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Hotfreez:
She feels she doesn't need them again since Harry won't be king, so she wants to keep Harry out of commonsense's way and duly discard him whenever she's thru with him.

Even a 5 year old kid knows Harry can't be king.

I just hope they don't end up divorced. If that happens Harry will end up losing his two families

Parablesonmarble:
Why should I care about what happens in the Royal family versus daughter-in-law soap opera. I'm far more concerned about the mess the Royal family and the British Empire caused me by joining Northern and Southern Nigeria together in an unholy, unacceptable and a total mismatch of a marriage. If they want peace inside that their Windsor or Burkingham, they should come and undo the harm they caused in Africa. Chikena.

The Ijaw nation would have been better off on her own. No thanks to them, we are part of the "tower of Babel", Nigeria.

crackkhaus:
Surely you must realize that when people don't like you, it really won't matter if you're doing nothing wrong, they would still find a way to make you look bad.

The bias against Meghan was watered by none other but herself. You can see one of the articles you posted called her 'dictatorial', they may not be far from the truth.

I followed the whole ruckus leading up to their wedding in 2018 up until the wedding itself. You should not take my word for it though, you could make some findings on your own regarding just how much she tried to break almost every protocol regarding how the wedding should go.
A lot of things were changed/altered just to accommodate her preferences - from the flower choices, to the aisle leading up to the alter that was made wider because it's what she wanted, etc.. There was a lot more which I can't even recall off the top of my head.

Now no one is saying she couldn't have creative control over her own wedding, but when you marry into a monarchy that has a certain way of doing things in keeping with age-long traditions as old as her own ancestors, then she probably should have simmered down a little. She got what she wanted most of the time because the monarchy were happy enough to make Diana's little boy happy, but she took it too far and got used to it.
After the wedding, she kept trying to get them to do things her way and most of the time she would get it, but guess what, the British people only resented her for it because she was now effectually implying that their ways of doing things was not good enough for her, her own way was better...it wasn't just an emotional bride trying to make her wedding day perfect anymore, this was a woman who had no respect for the Monarchy and its ways. She confirmed what they already suspected and gave oxygen and water to the bias already working against her. And to make it worse, she was not even that big a celebrity in Hollywood in the first place.

This kind of resentment will obviously make them troll her at every given opportunity...no one holds a grudge more than the British.

If say, a single never divorced well brought-up Beyoncé (still black and American) was the one who married into the royal family, she may even get a softer landing than Meghan. If a Beyoncé DIL wanted the Queen MIL to dance single ladies inside Buckingham Palace, she may have gotten away with it, just because she is a Beyoncé. Get my point?

Meghan already had everything working against her from the start - previous failed marriage, dysfunctional family set-up, being biracial, and an American actress (not even an A-list, which may have been a plus). The least she could have done to warm her way into the hearts and minds of the British people, is to at least appear that she gave a shit about the way things are done.

I'm NOT sorry to type this, but I will because it is what it is:
Meghan did not do Windsor a favor by marrying Harry, Windsor in fact did her a favor by allowing her become a part of their family and she should have acted accordingly and not take a mile when given an inch.

It's what it is.

I think you totally missed the point! Or you are one of those "victim of 400 years of conditioning. The man has programmed my conditioning. Even my conditioning has been conditioned.”(Chameleon Street by Wendell B. Harris). I would like to believe it's the former! All that is is nothing but nuance racism, everyone who's lived, studied or worked in the west have experienced it one way or the other. Go ask around in the fortune 500 corporate world, a Caucasian is smart and confidence, while a black man is uppity and headstrong for having the same qualities. Re-read those headlines and what you see are two people doing the same thing, but one is said to be "smart and confidence" and the other "arrogant and disrespectful". The reason for that is nothing but racism; those headlines above show nothing but the racism of the British (Caucasians in general) people.

