johndan103:


I didn't report your post. I have no reason to do that. The fact that I don't like your suggestion doesn't make you my enemy.

Hauwa read your response along with others and asked me if I will protect her and I promised I will. She loves me too much to dump the relationship because someone on the net says so.

I understand your position but we will keep being together.

Thank you so much for the time you spent wading into our story and contributing to it.

Cheers

You're still sticking to your fake story?

It's very simple, just go to God in prayer, n ask Him to change her heart. (but u must be ready to be patient)

breadplanets:
wehehehehehehe....you know say the truth dey pain sometimes

nairalandposter:


You're still sticking to your fake story?

See final year project o!!!

healthserve:
Sugarmuffin been a while. I sight you

Hello

sexysage:




Not only their sons, even their women. The last one my mom was even trying to help her marriage was a terrible disaster. Na her mama dey help am pack load comot for her husband house. She's done this shit five times. The last one she did was what made her husband who's a very gentle man lock her and mother up at a military guard room. The two of them came to the house when the man was not around, broke the doors and emptied the whole house. As in the whole five bedroom flat was emptied.
She sold a reasonable part of these things off and she used the rest to set the house of another man she moved in with.
The husband dealt with her when he was able to track her. Even the man he narrowly escaped that day...

Those kogi people from the Yoruba speaking parts really have problems compared to the igalas and ebiras... I can't make that mistake of having anything to do with them. Due to my mom's position as a person who handles marital affairs, I have seen countless issues from this very part. They're just too terrible and wicked. Ain't stereotyping but Mehn you still need to shine your eyes.

Jeeeez

johndan103:
Background
I am 28 years old (will be 29 on the 18th Oct) and I am ready to go the family way. I have a lovely girlfirend lets call her Hauwa, she is 28 too (will be 29 March next year) and is emotionally matured and ready to settle down too, but the problem is my mom.


Statement of Problem
My mom gets irritated when I tell her i am ready to marry. She keeps hoping i dont get married soon saying i am ungrateful for all the care she has shown me. I have a Job and i have promised to do what I should do. But she said i must not marry the person i love. She has rejected every lady I have brought home. In fact she has never approved any relationship I have ever been in. Every lady i date is either a prostitute or a low life according to her.


More Details
She wants to match make for me. She is always talking about her friends daughters, so last year i tried to reason with her and allowed her to send me her choice (this was before my present relationship).
She sent the lady's number and i contacted the lady. Very rude lady who thinks being a medical student is the best thing that has happened since sliced bread. We didnt gel at all cos i feel she's too slow and not my type of woman, she also wasnt digging the match making thingy. The lady eventually told me she is in another relationship and i felt relieved. I told my mom and she said theres another medical student (daughter of another friend) of hers.



My Point of View
I am tired of her trying to match make me with her own opinion of the best choice for me. I love this lady I presently am dating to the moon and I cant see myself leaving a matured, humble and independent woman for another slowpoke i dont even know.

My mom has said if i go ahead I wont have her blessings in the marriage and that i have been jazed. I used to think moms will be happy that their son wants to start a family but mine has made it harder for me. I know parents want the best for their children but this is a tall oder for me.


Hauwa's Point of View
Hauwa is already feeling rejected about the whole saga and has asked me to keep peace with my mom. She says she undestands moms are protective. She handeled it well with maturity. I delibratelty asked her to visit my mom from the begining of the relationship so that they can familiarize with themselves but my mom wont accept her. Hauwa is saying it will be difficult emotionally for us if our relationship and marriage is not accepted.


Mom's Point of View
The first reason my mom gave is that Hauwa is Igala while we are okun (i have introduced my mom to an Okun lady in the past she said our village doesnt marry from Yagba, I also introduced her to another youruba lady she said the lady parents are not together so she wont keep a home).
The second point my mom raised is that the lady is financially independent, makes money and drives a Jeep. (I have asked Hauwa about her financial status and I am convinced runs is not not her way cos she has elaborated on how she affords her lifestyle and its genuine).She also asked for the 4million she loaned me before I talk about marriage which I will. I asked her if she wants cash or a car and she said a benz. My plan is to get her an SUV before end of the year so i can focus on settling down next year. I am very lonely and tired of bachelor life. I want to settle down and start have kids not sleeping around like a fuckboy.


