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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by IghravweIG(m): 6:06pm On Jan 13, 2020
I think the mother should be partly blamed too.

Common, Naira, is just one fish in a gigantic ocean compromising of fishes.
Will she now hold another musician liable and then another and then the next, for every degrading behavior her daughter exhibit?

She is as much to blame for her daughter's illicit behavior as is her blame to Naira.

She should rule her home better.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by safarigirl(f): 6:06pm On Jan 13, 2020
PassingShot:

But most Nairalanders are proving it so.

This OP cannot be older than 17, that is the period when stupidity takes root and is fuelled by youthful exuberance.

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by grandstar(m): 6:07pm On Jan 13, 2020
Which bad upbringing? The bloom of youth is a very terrible time when bringing up a child. Many stray despite the best efforts.

After the bloom, many come back to their senses.

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by AuroraB(f): 6:07pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .
Was the child this way before now?

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Rubbiish(m): 6:07pm On Jan 13, 2020
dangotesmummy:
Marley is at fault

He's an entertainer and he knows majority of his fans are young ones so he should use his power over the minds of the youth to instill positive values instead of sex and drugs but unfortunately look what we have

After all the mother banned Marley songs in her house,she go ban am for her school or streets again?
Wetin Marley do u?
This is 2020 u can't continue like this!
How is Marley responsible for the waywardness of one girl he doesn't even know who choose to be wayward? Is she the only girl in that school? Are u saying there are no good girls in that same school? The girl no good & it got nothing to do with Marley. Your circle of friends bespeaks the kind of person u are. If she was very decent & morally upright, those her bad friends wouldn't come near her.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by TRUSTEDGUY: 6:07pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .

When it comes to parenting you really need God because the influence of peer pressure in most cases is stronger than that of the parents. No matter how close you are to your kids there are things he/she will hide from you and this is where the problem is. Do you think all wayward children where not given proper training? How come some children from wayward parents still come out responsible? I rest my case.

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by OgogoroFreak(m): 6:09pm On Jan 13, 2020
neolboy:
Musicians who give us good lyrics are they mad?

Until it happens to your child that's when you will know that marlians are bunch of crazy fellows
They are not mad. They are only not popular and end up broke then kicked out of the industry by nature.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Cataclysmic: 6:09pm On Jan 13, 2020
Hey God!!! They've punished Nairalanders with super stories from Tonto Dike, Bobrisky, Regina Daniels, and Tacha. Now it's Naira Marley's turn to "punish" us... angry

Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by tammie24: 6:12pm On Jan 13, 2020
She didn't put the blame on naira Marley

She blames her daughter for everything
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by nedekid: 6:12pm On Jan 13, 2020
safarigirl:
being below 25 is not an automatic ticket to stupidity.
No it is not an automatic ticket to stupidity. But someone of that age group probably might not be armed with enough life experience to give certain advice on
matters such as the post in question.
You see a lot giving marriage advice yet they are not married or in early years of marriage.
How can one give advice on a 15 year old child if your child is 5?

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by generalwo(m): 6:14pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.
........ Don't be bias..... Kids learn more from what they see and not what they are told to do...... Whether u like it or not..... Naira Marley is a bad influence on kids....... For heaven's sake...... All these guys should be role models.........smoking weed..... Promoting masturbation and all that sorts.....what positive effect does it have on the kids who are the future of tomorrow?
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Drakkernoir: 6:14pm On Jan 13, 2020
Silly post

Environment is responsible for at least 70% of a child's upbringing..

Eg the white world and the black world

A 2 yr old kid that shouts "up NEPA" in a country like Nigeria when they bring light....is this the fault of the parents or environment?

A child's most important part of life are the secondary school years

Peer pressure is most rampart during these years
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 13, 2020
Sometimes parents got no say. Stiff and strict upbringing could be a factor to teenage revolt.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Legalcriminal: 6:16pm On Jan 13, 2020
Hit like button if you’re Muslimalian
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Greenarrow01(m): 6:19pm On Jan 13, 2020
This op is a poor fool.
Who is just a 17 year old kid behind a computer.
Do you know what peer pressure is.

A child upbringing is directly influenced by his parent, his environment and lastly his nature.

So long a kid is not wearing pants or whatever in solidarity with a person or celebrity.
That person has influenced the kids.

