Congratulations OP, you just gave your boyfriend something to always use against you in future. He will use this to blackmail you and always tell you how terrible a person you are. In fact he might end up using this as an excuse to not marry you. He will be like 'if you could do such a thing to your own sister, then you can kill me the day I offend you'. You are still a child and it is evident in your actions and your responses here so far. You want to present a picture of someone in love but from all that you have been saying it is more about you not wanting to leave the guy because you have a child for him, and that is childish reasoning. How come you don't think you can get someone better?
You have to truly repent of this wrong that you have done to your own blood then, In your own interest, look for a way to confess your sins and make ammends.
Next, dust your books, sit for your WAEC and go back to school. You can also be learning a handwork alongside going to school. Think of how to better your life and stop thinking and talking like your life is tied to that guy because you had a child for him or that you are entitled to anything. Your life is not tied to that guy and you are not entitled to anything.
Best of luck!

If you love her as you said, why not help her out before its too late. The m8stake is done so no need for castigation when you still have time to make restitution.

Ifyjos:
Of course I do care about my sister and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t be here seeking advice on how to get her and fiancé back together. Some people are concentrating on insulting my guy and me instead of resolving the problem I have . I don’t have peace of mind, my sister is in pain and to know that I have been the one that caused her pain it just break my heart. I have left the house since 7am and I’m still at my friend house and won’t go back home until evening because I can’t longer bear to see in her pain. I love my sister she is my everything

Ifyjos:
Yes we do have sex together and men don’t stick with women for money but no sex and I don’t think that he only loves me for sex because there are many women here in port harcourt he can sex anytime he want with them but what I know is he truly loves and Care about me , he want to be with me for lifetime.

Okay,i wish you and him well.Just do what I ask you to do to get your sister her fiancé back Cus that is the most important thing right now. Take care dear

Thanks a lot

CuteNbad:
Okay,i wish you and him well.Just do what I ask you to do to get your sister her fiancé back Cus that is the most important thing right now. Take care dear

Am trying but it is not that easy
. Don’t even know where to start

Vanzcharles:
If you love her as you said, why not help her out before its too late. The m8stake is done so no need for castigation when you still have time to make restitution.

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Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

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YOU MUST REGRET THIS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
AMEN

blujoi:
Do you realize they have a child together? It’s so easy to throw blames when it’s not us involved. The family as a whole did not handle the matter well. The elder sister has a duty to call the guy and have a heart to heart talk with him. If the elder sister was thinking right,she should have been concerned in taking that guy off the street because her sister and her child is involved. Actions have consequences

She has a duty to take him off the street??
This only supports OP and her entitled and unremorseful self. So as she did not perform this duty is that the reason why he does not have anything tangible to his name in this space of 5 years after getting a 15 year old pregnant?

mayten:


The Devil would see some people on Jugdment day and repent of his own personal sins. Because this kind devilish attitude is on another scale.

The heart of man is desperately wicked... that's why i this life yhu don't have to trust someone...

Ifyjos:
God is not stupid for blessing me with my precious daughter. I don’t regret it

I like this.

God bless you and your daughter

Ifyjos:
He can never dump me because If he wanted to leave me , he would have done it long time ago when I was still pregnant. He never denied me and my pictures is everywhere on his Facebook and WhatsApp profile and our future will be greater. Not I’m not responsible for her loosing her job , she lost her job because at the time her fiancé dumped her , she was suicidal and missed work for almost a month and lost her job.

Seriously are you this reetarded

Ifyjos I understand how you feel... your sister acted so wrongly...

Can I speak with you in private, I want to help you.

Mercycity:
Please forgive your sister and help her.Just send an sms to the guy with evidence that the whole thing is a set-up.The evidence can be you including all the phone numbers in the sms.Forward the same sms to your sister,parents and anyone that can repair the broken relationship.Use a new number.Tell them it was to punish the couple because their shakara too much

Who should forgive who Abi how has the sister wronged her ?

Ifyjos:
Am trying but it is not that easy
. Don’t even know where to start

Ify you have to start from the first step, 99% of the advise says you should confess and mend your ways, but you are still procrastinating, for how long will you keep procrastinating?

Ifyjos:
We lives with our parents and yes she provided foods and clothes for my daughter which is normal for her to do because my daughter is also her daughter. I have brought foods in the house , everything we ate for Xmas and new year was from the money that my guy gave to
Me to buy foodstuffs. Yes God will provide for us , he will be rich , marry me and we will happily

ok now!!!! I just weak with this response.

Ifyjos:
Yes he did because he love me and he can’t let my sister beating me while he is there

if this your story is true
That your child will beat you up as soon as she comes of age that your good for nothing baby daddy will beat and dump you in a matter of time and that your sister that you have so wronged will rise again have the best spouse and big wedding while you remain a bitter onlooker
You are too wicked
You joined hands with your boyfriend to beat your sister and threaten to kill her that’s why she had you both locked up. You better put self aside and do what is right before you begin to see what real torment and pain is

Lalas247:

Alive and well.

We thank God.
Good to see oldies around. Missed your comments on here.

Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust

Hahahaha, my God, na so e easy I pray you don't end up in jail with him cos he definitely has a plan to achieve those things.

Pele lover girl.

Prayer point: God should open your eyes so you can see.

You need help my dear, cos you are lost.
Take it or leave it.