Family point of view
My family is very educated and well travelled so i dont understand why this issue is coming up. I am already processing visa for Hauwa cos i cant keep breaking my heart by ending relationships at her command just to to make her happy. My dad is neutral but he wont want to offend his wife so he might try and reason with her. My sisters have said they will support my chioce but I shouldnt complain if I make the wrong choice even tho my mom will try to convince my siblings not to give me any kind of emotional support.


My Question
What are the repercussions of going ahead with the marriage plans?? Has any man successfully gone against their moms wish and turned out happy??


NB: No one can change my moms mind, not my dad, not pastor, not her sister. on one because she will convince them she is right and tell them I am lying, that she has never rejected anyone except this person.
Please I dont want to give the impression that my mom is a bad person cos she has trained me in the right path and I have never lacked because of her. She is also very supportive and has provided everything and more at all times for all her children.

Please be kind to us cos im sending the link to Hauwa to read matured peoples opinion.

Cheers

@johndan103,

I do not know wether you are a Christian/Born-again COG, I can tell you with all honesty that parental blessing is very important before marriage and by extension your significant others(i.e siblings,uncles,etc),their comment/opinion is very important,they know and can see far beyond what you know and can see ,be not deceived, the Bible says, HONOUR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER...Ex 20:12 check this scripture and the scriptures attached to it if your bible have concordance..
When the chips are down they are the ones that will see you through,they have been with you from birth,they know you in and out.Marriage affects every area of your life, its not a thing to jump into anyhow.I think the next bad place after hell,is a bad marriage.
PRAYERFULLY talk to your parents(Mother).Go for deliverance,If you can in a living church,some forces could be at work.
My brother: Call me on 080 921 793 07 if u need further counsel.

SugarMuffin:
Hello

You've been selective with your comments. Not as regular as in the early days. Hope you've been good

sassysure:

They get worst unless something is done.
They are so manipulative that they can be admitted in the hospital for one unknown sickness because of manipulation.

Once your mum start telling u" I carry u for nine months"...bla bla bla, she is the manipulative type

Lol very true. If you're happy with whom you want to marry and he or she checks the right boxes nothing should stop you from proceeding except it's a case of both parties being AS. 'Cos at the end if u proceed with mama's Choice and it fails you'll resent her for life.

healthserve:

You quoted me because?

Just curious.

johndan103:


I didn't report your post. I have no reason to do that. The fact that I don't like your suggestion doesn't make you my enemy.

Hauwa read your response along with others and asked me if I will protect her and I promised I will. She loves me too much to dump the relationship because someone on the net says so.

I understand your position but we will keep being together.

Thank you so much for the time you spent wading into our story and contributing to it.

Cheers

i wish you the best

breadplanets:
shebi na Wetin I dey talk op report my post. I will still say it again Hauwa can you cope? Op no vex but you won't be able to protect her in the long run. Now the love is shacking you. With time your mom will have her way. You can't run from her forever....if u like report my post again na u sabi

Op reported your post? Why na. You have a point. How long can he hide his wife from his mom?

happney65:
Your mum is a witch..End of story..

What gave u such conviction?
This is someone's mum, be civil.
you won't like others badmouthing your mum like that. So, the mosaic law of retribution should be followed here!

kaziblake:
Your mum is definitely hiding something from you

You made a very poor reservation here. you should learn to give comprehensive details of your thoughts for a good discourse.

johndan103:
Background
I am 28 years old (will be 29 on the 18th Oct) and I am ready to go the family way. I have a lovely girlfirend lets call her Hauwa, she is 28 too (will be 29 March next year) and is emotionally matured and ready to settle down too, but the problem is my mom.


Statement of Problem
My mom gets irritated when I tell her i am ready to marry. She keeps hoping i dont get married soon saying i am ungrateful for all the care she has shown me. I have a Job and i have promised to do what I should do. But she said i must not marry the person i love. She has rejected every lady I have brought home. In fact she has never approved any relationship I have ever been in. Every lady i date is either a prostitute or a low life according to her.


More Details
She wants to match make for me. She is always talking about her friends daughters, so last year i tried to reason with her and allowed her to send me her choice (this was before my present relationship).
She sent the lady's number and i contacted the lady. Very rude lady who thinks being a medical student is the best thing that has happened since sliced bread. We didnt gel at all cos i feel she's too slow and not my type of woman, she also wasnt digging the match making thingy. The lady eventually told me she is in another relationship and i felt relieved. I told my mom and she said theres another medical student (daughter of another friend) of hers.