And if the latter of the two reasons; well I truly feel sorry for you! Reason being you are probably an "Uncle Ruckus" from the boondocks! You hate yourself, you have accepted the "essence" of the black race from the very racist Caucasian distillery. You are probably one of those people that is more "oyinbo than the oyinbos".You are probably in the category of people that sees little Jamal's tantrum as violent acts and should be monitored, while little Billy's tantrum is nothing but just that! I feel sorry for you because there's nothing anyone can do to help someone like you, you live your life in perceptual fear--fear of being judged, that you are behaving like a black man, you are self conscious, you are aware of the fact that you are being watched and being held to a higher standard just for the fact that you are black. And you hold every other black man to this standard dictated by the white man, not for everybody but just for the black race. And you get mad at them for giving the black race a bad name, whenever they choose to live freely, because that's the only way to live! New Hampshire state motto: Live Free or Die!!
And that my friend is the American way! To hell with the British and their nuance racism, because the only way we live is free or dead!

ENG0701:
I just hope they don't end up divorced. If that happens Harry will end up losing his two families

There are lots of misinformation on this thread.

He is not losing his family even if they divorce. He is a member of the royal family, and and would always be a member of the Royal family.

This step aside issue is actually for one year and they would be shuttling between Canada and the UK, then the Royal family would review their success/progress after the completion of the year.

The dad, Prince Charles actually gave him an extra pocket money of over £2million to spend in Canada.

crackkhaus:
Surely you must realize that when people don't like you, it really won't matter if you're doing nothing wrong, they would still find a way to make you look bad.

The bias against Meghan was watered by none other but herself. You can see one of the articles you posted called her 'dictatorial', they may not be far from the truth.

I followed the whole ruckus leading up to their wedding in 2018 up until the wedding itself. You should not take my word for it though, you could make some findings on your own regarding just how much she tried to break almost every protocol regarding how the wedding should go.
A lot of things were changed/altered just to accommodate her preferences - from the flower choices, to the aisle leading up to the alter that was made wider because it's what she wanted, etc.. There was a lot more which I can't even recall off the top of my head.

Now no one is saying she couldn't have creative control over her own wedding, but when you marry into a monarchy that has a certain way of doing things in keeping with age-long traditions as old as her own ancestors, then she probably should have simmered down a little. She got what she wanted most of the time because the monarchy were happy enough to make Diana's little boy happy, but she took it too far and got used to it.
After the wedding, she kept trying to get them to do things her way and most of the time she would get it, but guess what, the British people only resented her for it because she was now effectually implying that their ways of doing things was not good enough for her, her own way was better...it wasn't just an emotional bride trying to make her wedding day perfect anymore, this was a woman who had no respect for the Monarchy and its ways. She confirmed what they already suspected and gave oxygen and water to the bias already working against her. And to make it worse, she was not even that big a celebrity in Hollywood in the first place.

This kind of resentment will obviously make them troll her at every given opportunity...no one holds a grudge more than the British.

If say, a single never divorced well brought-up Beyoncé (still black and American) was the one who married into the royal family, she may even get a softer landing than Meghan. If a Beyoncé DIL wanted the Queen MIL to dance single ladies inside Buckingham Palace, she may have gotten away with it, just because she is a Beyoncé. Get my point?

Meghan already had everything working against her from the start - previous failed marriage, dysfunctional family set-up, being biracial, and an American actress (not even an A-list, which may have been a plus). The least she could have done to warm her way into the hearts and minds of the British people, is to at least appear that she gave a shit about the way things are done.

I'm NOT sorry to type this, but I will because it is what it is:
Meghan did not do Windsor a favor by marrying Harry, Windsor in fact did her a favor by allowing her become a part of their family and she should have acted accordingly and not take a mile when given an inch.

It's what it is.

What you wrote is exactly the reason behind those articles and how the British press want you to think.
They have conditioned your thought process to see she's at fault.
Take for example the wedding ish you mentioned, how did you know Kate did not demand something similar and they were given without anyone seeing anything wrong with it or perhaps praising her for taking initiative.

