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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by fatymore(f): 10:25pm On Jan 07, 2020
This thing shouldn't have graced fp
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jan 07, 2020
AceRoyal:



In 10 years from now, if you continue like this you'll sit back and hate yourself. You'll become so miserable when you realize how much you're wasting your life right now.
You so called baby daddy doesn't mean we'll for you, I just pray and hope that it won't be too late before you realize how much you are messing your life up in the name of foolish love.
Go and open up to your sister's fiancé.
That's if this story is true.
Very foolish love
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by zinaunreal(m): 10:26pm On Jan 07, 2020
Just look at this idiot
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by oviexcels(m): 10:27pm On Jan 07, 2020
Mehn If this story up there is true then you are what they call "witch" please you have to repent immediately before things get worse, signs of your destruction is what you are experiencing and if you don't react properly to it, your experience will be a thing your whole village will read and behave properly.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jan 07, 2020
Despite that this is really bad that's if it's true; You don't need to tell your sister, go straight to her man with your boy friend and tell him the plain truth. If you don't and eventually, something wrong happens to your sister, you will be more dead in your guilt let alone what awaits you
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by paparazzi1987(m): 10:29pm On Jan 07, 2020
It shall not be well with You and your unfortunate area boy fiance cool

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Avast(m): 10:29pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
You are maaaarrrrrdi

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mechanics(m): 10:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
You went too far, you are ungrateful, with the assistance your sister did for you, you went ahead to destroy her marriage plans, you have to tell her and plead for forgiveness.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Uniquekriss(m): 10:30pm On Jan 07, 2020
uzoormah:
hmm I've watched this movie before.. Jim Iyke is the boyfriend abi
the boyfriend is Chidi Mokeme pushing wheelbarrow

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Tunadinho(m): 10:31pm On Jan 07, 2020
That's not good
you should have talk with your sister maybe she will consider the guy and you also ought to be doing something to help the guy and yourself.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ebenezar2020(m): 10:31pm On Jan 07, 2020
AwkaetitiBabe:
Very foolish love
this one you're always changing your dp every now and then.
hope you're not up for something sinister
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Parkleader: 10:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
Op you dey mad angry

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by BREYZ: 10:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
This OP, i just don't know what to say honestly. But God will help you for destroying your sisters life due to your stupidity. When that guy leaves you finally, your eyes go clear.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

You're a loser in life...
you and your sperm donor can never make it in life if you don't....

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by tribalmall: 10:33pm On Jan 07, 2020
Your sister underestimated your foolishness.
Ifyjos:

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nsarug80: 10:33pm On Jan 07, 2020
Your sister wanted you to get married to a responsible & God-fearing man, not a serial smoker with a bleak future; hence her decision to vehemently oppose your relationship. Sadly, you conspired with that paedophile to inflict such an unquantifiable emotional torture on her.

You are indeed a terrible sister for allowing hate & bitterness get the better of you. If you were my sister (God forbid), I'll NEVER forgive you till eternity.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:33pm On Jan 07, 2020
God forbid
OBTMOS:
Bet me... that guy will dump you and marry another girl. You are a wicked soul. Your own blood sister!! Tufiakwa
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by nlandgrandfada(m): 10:33pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please




If she doesn't care about you, she won't pay your child's fees at first place.
All I see is a elder sister wants the best for her junior sister.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by oglalasioux(m): 10:34pm On Jan 07, 2020
Your grammar alone destroyed your sister's life.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mikykinz(m): 10:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Damn..
Seriously what you did to your sis was bad.
You made a costly mistake giving birth at that young age 'yh you really did'..
Buh life just gast to move on
You've got a church you attend try to call the attention of your pastor, his help we go a long way in situations like this and you should just forget about having a good relationship with your family after confessing of what you did...
But its better than your sis finding out on her own...
It will take time before they forgive you "family is family"
Don't just hide what you did any longer because sooner or later the truth would come out..
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by olaswim: 10:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
No comment iabeg

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

Cheap fiction for the gullible ones

Next....
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by highbee02: 10:36pm On Jan 07, 2020
if the guy later dump u, that's when u will know that blood is thicker than water. Did u also responsible for the job loss? If yes, how did u do it?
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by uzoormah(m): 10:37pm On Jan 07, 2020
Uniquekriss:
the boyfriend is Chidi Mokeme pushing wheelbarrow

oh I remember!!!!!
he was wearing black singlet

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:37pm On Jan 07, 2020
Yes I know that I’m not good in writing English,please forgive my errors .
oglalasioux:
Your grammar alone destroyed your sister's life.
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mikykinz(m): 10:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
Nsarug80:
Your sister wanted you to get married to a responsible & God-fearing man, not a serial smoker with a bleak future; hence her decision to vehemently oppose your relationship. Sadly, you conspired with that paedophile to inflict such an unquantifiable emotional torture on her.

You are indeed a terrible sister for allowing hate & bitterness get the better of you. If you were my sister (God forbid), I'll NEVER forgive you till eternity.

grin grin
Shei the sister brought the responsible and God fearing man home for her to accept....
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by franchasng: 10:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
You are a very bad child, bad sister, bad mother to your child. You have a heart of the devil. I see you and your boyfriend and his gangs forming a dreaded armed robbery and kidnapping squad if the situation is not controlled now.

Go and confess to your sister's fiancé with your gangs even though he won't get back with your sister again.


Be prepared for some reward.


Lastly, run to God and give your life to Christ and also leave that your good for nothing boyfriend and go learn a trade like tailoring, hair making, makeup, interior decor, professional cooking, etc . Tell him to go and learn a handwork before he starts robbery or kidnapping or Yahoo+ = money ritual and will most likely use you or your innocent daughter.


Go and seek for God's forgiveness after you have confessed to your sister's fiance and to your sister through your family elders.

May God not give us a bad/wayward female child with a bad friend abi boyfriend

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 10:40pm On Jan 07, 2020
You see?

The time we actually need Nwaamaikpe to comment, he is nowhere to be found smh

What a wicked soul...kai! I will never complain about any of my sisters again

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by akonibobo: 10:40pm On Jan 07, 2020
Call the finance and explain everything to him.
Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by apollo13(m): 10:40pm On Jan 07, 2020
U will suffer for what u did..no peace for the wicked.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Style007(m): 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
My heart bleeds for you. You are just naive,wicked and plainly stupid.

I’m afraid if you continue thinking this way then you will have yourself to blame few years to come.
The best decision you will have to take right now is to move away and distance yourself with that bad influence you call your boyfriend. He never meant well for you and will only keep messing up your life.

You will have to open up to your family and ask for forgiveness else if anything should happen to your sister that I’m sure loves you then I know you will hate yourself and your STUPID boyfriend forever.

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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Xano(m): 10:41pm On Jan 07, 2020
Interesting

Ma'am, if this post of yours is true, you've dug for yourself(including "your guy" ) a grave of evil consequences.

You have to cry to God to make your sister have a heart of flesh(receptive) to all you would have to say to her.

It is a must you speak and sincerely beg for her forgiveness, because if you don't, you and your child would suffer a lot for what you've done.


Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

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