Someone sings about pussy, drug and stealing in the name of yahoo and you are here talking bullshit.

The mumu guy is even saying a patent can choose to buy an internet enabled phone for his kid or not
He can choose to password TV for his kid or not.
When you have teenagers your head will boot

Mumu is indirectly saying that if you don't buy internet enabled phones and do password your Dstv your child will turn out good.
This shows he knows nothing about parenting.
Kids wants to research what you re keeping away from them. So you can't deny them of phones.

My parents were perfect parents. Discussed and laughed with us for hours daily, trained us to be good kids
4 out of 5 turned out good.
The last one is busy going from street to street forming no belt gang.
He has steals, we have taken him to SARS to ve tortured several times
We have adviced and done everything possible
Dad prays like mad for him
But when you look at his Whatsapp status daily.. It marlians



Just in case you don't know
Kids from northern Nigeria are way more morally upright than kids in the southern part.
Why
The society there shuns all these things
I have vowed to raise my kids in northern Nigeria.
I am not saying they are perfect
But 8 out of 10 hausa girls are morally upright
5 out of 10 hausa boys are morally upright

You dare not promote prostitution, masturvation, drugs or even any illicit activity in northern Nigeria
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by AmazingELixir: 6:23pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.




undecided undecided undecided

Op something must be fundamentally wrong with you for ascribing that junkie and societal misfit an icon.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by WeRblessed(f): 6:30pm On Jan 13, 2020
[quote author=kiyosaki1 post=85743373]I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.
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Sometimes I just don't understand what is wrong with some people. How could you generalize with the fact that this mother should be blamed for poorly bringing up her child? Do you know her personally? Do you know how and what she and her husband are doing to raise their children?

A mother who did not bring up her child well would not care if that child is in school or not. Did you read when she mentioned that the said daughter of hers is a born again Christian, raised in the family that fears the Lord? How dare you judge her for the mistake of her child, that was lured into stupidity due to peer pressure?

If I were you, I would delete this your useless tread and apologize to this woman.

people like you are the reasons why parents go into depression thinking that they failed as parents, meanwhile they did all they could both spiritually, socially, financially, and morally raising their children.

Please delete this useless tread of yours.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by MrAcube(m): 6:34pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.


U really made a great point. I agree d mother deserves serious repremand for trying to ignore her failure as a parent. Charity, they say, begins at home. Train ur child/ward to have rest of mind in d future
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by ZZ22: 6:39pm On Jan 13, 2020
The mother is just trying to save face by bringing the issue on social media. Don't blame Naira Marley for the waywardness of your child, there are many that listen to Naira Marley and after everything is just the song and the beat without letting the song have influence on them. Many artist greater and better than Naira Marley have sang songs on bank robbery, killings, fast life and so many ills but nobody points at them as the reason why people misbehave. You can't blame pornstars when the kids you strictly trained with no sex before marriage watch pornography and start having sex like dogs. The chose that life the artist didn't choose for them

I don't like Naira Marley
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by SamgoldBaba: 6:40pm On Jan 13, 2020
A lot has been said which I find reasonable
The said parent or any other should speak to their children teach them the kind on morals they want guide them in whatever they are exposed to (music, schools etc.) Listen to their views on diverse things in society so as to correct in love if the need be. And pray for them as well.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by OlawaleBammie: 6:41pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .

Pls wait! u don bon pikin??
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Alanwalker(m): 6:43pm On Jan 13, 2020
so it's.... simple we equally blame yours for allowing u to write this ....

Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by jossydee1: 6:44pm On Jan 13, 2020
I can see how much you have lost your sense of judgement all in the name of MALIAN.

Music is a great language that the whole world 'speaks (consciously or unconsciously) and it has great influence on the society (music shapes the culture).

Naira Marley's music is a bad influence on our society.


There is something called societal influence ; sometimes it overrides the good upbringing of a child when the child gets exposed to it very early in life.

Let's call a spade what it is; Naira Marley is promoting decadent in the society.



kiyosaki1:
I read: My Daughter Is In Marlians Cult And She Doesn't Wear Pant To School - Mother Cries Out https://www.nairaland.com/5627708/marlians-cult-daughter-doesnt-wear with dismay various comments and solidarity given to the fail mother, who failed in her parenting duty, ascribing the failure in her duty as a mother to the influence of Naira Marely. The same way our politicians ascribe the failure in the governance to past administration. We can all see where she picked up her bulk passing behaviour.

