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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Onyi22(f): 10:46pm On Jan 18, 2020
prekumohtim:



See this mother of 12
R u among the 12?
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by MartinsD12(m): 10:46pm On Jan 18, 2020
gbami:
The average Nigerian girl has 3-4 boyfriends at the same time....

She sleeps with all of them at different occasions. You are probably training another man's child. Do you know why? Let me explain..

She gets pregnant for one of you? She may not know who impregnated her or she knows (Thank God)... But Amongst the 4 boyfriends...You are the most decent, maybe smartest (intelligent) or even richer than the others. She comes to your house with tears in her eyes, telling you that she is pregnant, and she can't have a child outside wedlock. You the foolish and decent guy feels sorry for her. Rush to see her parents, in 3months times before the pregnancy can be noticed by people. You are married.

Married to a cheater, that's probably carrying another man's child...Guys... don't be fooled... Don't wait till 18yrs or more to know that you are training another man's Child. Do it immediately after birth or in few months after birth, then make a decision to continue or not... Don't be deceived into training another man's child.

Paternity fraud is real. One In three children especially the first child are being trained by non-biological father...

Be wise
Very true girls can never be trusted

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by crafteck(m): 10:48pm On Jan 18, 2020
gbami:
The average Nigerian girl has 3-4 boyfriends at the same time....

She sleeps with all of them at different occasions. You are probably training another man's child. Do you know why? Let me explain..

She gets pregnant for one of you? She may not know who impregnated her or she knows (Thank God)... But Amongst the 4 boyfriends...You are the most decent, maybe smartest (intelligent) or even richer than the others. She comes to your house with tears in her eyes, telling you that she is pregnant, and she can't have a child outside wedlock. You the foolish and decent guy feels sorry for her. Rush to see her parents, in 3months times before the pregnancy can be noticed by people. You are married.

Married to a cheater, that's probably carrying another man's child...Guys... don't be fooled... Don't wait till 18yrs or more to know that you are training another man's Child. Do it immediately after birth or in few months after birth, then make a decision to continue or not... Don't be deceived into training another man's child.

Paternity fraud is real. One In three children especially the first child are being trained by non-biological father...

Be wise

Recently a victim. Can't talk yet

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by TheRedpillguy: 10:48pm On Jan 18, 2020
AlataSuesue:
pooh I'm married to a real alpha male not all you bitter, frustrated incels that turn to hating women because dem no send you grin grin grin
stupid red pill wannabe. it doesn't fit you lousy Nigerians
my hubby luvs my fatass by the way cool
Lol. Same old, same old. At least you guys should innovate. I promise you. Am worth more then you and your husband combined. That should tell u something. If you have a husband by the way. (Poor,poor man) u wanna hv a contents?

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by favour32(m): 10:49pm On Jan 18, 2020
My head scatter!
Wetin make people dey curse each other so for wahala wey nor concern dem?
Why annoyance full everywhere for Nigeria?
Nigeria cast sha!

Now make we enter matter...why you enter blackhole wey you nor sure of the Nafdac number like that without compact disc?
Unu get mind o?
If the result come out you accept whatever certificate dem give you.
No question asked bc na you carry your leg enter. grin

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by drskyfly007(m): 10:49pm On Jan 18, 2020
rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.
chai am looking for a virgin to marry this year smiley....
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jan 18, 2020
DonJayrome:


The guy is just a frustrated jack ass. Maybe he married olosho and how pouring his anger everywhere.

You are culpable

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Myhusband(m): 10:50pm On Jan 18, 2020
[s]
cococandy:


According to you, a Nigerian girl is an olosho if she has sex outside of marriage but that guy’s post didn’t make sense to you because he’s asking for men to behave themselves in the same manner that they expect from women . Right?