Things are not always as they seem.

crackkhaus:
previous failed marriage, dysfunctional family set-up, being biracial, and an American actress (not even an A-list, which may have been a plus). The least she could have done to warm her way into the hearts and minds of the British people, is to at least appear that she gave a shit about the way things are done.

Meghan did not do Windsor a favor by marrying Harry, Windsor in fact did her a favor by allowing her become a part of their family and she should have acted accordingly and not take a mile when given an inch.

You want her to feel worthless, bend over and take all sort in the a55 because a prince fell in love with her. Lol

I'm addition, I am sorry to say, but the bolded is a sign of Uncle Tom syndrome, or how a house negro thinks (i.e. I am favoured and better than the field negro because the white man let me into his home).
The same way some Nigerians would bow down at the feet of anyone that looks like a white man, even an Indian or Lebanese would pass as oga boss to someone suffering from such syndrome.

First of all Sir, everyone who monitors the media knows that the Dailymail is the most unreliable, biased and pro-white supremacy online news to ever look to, in terms of objective news reporting, as a matter of fact, the only thing they are good for is a feel of how British people think or feel about a person, an event or anything. Also worthy of note is the fact that Piers Morgan once had a date with Meghan that did not end up as Piers would have liked, that is between the sheets with Meghan. And while poor Piers was expecting some kind of props from Meghan after that, Meghan, discovering Piers was not her type, had since then given him a cold shoulder, something a typical pompous and arrogant British will not have.

Please ignore that useless online paper, biko!

crackkhaus:
While some of you are busy forming happy on their behalf, the Prince says the opposite and expressed how he truly feels about the whole situation.

How you or anyone can be happy for someone who is deeply saddened, is beyond all human comprehension.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55OQ7aC7hW4

Prince harry has always been the one with balls.

do you know what it feels like to know what his mother went through in the hands of the unroyal family and the useless british press, and seeing same thing happening to his wife?

think again.

"For this one naa Royal Rubble"

You’re not related to her. So all what you typed her is stuff you don’t actually know for real.

Imagine if folks who have never met you for once in their lives or even if they have, they don’t even really know you, decide to go on the internet and spread stories about you as if they were proven facts? Did you live with them know she destroyed her the relationship?

Or you’re echoing the things you’ve heard that suit your prejudices?

Like I said you will believe what you want based on what you have pre-decided to believe

Hotfreez:
If that is the case, why did you decide not to fight your own family members? We all have our imperfections, why do you decide to love them, forgive and enjoy with your family? That's because you are a good person.

Meghan on the other hand has a history of destroying relationships. She destroyed her relationship with her own family and merely extended her evil behaviour to her in-laws.

She feels she doesn't need them again since Harry won't be king, so she wants to keep Harry out of commonsense's way and duly discard him whenever she's thru with him.

eleojo23:
The British will always try to feel superior while putting others down.

And Meghan seems to have the American superiority complex so she just can't get along with them.

Meghan is an inferior black person as far as the whites who own Britain and America plus Canada are concerned. Until blacks get their acts together as the Asians have done, we will be treated as the scumbags of the earth.

One-drop rule

The one-drop rule is a social and legal principle of racial classification that was historically prominent in the United States in the 20th century. It asserted that any person with even one ancestor of sub-Saharan African ancestry ("one drop" of black blood) is considered black (Negro or colored in historical terms).

This concept became codified into the law of some states in the early 20th century. It was associated with the principle of "invisible blackness" that developed after the long history of racial interaction in the South, which had included the hardening of slavery as a racial caste and later segregation.

It is an example of hypodescent, the automatic assignment of children of a mixed union between different socioeconomic or ethnic groups to the group with the lower status, regardless of proportion of ancestry in different groups.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One-drop_rule

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jesmond3945:
you can never do anything to please a british man, if he is biased against you.

Can you do anything to please a Fulani man if he is biased against you

Parablesonmarble:
Why should I care about what happens in the Royal family versus daughter-in-law soap opera. I'm far more concerned about the mess the Royal family and the British Empire caused me by joining Northern and Southern Nigeria together in an unholy, unacceptable and a total mismatch of a marriage. If they want peace inside that their Windsor or Burkingham, they should come and undo the harm they caused in Africa. Chikena.

