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Asquare84:
It may be her inability to align herself with my level of exposure and she mingling with people with low I.Q in our neighborhood, can you imagine my wife will embarrass me to the extent of fighting with my neighbor and the the will naked her (as in stalk naked without pant)

Asquare84:
It may be her inability to align herself with my level of exposure and she mingling with people with low I.Q in our neighborhood, you can imagine my wife will embarrass me to the extent of fighting with my neighbor and the the will naked her (as in stalk naked without pant)

Asquare84:
It may be her inability to align herself with my level of exposure and she mingling with people with low I.Q in our neighborhood, your can imagine my wife will embarrass me to the extent of fighting with my neighbor and the the will naked her (as in stalk naked without pant)

Michellekabod2:
Am scared of marriage o...the stories I read daily scares me

Johnnyjohnnyman:
... My uncles has told me to go home and tell my wife that I lost my job and got duped but I shouldn’t mentioning my sister that I should just say by some guy I met online, my mother has suggested for us to move back with her to reduce the stress of paying rent so I went home , I did not want to lie to my wife the way my uncle has said so I was very honest with her , the minutes she heard about the money and the way I was duped by my sister , that was when everything has turned upside down and that was the beginning of my sorrow. She reject the idea of moving to my mother at least if she did that would have save us money from paying rent

Martinez39s:
Why should you as a woman be scared? Going by the OP's tale and that from other men in similar position, men are the ones that are supposed to scared. Don't indirectly play the victim, there isn't anything serious to scare you. Just get a rich simp that's spending on you and worshipping your püssy.

Michellekabod2:
I don't like simps

Martinez39s:
"Why are you using the word 'simp' to describe a man that has made his choices?"

Asquare84:
It may be her inability to align herself with my level of exposure and she mingling with people with low I.Q in our neighborhood, your can imagine my wife will embarrass me to the extent of fighting with my neighbor and the the will naked her (as in stalk naked without pant)

Michellekabod2:
I get your trick.

A simp is a human that is foolish. I don't want a foolish person as spouse. How can you compare it with shaming someone for his choice to love a woman?

Now go play with sand,you have been vanquished

Martinez39s:
So can't someone be "simpish" in their choice of women? Anyway, I don't want to argue. Don't pretend that you don't know who red pill men refer to as a simp. Good day.

YIMU

Michellekabod2:
You start up an argument and then take to your heels and run away?

[s]A simp by definition is someone who acts,thinks, and reasons like Martinez[/s] ....bye

Martinez39s:
Running away? Nah! We will never agree so what's the point? You knew the red pill meaning of simp yet you relegated it to mean only foolishly. You did this deliberately. Seeing your usual dishonesty, I just have to call it quit. You know on issues like this (red pill stuff and female nature), I can't expect honesty and rationality from a woman. Have a wonderful day. Bye.

Michellekabod2:
Same here,I can't expect honesty from rogues so let's agree to disagree

Asquare84:
She got pregnant for me I got her pregnant and because I don't want to treat her bad I decide to marry her

addictiv:
Aru eme!!

Johnnyjohnnyman:
I was hurt and cried badly , to be duped by my own sister, the pain was unbearable , I did not know what else to do, depression was worse , I distance myself from my wife and kids , My wife was worrying about me and I kept telling her nothing is wrong with me , even after being duped , I just did not how to tell her , what will she think of me , I knew she will be very hurt that I decided to do all these without informing her, I just didn’t know how to tell her and the last resort was to tell my mother the truth , so she can talk with my sister to send my money back , because I knew only my mother was able to solve the problem, my mother was very heartbroken she couldn’t believe what my sister did , she promised she will be talking to her and after two weeks to no avail, I involved my uncles and we had a family meeting , my mother , two uncles , me and younger bro at my mother place , she called my sister , she picked and my uncles asked her what really happened, she narrated the story still insisted that she gave the goods to the guy , so my uncles told her because she is the one who knows and trusted the him , she should resolve the problem with him and get back to us , she promised to call back in an hour , so we were all waiting for her call and after like 4hours , I knew and told my uncles she will not call again , and her number was off. My mother was very hurt , I could tell from her face and myself I cried like a woman and I didn’t know how to get home on that day . My uncles has told me to go home and tell my wife that I lost my job and got duped but I shouldn’t mentioning my sister that I should just say by some guy I met online , my mother has suggested for us to move back with her to reduce the stress of paying rent so I went home , I did not want to lie to my wife the way my uncle has said so I was very honest with her , the minutes she heard about the money and the way I was duped by my sister , that was when everything has turned upside down and that was the beginning of my sorrow. She reject the idea of moving to my mother at least if she did that would have save us money from paying rent

