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Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by pride4legacy(m): 11:12pm On Jan 27, 2020
I am actually the type that likes a woman loving me for who I am and not interested in money.

But of recent i found out that it is not them asking for money that is the problem rather the thought of dating someone that i cannot really provide for depresses me and there is this girl i got now though she hardly asks for something i want to let her go because right now i can't afford her the things a boyfriend should get his girlfriend but she is a good girl and does not complain but deep in me i feel like i should let this go.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 27, 2020
pride4legacy:
I am actually the type that likes a woman loving me for who I am and not interested in money.

But of recent i found out that it is not them asking for money that is the problem rather the thought of dating someone that i cannot really provide for depresses me and there is this girl i got now though she hardly asks for something i want to let her go because right now i can't afford her the things a boyfriend should get his girlfriend but she is a good girl and does not complain but deep in me i feel like i should let this go.

don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by donbachi(m): 11:21pm On Jan 27, 2020
Self condemnation...hmm!

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by SimeonOTC(m): 11:31pm On Jan 27, 2020
o.p i can relate very well..

this was how i lost my ex...

she hardly ask for anything, and the mistake i made was that i thought she was okay, not knowing say babe need money badly.

though, i gift her the little i have, but she wasn't okay with it, so she left for one G-nigga.

o.p no kill ya self oohgrin , just try n do the little you know you can., no matter how broke you are, appreciate with little stuff...

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by JustinNepolian: 11:31pm On Jan 27, 2020
Oga... Before you got her, weren't you fully aware that you lacked those things that boyfriend provide or give to their girlfriend...

See you better wise up and stop shaming your clan, hold her and watch things for now as they play out or more so reason with her and hear her opinions...

Girl dey her own, you come meet her and now she's into you na him your eyes come clear... The thing be say you are yet to know what you really want out of life... Please stop repeating this vicious cycles for God sake...

Op... No be every girl heart you must break as a result of you still trying to find yourself.... Sometimes you've got to consider the other person too... Love is a good thing, if only people will admit and learn that they don't know it all...

Consider the pics below and ask yourself questions cos my answer to you is a big no grin

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by pride4legacy(m): 11:49pm On Jan 27, 2020
Michellekabod2:
don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card

I want to hug you now
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by CAPSLOCKED: 2:59am On Jan 28, 2020
Michellekabod2:
don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb ,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card


CHEI.

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Kobicove(m): 5:18am On Jan 28, 2020
It sounds like you have self-esteem issues undecided
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 5:48am On Jan 28, 2020
pride4legacy:
I am actually the type that likes a woman loving me for who I am and not interested in money.

But of recent i found out that it is not them asking for money that is the problem rather the thought of dating someone that i cannot really provide for depresses me and there is this girl i got now though she hardly asks for something i want to let her go because right now i can't afford her the things a boyfriend should get his girlfriend but she is a good girl and does not complain but deep in me i feel like i should let this go.



Pass her to me.. I understand how u feel Bro and that's one of the reason I don't wana go into any relationship yet... I hate not being able to provide or fulfil my responsibilities... I just can't bear it and more reason I just wana hustle well and av a good source of income

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by stobery(m): 7:29am On Jan 28, 2020
Michellekabod2:
don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card

Chai...

Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Equity15(m): 8:11am On Jan 28, 2020
guy, you can continue with the r/ship but no too put your mind there cos she can leave at any time besides this your self-condemnation is a turn off. yes! there are good girls out there(so I heard), but money in a relationship is very important. it is like a grease on a bicycle chain. without it the chain will turn rusty and cut with time. believe me, I have been in your shoes before, it's not easy.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Equity15(m): 8:15am On Jan 28, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:



CHEI.
lmao grin this your reply just make person I sit next to for keke napep dey doubt my sanity the way I burst laff.. grin grin grin...na really chei

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Omar09(m): 8:39am On Jan 28, 2020
Michellekabod2:
don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card

I'm indeed of a hug. Come hug me.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by ImaIma1(f): 10:28am On Jan 28, 2020
Michellekabod2:
don't let her go. Love and accept yourself. Don't let anyone broke-sham you. You will make it some day and treat her like the Queen she is.

