Candoit:




I'm sorry, I didn't quite understand what you said. Which prepared husband is she talking about?. The guy of 4 years dating?. Is he the one marrying you now?.
If it is, why did he wait so long before proposing?

I'm wondering how this made u believe there's anything like destined husband. Hope it's not because a roommate prophesied, I used to have a roommate too who prophesied but she's a chronic prostitute. Don't believe everything you see. What happened to the new guy?

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

visijo:
Nigerian girls are so unromantic, set a red candle light dinner for a Nigerian girl, she will think you are a ritualist.
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bonnyhope:


He was talking about engaging in pre marital sex which is fornication

Your body is a temple of the holy spirit, If you continue live in fornication, that spirit will be far from you.

If you are legally married to your wife, then you can have sex any time you want

CosmicJames:

Don't be afraid. Don't allow anybody to destroy your life and happiness via prophecies and visions you didn't ask for?

Do the right thing and you will be fine.
The innocent girl in question have not offended you in any way.

What will be your reason for not marrying her? Oh, just because someone said she's not the one? That's a very terrible mistake!
And you will live the rest of your life in regrets, sorrow and pains.

When it comes to marriage, there is only one advice to follow -- Marry who someone that have the fear of God.

If is only when you fail to follow the above advice that you will land yourself in some big trouble.

If your girl have the fear of God, then you are in the right direction. Don't be afraid. Wife her she will do you good forever.

If she doesn't have the fear of God, don't marry her. She will hurt you later.

This is the Biblical principles for marriage.

Forget anything else.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

TGM2015:


In simplest spiritual form, there is no one person that is particularly destined to be one partner but there are a lot of spiritual incompatibility. So both of you may not be spiritually compatible or you might be compatible but with undesirable destiny like short life span, etc.

But one is very sure, it is only you that can know for sure if spiritually you are compatible. In a nutshell, if you believe in spiritual guide to your marriage (which actually is the best), you need to give yourself to some spiritual exercise that will lead you right. Any other external reports or revelations will only be secondary.

Let give you a recent example. I have a friend that around 2006 he dreamt of a lady consistently, he is spiritually active, he approached the lady a year later but the lady turned him down. As at December when I had a Facebook call with her sister, I discovered she, her sister and her brother are still living in the same room. By 2016, my friend got another vision of a lady, he approached this lady and got a friend zone replied. He specifically told me last January that if by December 2019, he will forget about the lady as he had a prophesy that he will marry the lady last year. This is at the time that the lady is no more in town living 4 state apart. I, his mother and everyone has lost hope, in fact, I was forced to reveal his prophesy to his mother so as to calm her down till December. Guess what, they get married last year November.
I visited him during Christmas, I saw them all happy. Happy, I mean my friend and his mother (an unavoidable enemy or fighter), sister and brother in his room playing and enjoying the themselves. The marriage brought peace to a fighting home and my friend has put on weight too looking fresh.

From life experiences, there is a very high likely hood for two people who genuinely love themselves to be spiritually conmpatible except there are family spiritual warfare that need to be won or generational curse to be broken. The last two may possibly be the issue and not that you are not spiritually compatible.

TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks

Alashoalash10:
prophets and prayer warriors that will not tell you that premarital sex is evil in God's sight, that God is against sin but will only talk about destined wife,run from them

Katier00:
Why allow you to date her if she is not the one. Young man if you see the attributes you need in a woman and you are convinced in your heart of heart that she is the one and you truly love and can tolerate her for a life time. Please go ahead make her your wife. And if things go wrong be 100% sure it was your decision and not that of the destiny moulders

TGM2015:


In simplest spiritual form, there is no one person that is particularly destined to be one partner but there are a lot of spiritual incompatibility. So both of you may not be spiritually compatible or you might be compatible but with undesirable destiny like short life span, etc.

But one is very sure, it is only you that can know for sure if spiritually you are compatible. In a nutshell, if you believe in spiritual guide to your marriage (which actually is the best), you need to give yourself to some spiritual exercise that will lead you right. Any other external reports or revelations will only be secondary.

Let give you a recent example. I have a friend that around 2006 he dreamt of a lady consistently, he is spiritually active, he approached the lady a year later but the lady turned him down. As at December when I had a Facebook call with her sister, I discovered she, her sister and her brother are still living in the same room. By 2016, my friend got another vision of a lady, he approached this lady and got a friend zone replied. He specifically told me last January that if by December 2019, he will forget about the lady as he had a prophesy that he will marry the lady last year. This is at the time that the lady is no more in town living 4 state apart. I, his mother and everyone has lost hope, in fact, I was forced to reveal his prophesy to his mother so as to calm her down till December. Guess what, they get married last year November.
I visited him during Christmas, I saw them all happy. Happy, I mean my friend and his mother (an unavoidable enemy or fighter), sister and brother in his room playing and enjoying the themselves. The marriage brought peace to a fighting home and my friend has put on weight too looking fresh.

From life experiences, there is a very high likely hood for two people who genuinely love themselves to be spiritually conmpatible except there are family spiritual warfare that need to be won or generational curse to be broken. The last two may possibly be the issue and not that you are not spiritually compatible.

bezimo:
Yes....There is what is called permissible will of God (You are a Christian and she is a christian) as God would have his children ONLY marry fellow believers...but that's not enough.

There is what is called absolute will of God..that is among the believers..the one God will have you marry...so your destiny will not be a misfit...nothing frustrate a man's destiny like been married to the wrong woman...Even A pastor can lose his dIvine calling sef when aligned to the wrong woman....it's that bad.I have seen and heard plenty such cases.I have seen a man called out by prophesy who abandoned the girl he was dating who was God's will for him to marry a finer girl who was not God's will for him..his frustration and suffer in that marriage..no be here..so there is God's will in marriage...

A popular man of God in Abuja asked God why is it that there are so many challenges in marriage these days even worse in the church and God said..did they ask me before they married? so he kept quiet....the answer got me seriously thinking...that if you marry outside God's will. ..you are totally on your own..anything you see..is your portion.Lol




I was listening to someone who crossed from the other side into the light..and exposing some of the hidden mysteries about marriage and women..and he said there are 2 categories of women.
Dry leaf women and the favoured woman...if you marry dry leaf woman. .you own is finished for life. .your life will keep going down with nothing to show..but if you marry favoured woman. .you don blow..small effort from you will produce big as long as you keep her happy.

Candoit:




I'm sorry, I didn't quite understand what you said. Which prepared husband is she talking about?. The guy of 4 years dating?. Is he the one marrying you now?.
If it is, why did he wait so long before proposing?

I'm wondering how this made u believe there's anything like destined husband. Hope it's not because a roommate prophesied, I used to have a roommate too who prophesied but she's a chronic prostitute. Don't believe everything you see. What happened to the new guy?

Candrevah:


Apt.....I've got people around me who have experienced both circumstances. May God not let me choose the wrong partner. God please bless me with a favored woman Amen.

sterlingD:

What are you experiencing?

Teegelop:


I was told we are not destined to marry I mean the man we have been together for a while which we have been planning to tie the knot this year.

Wolgrace:
First love of God: If you don't have personal encounters, relationship and conversations with the Father, the son and the Holy Spirit, God does not know you. [b]Cos without Him leading, directing, revealing or speaking to you, you'll ruin yourself. [/b]Bro, YOU DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF "BELIEVER." It's not only about church going or feelings (fleshy/selfish desires) or human intellect or secular events or other activities. To me, these are church-chair-warmers. It is more than that, okay? Don't let secular carnality disguise as light ruin you.