eyinjuege:
Your history is yours and very different from mine. I cannot pass such wrong information about my heritage.
While some parts of the country do practice child marriages even till this day, some parts of the country do not have such practices.
Like I mentioned earlier, we don't do child marriages in my area, and perhaps in the 1800s (which I even doubt), it was a thing, but definitely not in the 1900s. I say this because even in Awolowo's time who was born in 1909, it was not a thing. Awolowo's wife was married at the age of 26 years. This is a woman born in 1915 or so.
My grandfather, a man of means with over 20 wives never married someone less than 18 years old. Neither did any of his numerous children. His first grandchild is same age group as my parent, and neither did even any of his progeny try such.
I repeat again, it is your place they do so. I will not share your history with my children, but rather mine. We don't do such in my place and can never encourage such. It is greatly frowned upon o.

missidy:
I have learnt from this thread that people will advise and push you to take a decision, when it turns bad, they will leave you to face your problem or the consequences alone.

Nobody has bothered to ask this girl how things are or if the pastor followed her to beg her parents. Everybody is now quite and minding their business. So typical of human beings, they have advised her to confess now she is mess and nobody cares.

missidy:
I have learnt from this thread that people will advise and push you to take a decision, when it turns bad, they will leave you to face your problem or the consequences alone.

Nobody has bothered to ask this girl how things are or if the pastor followed her to beg her parents. Everybody is now quite and minding their business. So typical of human beings, they have advised her to confess now she is mess and nobody cares.

Waterview:
This is a very big lesson to everyone seeing this, they pushed her to confess and late back out.....
They put a lot of pressure on the young girl to confess without assuring her of support if things went South.
The poster above was even expecting (praying)the guy banish her, bad energy everywhere

Awon oloriburuku eni ibi.


I fear who no fear Nigerians.

Ehibiggirl:
Maybe the guy finally found out and kicked her out
It’s unlike her not to respond for this long.

eyinjuege:


Nobody owed her any support on here.
People only advised her to do the right thing and allow her conscience to have peace.
She was obviously not at peace, hence she opened the thread in the first instance.
Those who might have offered her some support because they cared too much, were all insulted openly or covertly. Nobody wants such hassles around them, especially one who rolls with thugs.

missidy:
I have learnt from this thread that people will advise and push you to take a decision, when it turns bad, they will leave you to face your problem or the consequences alone.

Nobody has bothered to ask this girl how things are or if the pastor followed her to beg her parents. Everybody is now quite and minding their business. So typical of human beings, they have advised her to confess now she is mess and nobody cares.

SlimBrawnie:

I left my first University because of that but I didn't just leave, investigations were made to get to the root of the matter, so you don't just come and draw conclusion about me solely based on what I'm writing here. I still maintain my stand that if he really trusted her, both of them would have put heads together to get to the root of the matter. Imagine someone calls to threaten my husband and he decides to leave the marriage, just calls o,no real threat. Threats don't work that way.

Waterview:
This is a very big lesson to everyone seeing this, they pushed her to confess and late back out.....
They put a lot of pressure on the young girl to confess without assuring her of support if things went South.
The poster above was even expecting (praying)the guy banish her, bad energy everywhere

Awon oloriburuku eni ibi.


I fear who no fear Nigerians.

Ifyjos:
I swear to God , I have never been jealous of her , she is a graduate, she studies hard so she deserved to have everything she had and yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me or my guy anything but all I wanted from her is to mind her business and let me live my life in peace with my guy. My guy will pay the fees if he don’t have , she will stay at home until we get the money to send her back to school. quote author=dominique post=85597087]What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?



I had to stop reading at this point, you're not only jealous you're wickedly entitled as well. Why should your sister establish a business for you and thug that impregnated you? She owes either of you nothing especially him. Is that why he impregnated you as a minor? To get handouts from your family? If you were my sister, I would never want you to continue any form of relationship with that man. That doesn't mean I don't love you or want the best for you. Your sister wants a better life for you but you're too young, naive, and blinded by lust to realize this.

fieryy:
I don't agree with those saying you should leave your baby daddy or that he ruined your life. Your sis is wrong in that aspect. I mean, she could have as well accused you of ruining the guy's life. But you guys should try and level up.
Also your sister owes you absolutely nothing to be honest. Yes, she shouldn't have rubbed things on your face, but you honestly went to far.

Try and mend things by telling both your sister and her ex what you've done. They might still get back together, you never know.
Then stay away from them.

Ifyjos:

I will not leave my guy even if my sister said before she forgive me I have to leave him , that will be a no from me . We are still together and our love is strong and we are working hard raising our precious daughter and we don’t need anybody help

fieryy:


I never said you should

thatigboman:
sorry to say. U are evil. That thug u used to destroy your sister's relationship, that raped u when u were 15, will be your downfall.

Meliian:


Why the heck was she insulting the guy? That's so unfair. Because he doesn't have money, he's not human too? He doesn't have feelings? The guy got her pregnant, despite being broke he still tries to cater for his child. Isn't that good enough? They're still together after 5 years, doesn't that count for something? Some relationships don't even last up to 6 months. My point is, both op and her sister are mean people. And if her bf's influence on her is bad, so is her elder sister's fiance's influence on her sister. I say this because, the fiance can't say he didn't know his wife-to-be arranged for her sister to be locked up.

Ausrichie:

If this is true your wickedness is rubbing shoulders with that of Genghis Khan. A useless man that can't take care of you is coming in between you and your sister tufia. This is one reason why I can't marry and will never marry. Most women out there are just demons in human clothing. Tueh. Apologise to your sister or else karma will show you what it is made of.

micflo28:
Peeps getting laid anyhow and a gentleman like me scarcely get even a loose canon to penetrate

TOPCRUISE:


What makes you think your husband loves you and your daughter by always taking care of you. If he loves you he won't impregnate you and he won't persuade you to open your legs for him either. If he loves you he will respect your family and will not convince you to scatter it no matter the situation. You have a lot to learn about love because you are still very naive, gullible and easily deceived. Your Immaturity, senselessness, and dullness is what he saw in you that made him impregnate you. If he sees that you are smart, brilliant and intelligent he will never try it and will not conspire with you to destroy the life of your sister.
You failed to tell us the job of your thuggish uneducated father of your daughter.

ceeceeuwa:
I just wish your sister's fiancé is a Nairalander so he can read this for himself.