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Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 8:50am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:you are Masculine. Ladies don't demand for sex. No matter how long they've been with a man. You need to reconnect with your femininity. 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 8:53am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:I am with U dear. I like a woman being bold to demand sex when she needs it. I give it n still respect her. I only hate promiscuity. A woman demanding sex or loving sex a lot does not make her a LovePeddler. She is just being human.I prefer such ladies. That is for me. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then. The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage. PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 8:55am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:do you buy your woman gifts because she loves sex? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 9:02am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:Yeaaah. You just hit the nail for me. "seducing him is more sexy". I like that. I once dated a girl who would grab my dicck once she enterd my house. Yet she remains the most loyal n faithful girl I ever met. She loves sex so much but she is still not wayward. She demands it from me whenever she wants it. I loved her guts. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 9:02am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:I'll even go as far as to say if, as a woman, your sex drive is bigger than your man's sex drive, don't ask for more. Either get a toy to suppliment you or cheat. But never chase your man for more sex. You lose a lot of your power as a woman when it appears like you cant live without sex like a man. 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 9:07am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja:Yes I do. It turns me on too. You see I love bold women naturally. Bold, yet intelligent, kind and lovely to be with. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 9:08am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:Buying her gifts turns you on? 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:11am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja: There's nothing masculine about wanting something and asking for it.... I'm just a very straight forward person... Men like women that can take the bull by the horn ... Gone are the days when women act like logs of wood... that'll wait for a man to initiate sex...and lie down like fire wood and do nothing... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:12am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari: Exactly...I personally hate pretence .... 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:13am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Lool sex is not war...which one is power and control.... on top sex 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:15am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari: What happened...why did yhu guys part ways? 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 9:16am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:Do you then. Let's move along. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 9:16am On Jan 09, 2020 |
NwaAmaikpe: Ma ya son to! |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:16am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja: Stop twisting his replies ...he didn't say that .. People no longer subscribe to that yhur philosophy again... 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 9:18am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja:No! I mean her demanding for sex turns me on. Makes me respect her boldness and guts. I dislike timid n boring women. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 9:18am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:then what did he say? Since you understood him. Explain it for me. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Jodha(f): 9:21am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja: He said he likes bold women with guts and her demanding for.sex turns him on.... Yhu asked him if he buys her gifts....and he said YES ... Chikenah 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 9:22am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:Is this the same woman you're referring to? shekauvsbuhari: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 9:26am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: Smile! You're on your own! |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ksbusari(m): 9:33am On Jan 09, 2020 |
NwaAmaikpe:lies and hypocrisy are embedded in ur opinion. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Oluwadamilare118: O yeah? |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by LordShiva97(m): 9:43am On Jan 09, 2020 |
The kind of nonsense I'm reading on this thread though. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a woman verbally asking a man for sex. There's nothing wrong or inappropriate with a woman having a bigger libido than her man. These are all female sexuality myths peddled by men to control female sexuality. Everyone should do what works for them or what they're comfortable with. If you want to announce that you want sex on a public-display electronic billboard then do it, if wearing a sexy lingerie and writhing on the bed like a cobra is what works for you then do it, if announcing it on cable news gets the job done then fine, if telling it to him without mincing words will get your urge satisfied then go with that, if wearing a bumshort and twerking will get the message across to him then that's what you should do, if dropping subtle clues till he pick up the hint is your method then by all means do it. Couples should do whatever works for them. I don't see any sensible reason in pretending like you don't want sex when you do or using complex seduction rituals like mating animals when uttering two words will suffice. I do agree that sometimes subtle seduction is more romantic and spicy but this applies to both male and female and it doesn't even work for everyone. For some males like me, I don't see the point in pointless games when simply blurting it out will do the job. I have immense admiration and respect for females who go against cultural norms and are open about their sexual urge. All these drab screed about sex beign the only leverage women have over men and what women are supposed to do when they want sex and what they're not supposed to do is utter bullocks to me. This isn't the Middle Ages. 8 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 9:43am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jodha:She had this her boss's daughter that "liked" her a lot and never allowed her to concentrate in the relationship. Wont say the lady was a lesbian. No.She later moved her to work in her own office and never allowed her a life of her own. I was also a friend to de lady's elder bro. My girl was torn between loyalty to me n her n could not make her own decision. I told to leav de job 4 me to set up a biz 4 her cos we were talkin marrg, but she was afraid of failin in biz.So in order not to cause a crisis, I took a walk. Very painful thing to do then.Lady later abandoned my girl n went abroad. She came back but I was already in another serious rltnship. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 10:01am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:like I said.... Masculinity. When a woman chases sex she is not in her feminine energy. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 10:03am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja:haa. U realy out for me. The relationship failed as I narrated earlier, got involved in this marriage, it was so drab and rubbish, saparated but not divorced yet. Got into relationship in attempt to remarry, but friends n family are on my neck to restore de marriage bcs marriage is taken very serious in my family but I am a non-conformist. I am taking my time to decide anyway. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by shekauvsbuhari: 10:06am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja:A woman asking her man for sex is chasing sex? No I disagree. What I see as chasing sex is promiscuity or prostitution. |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 10:14am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:I'm not after you. I just let you argue with yourself. So, you have a lady who's apparently loving sex and you respect her yet you cant marry her. But why would you marry her anyways since she's practically your wife. Right? She's giving you all the sex you want anyways. So you can take your time to come to a decision. But the simple-minded lady in the meantime, because she's giving the sex that you want and SHE LOVES IT, she's getting her time wasted. While you take your time to decide. There's no urgency. Because you're getting all the sex that you want. As a guy you are wining. But the lady is losing. All because she loves sex. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by ubunja(m): 10:16am On Jan 09, 2020 |
shekauvsbuhari:prostitution is chasing money. Promiscuity is chasing attention. Chasing also applies if there's only one man in the picture. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jan 09, 2020 |
ubunja: Rubbish 1 Like |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Nobody: 10:30am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Only thing I learned from this post is many of the folks here are very primitive especially that nwamaikpe and ubunja dude. 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by LordShiva97(m): 10:35am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Plead: That Ubunja dude shaaa, his primitive mentality no be here. 2 Likes |
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