There are many ills in our society that are going on, and which the children can easily pick up from the social media, the various cable TV, the peer group and so forth, brimming with ills.

These teenagers have access to them and can influence them when making choices, but it's the duty of parents to teach their wards what norms and values expected of them.

In the western world that's even worse, we had kids that are well behave and are not influenced by the ill of the society. So for a mother to come out to ascribe her child's negative behaviour to a person or celebrity is exposing to the whole world her failure in her duty. I expected her to be reprimanded and not the icon.

The last time I checked, Nigeria is still a free society, and not a sharia governed society, and for those reprimanding the Marlians, may be we should call for a full blown sharia in all state in the country, so our kids can be well behaved so much for the moral police bunch of hypocrites.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Realfrankie(m): 6:46pm On Jan 13, 2020
Bad influence grin

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Okemmuo2: 6:47pm On Jan 13, 2020
budaatum:
Lazy fuqs!

They give up responsibility and say "na bubu"!
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Adakintroy2: 6:51pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .


Calm down Marly is a bad influence face him with courage. The parents are burden these days. Pressured on all side., work, rent, family commitments food, health...name it. Government is not even helping. They can't so it all. Everything needs there attention..society must be honest enough to help. Marly himself would want his son to be a doctor or someone responsible. Why make other parents think.

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Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:53pm On Jan 13, 2020
where is the girl's pix?
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Adakintroy2: 6:54pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .


Calm down Marly is a bad influence face him with courage. The parents are burden these days. Pressured on all side., work, rent, family commitments food, health...name it. Government is not even helping. They can't do it all. Everything needs there attention..society must be honest enough to help. Marly himself would want his son to be a doctor or someone responsible. Why make other parents think.

He can do music the right way with right content. He choosed the wrong way. We are what we are in this world.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Alanwalker(m): 6:55pm On Jan 13, 2020
Your very stupid and foolish to write this ,
So to u naira Marley should not be blamed but poor parents are trying to make ends meet in this ridiculous economy lead by buhari,don't worry I pray your future child becomes a marlian .
PS: how this trash made FP is what amused me .

Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Adakintroy2: 6:56pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .


Calm down Marly is a bad influence face him with courage. The parents are burden these days. Pressured on all side., work, rent, family commitments food, health name it. Am not making a cade for them in term of bad parenting, am saying they already have enough on there plate.

Government is not even helping. They can't do it all. Everything needs there attention..society must be honest enough to help. Marly himself would want his son to be a doctor or someone responsible. Why make other parents think.

He can do music the right way with right content. He choosed the wrong way. We are what we are in this world.
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by olutop(m): 7:01pm On Jan 13, 2020
kiyosaki1:


One of the expected characteristics of a good parent, is to be able to inculcate good morals on their wards, no matter the circumstances.

Our children always look up to us parent as a role model first of all , copy our behaviour, before an outsider can influence them. If the children noticed any inconsistent in our behaviour ,they tend to lose their trust in us,and so they look outside for help.
There are so many parents that had no time for the children because of work demand ,in such cases they yielded to outside influence, in any way you might look at it ,the girl in questioned is a product of failed parenthood .
Haaa....Talk is very very cheap,No matter how you train your child, and how upright you are as a Mum or Dad, The Environment still has a greater influence on the development of the child than the parents, Parents should do there best and always gist with there children just like the kids gist with there peers, make the kids trust them pray and hope for the best...
Re: Marlians Cult: The Mother Should Be Blamed For Poor Upbringing, Not Naira Marley by Fivepercent: 7:02pm On Jan 13, 2020
OP obviously doesn't have kids...if you do you'd realise how overwhelming peer pressure can be and how only by God's mercies (s)he found out about their daughter's misdeeds on time and came to warn the public but all y'all do is blame the guardians and not the source...*smh

Responsibility doesn't mean you wont make mistakes, it just means you own up to it....which what that brave parent came out to do...please say NO to what is wrong to our younglings....They deserve the chance to grow up uninfluenced until they can make decisions on their own..

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