My Point of View
I am tired of her trying to match make me with her own opinion of the best choice for me. I love this lady I presently am dating to the moon and I cant see myself leaving a matured, humble and independent woman for another slowpoke i dont even know.

My mom has said if i go ahead I wont have her blessings in the marriage and that i have been jazed. I used to think moms will be happy that their son wants to start a family but mine has made it harder for me. I know parents want the best for their children but this is a tall oder for me.


Hauwa's Point of View
Hauwa is already feeling rejected about the whole saga and has asked me to keep peace with my mom. She says she undestands moms are protective. She handeled it well with maturity. I delibratelty asked her to visit my mom from the begining of the relationship so that they can familiarize with themselves but my mom wont accept her. Hauwa is saying it will be difficult emotionally for us if our relationship and marriage is not accepted.


Mom's Point of View
The first reason my mom gave is that Hauwa is Igala while we are okun (i have introduced my mom to an Okun lady in the past she said our village doesnt marry from Yagba, I also introduced her to another youruba lady she said the lady parents are not together so she wont keep a home).
The second point my mom raised is that the lady is financially independent, makes money and drives a Jeep. (I have asked Hauwa about her financial status and I am convinced runs is not not her way cos she has elaborated on how she affords her lifestyle and its genuine).She also asked for the 4million she loaned me before I talk about marriage which I will. I asked her if she wants cash or a car and she said a benz. My plan is to get her an SUV before end of the year so i can focus on settling down next year. I am very lonely and tired of bachelor life. I want to settle down and start have kids not sleeping around like a fuckboy.


Family point of view
My family is very educated and well travelled so i dont understand why this issue is coming up. I am already processing visa for Hauwa cos i cant keep breaking my heart by ending relationships at her command just to to make her happy. My dad is neutral but he wont want to offend his wife so he might try and reason with her. My sisters have said they will support my chioce but I shouldnt complain if I make the wrong choice even tho my mom will try to convince my siblings not to give me any kind of emotional support.


My Question
What are the repercussions of going ahead with the marriage plans?? Has any man successfully gone against their moms wish and turned out happy??


NB: No one can change my moms mind, not my dad, not pastor, not her sister. on one because she will convince them she is right and tell them I am lying, that she has never rejected anyone except this person.
Please I dont want to give the impression that my mom is a bad person cos she has trained me in the right path and I have never lacked because of her. She is also very supportive and has provided everything and more at all times for all her children.

Please be kind to us cos im sending the link to Hauwa to read matured peoples opinion.

Cheers

Pure selfishness on her part.

Why will I train him and another woman will come and reap the benefits of my efforts ?

She is just wasting your time.

You will continue like that till 10 years if you don't wake up

johndan103:



Thanks for your advise.


I will be more firm and stand up to my mom protecting my fiancee and future wife. I have tried to be respectful to my mom but she is interpreted as weakness. I wont allow anyone put my Fiancee down phycologically cos she is a nice person and deserves to be treated right.


Please dont ask Hauwa to reconsider, dont scare my baby. I will intensify efforts with different strategies to get my mom to order. Shes making our lovely family appear disfunctional, and it saddens me.

If you are not careful, your mother will wreck you emotionally.

She will start telling people that you want to marry a harlot

That you are a fool and a stupid son. She will put up every fake story to paint you black.

Check it, your father doesn't have opinions anymore even when he is still alive and his son wants to marry.

Chi59:


Op reported your post? Why na. You have a point. How long can he hide his wife from his mom?

he said he didn't. I don't know who did cos the post disappeared and I couldn't comment on this thread again till today. Anyways I wish them luck. Na my own I talk

breadplanets:
he said he didn't. I don't know who did cos the post disappeared and I couldn't comment on this thread again till today. Anyways I wish them luck. Na my own I talk

Yes o. You've said your own.

healthserve:



You've been selective with your comments. Not as regular as in the early days. Hope you've been good

LOL,I've been good thanks for asking.

johndan103:


Thanks... I hope she will listen tho

Well I think your mum is selfish and self-centered... But I think what caused it is inferiority complex, she think you marrying someone you love will diminished the love you have for her and she did not want that.

My one cent...

Have a deep heart to heart talk with her that you will never replace her place in your heart with anyone else no matter whom the person is...
Make her know that the love you have for her is distinctively different from the one you have for the one you want to marry and one can not influence nor have effect on the other....

Also let your Hauwa prove that she will take good care of your mom.....

Last last I wish you the very best and pray you didn't make the wrong choice....


