Aight..I'll just have to leave them to figure it out on their own...

Most of the answers were matured and devoid of insults..(Maybe Nairaland is hoping it's game)

To those that still had to be childish, you were ignored intentionally..and BTW grow up..

Shalom

CosmicJames:

Your sister is taking an unfair advantage of her husband. You really wish you could help, but unfortunately there is nothing you can do to help him.

Being a good nice guy is not a problem.
But if a guy doesn't know how to be assertive while being good and nice, then he will suffer hell in the hand of a lady be it wife or girlfriend.

Do you think your sister's husband doesn't know about his wife behaviour?

Of course he knows. The problem is that he was aware of those characters earlier but he decided to ignore and allowed it.
Trying to stop it now will be disastrous. So he have to endure it.

Before you try to advise or stop your sister, note that what you are seeing now doesn't start today. It started a long time ago and have come to stay. That's how that marriage will continue to be.

Did you know that your sister successfully tested her husband assertive nature several times and found that her husband is very weak and that nothing will happen if she act the way she is acting?

the only guy that spoke my mind, this happened to me while I was dating a lady two years ago,she was trying to control me, until the day she saw the other side of me and that was how the relationship ended between us, which I have no regrets with. Your sister husband saw the signs early in the relationship but ignored it. It is difficult to change the situation but it is still possible. No one God cannot change. Maybe your sister has the spirit of lion inside her. She can be delivered one day and be submissive to her husband

SwagPower:

She's kinda stubborn..Often insisting on them doing things her way..

Cc: Ubunja, Martinez39,Pansophist,Crackhaus,

You can't help a man who has decided to let a woman run circles around him, trust me you can't.

That subservient nature is already a part of him, let them continue in their marriage like that.

crackkhaus:

You can't help a man who has decided to let a woman run circles around him, trust me you can't.

That subservient nature is already a part of him, let them continue in their marriage like that.

Hear you loud and clear..

SwagPower:

Boss I'm sure you making a lot of sense..But your diction is kinda hard to decipher..

He said you confront your sister and tell it to her face that she needs to adjust her behaviour towards her hubby or else if pushed to the wall, he will changed totally and finally coming to social media to reel out your trouble won't solve it. ...

SwagPower:
I love my sister to bits.Shes my most favourite person in the whole world.
She's married to this guy..Good guy,Quiet,Mr nice guy basically a Beta Male.

She runs circles about him.

I'm torn between doing right by her since she's blood ...But I also feel sorry for her hubby as a guy ..Thing is I want to help him to be more assertive and Man his house..How do I do this without it backfiring on my sister..

Matured responses please..
(Let's make this discourse like something on Quora or Reddit).

Mind your business. A man that fails to man up and develop a strong spine on his own has himself to blame when he is bossed around and used by a woman. He is getting what he deserves, the way you lay your bed is the way you lie on it. If he likes himself, he is the one to make corrections not you. Don't swallow panadol over someone's headache and don't spoil your relationship with your sister because of a man who has decided to be a simpish buffoon.

Women will always seek to dominate the men in their lives and only the weak and spineless beta trash will let that happen. If you confront your sister to change her behaviour, you will end up being on her bad side and she would RIGHTFULLY ask you to mind your business. If you confront her beta cuck of a husband, he will never listen or man up. You can never save beta cùcks except they decide that they want to be saved. Beside, from my experience with beta males, he might be a woman wrapper and inform your sister of your efforts in trying to make him a man.

Bro, I think the best thing you can actually do is to let them be since they are both happy with what's going on, relationships involve people that are unique and what works for family A might not work for family B.

But op I wish it's your sisters husband that is crying this cry. How e take concern you.

Martinez39s:
Mind your business. A man that fails to man up and develop a strong spine on his own has himself to blame when he is bossed around and used by a woman. He is getting what he deserves, the way you lay your bed is the way you lie on it. If he likes himself, he is the one to make corrections not you. Don't swallow panadol over someone's headache and don't spoil your relationship with your sister because of a man who has decided to be a simpish buffoon.

Women will always seek to dominate the men in their lives and only the weak and spineless beta trash will let that happen. If you confront your sister to change her behaviour, you will end up being on her bad side and she would RIGHTFULLY ask you to mind your business. If you confront her beta cuck of a husband, he will never listen or man up. You can never save beta cùcks except they decide that they want to be saved. Beside, from my experience with beta males, he might be a woman wrapper and inform your sister of your efforts in trying to make him a man.

Well said Boss..The part about him snitching got me Lmao..

Shormiey:

He said you confront your sister and tell it to her face that she needs to adjust her behaviour towards her hubby or else if pushed to the wall, he will changed totally and finally coming to social media to reel out your trouble won't solve it. ...

Aye aye Sir

SwagPower:

Well said Boss..The part about him snitching got me Lmao..

Why don't you mind your business?Are you the man your sister is bossing?Are you his mouth piece?
Please let them be,go and check any home the woman is not bossing is because the man has enough Money to make the woman keep shut..your sister will be loyal when the husband become man enough,both emotionally, financially and spiritually,they don't need your help to do that..women respect money not their husbands..