When am walking around and seeing weak guys following girls around like puppy dogs, or seeing skinny-fat guys that think men like me that lift weight are nothing but meat heads or seeing guys come to nairaland to whine and
complain is like a slap in the face and a punch to the stomach at the same time.
It's a sickening sight to see weakness so abundant in a brutal world .There are reasons for this weakness but
there are no excuses for it.
Now to be honest, guys acting like wimps is only good for
more aggressive guys. It makes women more attracted to us,it makes it easier to get ahead, there is no competition at all from weaklings, and it just makes guys like me stand out a whole lot more. But I hate seeing guys acting like
pussies.
Below we will look at 5 reasons why modern men are effete weaklings and what to do about it.
1)INTERNET PONOGRAPHY:
Its no surprise this is topping the list. Porn consumption is becoming more common and viral every year. Porn is one of the cause of low testerone in men. Masturbating to Internet porn saps you of your precious seed, vitality, masculinity and drive to succeed. Because of this it is a plague. What you can do is simply turn it off and never watch again. What you can expect to happen is: you will feel yourself become more assertive, more dominant, stronger, more outgoing and you will fucking feel like a man.
You can tell the guys who are completely and hopelessly
addicted to internet porn because they act indecisive and
frightened all the time. Most men aren't hopelessly addicted
but all men know the feeling of “getting done” with their
internet porn session and not having the will or drive to do
anything afterwards. I really can't scream the benefits
enough – save your seed and your desire to accomplish will be off the chart. It's a great feeling.
SOLUTION:
Quit watching porn for 30 days and watch the progress. Watch how good you start to feel.
2)ALCOHOL & DRUGS
The foundation of success in life is good health: that is the
substratum fortune; it is also the basis of happiness. A
person cannot accumulate a fortune very well when he is
sick. He has no ambition; no incentive; no force. Alcohol and drugs are the parents of all evil in a country. Most guys who stay in ilorin here do nothing but smoke weed(egbo) thinking they are being bad boys. Seriously, that just fucking plain stupid. Sound health is the foundation of success and
happiness in life, consuming alcohol and drugs does not help that.You always do some stupid when you drink and it doesn't only affect you.
Drinking affects everybody around you. Your friends, family,
and most of all your children.
Any man who drinks in front of his kids isn't a man. Same
for any mother.
Nearly all child abusers are also alcohol abusers. Any father
or mother who drinks alcohol is despicable to me and I spit
on them. Ack-too!
I already told you, drinking turns you into a devil and when
you get drunk your friends and family get to see you as a
devil.
So many men are drunken devils that eventually the wife
has to leave them. These men go on to cry about “divorce
rape and child theft” and this and that but the reality is it
was their own fault.
If you drink, expect bad things to happen.
And if you're a businessman and want to succeed wildly, I
suggest you take the advice of the great P.T. Barnum…
“
No man can succeed in business unless he has a brain to
enable him to lay his plans, and reason to guide him in
their execution, so, no matter how bountifully a man may
be blessed with intelligence, if the brain is muddled, and
his judgment warped by intoxicating drinks, it is
impossible for him to carry on business successfully.”
SOLUTION:
So you see if you want to succeed,then stop drinking and smoking. There is no "but if"
3)SEX
I walk through a street for my usual meditation strolling,then I heard one guy say "omo na you be baba, so you don Bleep that girl. You too much,you deserve award and blah blah blah praises". Then a guy asked him what did you gain after that? He was fidgeting and thinking hard then he said "na fine girl I Bleep na". He could not say anything.
You see we men naturally are sex-lust but it does not mean that you will do nothing but think,dream and even become a slave to it.
You see I have nothing against sex(after all am not gay) but you got to use it to elevate yourself. That is where sexual transmutation comes in.
What is Sexual Transmutation?
Napoleon Hill’s self-help classic, Think and Grow Rich, is how I first learned about sexual transmutation:
“Sex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It
means the switching of the mind from thoughts of
physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature.”
Now, Hill’s definition is a good start, but we can go deeper.
Sexual transmutation is the process of converting sexual
energy into some other drive, motivation, or energy of a
higher order. Many times a person's sexual energy is abused and wasted
by having too much sex, or it is discarded by not having any
sex and becoming domesticated.
Great work is not created by killing your sexual desire and great work is not created by constantly exercising your sexual desire.
Great work is created by cultivating a high sexual desire and
letting this desire energize you.
To use intense sexual desire as the fuel for your great work,
a balance has to be created.
So let's create that balance and teach you how to transmute your sexual energy?
To transmute your sexual energy you must have a lot of
sexual energy in the first place!
Before you can use sexual energy as fuel, you have to have
a lot of sexual energy to use.
If you're a broken dog (sex addict)you must fix yourself and return to a
healthy level of sexual desire.
To create the great work you must be brimming with vitality
and sex drive.
Without a high sex drive you will never have the energy to
create great work. This is where all great work comes from.
Sex drive is the energy that drives, the fire that burns, the
light that shines. Cultivate it, embrace it, accept it, love it. Then watch yourself doing great unimaginable things.
SOLUTION:
Transmute your sexual energy(am not saying you should not have sex but as they say too much of everything is bad).
4)SOCIAL MEDIA:
Social media takes away your focus and energy, your priorities become shifted, and in the end you sacrifice your work for some short-term likes. Social media has a disastrous effect on society and well as you personally.
The joke is that social media connects people, what actually
happens is that social media drives distance between
people.
Instead of wanting to spend time with people face to face,
you want to spend time with your “online friends” so you
can continue to get your dopamine hits via likes and hearts. All social media companies were created by lonely recluse
and hermits like Mark Zuckerberg and Jack Dorsey.
They created social media in their image.
Social Media turns you into a hermit and drives distance
between all people.
This important interview explains it well:
“
All social media was invented by nerds who were socially
inept and schizoid. These men were asexual, with very
low sexual activity, and even involuntarily celibate.
The profile of every man who invented social media sites
is always exactly the same. They created social media in
their own image.
Since they were asexual, anti-social, schizoid, white men –
they created a tool that was geared towards asexual, anti-
social, schizoid, white men.
Then to their utter surprise and shock, social media took
off and started to cater to black men and black women,
very sexual people, social people, it took off in different
social groups which were totally out of synch with this
character.
The technology is designed for a highly specific
psychology profile but is now being used by all different
social groups. This creates dissonance, in-built
dissonance.”
A total reboot is necessary to quit social media.
Exposure to social media encourages depression, suicide,
anxiety and decreases your self-esteem.
The leading cause of death today for teens up to the age of
24 is suicide.
SOLUTION:
Quit social media!.Quitting social media can be hard, but it must be done for
your own happiness and life satisfaction.
5)JOBLESSNESS:
There is a saying that "An idle man is the devil's workshop",there is no better truth than that. I know the economic situation of our country is bad but that is no excuse to be idle. To be a man is not a day job, you got to hustle,struggle and bustle. Stop depending on those stupid and selfish people we have in the government. I am where I am today because I refuse to be limited just because of joblessness. Being broke is not bad but not doing anything about it is bad. Stop spending money on girls that don't like you,learn to live a minimalist life style and do not depend on people except your parents.
SOLUTION:
Find a part time job to do then sit down and plan your life. Forget about that girl yet cause women this days don't add anything to your life more than sex. Invest in business, start your own blog,write your own books and anything. But just do something with your life cause as Bill Gates said "it is not your fault if you were born poor but is your fault if you die poor".
CONCLUSION
We men are becoming effete weaklings and it is not cool. Follow the solutions to the above and watch your life transform.
Goodluck and Godspeed.

