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ubunja:
you only registerd your account the same day you made this comment and this is your first ever comment with this account. Who are you and what are you hiding?

Go back to your regular moniker and let's talk from that one. I only deal with genuine people.

KISSMEAGAIN:
putting up a flimsy excuse that doesn't add up.

Jodha:
Please we shouldn't be going in cycles with this...
It's not a shameful thing for a lady to love sex... it's only weird when she goes overboard...

Personally i never said I did...and yhu can't obviously manipulate me and put things I didn't type on my thumbs...
I only said said there's nothing wrong in a lady demanding sex from her husband...

Pls stop jumping into conclusions...yhu guys are very fond of that...

ubunja:
you are not meant to relate to what I have written. It's for women. Are you a woman?

Michellekabod2:
i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then.


The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage.

PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved

ubunja:
I said you love sex and you equated that to being a "sex maniac". What normal person equates loving sex to being a "sex maniac"??

Michellekabod2:
i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then.


The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage.

PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved

Ladylite:
Every relationship has its own language of communication.

So that is their business and not yours.

Everyone should learn to communicate as they understand each other

Jodha:
Yhu obviously insinuated it ...

ubunja:
you are Masculine. Ladies don't demand for sex. No matter how long they've been with a man. You need to reconnect with your femininity.

ubunja:
not really tho. But its okay no biggie. I meant no harm.

ubunja:
"men do it all the time". That's why you must never do it. Leave the chasing for the men.

Sex is your only leverage over a man. Always control it. Even when you want it, make it appear like the man is the one who wants it, as if you're doing him a favour. Even in marriage, Keep the chase alive. Its how you keep a man's attention.

sonmvayina:
My wife tried it, needless to say she regretted it.. She has to call me and beg me on 31 December to please don't have side chicks.. Now she is the one doing the asking.. Just to be sure, my attention is with her..

Kirinwa:
You got sexy eyes.

ubunja:
what happened exactly

sonmvayina:
Any time I asked, she says no no no, and I am the kind of guy that does not know how to beg.. I will not disturb her, for almost 2 weeks it went on, so I told her if she heard I have a side chick, she should not be jealous.. She said no..
So I met a nice uniben babe.. Who never minded I was married.
When my wife saw our chart she was upset.. So I told her, that she pushed me to do it.. She had to beg me to end it with her, I did. But it was difficult.. Her riding nah mind blowing..