Jesu, if this story is true then I'm not only dumbfounded but speechless.

theres obviously no love in your family for your own sister to arrest you cause you slapped her. if you now confess that you were behind her breakup and depression guess what she would do to you? well you should tell her though still expect a reaction from her cause she would definitely deal with you so you should be prepared to take the fall once you confess

Meliian:


What kind of hypocrisy is this! How can you get your own sibling locked up??!! It's abnormal. They're both sick. Stop putting the blame on the op alone. They're both culpable.

maybe when a meat seller or bitter cola hawker impregnates your sister and they both come home one day and beat you up and threaten to kill you maybe you would get up and make tea for them since your such an advocate for pedophiles and senseless siblings.
Did you give a thought to what the baby daddy could have done to her while he was fighting the sister? What if they had killed her ? You’re here defending nonsense.

chaloskyx:
theres obviously no love in your family for your own sister to arrest you cause you slapped her. if you now confess that you were behind her breakup and depression guess what she would do to you? well you should tell her though still expect a reaction from her cause she would definitely deal with you so you should be prepared to take the fall once you confess

She slapped her elder sister and her boyfriend beat the elder sister as well.

And you said she should not arrest them?

Pavore9:
Another tales by moonlight by a newly registered username but if it is true, you are the lowest of the low. At age 20, you are yet to figure out your life or are you the only one that have given birth at 15? You choose to do nothing meaningful with your life rather depending on a fellow low life who drinks and smokes while squatting with friends in a one room. You and your guy wants to be respected but refuse to live a life that should earn you respect but are only smart enough to mess up your sister.

Whether you open up or not, just know you and your guy will continue to live miserable lives because you know very well that you are not remorseful over what you did rather the reality that your sister's financial support is no longer forthcoming is hitting you.

She is better off committing suicide. She's a 20-year-old single mother with a 5-year-old child? She has no skills, not worthy of becoming anything in life, forever condemned for becoming a teenage mum and a disgrace and a financial liability as well. She better do away with herself and everyone will be happy thereafter

Or should they help her? (Read Psalms 103:8-13, Psalms 130:3-4, Luke 15:17-22)

Ifyjos

comtem2011:
She slapped her elder sister and her boyfriend beat the elder sister as well.

And you said she should not arrest them?

The woman verbally assaulted them first. You people should stop leaving out that detail.

The elder sister is wrong too, anyway.

But the problem is that this OP wont get it into her head that bringing the illiterate guy around and rubbing in her familys face doesnt make any sense.

Instead of her to work on herself and bring herself and her man up to the standard that wont provoke the elder sister she's here replying everybody rubbish

Look how stubborn she is! She has answered people back here, for better or for worse. At least she sticks to her guns and at least, some of the greatest people in history were also very stubborn.

Instead of directing her brilliant energy towards being better shes expending all her determination and fighting spirit on a futile venture.....trying to rub lipstick on a pig....trying to dress up her situation in fancy attires when we can all see that its total rubbish

On page 12 you will answer somebody that the man is working in a car-wash...they ask you "okay and what next"... No answer

One page 22 you still answer a different person that the brilliant man, the next King David of our times is working in a carwash...on page 32 she will still come back to answer the same thing again...does it make sense

[quote author=Ifyjos post=85586269]My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

You're Very Selfish why Didn't You Think Of The Consequence before Indulging in Evil

If you don't tell your sister now, she will hear it from one of the people you used to destroy her relationship.

So tell her yourself now. If she gets to hear it outside, she might shoot or stab you to death.

It will be better if you tell her and ask for forgiveness.

She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like

comtem2011:
She slapped her elder sister and her boyfriend beat the elder sister as well.

And you said she should not arrest them?

You Did Stupid Things for A Guy Who Doesn't Have Work. Now If They Learn About The Truth And They throw You Out Were Will You Go with You Baby? You've Thought About That before Supporting Your Baby Father's Evil Plan. You'll Suffer For Your Evil Deeds.

I can't take it anymore oo .

After reading Op's response here .

I tired .

No remorse whatever .

She thinks bringing her problem here equates being remorse .

God ! . The way she is even defending the boyfriend sef ehhh make me think , So there are still mumu people on Earth ??

Greatfullheart:
You Did Stupid Things for A Guy Who Doesn't Have Work. Now If They Learn About The Truth And They throw You Out Were Will You Go with You Baby? You've Thought About That before Supporting Your Baby Father's Evil Plan. You'll Suffer For Your Evil Deeds.

The worst thing is that she doesn't think the baby daddy will ever leave her .

Ifyjos:
She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like

Wow .

So there's something called beating with respect ?

You don't see anything bad in your sperm donor beating your sister ? .

Riele:


The worst thing is that she doesn't think the baby daddy will ever leave her .

Leave Her. Somebody From Outside Is Turning Her against Her Sister and She Stupidily Falls Into the Trap, i Pity Her When Her Sister Get To Know the Truth

She was beating you now, that was because you slapped her and you in turn fought her too, tgen seeing you losing the fight that triggered your baby daddy to fight for you becos he loves you am I not right? She felt insulted that an outsider would touch her so she called the police. Your baby daddy also took the opportunity to beat her up because of the insult she hauled at him is it not so? Also, you said he beat her with respect , am confused here, what do you mean to beat with respect? Also how did GE beat her font hide anything say the truth. Did he blow? Slap? Push? Please help expAnciate a little on this side of the story?

Ifyjos:
She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like