I think she likes you

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

CrazyMan:

Relax, she didn't confront you that means she isn't angry with what you said. If she found what you said irrating she would have responded directly to you and not involved a third party (her house help)

When she comes back, greet her normally and continue with your job, it's most likely that she'll let it slide or informally ask you what you meant by that statement. If the later is the case, simply tell her that you were appreciating God's creative art work in her and nothing more... believe me, women love being appreciated regardless of how unapproachable or mean they might look. That reply alone would make her giggle and give a fake hiss and ask you to return back to your job. But deep down she will be the happiest person that day.

There's nothing to worry about. No female boss would sack her staff for complimenting her looks.

But next time learn to mind your business...it reduces problems and unnecessary anxeity.

WHAT a WISDOM-filled analysis and objective words from a "CrazyMan".

maybe she was not expecting someone like you to comment on her pics,she saw it as an insult on her personality.....
next time just mind your business....

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Let me ask yo these ?s
1. What is the closeness between u & ur boss?
2. Do u crack jokes with each other sometimes (Like normal office jokes)?
3. Have made a compliment of her before in the office?

If your response is yes, then she can't do u a thing otherwise ... If she asked u with a stern look what u meant by your compliment, tell her with an innocent look that "I meant the picture was well taken Ma",
Above all, BE BOLD!

babadee1:


You should never make references to your boss' looks unless you already know you have that kind of relationship with them. Doing so can be hazardous to your career as this young fellow is about to find out.

aswear
Me sef shock
As in... Your female boss fa
But the harm has been done

Way forward

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What do you mean by taking it up?

She took offence? Well, it seems she has never liked you.

Send your apologies to her inbox. That you didn't mean it the wrong way [/quot

I think ît is too early to do that. Let her confront you first, then you apologize with all seriousness that you didn't mean it the wrong way. Punctuate every statement with "Ma" and show courtesy.

yarimo:
Op you need to explain more, where is she taking it ?

mò foor o.

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

If the relationship with your boss is what it is supposed to be; formal, then you have no business commenting on her social life or social media activities.

You're the new generation of Nigeria's illiterates and ignoramus who don't know their places or their position.

Mumu! I hope she fries your dumb, stupid ass .

Adam00:
what do you want us to do now?

i tire

Ladycewhy:
then he will have to explain how he got to know she was upset by his comment, meaning he will also implicate the house girl that told him.

I guess you are right

dayleke:
Se ko si?

Your compliment don go to her head niyen o.

But why and how come you are getting to know what she said through the housegirl?

Are you the houseboy?

Because if na office you dey work, why thru d housegirl?

He failed to mention he is the gatemate

You said she told her house girl right. What are you doing with her house girl that have become your informant? You never tell us the main story.

You don get her be that.... Secure ur space tight, no fall hand o if u knw

Bro no worry if she fires you work plenty for lag

CrazyMan:

Relax, she didn't confront you that means she isn't angry with what you said. If she found what you said irrating she would have responded directly to you and not involved a third party (her house help)

When she comes back, greet her normally and continue with your job, it's most likely that she'll let it slide or informally ask you what you meant by that statement. If the later is the case, simply tell her that you were appreciating God's creative art work in her and nothing more... believe me, women love being appreciated regardless of how unapproachable or mean they might look. That reply alone would make her giggle and give a fake hiss and ask you to return back to your job. But deep down she will be the happiest person that day.

There's nothing to worry about. No female boss would sack her staff for complimenting her looks.

But next time learn to mind your business...it reduces problems and unnecessary anxeity.

Most sensible response from crazyman? What an irony! On a more serious note, you nailed it with this comment and no one could have said it better. Thumbs up bro.

A friend was dismissed back in school for allegedly looking at the VC's wife lustfully.

Thegeneralqueen:
Instead of you to focus on your job you went about complementing her pics maybe you think she's one of those bosses that sleep with their employees.....Well you're in for a hot one hope you don't get fired when she comes back

You are a piece of thrash.

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Don't take it too seriously, every woman loves being complimented... When she comes back, be bold enough to tell her there's no crime in saying the truth. When you reaffirm to her that the picture is a very beautiful one, with boldness, she will even like you more.... Forget all that madam she's forming. She probably likes it.

shogsman:
Vice versa my boss almost fired me for always viewing her WhatsApp status without commenting,she said I'm treating her like just any other person in my contact,now It's my job to tell her how hot she is when she post picture. The nonsense we men experience at work.

Oga na lie! Fire u qua? Fear God o

shogsman:
Vice versa my boss almost fired me for always viewing her WhatsApp status without commenting,she said I'm treating her like just any other person in my contact,now It's my job to tell her how hot she is when she post picture. The nonsense we men experience at work.

Oga na lie! Fire u kwa? Fear God o

Still wondering how you get her househelp contacts. She told her househelp and she told you. There is alot you are not telling us.

Just passing Sha, carry your cross ➕ after all did you ask us before commenting on her looks.

There's a lot of peace in simply unlooking and staying focused on your own business. I pray you get out of this easy and learn


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yarimo:
Op you need to explain more, where is she taking it ?

My guy say, where is she taking it?
Ngbor OP? Where gangan is [/b]taking it faa[b]

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Are u one of her domestic staff? Whats the nature of your job? Talk so that we all can help u ASAP.

You don't need to be close to ur boss mind ur business

U dey do eye service. That is the way staffs do in corporate organisations; eye service, so that they can be given promotion.

When she is expecting comments from Elumelu and Dangote you riff Raff is commenting ����my dear women are level conscious the earlier you realize that the better for you

Well, congratulations to u my friend. U have find urself a lover. Imagine ur boss being ur bed mate at the same time. Enjoyment awaits u my brother. Congratulations ones again.

agemmy113:


Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

How come you are such terms with the housegirl to be having such conversation?

It's obvious you don't used to face your work, uche onise.

You will end up in magdonas at this rate

shogsman:
Vice versa my boss almost fired me for always viewing her WhatsApp status without commenting,she said I'm treating her like just any other person in my contact,now It's my job to tell her how hot she is when she post picture. The nonsense we men experience at work.

Lol
And it's your job to service her engine

Haaaa

CrazyMan:

Relax, she didn't confront you that means she isn't angry with what you said. If she found what you said irrating she would have responded directly to you and not involved a third party (her house help)

When she comes back, greet her normally and continue with your job, it's most likely that she'll let it slide or informally ask you what you meant by that statement. If the later is the case, simply tell her that you were appreciating God's creative art work in her and nothing more... believe me, women love being appreciated regardless of how unapproachable or mean they might look. That reply alone would make her giggle and give a fake hiss and ask you to return back to your job. But deep down she will be the happiest person that day.

There's nothing to worry about. No female boss would sack her staff for complimenting her looks.

But next time learn to mind your business...it reduces problems and unnecessary anxeity.

Wisdom wan finish you!

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Must you comment on her WhatsApp status ?