Michellekabod2:
nah...I doubt. My boy in daycare will reason better than this.

lol i am ooo, day care was my last education...

pocohantas:


I am fine. Hope you are good too?
A lovely weekend to you.

I'M GREAT. AND I HOPE YOUR WEEK WAS AWESOME.

bukatyne:


I join the community shock!

It is very very embarrassing from the husband and I agree he was childish in handling the situation which might also be a desperate attempt at fixing the problem.

I am very interested in the reaction of the wife and what the report meant by 'the husband publicly exposing the weakness of the wife'.

I also want to believe that the husband did not start complaining the day he dropped his wife and if there was something really wrong with her, they should have found a solution together.

The man anyways implied the parents fix her daughter if they want the marriage to continue. I also salute his courage for taking the hard way out. It was easier to pretend all was well with his wife and sleep around than bring her back to her parents' house and demand a solution.

People should stop discarding their spouses' feedback and work towards a solution.

As for the girls imitating the alleged promiscuity of the wife because she got a 'better' husband, ride on.

Addition:

It is naivety or 'burying one' s head in the sand' to think that sexual promiscuity would not have any effect on the body.

Anything we do to abuse our bodies (male & female) has an effect. Too much standing, sitting, frowning, hard work, squinting, typing, working on excel, sex, alcohol, drugs, staring at TV, phones and laptops, smoking etc etc.

It is the body from birth we are taking to the grave.

Use it well.

What's childish about the way he handled it?

I like holes, but not borehole :PI like holes, but not borehole

crackkhaus:
They should take their daughter back, it's not by force to stay married.
I don't think he asked for the bride-price, but it should be given back to him voluntarily based on traditional etiquette.

The gentleman was even kind enough to drive her all the way to her hometown instead of just throwing her out like a nobody.
He should be commended.

I agree with you except that "kind enough" statement, If a Woman's organ is becomes wide, it is definitely a natural occurrence.

He did what he was suppose to do, after all he didn't pick her from the streets like a nobody. Returning her to her hometown is the proper way.

truthsayer009:


I agree with you except that "kind enough" statement, If a Woman's organ is becomes wide, it is definitely a natural occurrence.

He did what he was suppose to do, after all he didn't pick her from the streets like a nobody. Returning her to her hometown is the proper way.

Absolutely, it's a natural occurrence he had no hand in, and it's something he should not be condemned to suffer in for the rest of his life.
He probably never had sex with her before marrying her.

I still believe he was "kind enough", especially going by the way men usually throw their wives out of the house.
Even in more developed countries, it would be unusual for a man to drive his wife to her parents' house just to tell them he is not interested anymore - it more often gets settled in a court after a fight.

This man acted like someone with regard for his in-laws, this is why he should be commended.

Nigger returned the well please he doesn't know how to swim

His assertion are not true as no amount of be digging can change the size don't forget it's elastic to expand and contract after birth.

Kennedyiheme:
Dude I'm not bragging but I'm big .. I've had experiences with wide vaginas my guy, my prick lost inside...dont tell me I'm not big enough, lol when we warn you not to be as promiscuous as men you think we dont want equality... equality doesn't bring equal outcomes

This female hater is here.una go wail on top woman matter till y'all drink sniper.i knew I was gonna see you and omar9 here cos this kinda matter both of you will jump in here to show that ya both are redpillers abi bluepillers with so much hate for the female folks.awon nairaland internet warriors. Our matter go dey pain una sotey una nyash go commot. As for the op that fabricated that story biko go get sense,there are real intelligent people here not itiboribos and broke female haters.see them shouting yen yen yen.

STOP PAINTING THE FEMALE FOLK BAD NAIRALAND BOYS.YALL SHOULD GROW UP

pocohantas:


Things can be done to make it narrow, you should read about that and stop showing ignorance in 2020.

There are provisions for people who are displeased with their sexual organs - albeit with consequences.

However, you men should learn to admit that some of you have small dicks. It is nothing to kill yourselves over. The dick comes in different sizes and horsepower, just like the vagina. Face that bitter fact. Okay?

No vagina comes that wide, you girls should stop deceiving yourselves. After most girls will say they can't date any man that his dick doesn't measure up to 12.5/13.5cm and later in the future this is the result, you start looking for excuses to justify your act.

We can understand if the lady in question has given birth but in this case she hasn't.

Hisduchess:


This female hater is here.una go wail on top woman matter till y'all drink sniper.i knew I was gonna see you and omar9 here cos this kinda matter both of you will jump in here to show that ya both are redpillers abi bluepillers with so much hate for the female folks.awon nairaland internet warriors. Our matter go dey pain una sotey una nyash go commot. As for the op that fabricated that story biko go get sense,there are real intelligent people here not itiboribos and broke female haters.see them shouting yen yen yen.

STOP PAINTING THE FEMALE FOLK BAD NAIRALAND BOYS.YALL SHOULD GROW UP

k

Thegamingorca:


You don't think often, do you

He doesn't actually have sense

Well this is why as a guy, it's good to do a thorough background check on any Lady you plan on marrying.