Were they the ones who undid India, Pakistan and Bangladesh


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Their useless press.
They have no credibility.

Hotfreez:
The British are racist and Meghan is a fool.

Meghan has had issues with her family, her father, her previous husband, his family, the British Press and the Royal family.

She is a destroyer, not a builder. She needs to marry someone like Ned Nwoko.

Thank you jare, you hit the nail on the head with Meghan.
Look at her relationship with her family, everyone around her and you will see she seems to be a very selfish person. Only her gains in any relationship.
I sorry for this Harry, she has used pussy to deceive him. By the time she is done with him, she will discharge him as rag doll.
Such a silly boy.

elektra:
Why TF are you people still debating Meghan and Harry? Are they your family members?

A 35 year old married man decided to move out of his grandmother’s house and set up his own business. Why is this unfathomable to you lots?

Especially some Nigerian men. This matter has really pained them. They cant believe that a man like them will actually ‘leave and cleave’ like the holy book asked him to.

I wonder o!

Midas01:
Meghan is not black. She is very slightly mixed with black and is much more white than she is black. White people do not reserve the right to determine that a person is black black simply because the they have a little black admixture even when it is overwhelmingly evident that they look white.

Look at Meghan, does she look like the typical African? Or African American? Even African Americans who are mostly only about 75% black look much more African and black than Meghan. Stop calling Meghan black she is not.

Meghan is half black. Have you seen her mother? Black dark skinned woman. Her black family have been nothing but class all through. Very proud of them. Her father and his gutter children have been nothing but low life white trash!

baby124:
British are extremely racist and they set out to destroy that marriage before it started. Even William and his crayfish looking wife did not help matters. Then jealous staff who think they are better than Meghan always peddling useless gossip. I am happy for Harry and Meghan that they are forging their own path.

But that union wouldn't last. I am not God but that is what it is!

RunThins:
I think you totally missed the point! Or you are one of those "victim of 400 years of conditioning. The man has programmed my conditioning. Even my conditioning has been conditioned.”(Chameleon Street by Wendell B. Harris). I would like to believe it's the former! All that is is nothing but nuance racism, everyone who's lived, studied or worked in the west have experienced it one way or the other. Go ask around in the fortune 500 corporate world, a Caucasian is smart and confidence, while a black man is uppity and headstrong for having the same qualities. Re-read those headlines and what you see are two people doing the same thing, but one is said to be "smart and confidence" and the other "arrogant and disrespectful". The reason for that is nothing but racism; those headlines above show nothing but the racism of the British (Caucasians in general) people.

And if the latter of the two reasons; well I truly feel sorry for you! Reason being you are probably an "Uncle Ruckus" from the boondocks! You hate yourself, you have accepted the "essence" of the black race from the very racist Caucasian distillery. You are probably one of those people that is more "oyinbo than the oyinbos".You are probably in the category of people that sees little Jamal's tantrum as violent acts and should be monitored, while little Billy's tantrum is nothing but just that! I feel sorry for you because there's nothing anyone can do to help someone like you, you live your life in perceptual fear--fear of being judged, that you are behaving like a black man, you are self conscious, you are aware of the fact that you are being watched and being held to a higher standard just for the fact that you are black. And you hold every other black man to this standard dictated by the white man, not for everybody but just for the black race. And you get mad at them for giving the black race a bad name, whenever they choose to live freely, because that's the only way to live! New Hampshire state motto: Live Free or Die!!
And that my friend is the American way! To hell with the British and their nuance racism, because the only way we live is free or dead!

Leave that guy. He was only trying to drag on an endless and useless argument. I wouldn’t indulge it. As it would end up going no where.

Hotfreez:
Despite all your faults, did you keep enmity with your father and your family?
As a man, can you marry someone that would turn you away from your family?

