke poor bums

Just search the right places, established men are waiting for you.

Most richmen out there are either ritualist,occultic and Yahoo men.
If na so e take easy to b rich, why your popsi no become president or governor

Broke girls love this type of topic, see them, na dem

CHoccolaTE:
Likewise millionaires can become richer every day. Have you taken a closer look at the Nigerian economy? Do you know how hard it is for people to break out of poverty through legit means?
Yet you want women to stay with poor men that will control them and boss them around.

If I ask you to choose between a broke woman and a financially independent woman I am sure we both know what your answer will be.

my sweetheart, what if he has bright prospects?

Biglittlelois:
Victorian, I am patiently waiting for guys to insult the husband, but they ain't, one had to cancel your comment lol, hypocritical lots, always yapping from both sides of the mouth lol.

Don't mind them.

They can cancel and I will repeat what I said yesterday.

Happy Sunday dear

CHoccolaTE:
[s]All the broke men shedding tears on my thread will you please STFU!

Nobody wants to be associated with poverty, deal with it. And you men are so disgustingly selfish and entitled, you will not want to associate with a broke woman or financially dependent woman but you want women to put up with broke bums.

You can go straight to hell with your selfish theories. I still maintain my stand that women should avoid broke guys like a plague, many of them are just useless and egotistical, they have basically nothing to offer in relationships/marriage, at least a broke wife will be obedient and submissive to her husband because she doesn't want to get thrown out into the cold with nothing to her name.
A broke wife will still cook and care for children and keep the house in one piece and act as sex slave, yes sex slaves to their husbands because majority of married women are sexually unfulfilled
At least a broke wife will not be useless

A broke bum husband will be filled with so many insecurities, seeing disrespect where there is none, demanding endless subservience from his wife who is doing her best to maintain the marriage and they have the potential to start cheating on the woman should they by mistake end up becoming successful one day, many of them pay back their wives who supported them in times of difficulties with infidelity and strings of extra marital affairs.[/s]

Sharrap and leave this thread immediately

Crimpsy:
Most richmen out there are either ritualist,occultic and Yahoo men.
If na so e take easy to b rich, why your popsi no become president or governor

Spiritual stuffs are ridiculous garbages. Most rich men are hard working, smart, and principled business men even though they can be shady sometimes. The fraudulent ones are usually politicians, pastors, and Gboys. Politicians and pastors are safe for girls to marry because in Nigeria, no one holds them accountable so the girl can relax and enjoy their money. Gboys can get away if they are smart.

Even though they would disagree and say otherwise, women don't care about the source of your income. As long as you are bringing in huge cash and giving her a comfortable lifestyle, women do not care.

CHoccolaTE:
LADIES
Please don't fall for this guy's scare tactics

You will get a rich hardworking guy that can provide for his family and give his children quality life, don't settle for broke poor bums

Just search the right places, established men are waiting for you.

what was your father net worth before he got married to your mother?was your mother thinking upside down like you when she wanted to marry?

BigJoe19:
The advise you gave is the reason why rich men marry many wives when all the women are all trying not to marry a broke man, I know a man who used to be worth very close to been a billionaire but right now he is living a poor life after loosing Money from bad investments and I also know guys that were extremely broke before but now stupendously rich.

Advise like this is the reason men are starting to give up on love and marriage, most women are so short-sighted, they live for the moment, they think life would always go on to be straight-forward and no twists.

So for example, if your boyfriend/husband is a worker who earns well but he can't still afford to build a house of his own would you call him broke or he has houses, cars but not a private jet would you still call him broke, what is the exact definition of being broke?

Humans attach value on things that does not really matter, if only we cherish love, happiness, honesty, trust and loyalty the world won't be where it is today.

Money is important but you should not act like a slave because of it, stop dating or liking someone because of money.

First sensible post I've read from you, cudos though

Khalidase83:
No one needs to be told; Besides, why shud a broke man even contemplate marriage in the first place. Those shouting broke woman here and there, listen, it is not a woman's place(after marriage) to provide any form of finance in the home. It is solely the husband's responsibility. The society we live in now is what seen to place that burden on women but from the beginning it wasn't so.

Which brings us to the question - If the woman is not designed to be primary financial provider, then why are we empowering them? Why are we displacing the primary and traditional providers (men) at work for women? When we know they are not providers?
Why are we deliberately frustrating men?
With empowerment comes responsibilities.
You can't be trained and given a job alllll for yourself when people that are ready and happy to cater for a family are languishing in poverty.
Ooohhhhhh.... You think men are magicians or spirit that will produce incomes out of thin air?
For every woman at work earning income, there is an equal amount of men sacked to create such spaces yet the women are not going to shift ground to feed the family.
Does it really make any sense?

Crimpsy:
If most ladies follow dis topic written here, it will leave Dem single, bitter and also depressed.
If you check the percentage of men in the country:
Graduates no get work most have to start afresh to learn business after schooling and Nysc.
Non graduates no get work except they engage in other things to make money.
So u see, there is no rich man anywhere.
My advice is for ladies to build and stand with their man, because u can't tell d content of a book by its cover.
For those who refuse to listen,take sand,cement and water create the rich man yourself.

You know, i don't like this your statement because you make it look as if we are begging them to even date a poor or struggling guy.