Shalom

StVirtue:

You made a very poor reservation here. you should learn to give comprehensive details of your thoughts for a good discourse.

Hian!Sorry o

pocohantas:
E remain make you type reference and appreciation, it'll become a fullblown final year project.

Maybe it is this your grammar that is making her refuse. She is probably not understanding you and your choices.

lmao ....the emboldened is just so funny and I actually thought it was a project work..

dude should seek counsel amongst family elders

most African child were brainwashed with this fact that mothers can do and undo as long as they are mothers, forgetting the fact that these same mother's were warned not to provoke their children to anger.Your type will eventually create problems for whoever you end up with as a wife since you are not bold enough to make decision and stand by it.

People often misunderstand the concept of love. Love is never conditional. Your mum doesn't love you. She loves herself. She's sickly selfish. You must find a way to detach from her else she'd ruin you and blame your innocent wife for it. If you know you want eternal peace, never settle in the same country as your mother. If I were your gf, I'd quit the relationship and take to my heels without looking back. Mother in.law palava is my greatest fear in life. I would bolt once I perceive the slightest threat.

nairalandposter:


You're still sticking to your fake story?

I dropped a comment as well but yes, some things just don't add up.

"she loaned you 4million naira which she has asked for. You intend refunding her money by buying her a SUV for her birthday?"

"Op says he's well travelled but his grammar doesn't look the part. The effort he put in stringing his words together is obvious as hell". Lol.

johndan103:


Why should Hauwa run when we both love each other? Will you give her another husband after she runs? No relationship is free from complications. If she runs now for how long will she continue running from all challenges?

@ d bolded: Same thing Samson would've said when he was asked to flee from delilah until they removed his 2 (obstinate) aiz with red-hot iron!

Forget all ds motivational BS o, we are talking reality here. If u are an omo mummy and d same 'mummy' doesn't dig ur wife, d chances of such marriage crumbling is high Its only u that can save such marriage and it will involve urself breaking m free from d clutch ur mum has over u.

She'll definitely want to manipulate u/ur marriage and trust me, women want their space(s)- including your (intended) wife. Twenty (20) men can live in a room without rancour, but its rare for just two (2) women to share d same space without commotion.

Your wife too has her own latent 'craze' and when push comes to sholve, in order to protect her 'space', she'll put up a resistance - directly or otherwise- and there'll be that inevitable showdown BTW d 2 of them. Then, u'll still come back to nairaland to open other threads about "how my wife fought my mother last night".

The girl(s) u bring are not d issue, ur mother is, and not until u r ready to 'stand ur ground' as a man, having a successful marriage may just be a mirage (I pray not).

Hi, I disliked your comment initially and it looked like you were attacking me. But it turns out you were the only right person in over 24,000 views. I have learnt from this experience not to post one's personal life online or expect to get the best answer. majority might be wrong.

Hauwa and I have gone our seperate ways. We are on good terms I hope. The good thing about the breakup is that my mom didnt play any role in it. Her influence didnt even affect the seperation.

What let to the seperation is that I found out that Hauwa likes girls too. Yeah you read that right. Well I cant deal with a woman who swings both ways.

I dont want to assasinate her character cos she's a nice person inherently but i cant deal with Lesbianism. I guess independent women are prone to such feelings. I had to move on unfortunately.

As for my mom, I have introduced someone else to her and she loves the lady to the moon and back My sisters love her too. The lady family love my family and I too. I am happy and everyone is happy.

I really loved her but love alone doesnt sustain a relationship. I hope she finds a man that can deal with a Lesbian. And I'm sorry I couldnt deal.

I didnt want to bring up this issue again because I got a lot of backlash when it went viral, even tried deleting the post, but I couldnt. I am now replying you cos you are the only person who saw the future and gave the accurate advice amongts thousands of people who viewed the post.

I feel I am now on the right path with the right person and we are getting all the support that an intending couple should get

Thank you.

Noblefirstlady:
Hauwa my igala sister, please if you are reading this comment never you marry this guy. I'm sorry Op this is the best advice for her.

Hauwa will have a hard time if she decides to marry you, because your mom will be controlling your home from wherever she is.

Op you are a mummy's boy and one day you will be forced to leave Hauwa and take your mum's side.

Anytime you do something wrong, your mum will blame it on Hauwa. It may even turn spiritual las Las.

