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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 5:49pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Yes I know that too , we lives at home with parents but she was suffocating me as if I'm living in her house , the house doesn't belongs to both of us so she should have respect herself and mind her business and if she couldn't stand seeing me in the same house as her , all she could do was to park and move to her fiance or rent a house for herself and let me stay in my parents house in peace until my guy is ready to pay my pride price. quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85620626]Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CAPSLOCKED: 5:51pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
1SHARON THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO LOVE OF CHRIST. WITH THE WAY THEY'VE GRILLED THIS GIRL I WON'T BE SURPRISED IF SHE COMMITS SUICIDE. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by vivienD: 5:56pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:you are not sorry,u r still running ur mouth 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by blujoi(m): 5:57pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
I’m in no way supporting the lady and her actions. My point is the elder sis should have not antagonized her younger sis to the point of acting foolishly. Hey there’s a child involved,doesn’t it count for something? Seeing that she has the means to make a difference in their lives. Look at it from that angle PerseDew: 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by wandeykul(f): 6:06pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You are a very wicked soul,that your stupid idiot senseless ghost bf Wont marry you .If you don't apologize to your sis,your life will remain miserable...A devil is better than you cos at 20 you can be this evil..tueh 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Legendguru: 6:17pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by showafrica(m): 6:25pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
ojun50: Her sister also went too far, sometimes eye for eye is just good. The couple were not complaining yet she kept insulting her guy uptill showing them financial power by arresting them. I no dey pity that kind woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 6:27pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Nicer than her? Did I just read that? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Thithi1(f): 6:29pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
this one is loud oo. You shouldn’t have gone that far. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 6:29pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You are not even remorse from your comments, I doubt if you are even ready to make amend, you sound bitter and toxic 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by PerseDew(f): 6:52pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
blujoi:Does she not help even with the insults when asked? What if the means was not there and it is not even there now, so he will continue his street life forever? Is that how he arranges with the OP to beat and frame up his own family member(s) when they antagonize him? Or no one has mind to antagonize him in his family? Perhaps they are just indifferent which is even worse. If she confesses and her parents probably start abusing and even cursing him per second or per hour, shey she will plan with him to ruin them too na. So that he can finish what is left of her family kpatakpata. Whether she likes it or not, the guy just used her to disgrace her family for nothing. Only him got one sis pregnant at 15 and only him slapped elder sis, framed and destroyed the elder sis relationship. If she has sense she will know that this one has passed see finish and it is only a matter of time before he uses everything against her. Then and only then she will understand cos from her responses, you can tell she is still floating. I will share a common quote with you; "the only person stopping you is you". OP and her baby daddy were the ones stopping and are still the ones stopping themselves from making something out of their lives not her elder sis. 10 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DrayZee: 6:54pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all. I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word. Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life. For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DrayZee: 7:00pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
blujoi: Look at how the OP has been talking here. She's insufferable. She'll do whatever the hell she wants and damn the consequences. I'm very sure it didn't start now...she has been like that from the beginning. I'm sure her elder sister warned her over and over and she still went ahead to get pregnant. When you warned someone repeatedly and the person refuses to hear word, you owe the person absolutely nothing when the consequences hit. You're blaming the elder sister for antagonizing her, but when you tell someone something over and over, but the persons' overflowing stupidity won't allow the person reason, what else will you do? It's either you beat sense into her or your insult her till she begins to think for herself. Unfortunately, the elder sister underestimated her younger sister. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:07pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ok I will tell him but its not easy doing for me to do it face to face , but am thinking of doing it anonymous with a new number without mentioning it is me. quote author=DrayZee post=85623100] You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all. I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word. Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life. For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists.[/quote] |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Prettiepearlz(f): 7:08pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
@ifyjos, [/b]you are evil[b] and seeing how you supposed fiancé supported you in this rubbish shows your sister was right, he isn’t a good guy and he is as evil as you are. How could you do this to your own sister because of man. You scare me. I hope she never forgives you . At 20, you are as evil as the word evil, I can’t imagine how you will be when you become older. Go and confess your sins so you can have peace because of your sister gets depressed to the point where she loses it and gives up on life, you will regret it for the rest of your life. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Xmen149(m): 7:08pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: turn the scenario to a prank Use the same means..let those people call the fiance back to let him know they are group of concerned friends whom must not be named but wanted to be sure the love he has for her is genuine but he failed but if he intend to do better he should go back and be. Then as for you,.no one in this forken planet owes you a forken thing except your parents (to a certain age) if the man that has been forken you to make you preg at 15 has not married you then thats what he is "the man that has been 4kn you"..you should keep him away from the house and take the kid to see him when he gets an apartment. dnt turn your parents house to a harlot home In all your stories you v not said what you do or is beign 21 a skill or occupation...if you cant keep whats yours and in between you legs safe how can you keep a business from another persons sweat safe and running if entrusted to you or your eazy-E of a boyfriend Dnt ever make marriage your last bustop,have a dream and work towards achieving it gradually and stop coursing nuisance....Your parents traveled and you brought your isi-okuko of a boyfriend to come and play tango in your house and you expect your elder to be happy..hotels don finish? you know nothing,you are just a jealous kid 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 7:13pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Just make sure you comeback and giveus feedback okay? Ifyjos: 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Guy I swear I still they wonder self wetin I go reply am so, I no one insult am need no day make I no vex too much on top person headache NevetsIbot: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Abcruz(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