Why won’t you people be raising other men’s children? You’re not ready.
[/s]


a lady with class and principles throw men flirt and advances to the dustbin

if Okonjo-iweala, Folorunsho Alakija and Dora Akuyili allow men wealth to attract or distract them they won't get to their peak!


na Olosho dey sell her dignity for ordinary paper. when dignity is lost even money cannot revive it again. a lady should learn to think with her brain and not with her pussy


any lady that open legs for a guy that's not showing a sign of engaging her is a corporate olosho

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jan 18, 2020
rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Virgin?
Where?
You still think we living in biblical times?

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 18, 2020
Just some random thoughts.

The sad thing is that, yes, many Nigerian ladies do sleep around , so also do Nigerian boys.

Nigerian boys are growing up with role models who sleep around with women, and have veritable harems of young women around. Right now, the main role models are musicians like Wizkid, 9ice 2 baba and company who sleep around, have kids all over the place, and are hailed as heroes.

With such role models, it isn't surprising that most young men in this country end up pressuring young women into premature s'xul relations. The big man on top pressurizes the women under him into s'x, the rich man uses money and promises of help in return for 'a little favour' and the young impatient man forces his fiancee to 'do it , please, we will get married now!' even when the 'No s'x relationships' law has been established.

At the end of the day, why should we not be surprised when young women have kids out of wedlock. We have normalized it to the point that anyone preaching against premarital sex and adultery is regarded as a 'hypocrite'.

Of course, many young women too use s'x as a tool...to feed their vanity. I would be remiss if we don't mention that.

But my main problem with the OP is that he is putting the whole blame on women for the promiscuity problem. I strongly suspect that he and his wife were not honest with each other when they were dating. They also were having fun, not only with each other, but with other people....and when the kasala burst.....they had to get married. Now, the blame game has started.

We cannot be blaming women for being loose when men themselves are behaving like animals in heat. And I say this as a very conservative, born again Christian male, and a Nigerian.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Greatdesi(m): 10:51pm On Jan 18, 2020
Korllami007:
Who noticed that all the women on this thread are against paternity test? This is a strong message to guys. I think they are guilty or they are planning to indulge in paternity fraud in future. grin
.

Its called solidarity
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 18, 2020
czarina:
Clearly frustrated. Even from the thread title, it's easy to tell.

Another culprit

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by ToyinDipo(m): 10:53pm On Jan 18, 2020
Inside life cheesy

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Korllami007: 10:53pm On Jan 18, 2020
crafteck:


Recently a victim. Can't talk yet

I hope the lady is not on this thread because the way dem de bash op de make fear catch me for women on this thread.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by benji93: 10:54pm On Jan 18, 2020
grin grin grin. MrCork you don't dissapoint
MrCork:


calm down Homebase woman...do u realize u talking to a Londoner?.. do u realize am from London?.. am not on your level u no? I have moiney..u don't have...and qiir lying..u don't have man!! angry

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Lordswazz(m): 10:54pm On Jan 18, 2020
All the people shouting "men that met their wives a virgin nko?" "This problem doesn't concern virgins that got married," abeg, make we dey honest with ourselves, how many men dey marry virgins these days?
The guy is 100% right. His method of passing the message might be crude, but he's right. The only girl you can vouch for to a large extent that the baby is yours when married, is a virgin. Even that one sef, assurance no be 100% but it comes quite close.
Always run DNA test on all your kids. It is a must in this dispensation of free sex.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Originalsly: 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2020
rosy1992:


A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.


Hmmmm....... think about this again. What if she had a no sex before marriage bf on the side?.... and begins to ehmmm.... share the cake after marriage? What if the husband has low sperm count?... and as customary.... it must be the wife has a problem for her not to get pregnant... so what can she do to avoid a world of wahala? ... isn't it to get pregnant by any means necessary?.... and everybody would be happy?.... none happier nor more proud than the husband? Happens all the time!

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2020
Myhusband:
[s][/s]


money and material things is not enough to make a lady loyal, so electing corrupt free president doesn't even correspond with the thread

The thing is, if men were really committed to following what religion and society has been prescribing for centuries...that good sex is best within marriage , and with your spouse...the idea of women sleeping around would not arise, because both sides would control themselves.

