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Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 3:56pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne: crackhaus: |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 3:58pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: Thank God for your life, brother Crackhaus. I was brought up to avoid stories that touch and send clear signals. I remember when I was still friends with hubby and he went home. As per fresher, different guys wanted to try their luck. This brother asked he out and after saying no, he insisted. I said 'OK, pay for my pictures' to put him off. I later had to develop better rejection mechanisms. He did and came to my off campus house (we lived on adjacent streets). He said I should follow him home to 'drink tea' and I ran back to my house. My cousins though I was crazy (I am sure they still do ). I might be 17+ but I instinctively knew that it did not make sense following someone to his house to drink tea. I knew it was wrong even though my cousins urged me on. Ladies should engage their intuition more. |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by CHoccolaTE: 4:00pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne: What you asked me before bukatyne: So even though the drunk man has enough clarity of mind to force the woman we should still blame the woman for raping him? Even when she was forced? Na real wa ooo You yourself mentioned on this thread that a drunk person who commits murder can't be absolved of murder became they were drunk so I dont understand how a man who forced a drunk woman, the man in this situation being the initiator and perpetrator of forced unconsented sex, how is he the one being raped? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by CHoccolaTE: 4:04pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: Fierry are you seeing something! Tell me why is it that when women have a crush on a guy they start uttering crap to impress him? I was just wondering about it because of something that happened in my school before 5 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 4:06pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: You know, all these 'laws' recently created to 'protect' women seems great until you discover that they all imply women cannot be trusted to think and take responsibility for their actions. People now sound more whinny, more it's not my fault, more bla bla bla. How can a normal thinking girl claim not know when a heterosexual guy is interested in sleeping with her? Why would you go to his house, request for stuffs (you know he will be malleable to give because he wants you), go on a date with him when you do not want to sleep with him? I fear for the next generation because they women who can't take responsibility train responsible and accountable children. It is not like the guys are any better. 3 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 4:10pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
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Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 4:11pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: I asked you if a drunk person would be absolved of murder, I did not state they would. Two different things. What if the man was as drunk as the woman and made a move on her? Is it still rape? The fact you keep hammering on the man while drunk having the presence of mind to seek the drunk ladies' consent is not in tune with your signature. It means you expect higher or better from the man. Why? Because to whom much is given, more is expected. It means you acknowledge that men have more 'insert whatever' than women. This perceptual stage of victim hood for women doesn't bode well for us. |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 4:16pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Those are just silly women because women should not be trying to impress their crush at all. That's you showing green lights, which means you are giving him the permission to rape you. In fact, you should not even smile at your crush. That could also be you sending green light signals. Let those who have ears hear o 3 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 4:16pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne:In your cousins' eyes, you were probably a dull boring girl who didn't know how to have fun. It's their type that will go to campus parties or clubs, get drunk, then come back to start complaining about one guy who kept touching them inappropriately on the dance floor. Zero responsibility. |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 4:23pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: I got my ears full on how I was not enjoying my youth from different people. I am following one boy, I am tying myself down, I should groove before I get married bla bla bla. Let's just say we were trained from a very early age to live an intentional life. No 'just have fun'; everything you do or don't do go into building your life. I discovered myself and realized I neither have the strength or patience to go from pillar to post. I rather get it right once and build on it. I also have a very sensitive conscience and I don't want anything to tamper with my peace of mind. I also don't want to be a victim of anything out of my stupidity |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 4:24pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne:About the gender-protective laws, believe me, every intuitive person already knows what it implies. It implies that the gender being protected in cases where both genders are culpable, is by consequence of the law, the weaker gender with little or no responsibility to think and make good decisions. Many clear-thinking people already know this but just prefer keeping mute to remain politically correct. 2 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 4:30pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: Your attempt at lightening the suitation is funny. If a lady is crushing on a guy and the guy is not interested in her (sex, real relationship, marriage) etc, that guy will avoid the lady till eternity. He will not go to her house, not entertain her calls, not give her green light, not collect anything from her. Depending on his finesse, he will tell the babe he is not interested. Maybe ladies should actually learn that from men. In retrospect, thank you for the example. Cc: CHoccolaTE |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 4:34pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: I read some of them and I cringe: How did women get here? Some universities in the US even have 'safe spacies' where ladies run to when they feel overwhelmed or 'victimized' by their fellow male classmates? What happened to the ladies who would gang up and shame guys who jumped from one friend to another or messed up and they gave themselves high five later? University and Sec Schl were drama filled with plots and counterplots from male and females before perpetual victim hood. Now they run into 'safe spaces' and cry. No wonder depression is on the high side. If a lady can't handle her male classmates in college, how would she face life's challenges? 