showafrica: An eye for an eye makes the world go blind. If it were to be your sister who was impregnated by a drunkard and a smoker at a very tender age, you won't be typing this. She's only angry that her sister is yet to learn her lessons after the previous encounter. 8 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DrayZee: 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You want to do it without mentioning that it's you. So who will you say did it? A random stranger? You MUST own up to what you did. Go and apologize to your sisters' fiancé, tell him THE WHOLE TRUTH. What you did, how you went about it, how you knew that he'd leave your sister because of how insecure he was...tell him EVERYTHING. That's the only way he'll believe your sister is innocent. After doing that, you can then probably beg him not to tell your sister. Whether he tells her or not, you have to take what come. That's the only way. Anything other than this is just a big joke. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DrayZee: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
I can't lie, the parents have a big ass share of the blame. How did they manage to raise someone like this? 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by showafrica(m): 7:26pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Abcruz: If they were my sisters, I wont allow the elder sister continue to insult the guy. Nobody is above mistakes, if you dont want to help, allow them sort there problems. My point is the girl is 20yrs now and still love his man, let them be for christ sake the deed is done already, help if you wish to or quit simple. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by liveyourlife007(m): 7:27pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Foolish ingrate
Confess to ur sister
afterwards, go hang ursef and just die
u are a demon. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:28pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
I do.make people hair at home and my goal is to learn tailoring and become a professional fashion designer. I cannot and will never turn my parents house to an hostel, if we want to do that thing we know where to go and he only came to visit us we were outside of the house, she should have mind her business and let us be. Whenever her fiance used to visit her at home , I mind my business and I had never complains about him coming to our house so why does she have to complains about mine ? quote author=Xmen149 post=85623415] turn the scenario to a prank Use the same means..let those people call the fiance back to let him know they are group of concerned friends whom must not be named but wanted to be sure the love he has for her is genuine but he failed but if he intend to do better he should go back and be. Then as for you,.no one in this forken planet owes you a forken thing except your parents (to a certain age) if the man that has been forken you to make you preg at 15 has not married you then thats what he is "the man that has been 4kn you"..you should keep him away from the house and take the kid to see him when he gets an apartment. dnt turn your parents house to a harlot home In all your stories you v not said what you do or is beign 21 a skill or occupation...if you cant keep whats yours and in between you legs safe how can you keep a business from another persons sweat safe and running if entrusted to you or your eazy-E of a boyfriend Dnt ever make marriage your last bustop,have a dream and work towards achieving it gradually and stop coursing nuisance....Your parents traveled and you brought your isi-okuko of a boyfriend to come and play tango in your house and you expect your elder to be happy..hotels don finish? you know nothing,you are just a jealous kid[/quote] 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Abcruz(m): 7:30pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
showafrica: I get your point. But still the little girl went too far and from her comments she sounds naive, inexperienced and remorselessly justifying her acts. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DrayZee: 7:34pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Don't ever imagine that you're a good person. Don't ever imagine it. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 7:35pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:then you are too cheap de doesn’t need to pay your bride price you both can camp under a bridge in port harcourt. What does a 14 year old know about sex and having an illiterate boyfriend tori oloun? You started having sex at that age tells about you and that you even pride yourself in it is another level of irresponsibility Continue having the sex life will soon hit you hard. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
am proud to be cheap and happy to be with him, he is my crown and the best man ever quote author=Ehibiggirl post=85624099]then you are too cheap de doesn’t need to pay your bride price you both can camp under a bridge in port harcourt. What does a 14 year old know about sex and having an illiterate boyfriend tori oloun? You started having sex at that age tells about you and that you even pride yourself in it is another level of irresponsibility Continue having the sex life will soon hit you hard.[/quote] |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Xmen149(m): 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: fiance or not why do guys even come to visit you girls at home..jeez ...your parents no try at all And men fiance,impregnator etc that visit the girls at home how the heck do they feel,. if your daughter starts entertaining men/man at home even at this kind of age you are in will you allow it, ...u na get wahala for there just do the correction.... do your hair stuff save enough money and start school (even open university dey) or go into tailoring.. take your eyes away from peoples money. make that correction b4 its late |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by makydebbie(f): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Prettiepearlz: Your eyes are beautiful. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Omoshalewa04(f): 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
I don't know why people keep commenting on this trash... This story can't be true na, after all she did, she still get mind to dey defend herself. What the heck I dey vex olohun. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 8:14pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Are you for real? This is serious. I don't want to believe this story again cos your response self get as e be. Seems you are here to just wine people. 6 Likes |
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