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Yes, you read that right(what do women want in a man). This question have been asked for centuries by scientists,pickup artist,sexologist,professors and incels. Even the great Sigmund Freud said that "the great question that has never been answered and which I have not yet been able to answer,despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul is WHAT DO WOMEN WANT".There is still no clear-cut definition or model of what drives female attraction yet. That’s the truth.
All I can do here is give you my best theory based on the current research, as well as my wealth of experience and explain what has consistently worked for me. So....shall we
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT(The general view)
We men,from a young age have been manipulated by television inventions,society preaching and from women themselves. If you watch most movies, you notice it depicts that the only thing a woman wants is a romantic,nice guy and should just be yourself blah blah blah. That's just utter bullshit. OR
You asked a girl out and she says she is tired of being heartbroken by guys,that she just want a nice guy and you decide to be that guy. You start treating her very nicely and then boom,all of a sudden she rejects you. You be like what the f**k?(Well you took her word at face value). Women don't know what they want and so why ask a creature that can only think emotionally for advice.
The first rule of picking up women is never,ever and ever ask a woman for advice on picking up women.
THE SOCIAL STIGMA EFFECT
The reason why you can’t take a woman’s word for what she wants, is because she will often times get judged for saying it.
For example,I think that anyone who is a master in the venusian art(game) knows that women want:
»A very sexual man who isn’t afraid to make a move.
»A man who can be dominant in the bedroom.
»A decisive, confident, assertive man who doesn’t take her bullshit (when she tests him).
»A man who sets firm boundaries and expects her to be feminine.
But if a woman said any one of these things, she’d be judged HARSHLY.
She will be called a Slut,LovePeddler,Olosho,prostitute and probably body shamed,living her whole life as an outcast.
The irony of this is that when a woman is actually comfortable with you, and not afraid of you judging her, she’ll admit these things but until then, she won’t.
Don’t get angry or upset that women can’t say these things,either. It’s just the way it is. If you were judged as harshly as women for expressing your sexuality, you probably wouldn’t be very honest with it as well.
Most women won't tell what they really want because they don't want to be judged as a slut or be shamed by society.
AN EVOLUTIONARY ANALYSIS
The best description for this is by the tv series INTO THE BADLANDS (my favourite tv series)Why? Because The series is set in a post-apocalyptic world approximately 500 years after a war that left civilization in ruins. Many elements of technology, such as electricity and ground vehicles, have survived the apocalypse but society now shuns guns, leading to a reliance on melee weaponry and crossbow.
In a territory known as the Badlands, encompassing several states located between the Rocky Mountains and Mississippi River. You see before civilization,our world used to be almost as identical to the badlands. There was no technology,no gun etc you had to learn martial art,join a gang and lots more to survive. (But hazard were are we getting with this) relax and let's get down to business.
Imagine you are a woman,you are in the badlands with no martial art skills and low survival skills in a world filled with brutal men,sexual predators,murderers and fierce animals and beast. What kind of man will you want to enable you to survive? A man who has “really pretty eyes,” and who’s “really sweet”?
Bleep no. All that mattered was whether a man had:
»Strength(physically and mentally)
»Good hunting skills(to provide for her and her child)
»Social skills(how you are perceived and your position in the tribe)
»Combative skills(to protect her and child).
If you don't have any of this qualities as a man then, this were your options: You will remain a celibate till you die of old age or worse,killed in tribal wars,eaten by a hungry lion or roasted and eaten by cannibals. Cause no women were ready to put the fate of their lives and those of their children in the hands of a wimp.(But hazard,we are in a civilized world,no more tribal war,hunting for food etc so I don't see why I should bother myself with this?) That's right but we humans might have moved on,but our body has not. You see our bodies were not made for civilization but the jungle. There is a saying that "you can take a man from a village but you can not take the village from the man". Our body constantly remind us that we are here to survive and replicate. You can find it more evidently in women cause they still crave after this men.
