ubunja:
as long as the man is still expected to pay the bride price then nothing has changed.

deep. Bride price should be banned

ednut1:
deep. Bride price should be banned

unless the lady secretly pays her own. Lol.

pocohantas:


Most guys cook concoction.

I can't stand them in the kitchen. Clumsy, inarticulate...a total mess.

as if u sabi cook

ednut1:
as if u sabi cook

Lmao. Honestly, whenever a Nigerian guy tells me he can cook, I always prepare for the worst. Fortunately, they always prove me right

ednut1:
growing up there were times my mother was the breadwinner so also many of my friends. When companies sack staff e.g uba wey just sack 4000 staff na men dem dey sack pass. There are women today who demand husband do chores. Marry your kind. Abroad there is no bride price so if they do things equally fine. 9ja here i get ya point . But do u know some igbo ladies pay thier own bride price these days?

all this thing yiu mentioned happen only on rare occasion.. its not rampant, men have always been the providers... even in america, there are conservative americans / rednecks who still go with the traditional marriage, they expect thier husbands to be the breadwinners while they take care of the home.. thats why conservative americans marriages lasts...

Trimque2k1:

You ended up seeing reasons with him

I didn't see reasons with anybody

Kennedyiheme:
all this thing yiu mentioned happen only on rare occasion.. its not rampant, men have always been the providers... even in america, there are conservative americans / rednecks who still go with the traditional marriage, they expect thier husbands to be the breadwinners while they take care of the home.. thats why conservative americans marriages lasts...

u clearly know nothing

Kennedyiheme:
In this age and time... if you are gonna get married and go true the usual ritual of getting a wife, then this is for you... in this age and time modern wifes now expect to share chores in the house with thier husbands.. what disrespect, you come home the wife would say he should cook if he's hungry or they cook together.. happens in the western world all the time and its creeping into our society... on rare occasions its okay to help your wife just for bonding.. but its not your place.. these feminists have started poisoning traditional marriages... the day your wife asks you to share chores with her... KICk HER OUT....

.. I have to disagree with on some of Ur points.
If one can cook as a bachelor and enjoys doing it, there's nothing wrong if as a married man he still does it.I'm only against a situation whereby the wife sits and orders the husband to do the cooking.
In my house for example there are some delicacies I love cooking by myself and most times on weekends if my wife is out shopping for foodstuffs,I can prepare something for myself and my kids to eat before she gets back and they love me for that.Or if she is not feeling fine.
So bro, does that make me a simp?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. I have to disagree with on some of Ur points.
If one can cook as a bachelor and enjoys doing it, there's nothing wrong if as a married man he still does it.I'm only against a situation whereby the wife sits and orders the husband to do the cooking.
In my house for example there are some delicacies I love cooking by myself and most times on weekends if my wife is out shopping for foodstuffs,I can prepare something for myself and my kids to eat before she gets back and they love me for that.Or if she is not feeling fine.
So bro, does that make me a simp?

no thats an exception, I'm saying some women would take that for granted

ednut1:
u clearly know nothing

lol ok oo

Kennedyiheme:
no thats an exception, I'm saying some women would take that for granted

.. Ok. I got you. Yes,some will want to take advantage of it and make it seem as if is the duty of the man which is very wrong.

I don't know why you guys always think the only house chore is cooking. If I have my way when married, anybody entering my kitchen would be intruding.


What happens to doing the laundry. Or helping to clean the house when the children mess it up and the maid isn't around. If as a man, you'll just be folding your legs in front of TV and see house chores as abomination, then, you are not ready.

But it's not an abomination when she works and support her family right? Or is that not the man's duty. Oruwhe!

Rhaspody:


thank God she's seeing me as week and not weak.

helen4:
But it's not an abomination when she works and support her family right? Or is that not the man's duty. Oruwhe!

who asked her to work

Heloct:
I don't know why you guys always think the only house chore is cooking. If I have my way when married, anybody entering my kitchen would be intruding.


What happens to doing the laundry. Or helping to clean the house when the children mess it up and the maid isn't around. If as a man, you'll just be folding your legs in front of TV and see house chores as abomination, then, you are not ready.

not ready for what?

Kennedyiheme:
with women they think like fishes.. yhe day you stop doing it, there would be chaos

Guy also preach men shouldn't expect woman to contribute financially or split bills. You know in d traditional sense, it's d man alone that bears d financial burden in marriage, even down to money for sanitary pad

AwkaetitiBabe:
Guy also preach men shouldn't expect woman to contribute financially or split bills. You know in d traditional sense, it's d man alone that bears d financial burden in marriage, even down to money for sanitary pad

i never preached against that..