I know the past is the past, well that's for the olden days but in this Generation, the past is a 10 unit course.

It must be known so that we can know what we are getting into.

crackkhaus:

What's childish about the way he handled it?

Going to drop the girl at her parents'; embarrassing them by publicizing the issue.

crackkhaus:

Absolutely, it's a natural occurrence he had no hand in, and it's something he should not be condemned to suffer in for the rest of his life.
He probably never had sex with her before marrying her.

I still believe he was "kind enough", especially going by the way men usually throw their wives out of the house.
Even in more developed countries, it would be unusual for a man to drive his wife to her parents' house just to tell them he is not interested anymore - it more often gets settled in a court after a fight.

This man acted like someone with regard for his in-laws, this is why he should be commended.

But he did not end the marriage, he said his in-laws should 'fix' her for the marriage to continue. See the bold.

visaland:
Everybody was in shock yesterday at Ebelle community in Edo state as a man returns his wife to her parents saying the woman's virginal will swallow him up if nothing is done about it.The community was amused how the man identified as Osamudiame Iyobosa could be that childish as to return his legally married wife for such flimsy excuse. The man who dropped his wife at her parents house in ubiaja in a green coloured golf 4 told his in-laws that many people must have slept with Edeki for her virginal to be that wide
The couple before now were living at upper mission road in Benin city. It was said that Edeki was merely recommended to Iyobosa. However, a man who sells palm wine near ubiaja market admits that the man may be right, according to him, Edeki was a well known flirt in the neighborhood and that no indigene would have married her. He said they were all surprised when Iyobosa came from Benin to marry her. Some young girls even started flirting saying that flirts are the most lucky ones using Edeki as example of a lucky flirt
The parents of Edeki were said to have been very angry with their inlaw for exposing their weakness publicly. The mother of the girl according to a witness was said to have called Iyobosa half man. They said this is strange as no man have ever done that to the community by returning his wife for having wide private part. The worst was that Iyobosa told onlookers that his wife had expressway pussy

bukatyne:


Going to drop the girl at her parents'; embarrassing them by publicizing the issue.

Two separate issues here:

1. Where should he have dropped her off, or rather, what should someone who is intent on not staying married do to avoid being called childish?

2. No where is it said he used a loudspeaker to announce it.
He informed his "in-laws", and I'm pretty sure this happened inside their house.

bukatyne:


But he did not end the marriage, he said his in-laws should 'fix' her for the marriage to continue. See the bold.

Lol, so you don't know that's sarcasm for 'I no wan marry again'?

crackkhaus:

Two separate issues here:

1. Where should he have dropped her off, or rather, what should someone who is intent on not staying married do to avoid being called childish?

2. No where is it said he used a loudspeaker to announce it.
He informed his "in-laws", and I'm pretty sure this happened inside their house.

@1: The man did not say he did not the marriage anymore. Besides, he & his wife should have worked out a solution to the 'problem.' If everyone returned their spouses home for every issue, we would have serious chaos. I applaud the husband. Other men might have committed adultery instead.

@2: The whole community knows the story

visaland:
Everybody was in shock yesterday at Ebelle community in Edo state as a man returns his wife to her parents saying the woman's virginal will swallow him up if nothing is done about it. The parents of Edeki were said to have been very angry with their inlaw for exposing their weakness publicly. The mother of the girl according to a witness was said to have called Iyobosa half man. They said this is strange as no man have ever done that to the community by returning his wife for having wide private part. The worst was that Iyobosa told onlookers that his wife had expressway pussy

crackkhaus:

Lol, so you don't know that's sarcasm for 'I no wan marry again'?

The man doesn't strike me as someone who would use sarcasm if he is bold enough to dump her there in the first place.

It is strange the story teller has no reaction from the wife.

bukatyne:


@1: The man did not say he did not the marriage anymore. Besides, he & his wife should have worked out a solution to the 'problem.' If everyone returned their spouses home for every issue, we would have serious chaos. I applaud the husband. Other men might have committed adultery instead.

@2: The whole community knows the story

1. Taking a woman to her parents' house and complaining about her vagina means the marriage is over and this is not the kind of problem to find a solution for, especially when she did not get wide after giving birth to his children.
He certainly did not have sex with her before marrying her, else he would already know how she feels down there. So it actually makes sense that he feels shortchanged.

2. How the whole community found out is very simple if you can deduce it. The OP noted that such a thing had not been done before in the community (someone returning his wife), so it follows that the news will spread quickly and the first question on everyone's lips will be WHY. It does not mean the man himself was at the town square announcing it.

bukatyne:

The man doesn't strike me as someone who would use sarcasm if he is bold enough to dump her there in the first place.

It is strange the story teller has no reaction from the wife.

Lol, it's like you don't know how your own countrymen speak in parables.

Can a wide vagina be fixed, and if so, is it her parents that will do the fixing?