Learn from Harry's stupidity. Look carefully at your wife's relationship with her parents and family. That's how she would treat yours.

Again you sound like some who knows everything about Meghan. The thing is you don't and neither do. All we know are stuff we read about her. Speaking of her estranged father, do you know if her dad wasn't the best dad? Do you if he was abusive physically, psychologically and sexually? Again, Meghan has her faults, and so do we all. Only he who wears a shoe knows where it pinches the most. All the best. I'm out of here.

na2016:
But that union wouldn't last. I am not God but that is what it is!

If it doesn’t last, that is their problem and their decision. They have the right to make their marriage what it is and it should not be doomed with what ifs. Meghan and Harry are accomplished adults in their own right. However they live and how their marriage ends up should not be up for scrutiny.

crackkhaus:
Surely you must realize that when people don't like you, it really won't matter if you're doing nothing wrong, they would still find a way to make you look bad.

The bias against Meghan was watered by none other but herself. You can see one of the articles you posted called her 'dictatorial', they may not be far from the truth.

I followed the whole ruckus leading up to their wedding in 2018 up until the wedding itself. You should not take my word for it though, you could make some findings on your own regarding just how much she tried to break almost every protocol regarding how the wedding should go.
A lot of things were changed/altered just to accommodate her preferences - from the flower choices, to the aisle leading up to the alter that was made wider because it's what she wanted, etc.. There was a lot more which I can't even recall off the top of my head.

Now no one is saying she couldn't have creative control over her own wedding, but when you marry into a monarchy that has a certain way of doing things in keeping with age-long traditions as old as her own ancestors, then she probably should have simmered down a little. She got what she wanted most of the time because the monarchy were happy enough to make Diana's little boy happy, but she took it too far and got used to it.
After the wedding, she kept trying to get them to do things her way and most of the time she would get it, but guess what, the British people only resented her for it because she was now effectually implying that their ways of doing things was not good enough for her, her own way was better...it wasn't just an emotional bride trying to make her wedding day perfect anymore, this was a woman who had no respect for the Monarchy and its ways. She confirmed what they already suspected and gave oxygen and water to the bias already working against her. And to make it worse, she was not even that big a celebrity in Hollywood in the first place.

This kind of resentment will obviously make them troll her at every given opportunity...no one holds a grudge more than the British.

If say, a single never divorced well brought-up Beyoncé (still black and American) was the one who married into the royal family, she may even get a softer landing than Meghan. If a Beyoncé DIL wanted the Queen MIL to dance single ladies inside Buckingham Palace, she may have gotten away with it, just because she is a Beyoncé. Get my point?

Meghan already had everything working against her from the start - previous failed marriage, dysfunctional family set-up, being biracial, and an American actress (not even an A-list, which may have been a plus). The least she could have done to warm her way into the hearts and minds of the British people, is to at least appear that she gave a shit about the way things are done.

I'm NOT sorry to type this, but I will because it is what it is:
Meghan did not do Windsor a favor by marrying Harry, Windsor in fact did her a favor by allowing her become a part of their family and she should have acted accordingly and not take a mile when given an inch.

It's what it is.

True words

chukxie:
Again you sound like some who knows everything about Meghan. The thing is you don't and neither do. All we know are stuff we read about her. Speaking of her estranged father, do you know if her dad wasn't the best dad? Do you if he was abusive physically, psychologically and sexually? Again, Meghan has her faults, and so do we all. Only he who wears a shoe knows where it pinches the most. All the best. I'm out of here.

Meghans family is the most useless and despicable racist family. With that her sister that looks and sounds like a bush rat. They are really low class people. I will cut off a family like that too. Useless people would have brought her more shame and ridicule in the British press. They are bad and rotten news.

