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OnPointMan:
He failed to mention he is the gatemate

Abi o.
Not that there is anything bad in it o...

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Orï ë ô pë

Kallmerb:
You go use this one learn to always Look away

Wow see likes, that's the highest number of likes I have seen on a post, in my 5 years on this forum. Well I think I should look away too.

You should also deserve to be sacked for typing and sending "good pm" as greeting to your boss.

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

On a more serious note. If she ever confront u, just tell her that the meaning of your statement is....The photographer did a great job. Dont add anything more

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Your Boss likes you, it's obvious she's just trying to act tough so you won't think she's cheap.

Congratulations for being unemployed.

OP.... Nxt time u go learn to mind ur business....
If na me i wont even click to check her pix... Not to talk of commenting.....

Your work environment isnt healthy... Now u know its a sin to do such things to her as her employee... Dont go and be forming Mr right o..except u hv plan B....Appologise n ur good...

Kallmerb:
You go use this one learn to always Look away

exactly.

Guys matter dey tire me sef. Some of us go dey do like say na our responsibility to compliment every lady alive. Sometimes, admire in your head (if you must) and mind your business. Oga go learn from this one.

Thegeneralqueen:
Instead of you to focus on your job you went about complementing her pics maybe you think she's one of those bosses that sleep with their employees.....Well you're in for a hot one hope you don't get fired when she comes back

women too get wahala ... just a compliment let that woman behave matured

Thegeneralqueen:
Don't let me start with you

you seems to be commenting on all threads on NL...hope you were not the one that commented on your boss' pic...

..u mean as you are a fellow houseboy?

Mad oh

The fact you and the house girl are gossiping together already shows your worth as an employee.

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

YouR Boss think say She be senior for BOaRDingSChool.
Imagine the rubbish

Oluwasaeon:
What a weird thing to say

Don't mind her . She's just exaggerating.

MOnkeyBabe:
Don't mind her . She's just exaggerating.

What is going on in that your profile picture

majamajic:
go to the next pics , write ' can't wait for u to be back


Don't worry work plenty for Lagos

ROTFLMAOO GEnius

Realfrankie:
You are so rude
May God help you

How ironical that you quickly labelled a simple blunt rebuke as rudeness, yet previously described fellow Nigerians as "negative minded" all because the person you quoted held a contrary view from that of the Op...

Sir, you are so hypocritical!!!
May God help you.

majamajic:
go to the next pics , write ' can't wait for u to be back


Don't worry work plenty for Lagos

lmao. A bird at hand, they say is worth ten in the bush.

What is wrong with Nigerian guys of nowadays with their bosses' house helps This is my major concern

Could this be the reason many Nigerian graduates are unemployable Why are you guys messing around with your employer's domestic workers Can't you guys face your job roles and leave the house maids alone Hmmm

Nigerian guys are descending so low everyday, too bad

this is what happens when you give all these peasants jobs and open teeth with them, they start thinking you are in the same level

Show us the screen shot of the pics and your comment so we know the truth..
How can she take up a simple comment personal? Are you the only one that appreciate the pics to be nice?
Why did she accept your friend request when she gonna get angry when you chat or comment on her post..
Bleep...

tammie24:
i agree with you. As a woman myself I would be offended too if that happens, depending on how we relate with one another. Sometimes it's just best to shut up. You do less harm. Better to be seen as a snub sef than to run into trouble like this one

I agree completely.

And some people simply dont have the right language with which to express themselves. They mean well but cant communicate. There was this chap who while being interviewed at my office and obviously being very nervous, blurted out to the woman interviewing him " I like your smell"


Afterwards the chap was alleging victimization. But the woman in the interview notes had put down " behaviour inconsistent with the firms culture - high risk of recruitment/ client facing errors" And that was that.

Better to be professional and focus on the job/goal than to try scoring points and end up with egg on your face.

payperpost:
you are just a lair,
same you was accused of rape? and got sacked !!
the "Good pm ma". gave you out !
and the "house girl' element.

Oh, na him the house girl accused of rape and got sacked?

payperpost:
you are just a lair,
same you was accused of rape? and got sacked !!
the "Good pm ma". gave you out !
and the "house girl' element.

Oh, na him the house girl accused of rape and got sacked?

Heloct:
Not every lady likes taking compliments.


And I think the compliment sounded disrespectful to her cos it's coming from her employee.

she I ugly

CrazyMan:
Relax, she didn't confront you that means she isn't angry with what you said. If she found what you said irrating she would have responded directly to you and not involved a third party (her house help)

When she comes back, greet her normally and continue with your job, it's most likely that she'll let it slide or informally ask you what you meant by that statement. If the later is the case, simply tell her that you were appreciating God's creative art work in her and nothing more... believe me, women love being appreciated regardless of how unapproachable or mean they might look. That reply alone would make her giggle and give a fake hiss and ask you to return back to your job. But deep down she will be the happiest person that day.

There's nothing to worry about. No female boss would sack her staff for complimenting her looks.

But next time learn to mind your business...it reduces problems and unnecessary anxeity.

The lady in question is somehow. It's very unfair giving someone that kind of unnecessary anxiety. Even if she meant it as a joke or she is really into him.
Do you know how people kill themselves because of uncertainties such as this?
If it's my neighbor or friend that tells me we would see, I would be every afraid. Especially abroad and the child services saga. Any little threat, someone can call police to take your children. And they would Gladly.
Then it's now job as e dey hottt

Next time you compliment the pic/photos and not the personalty, or you could have just said" Nice pic ma" ...be professional.

Why do people say weird shit like 'Good pm'?

What happened to 'Good Afternoon'?