neolboy:
Musicians who give us good lyrics are they mad?

Training up a child requires collective effort of both the parents and the society, and in our new world the effect of the society on a child is larger than that of the parents.

Until it happens to your child that's when you will know that marlians are bunch of crazy fellows.

If you are waiting for the world to be good to be good then you're definitely a bad person.

That's the defining quality of evil. Good is good regardless of its surroundings.

You probably think being good should be an easy job. Who said easy equals good.

This guy should be jailed for live he's disturbing our peace biko

OP I agree with you 100%
Can we blame Naira Marley for the high drug abuse in the North?
Or do they have gangster rappers that encourage teenage pregnancies and use of gum ?

The high rate of poverty is tearing the society apart, but only social scientists can see it.

kiyosaki1:


Am not but, I stand for the truth.

For you to call Naira Marley "an icon", you're not just a marlian, you're more depraved than that idiot is.

Na naira Marley say make your pickin go join cult abi na him say make she nor wear pant?

Some children will do what they'll do no matter how well you train them. As a parent you cannot follow your child or children everywhere they go. If you have honestly done your best to bring up your child in the best way and instill discipline in them, there's actually not much you can do.
Many of the teenagers always want to explore and they do this while their parents aren't around or watching . Some of them are perfect pretenders you'll never suspect anything. Why the children no emulate the Christian or Muslim musicians? It is not everything you must blame parents for. Sometimes the child must take responsibility for his/her action.

Foolish animals. Everything that will fundamentally save them is what they are brainwashed to hate. Dreadlock symbolises a state of true consciousness for a black man. A state of I and I being in charge of our destinies and not sulking up to oyinbos stinking assess. It does not mean you are crazy, foolish or dirty, rather it means you are different, compassionate, you know what you want,know how to go about it and very proud of it.

kiyosaki1:


Am not but, I stand for the truth.

There is nothing like truth here, from your comment,You are yet to be a parent

As a growing child,you were doing many things behind your parents. This era of mobile phone is destroying both adults and children, your phone will make you closer to people that are far from you and far from people closer to you. Many as cult members can be meeting through group chat,

dangotesmummy:
oga I am not a moral police.lets clear that first and even if the parent puts parental control for TV? Shey she go put parental control for parties in school or she go put parental control for music wey dey blast for streets.be realistic, musicians have a lot of influence over the youth than even pastors,imama or parents and one of the reasons the society has Lost it is because of musicians that ram ass,poosy,sex, drugs alcohol in our ears everyday not minding polluting the minds of kids.their songs penetrate everywhere even if you lock your kids at home all the time

For example how will broda no manners be singing "Omo naija fefidi pami" and you know 5year olds WIll hear stuffs like that

What is bad is bad,stop sugar coating it.NIGERIANS SHOULD ACCEPT AND ADMIT THEIR FAULT FOR JUST ONCE

it's because of abosi there's so much societal menace and decadence in Nigeria and all over the world

It baffles me when I see people trying to justify Marley and his bad influence on the youth, let them continue, in most cases, I always believe they don't understand what it takes to raise a good home and most of them have failed already, you may think it's fun, but by the time this movement comes back to hurt you or the family you have created or planning to establish, then your eyes will open.

kiyosaki1:


Am not but, I stand for the truth.

And what is the truth?
That music and society has no role to play in child upbringing?

Society is part of the agent of socialization.
Media is part as well, which includes musics, newspaper and magazines, etc.

Maybe her best was not good enough, from the way she spoke, it seems the girl didn't follow the teachings of her parents in the home.

kiyosaki1:


Am not but, I stand for the truth.

what stupid truth? Just limit the sharia matter to you and your people

The funny part is I've met this guy a couple of times in his house and the truth is Naira Marley's private life is totally different from what people think he is or sings.. this guy is one the most cool and calm headed guy in the industry but cos he moves with certain folks who are of course rough and all, people tend to generalize but then....what do I know

neolboy:
Musicians who give us good lyrics are they mad?

Training up a child requires collective effort of both the parents and the society, and in our new world the effect of the society on a child is larger than that of the parents.

Until it happens to your child that's when you will know that marlians are bunch of crazy fellows.

Don't mind the shallow-mind OP

kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .

Na because you no get pikin yet

kiyosaki1:


The good upbringing of our wards as parents depend solely on us,the society out there is evil ,and it's our responsibility as a parent to ensure that our children are well trained .We are to let them know of what is expected out there , and what is expected of them. Ounce they atevaware of whatbiscexpected of them, they will not be easily swayed by the evil ways in the evil world. The society comprises of various evil influences and when we do our duty as a parent no matter the influence out there they will not be easily swayed.

The society plays a major role on the character of children, Naira Marley is a bad influence in the society,take it that's the bitter truth

Op is probably still young, does not know how difficult it is to bring up a child, or is underrating societal influence and peer pressure on adolescents.

kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.

Uncle have you forgotten the saying "it takes a village to raise a child"

Even if you give a child the best home training trust me when it comes to peer pressure not everybody can withstand it

What truth do you stand for?

Am not but, I stand for the truth.[/quote]

kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.

Uncle have you forgotten the saying "it takes a village to raise a child"

Even if you give a child the best home training trust me when it comes to peer pressure not everybody can withstand it
My only problem with the parents is if you look at what the mother wrote or said there was no consideration of how the young lady was feeling or felt before she joined the cult everything revolved around the supposed disgrace to the parents which is not right.