The man is just saying in essence that the marriage is over.

coolcentbigman:


No vagina comes that wide, you girls should stop deceiving yourselves. After most girls will say they can't date any man that his dick doesn't measure up to 12.5/13.5cm and later in the future this is the result, you start looking for excuses to justify your act.

We can understand if the lady in question has given birth but in this case she hasn't.

Which wide? How do you know the circumference of the vagina? You live inside it or what?

12.5cm indeed. Which sane girl would look for that from a Nigerian man? Who dash una such length on the average. Abeg, go sleep.

crackkhaus:

1. Taking a woman to her parents' house and complaining about her vagina means the marriage is over and this is not the kind of problem to be finding a solution for, especially when she did not get wide after giving birth to his children.
He certainly did not have sex with her before marrying her, else he would already know how she feels down there. So it actually makes sense that he feels shortchanged.

2. How the whole community found out is very simple if you can deduce it. The OP noted that such a thing had not been done before in the community (someone returning his wife), so it follows that the news will spread quickly and the first question on everyone's lips will be WHY.

1. Let's assume the marriage is over. It is against the spirit of marriage to just return the wife except he has told her severally and she ignored his feedback.

2. Bros, he told them himself. Even the OP stated it. I am sure neither the parents nor the girl herself would tell the community that he returned her because her Vjay is wide.

crackkhaus:

Lol, it's like you don't know how your own countrymen speak in parables.

Can a wide vagina be fixed, and if so, is it her parents that will do the fixing?

The man is just saying in essence that the marriage is over.

According to theories, yes.

I heard of a guy who said his wife was wide after childbirth and sent her home to her parents to use local stuffs and they returned her new.

pocohantas:


Which wide? How do you know the circumference of the vagina? You live inside it or what?

12.5cm indeed. Which sane girl would look for that from a Nigerian man? Who dash una such length on the average? Abeg, go sleep.

Twelve centimetre nah almost half of yellow ruler. It no try?

bukatyne:

According to theories, yes.

I heard of a guy who said his wife was wide after childbirth and sent her home to her parents to use local stuffs and they returned her new.

Hearsay... The details may be quite different from the way you heard it.

The only foolproof method capable of making the vagina feel brand new is surgery - vaginoplasty.
Local treatment or kegel exercises will never make it as tight as new.

bukatyne:


1. Let's assume the marriage is over. It is against the spirit of marriage to just return the wife except he has told her severally and she ignored his feedback.

2. Bros, he told them himself. Even the OP stated it. I am sure neither the parents nor the girl herself would tell the community that he returned her because her Vjay is wide.

1. That takes us back to my initial question - for someone who has no interest whatsoever in continuing with a marriage, what is the 'mature' way to go about ending it 'in the spirit of marriage'?

2. How do you think he did it. Like he called the community together and then told them collectively?

Thegamingorca:



Twelve centimetre nah almost half of yellow ruler. It no try?

Lol. E try, how many cm be your own na?

crackkhaus:

Hearsay... The details may be quite different from the way you heard it.

The only foolproof method capable of making vagina feel brand new is surgery - vaginoplasty.
Local treatment or level exercises will never make it as tight as new.

Hausa woman have stuffs they use or her parents can save up

Besides does the husband want tight or tight as new?

crackkhaus:


1. That takes us back to my initial question - for someone who has no interest whatsoever in continuing with a marriage, what is the 'mature' way to go about ending it 'in the spirit of marriage'?

2. How do you think he did it. Like he called the community together and then told them collectively?

1. In the spirit of marriage, they both look for a solution.

2. The bold answers you:

visaland:
Everybody was in shock yesterday at Ebelle community in Edo state as a man returns his wife to her parents saying the woman's virginal will swallow him up if nothing is done about it. The community was amused how the man identified as Osamudiame Iyobosa could be that childish as to return his legally married wife for such flimsy excuse. The man who dropped his wife at her parents house in ubiaja in a green coloured golf 4 told his in-laws that many people must have slept with Edeki for her virginal to be that wide
The couple before now were living at upper mission road in Benin city. It was said that Edeki was merely recommended to Iyobosa. However, a man who sells palm wine near ubiaja market admits that the man may be right, according to him, Edeki was a well known flirt in the neighborhood and that no indigene would have married her. He said they were all surprised when Iyobosa came from Benin to marry her. Some young girls even started flirting saying that flirts are the most lucky ones using Edeki as example of a lucky flirt
The parents of Edeki were said to have been very angry with their inlaw for exposing their weakness publicly. The mother of the girl according to a witness was said to have called Iyobosa half man. They said this is strange as no man have ever done that to the community by returning his wife for having wide private part. The worst was that Iyobosa told onlookers that his wife had expressway pussy

pocohantas:


Lol. E try, how many cm be your own na?

my own no reach 30

bukatyne:

Hausa woman have stuffs they use or her parents can save up

Besides does the husband want tight or tight as new?

If she made him believe she was a virgin (since they did not have sex before they got married), would it matter whether it is tight or tight as new?