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Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by majorbravo: 7:11pm On Jan 14, 2020
Some rules to help young men live happier with the female folk.

1 - Do not date a girl who is quick to say I love you. Reason: it's either love means nothing to her or she doesn't really know what it means, or doesnt care, such a girl is the equivalent of a guy who would lie about imaginary things he owns and profess love at first sight to get into a girls pants. In your case, she wants access to your bank account, when she eventually realises there is nothing in it, she would hate you with passion. Such behaviour is a clear sign of a siren: sweet from a distance, but deadly at close proximity.

2 - Do not date any girl who only wants long distance relationship LDR (Unless she is a confirmed virgin): Women are highly emotional creatures, they like to connect with their loved ones in person, while they may say things that sound exciting to you at the moment, most of it is just as a result of their emotional state at that point in time, take such statements seriously at your own risk. Unless she is a virgin, when she is lonely or Hot, your money and soothing words on the phone will do you no favours, same way women can hardly hold themselves when they want to urinate is the same way they wont be able to resist a charming guy closeby who ticks all the boxes in their list at such moments. When the heat is on, trust me, the nearest guy that shows love and attention to her is getting it. Most perpetual long distance daters (female and male) prefer LDR cos it allows them to maintain multiple partners without the complications of them running into each other. In other words, most long distance daters are cheats, especially if they are very much sexually active.

3 - Do not date anyone until you are ready to marry: Yes, stay away from relationships until you are financially stable and ready to raise a family. A woman would be more likely to be faithful and ignore other men, not when you promise to marry her in the future, but when she sees you are consciously making preparations to meet her people. Any girl you date when you are not ready is only managing you till a serious man comes along.

4 - Never date an easy lay: Many will disagree with me on this, but if you are the extremely jealous kind and want peace of mind, stay away from girls who fall easily for your advances at the early stages before you even have had a chance to date properly. A girl who would lie to her parents and sneak out to spend the night with you at your house or in a hotel wasn't well raised. Such streak of stealth and rebellious attitude will poison your relationship eventually in the future. As soon as you are in a relationship with such a lady, she would do the same and tell lies to you when an exciting guy comes along with such a proposition just so she can feel that excitement of disobedience.

5 - Never date a cheat: A girl who tells you she has a boyfriend but still chooses to hang out with you while giving silly excuses like: Oh he is out of town or Oh I'm just managing him, I dont really love him, is gonna do same to you someday when a guy better than you comes along. If she doesnt really love him, why the heck is she still with him? Why didnt she break up with him before coming for you? When you date such a woman, she will say same about you to the new perp she'll be cheating on you with.

A word is enough for the .....

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jan 14, 2020
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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 14, 2020
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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Reichel99(f): 8:31pm On Jan 14, 2020
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 14, 2020
Nor de carry woman for head ooo.
E hard to do, Na why me still de get High B.P over small issues with my Babe.

I'll die young, ba?
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by SmithRussell(m): 10:48pm On Jan 14, 2020
Hmmmm... Nice point.. Especially that number 4
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by SmithRussell(m): 10:54pm On Jan 14, 2020
Reichel99:
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.
1. Not just guys, humans in general - it's either it's too much or it's not enough.
2. You shall never know grin ... The feeling is heavenly.
3. True.
4. The fact that you steal doesn't mean that you shouldn't be careful with thieves, they can be far worse than you are and can even steal from you too.
5. cheesy

@Signature: 1 + 1 = 10 cool
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by EjaikreTheViper(f): 10:54pm On Jan 14, 2020
see correct thread o
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Reichel99(f): 10:57pm On Jan 14, 2020
SmithRussell:

1. Not just guys, humans in general - it's either it's too much or it's not enough.
2. You shall never know grin ... The feeling is heavenly.
3. True.
4. The fact that you steal doesn't mean that you shouldn't be careful with thieves, they can be far worse than you are and can even steal from you too.
5. cheesy

@Signature: 1 + 1 = 10 cool
Yeah. I just made my signature the opposite.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Shekochild: 11:02pm On Jan 14, 2020
Reichel99:
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.

I am 28 and still a virgin on purpose. If I can keep myself chaste thus far as male. I see no reason why girls can't?

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Shekochild: 11:02pm On Jan 14, 2020
Reichel99:
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.

