What is more important is you both go for genotype test (if you are AS) and perhaps STDs test. Those are more important than your virginity palava.

MrBrownJay1:
@OP
what exactly is your problem here, i dont seem to understand:
- is it that she isnt a virgin?
- is it that she lost it with a girl?
- is it that she said it was a finger that did it?
- is it that she is confirming that she was into some lesbianism act?

no 2 actually..if it was with a man dat fare Nd I will believe har Nd trust har more but I don’t believe she did it harself am suspecting she don’t want to tell me who the guy is......dat why am scared bcus someone might come to ruin our marriage later Nd I don’t want dat .... tnk u so much for ur input

Macnnoli4:
What is more important is you both go for genotype test (if you are AS) and perhaps STDs test. Those are more important than your virginity palava.

tnks so much for ur input...but trust is a virtue

Ernerstdavid55:
no 2 actually..if it was with a man dat fare Nd I will believe har Nd trust har more but I don’t believe she did it harself am suspecting she don’t want to tell me who the guy is......dat why am scared bcus someone might come to ruin our marriage later Nd I don’t want dat .... tnk u so much for ur input

i think you should sit down and communicate with your babe openly about the issue. make her understand that you dont mind that she had a bf before who had sex with her, but most importantly make her understand that lying to you would be a bigger issue that you could NEVER forgive.
give her the possibility to confess, and see if it changes anything....if she sticks to her story while you know a dude who fukced her then get rid of the lying babe entirely....and be done with the headache.

Err is anything wrong with that?

Muna4real:
Err is anything wrong with that?

lol

Ernerstdavid55:
it was the urgency of my need to seek help pls bear with me pls

Help?
What sort of help do you need bro?
Ok, send me her number let me scold her for you

Depends what you mean Virginity. If you mean penetration then no, a girl can't deflower herself. Penetration deflowering traditionally means opposite sexes must copulate for the first time(one party being a virgin or both).

But if u mean the breaking of the hymen whereby people say they need to see blood(the blood always makes me laugh-u might not see blood), then hymen can be broken in many ways. Not necessarily penetrations of your 'kokoro'. Love Machine can even break it.

Physical activities can break it. So, it depends on what you mean about losing Virginity and how honest your woman is!

It's very possible n it doesn't make her a lesbian. We have all experimented when younger before.

Stillthebest:
Depends what you mean Virginity. If you mean penetration then no, a girl can't deflower herself. Penetration deflowering traditionally means opposite sexes must copulate for the first time(one party being a virgin or both).

But if u mean the breaking of the hymen whereby people say they need to see blood(the blood always makes me laugh-u might not see blood), then hymen can be broken in many ways. Not necessarily penetrations of your 'kokoro'. Love Machine can even break it.

Physical activities can break it. So, it depends on what you mean about losing Virginity and how honest your woman is!

but if there is no hymen, how can a man confirm that the babe is indeed a virgin then? without hymen, the babe is automatically NON-virgin regardless of whether she has tasted the anaconda or not.

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

na scam ooo
na so one tell me one i dey year one
i was still a mumu den i believe

Na wah for all this indomine generation children.
How does marrying a virgin lady will guarantee you a good & lovely home, either will it make it a fruitful marriage.
If I may ask op how old are you?
What do you do for a living ?
Better still improve on ur writing & spoken English.
They are many single men out there that has not been married before looking for single mothers to marry .

MrBrownJay1:


but if there is no hymen, how can a man confirm that the babe is indeed a virgin then? without hymen, the babe is automatically NON-virgin regardless of whether she has tasted the anaconda or not.

Lol. Anaconda na wah oo..

Well, that Tests the decency and the honesty of the lady in question. Ladies of nowadays, fear some. They will lie and it will look so honest that only painstaking attention can unravel that lie.

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

pardon me bro are u in bayelsa or delta

Ernerstdavid55:
chisos candle,my God is shoking

using candle is been civil,what about the ones that chuk themselves with cucumbers,carved cassava, old fanta bottle,etc

Ernerstdavid55:
chisos candle,my God is shoking

With nepa light or generator?

If you really love her, then stop asking questions, because you'd always hear things you wouldn't want to hear. Forget about the past, build a future with her. You already know she ain't a virgin, so does it matter who or what took it.

BTW, I know a girl from school who lost hers to bike riding. Anything's possible.