Don't be ashamed to get her little things like comb,earrings,a lovely T-shirt,or even take her out once a while to eat a moderate lunch. You can send her #200 recharge card


Comb?!!
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Allsingles: 10:36am On Jan 28, 2020
pride4legacy:
I am actually the type that likes a woman loving me for who I am and not interested in money.

But of recent i found out that it is not them asking for money that is the problem rather the thought of dating someone that i cannot really provide for depresses me and there is this girl i got now though she hardly asks for something i want to let her go because right now i can't afford her the things a boyfriend should get his girlfriend but she is a good girl and does not complain but deep in me i feel like i should let this go.


I think you should not let her go.
Be your true-self and don't fake who you are for her.
Show her care and love in the way you can.
Appreciate her kind of woman, treat her like she is the only Queen in the world.
Make her comfortable whenever she visit you.
Letting her go means you are not matured enough to be with a woman and also that you are the type of men that can only love a woman when there is money and when there is no money you will show her the red light in you.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 10:56am On Jan 28, 2020
pride4legacy:
I am actually the type that likes a woman loving me for who I am and not interested in money.

But of recent i found out that it is not them asking for money that is the problem rather the thought of dating someone that i cannot really provide for depresses me and there is this girl i got now though she hardly asks for something i want to let her go because right now i can't afford her the things a boyfriend should get his girlfriend but she is a good girl and does not complain but deep in me i feel life i should let this go.

So you are realy broke in real life? I guessed right

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Miwasky: 11:18am On Jan 28, 2020
Don’t let her Go bro .. I have been there and I have done it . I make bold to tell you that there are 4 things that attracts and keep a lady

Your Money
Your vision and your dream
Your sense of humor
Your hardwork

Be yourself and appreciate her in the little way you can then hold her hands and promise her that things will be ok that the money you don’t have now, you have it in your vision and discuss your plan, dream and vision and involve her in the plan also seek for her opinion as she will see you as part of her . If she is yours, she will stay

You have low self esteem that you need to work on. Always remind yourself of who you are and think big because God does not answer to our prayers alone ..he answers to our thinking ..good luck Bro

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Groovy1993: 1:09pm On Jan 28, 2020
What positive impact does the girl have in your life that you are not reciprocating?
Are you the one providing for your friends and family? I mean the people that actually made positive impacts in your life.
Do you feel depressed about them?

Your foolish pride is actually low self esteem in disguise.
Love is suffering in disguise.

You don't owe her anything.
If she leaves you, you have lost nothing.
If you are providing for her and she leaves you without making any positive impact in your life, you are a big loser.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Homeboiy: 1:35pm On Jan 28, 2020
Iam praying in my mind that my girl quit out relationship set

I'm tired in my mind but she never know
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2020
ImaIma1:


Comb?!!
a set of comb ,there are about 12 pieces...you can get them for 2k and above
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by ImaIma1(f): 2:15pm On Jan 28, 2020
Michellekabod2:
a set of comb ,there are about 12 pieces...you can get them for 2k and above


There are more creative gifts than comb. It just like going to buy shaving stick as a gift. With 2k, though small, something better can be bought

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Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 28, 2020
ImaIma1:


There are more creative gifts than comb. It just like going to buy shaving stick as a gift. With 2k, though small, something better can be bought

great
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 28, 2020
Don't feel depressed. Be motivated to 'hustle' so that you can cater to her needs. If she has vision, she will stay when she sees you making genuine efforts to move up the food chain. Everyone has a Payday.
Re: Please How Do You Solve This Relationship Problem by pride4legacy(m): 4:45pm On Jan 28, 2020
I can't thank you guys enough ... i feel like ya'll relationship specialist

Please keep it coming

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