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Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by ibietela2(m): 12:39am On Jan 29, 2020 |
InfernoNig: Good, hope he takes it 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by ugohenry2019(m): 12:45am On Jan 29, 2020 |
its too early to start commenting on puna matters by January..bros na 2020 be this 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by whirlout: 12:46am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Am not being judgmental here but its clear you aren't ready for marriage here. That's the only reason you find yourself in this mess. And from all you 've typed, you are clearly just trying to wash your hand and see how you can get away with it, silence the Lola girl and keep your girl in the dark, that's far from taking personal responsibility. If you had gotten married to your girl, you likely would have done same thing albeit in a different setting. What is done is already done, give it time to play out, take responsibility for it if it comes to that, enjoy your life and once everything is out of your system, you will know it's time to get married. Apologize profusely to your girl and let her go about her life. Chances are if you force this marriage thing, it might lead to a lifetime of resentment for both of you especially if she happens to not be able to have kids or unable to have the sex of a kids that you desire and the other girl happens to have just that. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by ibietela2(m): 12:47am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Aarenasbaba: Double it o... To avoid wear and tear |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Fk1987: 12:50am On Jan 29, 2020 |
My brother av you tot of this, what if in the course of terminating the pregnancy the Lola of a girl with the unborn baby died....yes the mistake has happened, just beg ur legit girl and ask for forgiveness, give her some time to think about it, and also pray for the lady you got pregnant have successful delivery, but mind you if you av the money do DNA test after delivery of the baby.... Let's learn from his mistake but this can happen to anybody cos we too are not saint... Take it easy bro... 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by ArticleBeast: 12:53am On Jan 29, 2020 |
She isn't pregnant at all... They just wan chop op money. Even the Canada call na sakamanje 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Mike008(m): 12:54am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Hmmmmm! Dicey situation. Tell her now and deal with the repercussions. If she stays fine, if she doesn't your love story ends. But it's better to deal with it now than in the future. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by BENEAMATA: 1:03am On Jan 29, 2020 |
the starboy himself . " i met a girl ( VERY FINE GIRL ) " _ this here shows you got entangled in a web that has trapped many men , and even if this blows over you will still cheat with another random fine sex goddess in future , simple as . i'll advice you go with your dad's younger brother or pastor ( respectable father in- law should never go ) to , first open up to your fiancee's dad in deep remorse and humility who will then bring his daughter in , to pacify her in what should be a meeting of five to include the mom after baba must have first spoken with his daughter . remember the danger of telling her first since she hinted grave concequences when you laid the scenario of what played out hypothetically to her ! which brings me to one more thing , can your sweetheart swear she has never cheated on you since you were together ? if you sincerely think she can swear with all she holds dear that she has been faithfull to you , then my brother , if such a lady swore death for betrayal then i'm afraid you have to be worried . sure this won't happen again OP ? you wouldn't want to turn a good girl to a sycho b!@#h would you ? 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by 1972xy: 1:03am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Jeffmonti:sorry dear. I can only advice you to dissolve the relationship with your girl friend and move on with your life. Sit her down and tell her everything if she feels she cannot take it let her go. The beautiful ones are not yet born. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by kennyclassic: 1:09am On Jan 29, 2020 |
You just have to let your girlfriend know. One way or another find a better time and place to tell her. If you guys weren’t so fast with the marriage thing I’d say you tell her when the baby drops. Just be like “Baby, a have a child somewhere” She will be furious but if she loves you she’ll definitely stay. Definition of men are scum... hehehe... it’s well bro 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by UrVillagePpl: 1:14am On Jan 29, 2020 |
IcraveLove: Aunty keep quiet. Na una do am pass. Modified: just checked ur profile. From Edo state . We all know the story of Edo girl(fine girls but their Runs tooooooo much ).. our Italian babes(representing Naija in Italy) Better no the form saint theresa for here o.. And as for the OP, u fvck up shaa. But the Lord is ur strength |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Nobody: 1:16am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Had it been you didn't commit yourself by giving her 100k I woud have suggest you deny the preg pata- pata. Hmm but now you are on a long thing. Be ready for the worst as you may loose ur babe in the mean time pls look for someone in your would be in law side that you can relate with. Pls don't tell your babe first. From there you will know the next step. The preg babe shey she know ur work place ? If no pls consider relocation That NDA you signed pls hold it well for it will be of little use later in life (magistrate) Advise to