I've met a girl who took her own virginity with a small sized Love Machine. Funny thing is she actually called me to come over after she did it. I was shocked and I asked her why she would do such a thing, she said she had heard stories of ladies being attached to the men that took their virginity and she doesn't want to be a slave to me. I swear to God, my hand dropped.
That girl is my wife today... And this happened in 2015...
What she didn't know is that it's not the loss of virginity that keeps you glued to the guy, it's the first sex experience
Back to you, if you truly love her as you claimed, why will you care if she's a virgin or how she lost it for that matter. You probably won't be the last person to enter since she's not your wife yet.

The way you spelled her is spinning me and for that I can’t read anymore of what you wrote

oga stop asking such question... she gave you an answer that wouldnt upset you

Yes. I heard from a teacher friend that many of these teenage secondary school girls do it to themselves with candle or broomstick. They think it's hip or something, like getting a nose ring.

The world is becoming another place entirely.

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

Op oya come here
That hole you see there has been completely dugged by her ex so well.
I feel she is not comfortable telling you, she isn't a virgin.
so either forget about it, find more pointers.

Kelvin30286063:
I've met a girl who took her own virginity with a small sized Love Machine. Funny thing is she actually called me to come over after she did it. I was shocked and I asked her why she would do such a thing, she said she had heard stories of ladies being attached to the men that took their virginity and she doesn't want to be a slave to me. I swear to God, my hand dropped.
That girl is my wife today... And this happened in 2015...
What she didn't know is that it's not the loss of virginity that keeps you glued to the guy, it's the first sex experience
Back to you, if you truly love her as you claimed, why will you care if she's a virgin or how she lost it for that matter. You probably won't be the last person to enter since she's not your wife yet.

why you come dey post fake pictures na?

samwash:
Na wah for all this indomine generation children.
How does marrying a virgin lady will guarantee you a good & lovely home, either will it make it a fruitful marriage.
If I may ask op how old are you?
What do you do for a living ?
Better still improve on ur writing & spoken English.
They are many single men out there that has not been married before looking for single mothers to marry .

tThat your last sentence was gay o

Zeezny feat Idowest titled Answer drops soon!!!

stanliwise:
why you come dey post fake pictures na?

Fake pictures..
Do you have sense like this.. Check my profile now.

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

i think that girls should have their first sexual intercourse with other women. so that they are more in control of thier sexuality and actually truly understand their body in a way you don't when you attain coitarche with a man.

And that way, no man will get an ego boost from "taking her virginity".

i like this girl op i talking about already

Kelvin30286063:
I've met a girl who took her own virginity with a small sized Love Machine. Funny thing is she actually called me to come over after she did it. I was shocked and I asked her why she would do such a thing, she said she had heard stories of ladies being attached to the men that took their virginity and she doesn't want to be a slave to me. I swear to God, my hand dropped.
That girl is my wife today... And this happened in 2015...
What she didn't know is that it's not the loss of virginity that keeps you glued to the guy, it's the first sex experience
Back to you, if you truly love her as you claimed, why will you care if she's a virgin or how she lost it for that matter. You probably won't be the last person to enter since she's not your wife yet.

actually, joke's on you.

Ernerstdavid55:
To cut the long story short .
Actually I have been dating this gal for 2 months now,Nd I love har she’s very young Nd decent ,so last week I got interested to know har past I asked har to tell me sincerely who took har Virginity,she said I did it myself! I was shocked I asked how ,she said with the help of another gal With har finger ...
Pls house I want to marry dis gal but deep down I don’t believe har bcus I know har ex boyfriend ..
But the problem now is she telling the truth bcus I have never heard of such abomination..pls Nd pls house any advice will do thank u so much

Layla
Lala
Domin

i think that girls should have their first sexual intercourse with other women. so that they are more in control of thier sexuality and actually truly understand their body in a way you don't when you attain coitarche with a man.

And that way, no man will get an ego boost from "taking her virginity".

i like this girl op i talking about already

funmisticqueen:
i think that girls should have their first sexual intercourse with other women. so that they are more in control of thier sexuality and actually truly understand their body in a way you don't when you attain coitarche with a man.

And that way, no man will get an ego boost from "taking her virginity".

i like this girl op i talking about already

i wish i can Bleep evrygal on nl

If to say I know, I for disvirgin my self with cucumber.

Had I known.