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Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Charleys: 12:19pm On Jan 01, 2020
I have been very close to this lady at my office.

She's been there for a long time, I have also asked around and there's no news that she dated someone in the office.

She has two kids and she told me her husband ran away from her and that she's the only one taking care of her kids.

My problem here is that she has been spreading rumours to other ladies at work that she's been giving me green light that I can't do anything.

I just like her as a friend and moreover I don't like her to the extent of having sex with her considering her looks after having two kids. She takes my conversation so serious that even when I make dry jokes she laughs at it.

I believe these rumours are going to block my chances of dating anyone in the office, since we have some female interns coming in for their six months IT every year.

I don't want this rumours to spoil my reputation at that office so I was thinking about taking her out to get drinks and having mind blowing sex with her but the truth is I'm not attracted to her so I don't think I'll be good in bed with her.

So should I just let my reputation fall like that or I should do something about it. She's also older than me, the way I see it.


What can I do about it?
Honest replies please. This is a new year.
Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jan 01, 2020
What mind-blowing sex do you want to have with a mother of two...are you serious?

Except you have an intention of marrying her and take up responsibilities for the 2 kids, don't near her. You do not even need to touch her even if you wish to marry her until after you've put a ring on it.

Stop all these sex craze, it's a new year guy. Be forward thinking and get serious with your life. Go and get married if you can't control your urge.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jan 01, 2020
Enter there and enter trouble. To avoid it, stay faithful to God and yourself. No carry over this year

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Yemike(m): 12:32pm On Jan 01, 2020
She just want to promote your friendship to another level....






From ordinary friends to friends with benefits





Wait....





She might also be one of this devilish girl wanting to suck out your glory.grin

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by frubben(m): 12:33pm On Jan 01, 2020
You no go respect yourself now o. Your village people is advicing you now you dont want to hear.

You no attract to her free her.


We no wan see any topic here again saying because I slept with her she is now spoiling my name

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by KingSatan: 12:35pm On Jan 01, 2020
Whoever or whatever told you young chaps that you have to engage in "MIND-BLOWING" Sex to solve a simple issue like this in your work place is and has deceived you.

Why not face your work and leave the rest?

Do you know that the more you ignore that woman, the more the "Right Lady" gets interested in you?

Go and study human psychology and you will never bother about these things.

You will be surprised her friends are also interested in this "Mystical Human" who doesn't care about their friends greenlight.

Please young Man, do not mortgage your future for any "Mind-blowing" nonsense.

Remember, so many people have gone through that route.

Save yourself and your children unborn.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by GamalNasser: 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2020
So you don't know she is only searching for father figure for her kids...be wise

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Abfinest007(m): 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2020
guy shift where u don see match when start with 2 zero.can't u see this woman wants to hook u up with pregnancy/marriage .once u have sex with her u will continue and that's where it will track u down

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by KingSatan: 12:37pm On Jan 01, 2020
Yemike:
She just want to promote your friendship to another level....






From ordinary friends to friends with benefits





Wait....





She might also be one of this devilish girl wanting to suck out your glory.grin




She is not a devilish Girl. Stop believing any nonsense you heard or read from a religious manuscript without question or deep research.

She might even be very Godly and Spiritual than any of you.

The woman in question is Sex Starved and desperately in need of a man and Father figure for her kids.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Lamanii22(f): 12:40pm On Jan 01, 2020
Don't do it Hun.. She's up to something...

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by missimelda01(f): 12:51pm On Jan 01, 2020
Having a sexual relationship with your colleagues isn't a good idea in the first place.. see you making future plans for the incoming female interns nawa o!

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Bynz: 12:54pm On Jan 01, 2020
Leave person wife alone her husband will return

Charleys:
I have been very close to this lady at my office.

She's been there for a long time, I have also asked around and there's no news that she dated someone in the office.

She has two kids and she told me her husband ran away from her and that she's the only one taking care of her kids.

My problem here is that she has been spreading rumours to other ladies at work that she's been giving me green light that I can't do anything.

I just like her as a friend and moreover I don't like her to the extent of having sex with her considering her looks after having two kids. She takes my conversation so serious that even when I make dry jokes she laughs at it.