guys...once you are on yje right path doing well in biz or carrer b careful of free pupuss they may ruin u. |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by AreaFada2: 1:17am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Jeffmonti: You are not married yet. It's still your call where you choose to live. After marriage you won't have that sole control. Staying in the neighbourhood would be bad for you and fiancee when you marry. The mistake has been made, be a man. Face it head on. Let her have the baby and do a paternity test. Your baby mama doesn't have to know when you are doing it. A swab each of the inside cheek of baby and your cheek is enough. To avoid drama. The best thing is let your fiancee know what happened. She'll be disappointed but if she's meant to be yours, she'll stay. If she leaves, move on. Learn your lesson. Another lady will come your way and hopefully you will be more "mature". Na wa o, you were just tidying a girl that has a steady boyfriend. You sef bad o. Fact is people are fucking left, right and centre. Single, engaged, married or whatever. Are you sure las las she won't deceive her steady boyfriend with that her pregnancy? I'm sure the boyfriend will also be describing the girl you impregnated as "his good girlfriend". Chai, inside life. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by obowunmi(m): 1:17am On Jan 29, 2020 |
IyaTola: |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by obailala(m): 1:23am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Elbone2:Abeg wetin be the secret and wetin you do?... Na learn we come here to learn from pros like una. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by BENEAMATA: 1:35am On Jan 29, 2020 |
luminouz:this is not the garrison general ! later una go follow dem say no freedom of speech in north korea . you're talking street sense , he is being spiritual , why the profanity ? is he/she exposing something you're trying to hide from the OP ? what light are you beaming into the young man's life LUMINOUS ? or should i say (IL)luminati . 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by FOSAC: 1:37am On Jan 29, 2020 |
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Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by prostvision2: 1:37am On Jan 29, 2020 |
well your stories is logical i believe the gal find some potential in you that she didn't see in her man that is why she want to play the game with your heart,i believe that what she is doing is to play game with your innocence, she knew that your still naive into the game that is why she is playing with your heart. There are 50 50 chances that your not the real owner of that pregnant if she is really pregnant, i said that because i know women are very trickish and smart when it come to relationship, most especially a lady at her age{Desperate chic} That pregnant might belong to her man but she want to try her luck with you which mean she will make it looks like ur the owner of that pregnant which means if u fail to accept it by marrying her or fathering the child, she will use it to collect money from u because she kn both of you are close and your capable and innocence to manipulate that is why she bring her friends instead of her parents, at the first place why not bring her parents why her friends? all what she is doing na job. If you want to know the truth about the pregnant, take her to your doctor to exam her if she is pregnant truly, dont just believe on the result she show you, a doctor can give her that result and she will use that to wipe you bro, a 27 old gal cant make such mistake if she is not up to something. 2nd advice bro after confirming from your doctor before letting your gal know try and meet with her ppl with someone close to your family,have a meeting with hers so that their will be no secrecy into this because she might still use the same pregnant to scam someone else but if u try to make everything open her job will knock and she will not like such to happen, she is desperate and ready to do everything to hoodwink an innocent soul. so during the meeting dont accept the responsibility of the pregnant until she deliver the child and both of you go and confirmed biological father of the child through DNA after narrating all these process you want to go with her she will open up and let you know the truth of the claimed pregnant because she puts u in the dark to wipe u that is why she use someone uptown to call you after collecting the agreed money fear desperate women bro. After your conclusion with the gal and their family before you can now let the cat out to your gal so she will kn where you stand to avoid loosing both coz of slit mistake thanks me later after this 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by obailala(m): 1:38am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Foodqueen:This was actually my initial thought; there's a fair probability the side chick isnt truly pregnant. I have a friend who went through a similar situation, the side chick actually barged in on him and his fiancee with the breaking news of pregnancy. Local man was seriously devastated, his fiancee was of course even more devastated and she moved out of his house. But at the end, it turned out to be 'audio' pregnancy. The side chick in this case may have been trying to use the pregnancy to get his attention. But when he totally washed his hands off of her and the baby, she left disappointed. Only for her to return a month later following cunning advice from her sister to come scam some money out of him. N100k now paid, it's likely she will return a month later again to squeeze out some more money from the guy. @Jeffmonti, all hope isn't yet lost. Now is time for you to pray to God for a miracle. Your fiancee has to know the truth; she will probably leave when she knows, but might forgive and take back your sorry ass if the pregnacy turns out not to be real, or if it's eventually not actually yours (remember Lola also bleeps her BF). 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by baby124: 1:40am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Where is the proof that you are the father? Lola also has a boyfriend she’s fucking... same with you. But you are a big bastard ooo! Lola is having sex with you and another guy and God knows who else unprotected. You carry that dirty dick to have unprotected sex with your own girlfriend too. Kai! God punish you! I pity the so called girlfriend because you don’t have sense at all. She’s better off dumping you. In that marriage you will definitely bring HIV. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by juman(m): 1:46am On Jan 29, 2020 |