1 Like |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 4:54pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne:While some may be of the opinion that your lifestyle then was not exciting enough, I personally feel that for a lady, this is always the better alternative. Yes, for a lady - and as much as it seems like I'm creating different standards for the sexes, I make no apology for it because it is what it is. I lived the life as you would say - the youthful exuberance, the fun, the 'grooving'...knew all the 'lit' places, the koros, the jungles, etc But I can attest for a fact that males are simply better equipped for all of this. Females on the other hand and in the same situations, will be subject to so many vices which they have little control over. This is why I have always been weary of women who have made it their unofficial job to tackle inequality in social vices. On the one hand, they want it and yet on the other hand, will not take responsibility for the consequences that can come as a result of indulging in those vices. So what gives, I wonder. 4 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 5:09pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne:This is exactly what 'woke' women are being taught to see as normal these days - complete lack of responsibility to themselves and their bad decisions. Some man, some religion, some tradition, some society, is always to be held responsible. It's the reason they are becoming more angry, more unhappy, more depressed, more lonely even while having men in their lives, and in extreme cases, more suicidal. Victimhood is a mask and it has a choking effect because a victim who has not accepted responsibility for their part in the circumstances, remains a prisoner to themselves and that 4X4ft prison will only continue getting smaller as they get older. No one can heal under a mask (victimhood), wounds need air (responsibility). 6 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by CHoccolaTE: 5:30pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: Lol You didnt code me well There is also one woman on Nairaland who writes all sorts of funny stuff when her crush is around but never mind about that now 3 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Lmaooooo!!! Oh my gosh, I totally got it wrong! Loool Now it all makes sense 3 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by CHoccolaTE: 5:33pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: See, I knew you were a sharp babe 2 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Hehehe 3 Likes
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Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by ibkayee(f): 5:44pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
bukatyne: bukatyne:Your initial question mentioned forcing though, second post makes it seem like you’re just talking about two drunk people having sex, which isn’t the same, c’mon now 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 5:49pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
So many contradictory posts in this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Prettiedame: 5:53pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
When I saw the creator of the thread, I didn't bother. I knew she would start off like she knows what she is saying, before she starts contradicting herself in an attempt to sound logical to her male cheerleaders 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by ibkayee(f): 5:58pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Prettiedame:I’m starting to think she’s a troll bot, it’s too ridiculous to not be. No disrespect Aunty bukatyne ma loool 6 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by doitforyou(f): 6:10pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Bukatyne issa male! For someone that has been married with kids for a considerable number of time is always missing in threads that need the in-depth knowledge and experience of a woman with that profile. If he’s in such threads, he reels out questionnaires for the OP. Ignore him, this is what he wants and lives for, back and forth with (f)s in the family section. No pick-me has such an abhorrent view on rape. 10 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by crackhaus: 6:24pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Lmao.. Oh dear... Bukatyne, the Whomping Willows are on you again, please step wisely and don't bite. Ad hominem is always the usual retort in a bid to discredit an argument that can't be met with cojones. Some are disputing your sex, some claim you have a crush, others are simply looking for holes in your statements. Some people forget you have been here for quite a while and have evolved/adjusted your views instead of remaining stuck, this is what some of us know as growth - unlearning, delearning, and relearning. I can personally attest to your metamorphosis over the years, so please DON'T BITE. The most ridiculous would be the crush and gender accusations. These termites don't seem to realize that other users might know you outside here. 4 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
doitforyou: I think she's a female, but a confused one. This is not the first time she created controversy threads about rape. She's just so.... clueless 7 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by doitforyou(f): 6:55pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
fieryy: lol at clueless. Well, now that we know ‘she’ craves attention from rape threads, then it’s best we don’t feed that craving. At the end of the day ‘she’s’ a non-factor. There are real victims of rape that live in a society where they will never get justice. Let’s continue (for those that do it already) to channel our frustration to where it matters, the politicians and law enforcement that have the power to draft and enforce laws. 9 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by Nobody: 7:08pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
doitforyou: Well said You're absolutely right 3 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by CHoccolaTE: 9:07pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
So the two lovebirds know each other outside nairaland More details are unravelling little by little I always knew he was a huge influence on her style on writing So cute.... 5 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 11:09pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: Hahahaha @ different social rules for the sexes. This your grooving did not involve the ladies? I actually hold guys and ladies to the same standards morally. Maybe that's one of the reasons I am very very very pro-young love. I didn't want a guy who has been there and done that. I nor want ajeku. |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 11:11pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
crackhaus: @bold: Very true. 4 Likes |
Re: The Disconnect: Mode Of Disflowering Versus Incidence Of Pedophile Rape by bukatyne(f): 11:12pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
ibkayee: The initial post was about 'unconsented' drunk sex. |
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