I believe these rumours are going to block my chances of dating anyone in the office, since we have some female interns coming in for their six months IT every year.

I don't want this rumours to spoil my reputation at that office so I was thinking about taking her out to get drinks and having mind blowing sex with her but the truth is I'm not attracted to her so I don't think I'll be good in bed with her.

So should I just let my reputation fall like that or I should do something about it. She's also older than me, the way I see it.


What can I do about it?
Honest replies please. This is a new year.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by lilmax(m): 12:56pm On Jan 01, 2020
She's lonely,she needs sex, she needs romance,she wants to play

You're a MAN

You do not want sex with her, and you shouldn't be pressurized to do it, that's what defines a man


Stay away from her, your rep should always be in check

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Yemike(m): 1:04pm On Jan 01, 2020
KingSatan:


She is not a devilish Girl. Stop believing any nonsense you heard or read from a religious manuscript without question or deep research.

She might even be very Godly and Spiritual than any of you.

The woman in question is Sex Starved and desperately in need of a man and Father figure for her kids.

We're still saying the same thinggrin

I don't believe in it either.

Person no fit play around again?

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by chigoizie7(m): 1:05pm On Jan 01, 2020
Please what reputation?

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by PrinxArthur1(m): 1:11pm On Jan 01, 2020
Pls I don't want to crave for huge attention over this small issue I have,so i decided not to open a thread for this,but can any body offer a piece of their mind on this,I have a gal I have a crush on,but she knows that I have crush on her, the main thing is that I have not asked her out ,but I want to send her a new year gift,based on guy code is it good for me, in the long run?
Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by czarr(m): 1:17pm On Jan 01, 2020
PrinxArthur1:
Pls I don't want to crave for huge attention over this small issue I have,so i decided not to open a thread for this,but can any body offer a piece of their mind on this,I have a gal I have a crush on,but she knows that I have crush on her, the main thing is that I have not asked her out ,but I want to send her a new year gift,based on guy code is it good for me, in the long run?
don't do it.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jan 01, 2020
Charleys:
I have been very close to this lady at my office.

She's been there for a long time, I have also asked around and there's no news that she dated someone in the office.

She has two kids and she told me her husband ran away from her and that she's the only one taking care of her kids.

My problem here is that she has been spreading rumours to other ladies at work that she's been giving me green light that I can't do anything.

I just like her as a friend and moreover I don't like her to the extent of having sex with her considering her looks after having two kids. She takes my conversation so serious that even when I make dry jokes she laughs at it.

I believe these rumours are going to block my chances of dating anyone in the office, since we have some female interns coming in for their six months IT every year.

I don't want this rumours to spoil my reputation at that office so I was thinking about taking her out to get drinks and having mind blowing sex with her but the truth is I'm not attracted to her so I don't think I'll be good in bed with her.

So should I just let my reputation fall like that or I should do something about it. She's also older than me, the way I see it.


What can I do about it?
Honest replies please. This is a new year.

Na wetin you want take start the year be this?

What makes you think she won't spread more stories after you may have had sex with her?

Is your reputation based on what you know is false?

Except you enjoy the attention that she gives you (which I honestly believe you do), give her space and change the relationship you have with her to be a formal one. No jokes. Just work related.

I may even go ahead to say you be one unserious fellow if what bothers you Na she ruining your chances of dating interns and the likes. Abi na low esteem sef

PS she's still legally married ogbeni!

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by vincentjk(m): 1:18pm On Jan 01, 2020
My dad always told me to stay away from married women if I wanna go far in life

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Charleys: 1:22pm On Jan 01, 2020
lilmax:
She's lonely,she needs sex, she needs romance,she wants to play

You're a MAN

You do not want sex with her, and you shouldn't be pressurized to do it, that's what defines a man


Stay away from her, your rep should always be in check

Then how do I get my Rep back now that she's using this rumours to destroy my Rep.