Clazzone:


It baffles me when I see people trying to justify Marley and his bad influence on the youth, let them continue, in most cases, I always believe they don't understand what it takes to raise a good home and most of them have failed already, you may think it's fun, but by the time this movement comes back to hurt you or the family you have created or planning to establish, then your eyes will open.

exactly.how will you see a boy that is clearly a product of dysfunction and has self destructive habits himself coming out to sing and glorify crime,drugs and indiscriminate sex and people still celebrate someone that is suffering from internal crisis.no stable home,no love from people who should have mentored him (his parents) now he has become a social nuisance and some people think a tout who said having a big booty is better than masters degree is worth celebrating

Isn't he clearly portraying prostituting over hardwork?

Sommydisaster:


Sorry to quote you, but I want to ask which artist has influenced the youth?

Is it

tuface

Ill bliss?

MI?

My brother, the youth don't want to follow the trend those persons did set

Every youth wants to be young, wild and free

Meanwhile check out my signature and thread for beautiful offers on electronics

tuface has influenced the youth,sunny ade, Ebenezer obey, Orlando (of blessed memory.even in death),christien essien,onyeka onwenu ,kwam 1etc

As we have good artists,we also have the bad ones too

You even know that there is no nonsense in Sharia countries.
You steal you get your hand chop off, you rape and get death sentence, you carry concaine and get your head detach from your neck. Prevention is better than cure.
Saudi, Dubai, Kuwait, Qatar and other Sharia practising countriescountries in the middle east were less than Nigeria after independence. But that Sharia law quickly put them far ahead of us.....to hell with fake democracy that enriches the Rich and impoverished the poor.

kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NoeJdVcBzg

kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.

Inasmuch as I would also blame the mother it also shows how unfit these elements these musicians are.
What you don't understand is, if you have a society saturated with corrupt behavior it only takes the grace of God and as well as parents training to not get carried away.

People should not only blame the parents alone, bit what we see.If folks like Nairal Marley are any good they would stand as good mentors to those who listen to them.

The point is, the blame goes round .
Stop trying to subtly support immorality and decadence.

NOTE:
I know you will call me a moral police for "judging. " guess what mate, we all judge based on biases.
So, don't swear it.

kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.

The one question that has remained unanswered is reason why the girls go pantless on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Is it free sex days? I haven't seen anything wrong with not wearing pant. Perhaps, it culd be to feel more comfortable. If no one has answers to this, make una leave marlians with their pantless cult joor.

kiyosaki1:


Am not but, I stand for the truth.

And what is truth?

Zhanmek5000:

As said earlier even US has cardi b singing pussy pussy thousand of naira Marley singing drug and fraud and yet there are kids there who are in the good system and others in the street way !!i believe if anyone really wants something beyond that for their wards they can still have it

Their children turn out good based on what parameters?
Do you even know what is going in the streets in the UK and US?
or you think you are talking to fools?

Finding a virgin or a young adult who don't booze is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Oga, your resort to equate both societies is a clear case of false equivalence.

What is our priority here is way different from theirs.

kiyosaki1:


Are worse influence not in the western world ? Yet millions of children out there turn out good. This is due to the effort of the parents, part of ones duty as parents is to teach and imbibed in our children, what is expected of them in the society, so as not to be swayed by negative influence. Parents are not to expect the society to help train their wards

Morality wise they are way off, but productive wise they are good.
We are talking morality here not being productive.

This guy is so confused and does not even know how the society works.

.

dangotesmummy:
oga I am not a moral police.lets clear that first and even if the parent puts parental control for TV? Shey she go put parental control for parties in school or she go put parental control for music wey dey blast for streets.be realistic, musicians have a lot of influence over the youth than even pastors,imama or parents and one of the reasons the society has Lost it is because of musicians that ram ass,poosy,sex, drugs alcohol in our ears everyday not minding polluting the minds of kids.their songs penetrate everywhere even if you lock your kids at home all the time

For example how will broda no manners be singing "Omo naija fefidi pami" and you know 5year olds WIll hear stuffs like that

What is bad is bad,stop sugar coating it.NIGERIANS SHOULD ACCEPT AND ADMIT THEIR FAULT FOR JUST ONCE

it's because of abosi there's so much societal menace and decadence in Nigeria and all over the world

Don't listen to that oversabi
I can bet that this guy does not have a kid that's why he is so loud.
If he understands what he takes to train a kid he will understand these issues are more than the just ranting like an headless chicken.

Pafexin:


The one question that has remained unanswered is reason why the girls go pantless on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Is it free sex days? I haven't seen anything wrong with not wearing pant. Perhaps, it culd be to feel more comfortable. If no one has answers to this, make una leave marlians with their pantless cult joor.

I think we have more people in here who have actually lost it.

I guess you would allow your sister, wife(if you are married) or even mother to go pantless since its cool?
How about that?

neolboy:
Musicians who give us good lyrics are they mad?

Training up a child requires collective effort of both the parents and the society, and in our new world the effect of the society on a child is larger than that of the parents.

Until it happens to your child that's when you will know that marlians are bunch of crazy fellows.

U're a genius mate.. I'd like this comment a thousand times if I could ....