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5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by ucvibes: 11:31am On Dec 28, 2019
How get over a girl you like quickly
You might have a girl you like or you love but the relationship is over or maybe it never even started but if you keep hanging on to her you’re going to drag every other part of your life down and this will make feel like crap!

I know it’s hard to let this girl you like go, I’m right there with you, I know how it feels. So let’s tackle it it together right and talk about 5 ways to get over a girl you like and let her go.

1. Spend time with friends
Now in this kind of situation having an awesome group of friends is key, because they will help you talk about the situation and release some of your sad feelings. You can go on activities with them, this will help get your mind of the girl.

2. Stop talking her
You can’t get over a girl if you keep talking to her on a regular basis, she’s constantly going to be on your mind and you’re never going to be able to accept the fact that it’s over. So if you want to get over her you’re going to stop talking to her, stop texting her and stop looking at her social media, as a matter of fact you should just block her on social media for now until you’re fully recovered because you wouldn’t want to see her posting a picture of her and another guy in the club, trust me I’ve been there and it hurts. My point is cut her out of your life completely until she’s not there as a reminder.

3. Don’t beat yourself up
Nothing lasts forever, it’s going to end at some point. Maybe you did something wrong maybe you’ve had some regrets but beating yourself up over it is not going to help, instead acknowledge your mistakes and work on improving them. You might need to improve your listening skills or drop some annoying habits or maybe you need to be careful in selecting girls so you waste your time in the relationships that won’t work in the future.

4. Allow yourself to feel the emotions
There are going to be some uncomfortable emotions when you’re trying to get over a girl you like, emotions like sadness, grief, anxiety, anger. Don’t resist this emotions give yourself time to feel them all, take a walk, allow yourself to cry do whatever you feel like you need to do. Feeling and embracing those emotions is part of life bro, we are going to pass through that at one point or another.

5. Refocus on your purpose
This is probably the most important thing in getting over a girl you like. When you get wrapped up in a girl you easily forget why you’re here, your purpose and things you’re trying to achieve. It’s time to refocus on your purpose when you’re focused on your purpose then you won’t worry about women because they’re not your end goal. When you’re focused on your business and important things in your life you won’t have time to be sad or be worried because you saw your ex girlfriend hooking up with some random guy. So sit map out your goals and be ready to work on your next big project.


CONCLUSION
Alright guys these are the 5 things you can do to get over a girl you like quickly It’s not easy man I’ve being there I know but taking these 5 steps is going to turn life around and get you moving forward.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by imiski(m): 12:07pm On Dec 28, 2019
I swear no4 helped me. I imagined the worse on my own: I imagined her with another guy having sex and I was forced to watch. Since then I prefer baby mama to relationship they are overated.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by cypher247: 3:37pm On Dec 28, 2019
lol
imiski:
I swear no4 helped me. I imagined the worse on my own: I imagined her with another guy having sex and I was forced to watch. Since then I prefer baby mama to relationship they are overated.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 28, 2019
imiski:
I swear no4 helped me. I imagined the worse on my own: I imagined her with another guy having sex and I was forced to watch. Since then I prefer baby mama to relationship they are overated.
You didn't heal, you became hardened there's a difference.

When you are asked to feel your emotions, you told to allow yourself cry, feel bad, express your pains but not to bottle or bury things within you (which you did). Sir you need to work on your pseudo-healing.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by imiski(m): 6:10pm On Dec 28, 2019
Ariza:
You didn't heal, you became hardened there's a difference.

When you are asked to feel your emotions, you told to allow yourself cry, feel bad, express your pains but not to bottle or bury things within you (which you did). Sir you need to work on your pseudo-healing.
thanks but I think it worked cause when I see her I don't feel shit, and I don't even care- like someone I have never met.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by ucvibes: 6:23pm On Dec 28, 2019
uwc
Bajirabadiba:
Thanks alot I am in such a situation
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by imiski(m): 6:25pm On Dec 28, 2019
Ariza:
You didn't heal, you became hardened there's a difference.

When you are asked to feel your emotions, you told to allow yourself cry, feel bad, express your pains but not to bottle or bury things within you (which you did). Sir you need to work on your pseudo-healing.
but I felt pain during my imagination periods. Does it count?
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by Nobody: 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2019
7. Patronise commercial sex worker regularly. (For men)
8. For women, watch Zee World 24/7 and fantasize about some handsome dude on the show that will lead you to self help

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by Nobody: 6:28pm On Dec 28, 2019
In Nigeria no lady would break you down if you're financially belleful. Reason why it's only broke boys that wail here on a daily about getting dumped by hungry girls.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by Nobody: 8:14pm On Dec 28, 2019
imiski:
but I felt pain during my imagination periods. Does it count?
You aren't healed yet, you ought not to feel pains when you remember.So yes, it counts.A lot.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Get Over A Girl You Still Love Quickly by cypher247: 2:38pm On Dec 29, 2019
this sh!t is not easy bro sad
Ariza:
You aren't healed yet, you ought not to feel pains when you remember.So yes, it counts.A lot.

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