Hope you know, rumours run fast. Especially when the women decide to blacklist me as an effeminate man.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by PrinxArthur1(m): 1:23pm On Jan 01, 2020
czarr:
don't do it.
thanks
Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by lilmax(m): 1:25pm On Jan 01, 2020
Charleys:


Then how do I get my Rep back now that she's using this rumours to destroy my Rep.

Hope you know, rumours run fast. Especially when the women decide to blacklist me as an effeminate man.

Are you an effeminate man?



You become WEAK when you fall into her trap,they will laugh at you when you fail grin

let no one influence you, even idiotic men will tell you to do it

You no wan knack, you no wan knack

PERIOD

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Colb461: 1:35pm On Jan 01, 2020
Charleys:


Then how do I get my Rep back now that she's using this rumours to destroy my Rep.

Hope you know, rumours run fast. Especially when the women decide to blacklist me as an effeminate man.
simple instruction stay away from married women..it seems up mind is already made up ND u are looking for someone to justify up action..

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Cholls(m): 1:39pm On Jan 01, 2020
My brother i no read your write-up ooo, but I say YES
Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by mumumugu(m): 1:43pm On Jan 01, 2020
Charleys:
I have been very close to this lady at my office.

She's been there for a long time, I have also asked around and there's no news that she dated someone in the office.

She has two kids and she told me her husband ran away from her and that she's the only one taking care of her kids.

My problem here is that she has been spreading rumours to other ladies at work that she's been giving me green light that I can't do anything.

I just like her as a friend and moreover I don't like her to the extent of having sex with her considering her looks after having two kids. She takes my conversation so serious that even when I make dry jokes she laughs at it.

I believe these rumours are going to block my chances of dating anyone in the office, since we have some female interns coming in for their six months IT every year.

I don't want this rumours to spoil my reputation at that office so I was thinking about taking her out to get drinks and having mind blowing sex with her but the truth is I'm not attracted to her so I don't think I'll be good in bed with her.

So should I just let my reputation fall like that or I should do something about it. She's also older than me, the way I see it.


What can I do about it?
Honest replies please. This is a new year.

RUN AWAY FROM OFFICE RELATIONSHIP.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by mumumugu(m): 1:44pm On Jan 01, 2020
Charleys:
I have been very close to this lady at my office.

She's been there for a long time, I have also asked around and there's no news that she dated someone in the office.

She has two kids and she told me her husband ran away from her and that she's the only one taking care of her kids.

My problem here is that she has been spreading rumours to other ladies at work that she's been giving me green light that I can't do anything.

I just like her as a friend and moreover I don't like her to the extent of having sex with her considering her looks after having two kids. She takes my conversation so serious that even when I make dry jokes she laughs at it.

I believe these rumours are going to block my chances of dating anyone in the office, since we have some female interns coming in for their six months IT every year.

I don't want this rumours to spoil my reputation at that office so I was thinking about taking her out to get drinks and having mind blowing sex with her but the truth is I'm not attracted to her so I don't think I'll be good in bed with her.

So should I just let my reputation fall like that or I should do something about it. She's also older than me, the way I see it.


What can I do about it?
Honest replies please. This is a new year.

RUN AWAY FROM OFFICE RELATIONSHIP. including those interim staff

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Ifakiland(m): 1:49pm On Jan 01, 2020
To even ask about this means you're a good guy with a working conscience....cos no sweeter pvssy that those of a frustrated single moms....turn her to your personal bich, no emotions bruv....fork that pvssy while fingering her ass. Don't forget to pour cum on her ugly face and fallen boobs.

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by urchcoded(m): 2:47pm On Jan 01, 2020
I didn't read d story but unless she has a disease pls have sex with her. Time no dy
Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 01, 2020
KingSatan:


The woman in question is Sex Starved and desperately in need of a man and Father figure for her kids.

And the OP is a sex server ?
Are you the woman ?
Or are you a doctor to know if she is Sex starved ?
You carry this your fucking username enter this year ?

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by obi4eze(m): 3:47pm On Jan 01, 2020
When you read stories like these you'll just wonder whether the stupidity of some people is 'follow come'

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Re: Should I Have Sexual Relationship With Her? by tkshittu3(m): 3:48pm On Jan 01, 2020
Bros call ur gf now o, e get y?

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