Kennedyiheme:
who asked her to work

wow! You're so backward

helen4:
wow! You're so backward

yes thats why the divorce rate is high now

Kennedyiheme:
i never preached against that..

OH well, things are changing so better get updated. If you don't wanna share chores, then provide 100 percent.

AwkaetitiBabe:
OH well, things are changing so better get updated. If you don't wanna share chores, then provide 100 percent.

i never said any man going into marriage shouldn't provide 100%.. thats the man's department

I'm a domestic guy.
I love to cook...a good cook for that matter.
I see absolutely nothing wrong helping your woman once in a while in the kitchen, or doing other domestic chores.
It's all part of the bonding.

Kennedyiheme:
who asked her to work

lmfao. Good question. Who asked her to work?

ubunja:
lmfao. Good question. Who asked her to work?

Are you a guy or a lady?

ubunja:
lmfao. Good question. Who asked her to work?

thats why i like conservative americans.. they believe in the tradition of marriage and what it stands for today.. conservative women derive pleasure and joy in her wifey duties... thats why divorce rate amongst rednecks and conservative Americans is low

Kennedyiheme:
thats why i like conservative americans.. they believe in the tradition of marriage and what it stands for today.. conservative women derive pleasure and joy in her wifey duties... thats why divorce rate amongst rednecks and conservative Americans is low

This is from the BBC website:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-51113371


‘Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a #TradWife

# TradWives is a growing movement of women who promote ultra-traditional gender roles.

Search the hashtag ‘#tradwife’ on social media and you’ll see images of cooked dinners and freshly-baked cakes with captions like, “A woman’s place is in the home” or “Trying to be a man is a waste of a woman”.

The term ‘tradwife’ is particularly controversial because of its associations with the far right, especially in the United States. But many self-described tradwives reject that association.

Alena, who lives in the UK, says it’s about “submitting to and spoiling her husband like it’s 1959” - as well as supporting a return to “traditional English manners, lifestyle and values.”

Produced and filmed by Alex Gatenby

Executive Producer: Rob Brown

Commissioning Editor: Nisha Diu

17 Jan 2020

Pridestorm:


Are you a guy or a lady?

what do you think?

Kennedyiheme:
In this age and time... if you are gonna get married and go true the usual ritual of getting a wife, then this is for you... in this age and time modern wifes now expect to share chores in the house with thier husbands.. what disrespect, you come home the wife would say he should cook if he's hungry or they cook together.. happens in the western world all the time and its creeping into our society... on rare occasions its okay to help your wife just for bonding.. but its not your place.. these feminists have started poisoning traditional marriages... the day your wife asks you to share chores with her... KICk HER OUT....

I pity your future or present partner,hope you know if u want it this way then no financial contribution from we female folks as well,if u want us to go back in time then we have to go there fully,you would go out,go do all the work and get all the money, enough money for the family why the woman performs all the chores at home.

ubunja:


This is from the BBC website:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/stories-51113371


‘Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a #TradWife

# TradWives is a growing movement of women who promote ultra-traditional gender roles.

Search the hashtag ‘#tradwife’ on social media and you’ll see images of cooked dinners and freshly-baked cakes with captions like, “A woman’s place is in the home” or “Trying to be a man is a waste of a woman”.

The term ‘tradwife’ is particularly controversial because of its associations with the far right, especially in the United States. But many self-described tradwives reject that association.

Alena, who lives in the UK, says it’s about “submitting to and spoiling her husband like it’s 1959” - as well as supporting a return to “traditional English manners, lifestyle and values.”

Produced and filmed by Alex Gatenby

Executive Producer: Rob Brown

Commissioning Editor: Nisha Diu

17 Jan 2020

lol exactly.. all this modern marriages ends with divorces and then alimony which leads to ripping off the man

ubunja:
lol find a woman who loves to make money and you switch roles. Lmfao.

ednut1:
growing up there were times my mother was the breadwinner so also many of my friends. When companies sack staff e.g uba wey just sack 4000 staff na men dem dey sack pass. There are women today who demand husband do chores. Marry your kind. Abroad there is no bride price so if they do things equally fine. 9ja here i get ya point . But do u know some igbo ladies pay thier own bride price these days?

And how do you know that some Igbo ladies pay their brideprice