Please Mr poster if you really love Hauwa, let her go. Save her the trouble, your mom will never accept her no matter how hard she try to be a good daughter in-law. Even your siblings will soon join your mum to fight Hauwa.

Please ladies if you are entering a family that do not like you, do not force it, run for your dear life.
Never ever think they will grow to like you one-day. some may even pretend to like you at first and become something else once you are finally married. So please if you sense any form of rejection just run away.

I'm talking from experience.

I wonder why this complaints and question asking, so your mom decides for you Wat you want or not? Is your life no body decides for her who she marry,abeg leave her and face your life otherwise you'll enter into troubles and she will not be there to rescue u.

johndan103:
Background
I am 28 years old (will be 29 on the 18th Oct) and I am ready to go the family way. I have a lovely girlfirend lets call her Hauwa, she is 28 too (will be 29 March next year) and is emotionally matured and ready to settle down too, but the problem is my mom.


Statement of Problem
My mom gets irritated when I tell her i am ready to marry. She keeps hoping i dont get married soon saying i am ungrateful for all the care she has shown me. I have a Job and i have promised to do what I should do. But she said i must not marry the person i love. She has rejected every lady I have brought home. In fact she has never approved any relationship I have ever been in. Every lady i date is either a prostitute or a low life according to her.


More Details
She wants to match make for me. She is always talking about her friends daughters, so last year i tried to reason with her and allowed her to send me her choice (this was before my present relationship).
She sent the lady's number and i contacted the lady. Very rude lady who thinks being a medical student is the best thing that has happened since sliced bread. We didnt gel at all cos i feel she's too slow and not my type of woman, she also wasnt digging the match making thingy. The lady eventually told me she is in another relationship and i felt relieved. I told my mom and she said theres another medical student (daughter of another friend) of hers.



My Point of View
I am tired of her trying to match make me with her own opinion of the best choice for me. I love this lady I presently am dating to the moon and I cant see myself leaving a matured, humble and independent woman for another slowpoke i dont even know.

My mom has said if i go ahead I wont have her blessings in the marriage and that i have been jazed. I used to think moms will be happy that their son wants to start a family but mine has made it harder for me. I know parents want the best for their children but this is a tall oder for me.


Hauwa's Point of View
Hauwa is already feeling rejected about the whole saga and has asked me to keep peace with my mom. She says she undestands moms are protective. She handeled it well with maturity. I delibratelty asked her to visit my mom from the begining of the relationship so that they can familiarize with themselves but my mom wont accept her. Hauwa is saying it will be difficult emotionally for us if our relationship and marriage is not accepted.


Mom's Point of View
The first reason my mom gave is that Hauwa is Igala while we are okun (i have introduced my mom to an Okun lady in the past she said our village doesnt marry from Yagba, I also introduced her to another youruba lady she said the lady parents are not together so she wont keep a home).
The second point my mom raised is that the lady is financially independent, makes money and drives a Jeep. (I have asked Hauwa about her financial status and I am convinced runs is not not her way cos she has elaborated on how she affords her lifestyle and its genuine).She also asked for the 4million she loaned me before I talk about marriage which I will. I asked her if she wants cash or a car and she said a benz. My plan is to get her an SUV before end of the year so i can focus on settling down next year. I am very lonely and tired of bachelor life. I want to settle down and start have kids not sleeping around like a fuckboy.


Family point of view
My family is very educated and well travelled so i dont understand why this issue is coming up. I am already processing visa for Hauwa cos i cant keep breaking my heart by ending relationships at her command just to to make her happy. My dad is neutral but he wont want to offend his wife so he might try and reason with her. My sisters have said they will support my chioce but I shouldnt complain if I make the wrong choice even tho my mom will try to convince my siblings not to give me any kind of emotional support.


My Question
What are the repercussions of going ahead with the marriage plans?? Has any man successfully gone against their moms wish and turned out happy??


NB: No one can change my moms mind, not my dad, not pastor, not her sister. on one because she will convince them she is right and tell them I am lying, that she has never rejected anyone except this person.
Please I dont want to give the impression that my mom is a bad person cos she has trained me in the right path and I have never lacked because of her. She is also very supportive and has provided everything and more at all times for all her children.

Please be kind to us cos im sending the link to Hauwa to read matured peoples opinion.

