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Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this girl was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now these sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

carnal:
very true,the parents are close to the dangote/dantata empire, she herself is a childhood friend of Fatima dangote.the point is Dr Sid failed to invest plus use her family influence to grow himself plus create financial stability when music career was drowning,the ability of a man to switch survival instinct is key when a particular career path is dropping,see Peter Okoye and Lola(she is from a wealthy family) but Peter has got loads of investment and that's majorly a strength for him today

Gwan2:
Frustrated he goat....If my sister choose to be within that bracket,, I wish her goodluck. Every man for himself. Pained idiot!

Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this girl was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now these sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

handsomeyinka:
God knows best..

EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS OWN PROBLEM..

A MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR ONCE TOLD ME SHE HAS DIVORCED 3 TIMES...

NA SO MY BRAIN RESET.

victorian:
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The only thing i like about wat u typed is the bolded.

One shouldnt expect their marriage to be safe, when fucvking another mans wife and the wonan's marriage collapse but still expect his own to stay untouchable. For where? Karna must touch his marriage.

Hedonini:
As eye don clear say money no dey, Sid don turn monkey for her eye.

At all costs, do well my brothers. Do well.

Ogilinsaka:
He goat... You claim to have returned from Germany with those rotten garbage you spewed there as English? I don't think so. Moreover those babes you talked about are definitely oloshos. Cos your type can't afford clean women. Orue..

karkinase:
I've come to realise that there is some sort of correlation between age & experience for women to divorce rate.
Yesterday, I watched a video where the coach said dont date women over 25yrs, at first it sounds weird but after listening through I found is assertion to be correct.

From a tender age of say 17yrs, a girl starts dating, prolly would get into like five serious relationships where she must have invested all her emotions, she gets heartbroken say like 10 times before the age of 30 by this time her once tender heart is now damaged to love anymore. As her biological clock ticks fast, she feigns her original character and persona for would be unsuspecting men. Marriage eventually comes along and the ruins of her bad relationships and breakup would allow her to always come defensive and refuse to mend things whenever the need arises. Psychologically, her mind is now conditioned to opt out of a union giving her troubles and the ugly past of her relationships continues to haunt her even in marriage.
it's no women's fault thou...its just that their heart have been damaged by unhealthy relationships hence divorce rate will continue to rise.

cococandy:
You wanted a fling and you’re upset someone wanted to give it to you?

Your greed is what’s ruining marriage. You want to eat your cake and have it back

Jaqenhghar:
The person you love may not be the best option for you as a life partner. Marriage involves a lot of sacrifice and work. If you fall for someone who is not ready to put in the work then it will fail. My opinion sha. I stand to be corrected

lexy2014:
Every performance in WWE is scripted

ezesj:
Ermm madam, whatever happened to minding your own business....
Can u in any way compare ur present financial state with this same Dr Sid?
Talking about him having his last hit song when u were in Secondary school,
Aren't you the same 37-38yrs old frustrated feminist that have failed to convince a responsible man to walk u down the aisle?
Sid is just about 2yrs older than ur wrinkled sexually starved personality...

Warm Regards!

ezesj:
Ermm madam, whatever happened to minding your own business....
Can u in any way compare ur present financial state with this same Dr Sid?
Talking about him having his last hit song when u were in Secondary school,
Aren't you the same 37-38yrs old frustrated feminist that have failed to convince a responsible man to walk u down the aisle?
Sid is just about 2yrs older than ur wrinkled sexually starved personality...

Warm Regards!

oonix:
You don't wan to go Down that road. trust me

orunmila144:
Looking at the matter on another level Dr Sid was born 1980 which the year 19-80 means ' low state '. his solar sign is in tau-rus and this means ' powerless ' while his luna sign is in scorpio meaning his wife will surpass him and so that means in the relationship she has the power while he is powerless and in a low state. now she was born in 19-85 meaning ' affliction ' and her solar sign is lib-ra meaning ' no authority ' . her luna sign is also leo meaning ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she is a twin flame to him meaning a reflection and when she joined unto him he got compassed by her energy of ' no authority ' and ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she coming into his life is what killed his music career because his solar and luna sign placement is such that she will compass him with the energy of her aura which the energy of her aura is - road block and no authority - hence why his career hit a road block after they married. its all written in the stars

Realhommie:
He said he wanted a serious relationship that'll lead to marriage, that's what he told his friend.. But the lady had other ideas.