Also electing a corrupt free president means better economic polcies, which means more jobs, and less opportunity for rich men to prey on poor girls...and enough disposable incomes for young women not to be looking for rich sugar daddies.

Good night.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2020
Onyi22:

R u among the 12?

Hahaha
Yes o you better start taking care of me now before I tell the whole world that you abandoned for many years
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by ericmor: 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2020
It happened in my area and the wife just use style packed out with the kids and one is even taking care of another man’s baby. My eyes don see o that to marry con dey fear me

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by walex2(m): 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2020
people who can hardly feeds or paying children school fees are talking about paternity test that run in to thousands of naira. abeg go sidon

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Seventy7kings: 10:56pm On Jan 18, 2020
czarina:
bitch, hoe, idiot, deception, hungry hoe, small prick all in one thread and you're not bitter?


My dear, feel better kiss kiss
may be you're bitter too by the way you're trying to defend women. The fact that our mothers are women doesn't mean that women don't cheat. If your husband is not the father of your child and you lied to him about being the father, then you commited a grave sin and if it is otherwise, it doesn't mean it will be the same as other women

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Halo22: 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2020
This is case of misidentified paternity is getting out of hand. It didn't even start today. I Know many guys in my village who are good examples of this case, when you look closely at them, they will resemble people you even know and most of them use to end up being successful. God is too much.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by yungkc(m): 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2020
you are just plain stupid.. understand before you comment... smh
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by TheRedpillguy: 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2020
AlataSuesue:
pooh I'm married to a real alpha male not all you bitter, frustrated incels that turn to hating women because dem no send you grin grin grin
stupid red pill wannabe. it doesn't fit you lousy Nigerians
my hubby luvs my fatass by the way cool

On a second thought. You are probably a post wall Faminist, that is living off a thirsty man. Simps deserves to get their life's destroyed. So Bye
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by OiOi: 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2020
gbami:
Am about doing a peternity test on my child... That's the real gist
may God help you in finding what you are looking for
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by xana101: 10:57pm On Jan 18, 2020
True talk
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Arkmanbuddy(m): 10:58pm On Jan 18, 2020
LINTUNE:
madam what's ur problem name,why mentioning me..and what did u mean by ur last statement

It seems she knows what you don't. Pester her well, she'll talk.
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Korllami007: 10:59pm On Jan 18, 2020
Gwilym:


The thing is, if men were really committed to following what religion and society has been prescribing for centuries...that good sex is best within marriage , and with your spouse...the idea of women sleeping around would not arise, because both sides would control themselves.

Also electing a corrupt free president means better economic polcies, which means more jobs, and less opportunity for rich men to prey on poor girls...and enough disposable incomes for young women not to be looking for rich sugar daddies.

Good night.


The last time I check there are more female voters than male voters in Nigeria, so I don't understand your point about men voting for bad leaders whereas na both male and female de vote. Please wake up we are not in 1945.

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by cococandy(f): 10:59pm On Jan 18, 2020
Any words for men who sleep around? Or your morals only apply to women?

Like I said, you’re not yet ready to not raise another man’s child. It’s coming grin
Myhusband:
[s][/s]
a lady with class and principles throw men flirt and advances to the dustbin

if Okonjo-iweala, Folorunsho Alakija and Dora Akuyili allow men wealth to attract or distract them they won't get to their peak!

na Olosho dey sell her dignity for ordinary paper. when dignity is lost even money cannot revive it again. a lady should learn to think with her brain and not with her pussy


any lady that open legs for a guy that's not shoe a sign of engaging her is a corporate olosho

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Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Mac2016(m): 11:00pm On Jan 18, 2020
rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.
Virgin til 30?
Men with virgin wives most probably raise subsequent kids after the first non biologically
Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by Larryndelaw: 11:00pm On Jan 18, 2020
Korllami007:


A guy advised men to do paternity test to their children and the women are bashing him. It obvious that there are facts in the guy's post. I don't know what women here are scared of. grin
Me too I dont know why women are bashing the guy. There must be a reason for that. Moreover if you are a real man you will know that there is a real sense in what the guy wrote.

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