First thing is to go and do DNA test with her pregnancy. Yeah, you can do DNA test of a child still in her mothers womb. The pregnancy might not yours. |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Judybash93(m): 2:01am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Well, ma niggi, this is the 21st century, you made a mistake and that's cool but there's still a chance that your side chick's baby might not be yours.. Moreover, it's better for you to actually tell your fiancée the truth. It's better for her to know than for her to learn of it from somebody else. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Mayorwer: 2:07am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Tell her the truth, if she loves you she will marry you and if she refuse to go ahead with the wedding,oga move on..it's better to kill the case right now than to keeping the secret that you know it will eventually unfold one Day. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Renforce: 2:07am On Jan 29, 2020 |
This your story is so freaking similar to mine. Only the thing never enter.... Omo mk I take dressing o |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by eguarojeona: 2:15am On Jan 29, 2020 |
You said she has a boyfriend,yes? What makes you think you are the one responsible for the pregnancy?Did you see the pregnancy test results? What makes you think you are the only one having sex with her? You have an NDA.Forget about her.Marry your responsible fiance.If she comes with child later,go insist on a DNA test.Be careful henceforth bro. |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by eguarojeona: 2:18am On Jan 29, 2020 |
IcraveLove:Typical.Ladies cheat same way as guys,if not worse.You didn't read the part he said the side chick has a bf? What makes you think his gf doesn't have a guy by the side? From my experience most girls have. |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by kbright2(m): 2:20am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Op, is so painful what happened, just take it cos you can't undo it. The mistake you made was not seeking advice before it got to this. When u sex a lady 5 to 6 times, just believe the 7th one is beckoning unwanted pregnancy cos you won't care to taste it row. The mistake you did was sending her the money and not following her to the hospital when you knew the amount she demanded for initially was to high, you should know she wants to take the money to take care of herself not for the purpose you sent it for. My advice: never hide this for your girl (the truth might make or mare you) and NEVER try consider marrying Lola, she will CHEAT again and again. Prepare you mind for break up cos girls like urs never cheat and feel robbed when you do same. I learnt this from an uncle: Blessed are those who do not expect, because they will never be disappointed. Your girl MIGHT forgive you (some may give her reasons to forgive you, for telling her the truth), but it will take years and patient to build the trust you just destroyed. Finally, thank God this happened now, cos you would've done this in your marriage and that might cost you your home. Learn from your mistake bro... The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom, this won't have happened if you fear Him. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Nobody: 2:22am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Jeffmonti:Let her go ahead and have the child. You acted stupidly by engaging a lady in your proposed marital apartment. Keep your ring and confess how you ended your marriage before it started. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by mufex(m): 2:24am On Jan 29, 2020 |
You be mumu oooo.....you say she has a boyfriend, why you go gree that the child is yours. You for focus on your Relationship. You are not the only person fucking her. Na small pikin dey worry you. 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Tim16(m): 2:30am On Jan 29, 2020 |
I pray God see you through and grant you the wisdom to handle this and get it settled peacefully 1 Like |
Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by miltonchux(m): 2:30am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Bro I once fell into same scenero, be a man. Talk to your parents first about it, they will handle it properly. You have err as human, let your parents be the one to handle the matter and plead with your girl. But please don,t abandon your baby, you will be happy you kept him or her. My boy is my joy and everything, I was just wondering if he was aborted. If your girl does not want to go ahead with the marriage after your parents pleads with her, then you let go. Every child has a destiny, also locate the desperate lady and see her family too with your parents and let them know you are not marrying there daughter but will take care of your baby, when he comes. The 100k you gave her will do for now , until she wants to give birth. Goodluck, abeg free bleeping for now. |
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