Have you ever seen a beautiful girl that you approached and told her your feelings only for her to reject you and for you later to see her hugging and kissing a thug? You are like what does he have that I don't? Well he has survival skills and probably good genes as well. Well with that done and dusted let's talk about the main matter on ground. WHAT WOMEN WANT IN A MAN(THE TRUE QUALITIES)
You see women wants in a man is contradictory and unpredictable due to social stigma and the fact that attraction for women is emotional. Also,the fact that women wants in a mate changes according to culture,country,religion and society views.
But it all boils down to two things:
»Primary qualities(Alpha traits)
»Auxiliary qualities(SMV)
PRIMARY QUALITIES
The primary qualities are like the fundamentals in picking up women but sadly it is not as emphasized upon in the pickup community as it should be.
This primary qualities can be universally applied on any woman in any part of the world. They are:
1)CONFIDENCE
Not just any kind of confidence but "true confidence". Having true confidence in your ability,yourself and your value is a huge turn on for women. True confidence is the kind that is not shaken by setback like a woman being bitchy,shit testing you hard etc.(But hazard,how do I get true confidence?) I wrote a piece on that,check my profile and get it.
2)DECISIVENESS
As a man you need to be decisive in the face of uncertainty. Trust me when I say women love a decisive man. Being decisive is about having a strong sense of purpose. Don't be one of those guys that lack drive and just wander about haphazardly. Like Brian Tracy said "Decisiveness is a characteristics of high performing men and women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all".
3)ASSERTIVENESS
It means standing up for your personal rights - expressing thoughts, feelings and beliefs in direct, honest and appropriate ways. Women know that it’s a dog-eat-dog world out there,and they want a man who is willing to fight for what he want. You have to be assertive.
Without assertiveness, you won’t accomplish anything. You must be willing to scream out to the world: “This is what I want, and I’m taking it.”One of the key alpha male traits is that of assertiveness. They’re willing to assert themselves, their needs, and their wants, very easily.
4)DORMINANCE
Another key trait that women want is a dominant man,not in an insecure way, where they feel the need to dominate everyone, but just by their very nature they’re
dominant. They want a leader by nature they’re at the top of the totem pole. They’re willing to stand up for those they love and care about, above all else.
If you want to be an alpha lady charmer, you need to spend some time learning how to be dominant. Women want a gentleman in public but they want to be dominated in bed. Dominance is important, however. It means you always come out on top in any situation and it’s exactly what alpha males do.
5)PURPOSE
Another strong indicator that someone is an alpha male, is that they have a very clear masculine purpose. Most guys Bleep this part up. In fact, your purpose should come before everything else. Your purpose should come before women. Period. No exceptions. Nothing turns a woman on like having a guy who has that edginess to succeed.
When a man puts his woman before his purpose, he deprives the world of his authentic self. When he puts his purpose before all else, he can accomplish
great things—in fact, that is the only way that you can ever accomplish great things.
6)COURAGE
In life, you must be willing to take risks. You must be willing to follow your fear, and do that which scares you must.
…and this is exactly what alpha males do. They have no second thoughts about taking risks, even if they may seem scary. If you don't take risk then you are nothing but a pussy and believe me women have a pussy,they don't need another.
"The only way you can ever accomplish anything worthwhile in life, is by taking risks… and if you aren’t willing to do so,
you will live a quiet life of desperation",in the words of Henry David Thoreau.
Having courage is one of the key characteristics of alpha
males… because without it, nothing worthwhile will ever be accomplished.
7)CALMNESS
Another key alpha male trait is calmness, especially under
pressure. Alpha males know they’re on top, so they have no need to prove themselves.
Have you ever seen those guys who always try to start fights?
They’re always looking for some way to prove themselves.
This is not alpha, but rather it’s beta. Only beta males feel the need to prove themselves and put others down.
True alpha males don’t give a Bleep what other people think, because they know that they’re always on top.