I am 28 and still a virgin on purpose. If I can keep myself chaste thus far as male. I see no reason why girls can't...
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by majorbravo: 11:16pm On Jan 14, 2020
Reichel99:
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.

Interesting points of view young lady (I assume the 99 on your moniker stands for something age related). 1. there's nothing wrong with a lady saying I love you, but if she throws it about without even really getting to know the guy, its a red flag, init? cos she's probably done the same to more than just him. 2. not every guy goes about looking for virgins to deflower, some really desire true connection. 3. There's a thin line between aiming for something and being prepared for it. 4. easy lays from whatever gender are both culpable, a girl eager to get in the sack when you just met or a guy asking for nudes online are 2 sides of a coin. 5. Self explanatory.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by SmithRussell(m): 6:53am On Jan 15, 2020
Reichel99:
Yeah. I just made my signature the opposite.
I don't grab.. 1+1 = 2 = 10... How did you get 11?
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Deandean: 8:42am On Jan 15, 2020
Shekochild:


I am 28 and still a virgin on purpose. If I can keep myself chaste thus far as male. I see no reason why girls can't?
Sharap! its not the same thing ....a virgin female deserves far more respect...at 28,she would have dodged 1,575,975 free dicks.a guy's virginity is mostly lack of opportunity..a girl's virginity is PRICELESS CHARACTER!!
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Shekochild: 9:35am On Jan 15, 2020
Deandean:

Sharap! its not the same thing ....a virgin female deserves far more respect...at 28,she would have dodged 1,575,975 free dicks.a guy's virginity is mostly lack of opportunity..a girl's virginity is PRICELESS CHARACTER!!
Dude, who told you that it is mostly lack of opportunity. The numbers of opportunity I have had are countless. In fact, I have experience both subtle and overt seduction, but I ignore the girls because I don't want premarital sex. I know you'll find it hard to believe because such kind of self control in this generation is hard to come by. Man, believe you me, if you've truly experience the indwelling power of the holy spirit, you won't find premarital sex interesting... The love for Jesus will consume any form of sexual immorality in your life...

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Deandean: 10:00am On Jan 15, 2020
Shekochild:

Dude, who told you that it is mostly lack of opportunity. The numbers of opportunity I have had are countless. In fact, I have experience both subtle and overt seduction, but I ignore the girls because I don't want premarital sex. I know you'll find it hard to believe because such kind of self control in this generation is hard to come by. Man, believe you me, if you've truly experience the indwelling power of the holy spirit, you won't find premarital sex interesting... The love for Jesus will consume any form of sexual immorality in your life...
Just gerraraiea already....if u get 1/100 the advances an ugly gal gets,ul b a jigolo in a month...i recognize ur effort to stay a virgin,but its not the same mhen...just respect a virgin gal please
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Lightangel65: 10:28am On Jan 15, 2020
Reichel99:
1. If the girl didn't say I love you, guys will say her shakara is too much, na only money girls like.

2. Why guys are obsessed with virginity when most are not virgin themselves, the girls you guys disflowered who will marry them?

3. That should be the aim of every relationship.

4. How do you know she is an easy lay if you didn't try to lay with her? If you tried, then both of you are easy lays, don't blame only her.

5. Good point.

The deflowered girls should full Shiloh
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Lightangel65: 10:28am On Jan 15, 2020
Shekochild:


I am 28 and still a virgin on purpose. If I can keep myself chaste thus far as male. I see no reason why girls can't?

Chop knuckle.
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Lightangel65: 10:31am On Jan 15, 2020
Deandean:

Sharap! its not the same thing ....a virgin female deserves far more respect...at 28,she would have dodged 1,575,975 free dicks.a guy's virginity is mostly lack of opportunity..a girl's virginity is PRICELESS CHARACTER!!

Are u ok, a virgin male deserves x10 more respect. Males have tons loads of libido, why women don't, at 28 still a virgin you deserve a hand shake, while disvirgined females deserve dustbin.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Deandean: 10:43am On Jan 15, 2020
Lightangel65:


Are u ok, a virgin male deserves x10 more respect. Males have tons loads of libido, why women don't, at 28 still a virgin you deserve a hand shake, while disvirgined females deserve dustbin.