How did you come about him wanting a fling?

cococandy:
Words are different from actual actions

gbemishile:
Madam.it doesn't matter if he was three times ur size.if una start that una craze,una go quick switch to 'oya beat me na,woman beater,oya beat me'.

Rexhenrex:
u made a point but those it then mean this century everyone is falling for the wrong one? i really feel there is no longer patience, tolerance and some key virture that marriage needs once there is no perseverance it must scatter also people rush marriage nowadays u meet someone and two months later u get married to them tins like this must surely occur people now are after Wat they can get at the moment so ones it no longer there the love vanishes permit me to say at the moment love is based on the material tons u have and that which u can provide that's why Alot of women don't care to know about there partner as long as he can provide there immediate need then the are good to go

orunmila144:
Looking at the matter on another level Dr Sid was born 1980 which the year 19-80 means ' low state '. his solar sign is in tau-rus and this means ' powerless ' while his luna sign is in scorpio meaning his wife will surpass him and so that means in the relationship she has the power while he is powerless and in a low state. now she was born in 19-85 meaning ' affliction ' and her solar sign is lib-ra meaning ' no authority ' . her luna sign is also leo meaning ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she is a twin flame to him meaning a reflection and when she joined unto him he got compassed by her energy of ' no authority ' and ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she coming into his life is what killed his music career because his solar and luna sign placement is such that she will compass him with the energy of her aura which the energy of her aura is - road block and no authority - hence why his career hit a road block after they married. its all written in the stars

Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this girl was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now these sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

iRyan:
So every Leo born has road block in their part?

Realhommie:
You know you talk too much? What's even more worrisome is how you talk/write with so much authority..

Were you there when he shagged Tiwa while she was married? Whatever happened between them was when she was still single as with 2Baba and Don Jazzy according to Tunde's allegation.. Please stop typing trash..

zoezoelogistics:
My dear, there is no cause for alarm.
No reason to be afraid about marriage.
Just ensure you marry your friend.

The mistake a lot of people make is , they friend zone their friends saying , “we are better as friends, we can’t get marry”.
They rather marry someone they hardly know so so well, neither are they friends with, thinking they will become friends after getting married.

This is the worse mistake to ever make.

Your spouse is someone you would spend the rest of your life with.
If you marry the right person, you would even get to love him and place him ahead of your own flesh and blood (siblings and parents).

Such a person you would pick ahead of your folks has to be a friend and not just anyone.

playapayaski:
Wonder y most people see divorce as a big problem o.. Divorce ain't right but if after trying to fix the marriage it still don't work then so be it.. All u commenting how marriage has failed n only blaming the women now.. Bros dem! If most of our mothers get choice then, dem for leave our papa.. Those women tolerated all sort of crap from our father's, mine for one is an example.. But now gyals have options, its no longer a do or die affair, even the gyals parents are willing to accept them back now than an abusive marriage..

Don't promise him/her Paradise if u haven't built your own heaven. Be a good husband/wife first b4 pointing fingers.

boiz2men:
So you mean big show allowed mayweather humiliate him?

DRPAIT123:
You can't school me when it comes to the difference between martial art and entertainment, I sure know better.

Gwan2:
Very correct...I sometimes admire people that had courted for long as friends before walking down the aisle, trust me they are so lucky. I had my plans set out on how I wanted my life, I knew it will take time and i never wanted to hold down a lady with the promise of marriage only to disappoint her, reason I didn't build a long time relationship. A very pretty fulani girl I had a very good time with was a moslem, we had a good relationship even while I was struggling and she was a student ..both of us knew we can't marry due to religion difference. I wished I could. I met her as a virgin. The second lady that really understood me and stood by me while I was struggling is already married with a kid. I had to cut off the relationship then because i was at the peak of frustration with things not working out for me, also as I said I never waited to tie her down with marriage promises only to disappoint her. We are good friends now anyway. Trust me I had to take down most of my social media pics because it was attracting the wrong set of girls to me...Like my friend did, the best bet is to get someone within the same work environment that have almost similar orientation.