Cheers

You can use prayers to bind your mum from turning down your girlfriend whom you intend marrying

Meanwhile, your mum wants you to present a medical doctor to her as your wife to be not any other occupation

She is not even concerned about where your heart is but she is more concerned about her interest

Keep your relationship with Hauwa time will tell and if she becomes pregnant in the process, keep it one day your mum will give up and you will have your woman after all

johndan103:
Background
I am 28 years old (will be 29 on the 18th Oct) and I am ready to go the family way. I have a lovely girlfirend lets call her Hauwa, she is 28 too (will be 29 March next year) and is emotionally matured and ready to settle down too, but the problem is my mom.


Statement of Problem
My mom gets irritated when I tell her i am ready to marry. She keeps hoping i dont get married soon saying i am ungrateful for all the care she has shown me. I have a Job and i have promised to do what I should do. But she said i must not marry the person i love. She has rejected every lady I have brought home. In fact she has never approved any relationship I have ever been in. Every lady i date is either a prostitute or a low life according to her.


More Details
She wants to match make for me. She is always talking about her friends daughters, so last year i tried to reason with her and allowed her to send me her choice (this was before my present relationship).
She sent the lady's number and i contacted the lady. Very rude lady who thinks being a medical student is the best thing that has happened since sliced bread. We didnt gel at all cos i feel she's too slow and not my type of woman, she also wasnt digging the match making thingy. The lady eventually told me she is in another relationship and i felt relieved. I told my mom and she said theres another medical student (daughter of another friend) of hers.



My Point of View
I am tired of her trying to match make me with her own opinion of the best choice for me. I love this lady I presently am dating to the moon and I cant see myself leaving a matured, humble and independent woman for another slowpoke i dont even know.

My mom has said if i go ahead I wont have her blessings in the marriage and that i have been jazed. I used to think moms will be happy that their son wants to start a family but mine has made it harder for me. I know parents want the best for their children but this is a tall oder for me.


Hauwa's Point of View
Hauwa is already feeling rejected about the whole saga and has asked me to keep peace with my mom. She says she undestands moms are protective. She handeled it well with maturity. I delibratelty asked her to visit my mom from the begining of the relationship so that they can familiarize with themselves but my mom wont accept her. Hauwa is saying it will be difficult emotionally for us if our relationship and marriage is not accepted.


Mom's Point of View
The first reason my mom gave is that Hauwa is Igala while we are okun (i have introduced my mom to an Okun lady in the past she said our village doesnt marry from Yagba, I also introduced her to another youruba lady she said the lady parents are not together so she wont keep a home).
The second point my mom raised is that the lady is financially independent, makes money and drives a Jeep. (I have asked Hauwa about her financial status and I am convinced runs is not not her way cos she has elaborated on how she affords her lifestyle and its genuine).She also asked for the 4million she loaned me before I talk about marriage which I will. I asked her if she wants cash or a car and she said a benz. My plan is to get her an SUV before end of the year so i can focus on settling down next year. I am very lonely and tired of bachelor life. I want to settle down and start have kids not sleeping around like a fuckboy.


Family point of view
My family is very educated and well travelled so i dont understand why this issue is coming up. I am already processing visa for Hauwa cos i cant keep breaking my heart by ending relationships at her command just to to make her happy. My dad is neutral but he wont want to offend his wife so he might try and reason with her. My sisters have said they will support my chioce but I shouldnt complain if I make the wrong choice even tho my mom will try to convince my siblings not to give me any kind of emotional support.


My Question
What are the repercussions of going ahead with the marriage plans?? Has any man successfully gone against their moms wish and turned out happy??


NB: No one can change my moms mind, not my dad, not pastor, not her sister. on one because she will convince them she is right and tell them I am lying, that she has never rejected anyone except this person.
Please I dont want to give the impression that my mom is a bad person cos she has trained me in the right path and I have never lacked because of her. She is also very supportive and has provided everything and more at all times for all her children.

Please be kind to us cos im sending the link to Hauwa to read matured peoples opinion.

Cheers

You can use prayers to bind your mum from turning down your girlfriend whom you intend marrying

Meanwhile, your mum wants you to present a medical doctor to her as your wife to be not any other occupation

She is not even concerned about where your heart is but she is more concerned about her interest

Keep your relationship with Hauwa time will tell and if she becomes pregnant in the process, keep it one day your mum will give up and you will have your woman after all

kodix:
I wonder why this complaints and question asking, so your mom decides for you Wat you want or not? Is your life no body decides for her who she marry,abeg leave her and face your life otherwise you'll enter into troubles and she will not be there to rescue u.

It doesn't work like that, he has to trade with caution

Some mothers are something else's