AUXILIARY QUALITIES(Sexual market value)
Your smv, also known as your sexual market value, is the value you hold in the sexual market place. Your smv affects how many options you have. When your sexual market value is high, you have lots of dating options. That’s why you should become a high smv male. The three things that will determine your smv are:
1)LOOKS
Your looks include your:
»Face
»Body
»Height
»Style
The most important of all. Do not ignore this!
Every man should do what he can in order to improve his visual appeal – including both his bodily aesthetics and his
wardrobe. No matter where you find yourself now, you
should be able to raise your looks by 1 or 2 points, or quite
possibly, by several more. Looks are typically underrated in
importance and almost all men are not making enough
effort in this regard. Your face and height are negligible.
2)MONEY
Making more money can also increase your smv. Money is
essentially access to resources. The more money you have,
the more resources you have or potentially can have.
Women with extremely high survival instincts, aka gold diggers(especially nigerian women) find money to be the most attractive trait a man can have.
The influence of money varies between women. But whether it boosts you up 1 point or even 3, having more money definitely makes you more attractive.
For women who care mainly about looks, money will boost
you up a little bit. For women who care about money, you
can be close to a 9 or 10 if you’ve built a nice sum of wealth and show it off.
DON'T DEPEND ON MONEY
You don’t want to depend on money for your game. Otherwise you’ll end up paying for expensive dates and have women not give up the pussy while they Bleep the bad boys on the side.
You can show off your money in your clothes and your car,but don’t spend it on the women who are leeches.
Making a lot of money is a great thing. I recommend financial independence to be the #1 priority for all men out there.
You can’t depend on it solely for your smv unless you’re a multimillionaire. Having money is like having a superpower and with great power comes great responsibility.
Remember that!
3)STATUS/SOCIAL PROOF
Status as far as male-female sexual dynamics are concerned can be simplified into two factors:
Tribal leader (admired by men) and Preselection (already
desired by other women) aka “Men want to be you, women
want to be with you”.
Improving your status among men is generally improved best by rising to the top in your chosen field of endeavor. Social dominance also plays a part. Eminence, talent and skills in your occupation lead to high status. It’s also vital to understand your own strengths and to play to them in order to shine. Another important aspect is to increase the size of your social circle, include people in your social circle who talk you up but exclude people who talk you down or pour salt on your game in any way. You cannot permit people to diminish your status in this way and you should be very wary, because people will do it; sometimes even blatantly /in front of your face.
Improving your preselection includes various strategies to improve your perception by women as a man
who is desired by other women. Textbook examples of men
who mastered status game include Peter Stringfellow (appropriately nicknamed the “King of Clubs” and rumored
to have slept with 3,000 women) and probably the best tutorial on this topic comes from Adam Lyons, who mastered social proof and what he called “entourage game”.Combining status with decent looks and a cool personality will take you very far.
BONUS:
4)THE VENUSIAN ART(GAME)
Every man should strive to learn game. You can have any of the above qualities but if you do not have game is like a soldier that has a gun but no bullet. Don't be that guy.
(But hazard, how do I learn game)? Well you have the likes of harddon to do that or you check in the internet for the mystery method. Every thing I know about game I learnt from there. So amigo do you comprehende?
CONCLUSION
This qualities I give you are the best you will ever find because its comes from personal experience. Having this qualities is good but you still need to learn game or else,it will be a case of trying to put water in a basket. One thing we can all agree on is that apathy / inaction is the worst possible course you can take. “Just be yourself and
the right one will come along” is the most terrible advice
imaginable and should be ignored absolutely by all men!
Women are not unpredictable,they just try to seem that way,if you know you know.
Have fun and good luck.
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.......... I don't know, very long lecture.
but that dominance aspect the modern day woman is so rebellious (no harm is meant) they don't like that aspect of a man.
the feminist can testify.

Quite long but very loaded. U are really coming up fast in churning good posts. I dash you my biceps

a woman need protection,affectiom, attention