Lollll....Ode,just check ur sister's Facebook messenger b4 i continue with u.
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Lightangel65: 10:47am On Jan 15, 2020
Deandean:


Lollll....Ode,just check ur sister's Facebook messenger b4 i continue with u.

The fact your sister is a LovePeddler with pussy that is wider than a well doesn't mean, it's ok for ladies to be sluts.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Deandean: 10:50am On Jan 15, 2020
majorbravo:
Some rules to help young men live happier with the female folk.

1 - Do not date a girl who is quick to say I love you. Reason: it's either love means nothing to her or she doesn't really know what it means, or doesnt care, such a girl is the equivalent of a guy who would lie about imaginary things he owns and profess love at first sight to get into a girls pants. In your case, she wants access to your bank account, when she eventually realises there is nothing in it, she would hate you with passion. Such behaviour is a clear sign of a siren: sweet from a distance, but deadly at close proximity.

2 - Do not date any girl who only wants long distance relationship LDR (Unless she is a confirmed virgin): Women are highly emotional creatures, they like to connect with their loved ones in person, while they may say things that sound exciting to you at the moment, most of it is just as a result of their emotional state at that point in time, take such statements seriously at your own risk. Unless she is a virgin, when she is lonely or Hot, your money and soothing words on the phone will do you no favours, same way women can hardly hold themselves when they want to urinate is the same way they wont be able to resist a charming guy closeby who ticks all the boxes in their list at such moments. When the heat is on, trust me, the nearest guy that shows love and attention to her is getting it. Most perpetual long distance daters (female and male) prefer LDR cos it allows them to maintain multiple partners without the complications of them running into each other. In other words, most long distance daters are cheats, especially if they are very much sexually active.

3 - Do not date anyone until you are ready to marry: Yes, stay away from relationships until you are financially stable and ready to raise a family. A woman would be more likely to be faithful and ignore other men, not when you promise to marry her in the future, but when she sees you are consciously making preparations to meet her people. Any girl you date when you are not ready is only managing you till a serious man comes along.

4 - Never date an easy lay: Many will disagree with me on this, but if you are the extremely jealous kind and want peace of mind, stay away from girls who fall easily for your advances at the early stages before you even have had a chance to date properly. A girl who would lie to her parents and sneak out to spend the night with you at your house or in a hotel wasn't well raised. Such streak of stealth and rebellious attitude will poison your relationship eventually in the future. As soon as you are in a relationship with such a lady, she would do the same and tell lies to you when an exciting guy comes along with such a proposition just so she can feel that excitement of disobedience.

5 - Never date a cheat: A girl who tells you she has a boyfriend but still chooses to hang out with you while giving silly excuses like: Oh he is out of town or Oh I'm just managing him, I dont really love him, is gonna do same to you someday when a guy better than you comes along. If she doesnt really love him, why the heck is she still with him? Why didnt she break up with him before coming for you? When you date such a woman, she will say same about you to the new perp she'll be cheating on you with.

A word is enough for the .....

Naso
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Deandean: 10:55am On Jan 15, 2020
Lightangel65:


The fact your sister is a LovePeddler with pussy that is wider than a well doesn't mean, it's ok for ladies to be sluts.
How old re you?...cos nw i feel terrible 4 engaging u at all ...pls dnt quote me again,its 2020...i need ppl who re smarter than myself around.
Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Lightangel65: 10:57am On Jan 15, 2020
Deandean:

How old re you?...cos nw i feel terrible 4 engaging u at all ...pls dnt quote me again,its 2020...i need ppl who re smarter than myself around.

Smart people won't mingle with deranged pieces of shit like you. They mingle with other smart people

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Shekochild: 11:07am On Jan 15, 2020
Deandean:

Just gerraraiea already....if u get 1/100 the advances an ugly gal gets,ul b a jigolo in a month...i recognize ur effort to stay a virgin,but its not the same mhen...just respect a virgin gal please
What advances are you talking about again, I just told you that I have experience girls trying to seduce me. And mind you, i am not ugly. Man, base on my experience as a guy, I can tell you that it is more easier to find a girl at 28 that is a Virgin than a Guy. Women don't have the kind of sexual urge that men experience beginning from puberty age.

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Re: Relationship Decision Rules For Men Who Want To Live A Happy Fulfilled Life by Shekochild: 11:11am On Jan 15, 2020
Lightangel65:


Chop knuckle.
Oga, Na God oooo

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