Its obvious to those that have eyes and ears that there is a vendetta against Meghan.
They are very passive aggressive people and would push it if you allow them.
Some of us know better.
Someone was even saying on a thread that she is disliked because of her behaviour. But nobody has been able to tell us exactly what her behaviour is. They don't know her, so why talk about her behaviour?
Crackhaus, pray tell us exactly 1. What she has done wrong? 2. how she would warm her way into the hearts of the British public?
Their media already had an axe to grind and enjoy sensationalism even more than Nigerian media.
She can never warm her way into anyone's heart. It had been designed she fails at it. So there's no point staying where your family will be continually attacked. I 100% support their decision at this point. Their media should go screw themselves.

It first started by saying she was spending too much on clothes. When in truth, she didnt have a blank cheque from Charles to spend as she deemed fit. She had the same allowance or even lower than Kate. They seem to forget Kate is a mother of 3 and definitely wouldn't spend so much on clothes when her children also have to be clothed and educated. Meghan just became a mother and I'm sure as her family grows, she would spend less on clothes. She was even a new bride, and they were already moaning on the costs of the clothes she buys.
Couples without children spend more on themselves (clothes, holidays etc) than those with children ( I'm speaking of those in same financial bracket).
I'm sure they still will continue to talk about her, as her story is the one that sells their magazines. Living in Canada may make it more expensive for their media to follow up, but I'm sure they will try. They are obsessed with Meghan, and she draws more attention in the news than Kate.
I'm sure the next agenda they would want to push is their so called imminent divorce of the couple. I know these people well enough. We'll be watching in 5D when the media starts planting the divorce idea into the minds of their people, and how Harry is suffering in the marriage and needs to be liberated.

na2016:
But that union wouldn't last. I am not God but that is what it is!

If it doesn’t. That’s fine too. Diana’s marriage didn’t last and the concubine married her husband. The world didn’t end. They are adults, they are free. Very free now sef.

salford1:
Thank you. They can now look for someone else to transfer their aggression to.

I am glad they moved to the most Liberal country in the world. Oh Canada.

I can’t even live in England. Terrible country race wise. I don’t know why Nigerians move there and will be faking accent like their nose is stuffed .

jesmond3945:
you can never do anything to please a british man, if he is biased against you.

That's exactly true. Most over 55 grew up when overt racism was still very much around. And only very few are not biased to some extent. But they can camouflage it very nicely. They have centuries of practice. You must be quick in assessing them.

They also do not like it if you are too knowledgeable and you can school them. Even a barely literate one still wants to form for you as a black guy. The men even gossip more than the women. Their background gives a clue about who they are. Once you know who they are, then you know what to divulge to them and what not to.

Best thing is to remain mysterious to them than be predictable. But be professional and ensure you do your duties to the highest standard daily. Mutual respect should generally be your aim, not necessarily to be liked. Certainly do not be needy for them to like you. That way you can get to your destination without having to lick arse or gossip or assassinate anyone's character.

baby124:
I can’t even live in England. Terrible country race wise. I don’t know why Nigerians move there and will be faking accent like their nose is stuffed .

Is it only accent that they fake


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salford1:
Prince Andy the pedo was protected by the Royal family. Just look at how their tabloid is hailing him. Spits.

Prince Andy was sticking it in underage girls, and hanging out with a convicted pedo. Prince Andy brought way more shame to that family than anyone else and yet crickets crickets.

In addition, nude photos of Kate are fine, accusations of extramarital sex by William are fine, Andrew being an accused pedo is fine..but Harry and Meghan wanting privacy and offering to continue working ( for free) is wrong.

Behold, the future Queen of England.

Exactly. Funny that they have more to say about Meghan than a global pedophile like Prince Andrew. Who should be in jail and has been running up and down like a squirrel avoiding discussions about his pedophilic acts. Very useless and wicked set of people. I hope Africans are taking note because after Brexit they will want to be pretending that they have relationship or care about black people.

salford1:
Trust me, we are not as horrible as the Brits. I had my uni in the UK. 3 of my siblings are also British. (2 born and bred).
I am still angry once in a while for choosing to study in Britain instead of a more progressive and liberal country.

You and your siblings are Nigerians first and foremost irrespective of where you were born and bred.

The earlier you accept that fact the better!