Seun:
Create a new thread for your case so that we can discuss it properly.

Mariangeles:
It is unfortunate how things turned out, but let it be a lesson to you. Learning from our mistakes is part of life and growth.

What you need to do now is to let go of EVERYTHING!

FORGET THE MONEY YOU LOST! It hurts to let go, yes, but if you keep holding on, hoping to get your money back, it might keep you stagnant and prevent from moving forward.

PICK YOURSELF UP AND START OVER! Yes, you can do it. It doesn't matter when you fall, what matters is that you PICK YOURSELF BACK UP!

IT IS NOT THE END! Rather, it could be the beginning of a new chapter in your life.

BE STRONG! Be emotionally strong. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Thanks for your words of encouragement

sayisayi:
With the remaining 100k, I go reach benin and shake her neck tire...peace dey reign for cranium after that.

OP...you and sis grew up together?

Martinez39s:
Why should you as a woman be scared? Going by the OP's tale and that from other men in similar position, men are the ones that are supposed to scared. Don't indirectly play the victim, there isn't anything serious to scare you. Just get a rich simp that's spending on you and worshipping your püssy.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
I’m 34 years old married with 3 kids, I’m an SSCE holder. I used to work as a chauffeur for this wealthy family for 8 years have been with this family and we become like a family , unfortunately my job ended last year July when my boss relocated his family to Canada because he is a kind hearted man and he compensated me with 300k to start up biz. I did not want my wife to know that my job has ended so I spoke with my elder sister , who is a business woman, she lives in Benin republic to help me with ideas of a profitable biz that will help me to still be able to foot in the bills , she suggested clothing biz and requested 200k for the goods , I sent her the money the next day and she promised me that I will be receiving the goods in a month. I was relieved that soon I will start up something to still be of taking care of my family. My wife knew nothing about it because I did not want her to start worrying about taking all the responsibilities by her own because she developed blood pressure when she had our last child , telling her about my job would have affected her health . I taught when I receive the goods by then she will not feel bad. I kept leaving the house as usual in the morning, just like I was going to work for my wife not to suspect anything. To cut the long story short my sister duped and blocked me , haven’t heard from her since and my wife came to know about everything , she sent my niece (my sister daughter )out of our house and she has been making life miserable for me. She doesn’t respect me ,even my children have no single respect for me. I know that I have wronged her by not informing her about the money but it was a mistake which I’m regretting till now , I can’t forgive myself but the pain and the insults I receive from her every single day , it’s unbearable. I cry every day with no hope , I go out every day searching for jobs and coming back late in the evening when she is already in bed to avoid being insulted by her and I leave early morning before she wakes up, I sleep in the parlour , she gives me food whenever she want , sometimes she only prepare for just her and the kids. Our rent expired on December I suggested that she shouldn’t renewed it , so she can use the money for the kids school fees meanwhile we can move back to my mother house till I can get back on my feet , she insults me including my poor mother, just because I’m poor and she foot all the bills , she doesn’t want to respect me anymore. I was thinking about moving back to my mother house until I get a job then I can move back with her again because living in the same house with her is leading me to suicide . I kindly seek for your advice