Hazard7. This is good.

Omar09:
Hazard7. This is good.

Thanks man, am just tired of seeing young men act like wimps.

hazard7:

Thanks man, am just tired of seeing young men act like wimps.

It's getting too much. One just sent a mg saying he laid one girl he was after and he is feeling like a king. I'm not saying a pounding a pussy once in a while isn't good, but too much gets you addicted and you start misbehaving around it.

Omar09:


It's getting too much. One just sent a mg saying he laid one girl he was after and he is feeling like a king. I'm not saying a pounding a pussy once in a while isn't good, but too much gets you addicted and you start misbehaving around it.

True bro and I see that most especially on nairaland. Just hope they listen before its too late.

You were making sense until you talked trash about weed.
We all have our way of fun.
Alcohol is bad tho, I don't fuq with drinking.
But weed, it can never do you wrong, health wise and other kind of wise.

Fantastic write-up...

Fantastic write-up

hollawaley2:
You were making sense until you talked trash about weed.
We all have our way of fun.
Alcohol is bad tho, I don't fuq with drinking.
But weed, it can never do you wrong, health wise and other kind of wise.

Tell how has your life been since you been smoking weed?

100/100.

hazard7:

Tell how has your life been since you been smoking weed?

Loll, Come to my house in Abuja to see how my life is.

Very spot on.

I discovered my sexual transmutation formula very long time ago. But at times that sexual energy could be very overwhelming. When such happens, I just let it take over me. The only thing I pray for at time is for the God of sex to have mercy on my woman.

The article was good, until you mentioned effeminate, anti social, schizoid white men that created social media in their own image, where exactly did you get your info from, these men were usually very introverted,which is highly correlated with intelligence(if you're one of those that think introversion is a mental problem don't reply this) it's a simple case of appealing to your audience, do you know the millions that go into behavioural psychology research.

saladinnoir:
The article was good, until you mentioned effeminate, anti social, schizoid white men that created social media in their own image, where exactly did you get your info from, these men were usually very introverted,which is highly correlated with intelligence(if you're one of those that think introversion is a mental problem don't reply this) it's a simple case of appealing to your audience, do you know the millions that go into behavioural psychology research.

Go to youtube and check Sam Vaknin: the TRUE toxicity of social media revealed.