I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Nothing of sort bt,parties burying their pungent past maturedly... Pinned.

It's real, don't let carnality ruin you. Don't toy with the pattern and operation of spirit, they are stronger than the mortality and matters. Personal accessment to the spirit realm through Christ is your birthright. Talk and meet with Him there, He will show you great and mighty things you spiritually know not because you still lack knowledge.

If everyone starts listening to every Tom dick and Harry that come as prophets or whatever seeing "vision" of only bad thing, then we might just not live out gods plan and purpose for our lives.

That was how a former uni friend, who was coincidentally pregnant with two of her sisters at the same time, told me how one prophetess said one of them would die during childbirth. Can u imagine... Well the three sisters are alive today with their bundlea of joy.

Op u have mouth and I I want to believe you also have the fear of God in you. Go on your knees yourself and ask God to show you if the lady is the right person to u. Don't let anybody do the communication with God for you

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

since they see it in spirit thats she aint the one why cant the spirit point the right one?

there is always bias, when someone choices for someone, as humans you tend to pick your personal preference, than what the person your choosing for likes.
Most relatives always like a person they think can control its either control directly or that person humbles him/her self too much that one thinks s/he is in control of that person.

There are also people who always want to be involved in every major decision of other people and place themselves to sort play major role, in every big decision one makes and if there are not part of it, they always try make your own idea a bad decision, they want you take their own advice which makes it as if it wasnt them you would be were you are etc

Back to your story why the prophency point the person and whats thats they see wrong in her

All these Prophets and Prophetesses that only see negatives, is it no one that said Funke Akindele with never have children?

Why allow you to date her if she is not the one. Young man if you see the attributes you need in a woman and you are convinced in your heart of heart that she is the one and you truly love and can tolerate her for a life time. Please go ahead make her your wife. And if things go wrong be 100% sure it was your decision and not that of the destiny moulders

Op just do your due diligence, don't allow a prophet or some family members do it for you. You are the one that would be married to her not them

Is it not a prophet that partook in the killing for ritual purposes of a Lasu student in Osun State few days back, If there is any category of people i would not seek advice from i think it's Nigerian prophets and their likes

Lol

Nawa o. Prophets be interfering in people's marriages since 1701

Largely in nigeria prophets and prophetess are mostly like 419.
If you believe in such checking of a thing, you can cross check from other sources.

ZIMDRILL:



since they see it in spirit thats she aint the one why cant the spirit point the right one?

there is always bias, when someone choices for someone, as humans you tend to pick your personal preference, than what the person your choosing for likes.
Most relatives always like a person they think can control its either control directly or that person humbles him/her self too much that one thinks s/he is in control of that person.

There are also people who always want to be involved in every major decision of other people and place themselves to sort play major role, in every big decision one makes and if there are not part of it, they always try make your own idea a bad decision, they want you take their own advice which makes it as if it wasnt them you would be were you are etc

Back to your story why the prophency point the person and whats thats they see wrong in her

Exactly the things I asked...

I used to believe that there's a particular ONE person that God has destined you to marry until I read Myles Munroe's Waiting and Dating. It revolutionalized my mind concerning marriage in many ways including concerning this issue.

That notwithstanding, it doesn't mean that you can marry just any person you feel like, especially if you are a serious/ abstaining Christian.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Nothing like that jare!

Just stuffs created for those who choose to swallow it!

That's how they will say "if u miss who you are supposed to marry, you have missed it"!

All na lie! I'm a strong christian but I read my bible right!

No. There isn't.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Yes, there is.

Have you prayed for yourself?

Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

There is something like destined wife/husband. As of now, how is your life going? If you're finding favor since you started dating her, she's your destined spouse

"When a man finds a wife, he has found a good thing and obtained favor from God"

You won't get any revelation if you are sexually active. The Holy spirit is a clean spirit and he won't show you anything if you are having sex. That said, please run away from prophets. They specialize in scaterring homes with their vision. My family is a clear example. Everytime someone wants to marry, there must always be that family member that will be against it.
You know the person you are dating, nobody else will live with her except you so make the decision yourself.

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

ctleurocollege:



There is something like destined wife/husband. As of now, how is your life going? If you're finding favor since you started dating her, she's your destined spouse

"When a man finds a wife, he has found a good thing and obtained favor from God"

So those who things turned bad for them didn't marry their destined partners?

AwkaetitiBabe:
So those who things turned bad for them didn't marry their destined partners?

Yes. It's a sign

ctleurocollege:


Yes. It's a sign

That's simply life. It ain't a bed of roses.

Even if there is, how would you know?
Because another mere human being claiming to have heard from God told you so?
How exactly have they discerned the voice of God from their own thoughts?

So many questions and possibilities, so it's best not to rely on such people and their 'visions', leave such important decisions to your own deductions, experiences, and thinking devices.

But if you're hell bent on it they should give you a tangible reason rather than the typical cop out that is to just tell you to 'pray about it'.

Walahi all na wash,there is nothing like destined partner my brother.Most of those prophets and prophetess are agents of Satan.They are not seeing any nada.
That was how one of my bro wife went to pray about the person she was dating before she got married to my bro and the prophets told her the guy was going to die soon.10 years now the bobor is still alive and very successful.She wished she never listen to the man and left the guy cos she is not really enjoying her marriage with my brother.Just go on your knees and ask God for directions.

There is o
And its real

Bro !! If you guys are medically compatible, and you understand each other forget the crab prophecy....

There is nothing like that. Enter street, shine your eyes...na so them dey get wife/husband.

All I know is Destiny Child !

I laugh you

Ok

Nigerian girls are so unromantic, set a red candle light dinner for a Nigerian girl, she will think you are a ritualist.
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