Plssssss, plsssssss and plsssssssss, nobody is doing anybody a favour by dating or marrying them.
If they think they can't marry poor or struggling guys, congratulations to them.
Let the go and live their lives alone and carry their responsibilities abeg.
It is better to be broke and have rest of mind than be with the modern woman and encounter untimely death due to frustration from them.
The bible said - it is better to live in the corner of a house with a leaking roof than with a nagging woman aka modern woman.

there's someone for everyone,that's all I know

eduman365:
Bitter feminist on the loose. Check out her profile

Ladies wise up! There is nothing wrong with building with your man. Both good and bad experiences are part of life, women too have disappointed men, it's not easy both ways.

Don't flock senselessly to men that have made it already cos they will take you for gold diggers. Most importantly, don't listen to bitter feminists who are using the movement to cover their shame. None of them is truly happy being single and lonely.

correct

CHoccolaTE:
Westin concern me?
I told them the bitter truth, if they like make dem vex

how old are you?

victorian:
News reaching me an hour ago

A young married lady who has the been carrying the family responsibilities for the past three years, when she collects her money clients pay her for her interior decorating biz, she usually give her jobless husband 70% while she keeps 30% for herself. All to make the man feel he's in control and still the head. Food, clothes, shoes, house rent, baby naming all on her neck.

Just last weekend, the husband has quietly parked out of their home in banana island, which she rented with her money not too long ago. He left his wife with his two kids and also cleared her 15million naira, which she has been keeping account of, everytime she gives him money from her business proceeds.
The plan was to build their dream home with it.

The husband is nowhere to be found with a his clothes, shoes and passport with her 15 million naira!!!

He don ja!

God abeg o!

This is just an armed robber of a husband...it's not all men, but the guy mumu, maybe he doesn't love her at all......

CHoccolaTE:
Good, if you become rich in future kindly get married to a broke woman because even she has the potential to make it in life

So stick with her and build her up from her poverty

Why not... if not self.. At least, wealth will circulate. Even with the little I have, i spread it to make others ok.. And still trying to do more...

Ladies please wise up , dere is no rich guy without a woman behind him , go and ask those state governors what dey pass through with their wifes before becoming governors , go and ask our former president goodluck jonathan what he went through with his wife b4 becoming president , let me tell u not all that clitters are gold , u might marry a guy with good job today tomorrow he will b sacked, what will u do ? or u marry a successful business man tomorrow his business crashes what will u do? Only girls that comeout of broke families will b talking of riches and looking for rich guys , almighty GOD know's the best for us , so please stop decieving people by posting rubbish, if u see a man dat is trying his best and GOD has not favoured him please stay with him , because d future is bright , don't look for rich men because rich men has wifes , unless u want to die young.

I get ur point completely.The point I'm tryna make is that as a man, u don't abandoned ur responsibilities simply because ur wife works and earn salary. Secondly, as a man without job don't marry simple. Even if your wife to be works and earn fat salary, u shud at least get something to do to put money into ur pocket before attempting marriage.

emmaodet:
Which brings us to the question - If the woman is not designed to be primary financial provider, then why are we empowering them? Why are we displacing the primary and traditional providers (men) at work for women? When we know they are not providers?
Why are we deliberately frustrating men?
With empowerment comes responsibilities.
You can't be trained and given a job alllll for yourself when people that are ready and happy to cater for a family are languishing in poverty.
Ooohhhhhh.... You think men are magicians or spirit that will produce incomes out of thin air?
For every woman at work earning income, there is an equal amount of men sacked to create such spaces yet the women are not going to shift ground to feed the family.
Does it really make any sense?

CHoccolaTE:
This is why I like Muslim men
They never run from responsibility

An Olosho talking from experience, she probably acquired the iPhone used in typing this trash from an Alhaji who screwed her from the arse without condom

CHoccolaTE:
This is why I like Muslim men
They never run from responsibility

you see how dumb and stupiiid you are. Are you not for gender equality? Does your profile not state men and women are equal and you are interested in saddling a man with responsibility

Gosh.

You are not intelligent

victorian:
News reaching me an hour ago

A young married lady who has the been carrying the family responsibilities for the past three years, when she collects her money clients pay her for her interior decorating biz, she usually give her jobless husband 70% while she keeps 30% for herself. All to make the man feel he's in control and still the head. Food, clothes, shoes, house rent, baby naming all on her neck.

Just last weekend, the husband has quietly parked out of their home in banana island, which she rented with her money not too long ago. He left his wife with his two kids and also cleared her 15million naira, which she has been keeping account of, everytime she gives him money from her business proceeds.
The plan was to build their dream home with it.

The husband is nowhere to be found with a his clothes, shoes and passport with her 15 million naira!!!

He don ja!

God abeg o!

not a big deal na...

Jewelbaby01:
First sensible post I've read from you, cudos though

Thanks dear.

Nigerian ladies will only date you because of what you have,they will never date you for who you are.
I want all Guys to hear this now, Nigerian ladies see dating as a poverty alleviation scheme,The broke and lazy ones are the Grandmistresses of the Golddigging community.
Why do you think ladies always say ' I don't date broke guys ' ' I want a guy who will take care of all my needs ' ' I can't date a guy who doesn't have a car '

They will only agree to date you if you are rich or if you have the potential to become successful in the future (same reason they friendzone guys so they can use them as a backup plan)
The moment you Become broke(with no hope of getting rich back in the nearest future) she will dump your simping ass and locate the Nearest exit

A word is enough for the wise!!!

Youngpo413:
Thanks dear.

you're welcome.