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Back then, I loved looking rough with swag, but now, I have reduced and love looking simple.

So, I wore a simple T-shirt and a clean Chinos with a simple cap and headed to the ATM to take some cash.

There were 5 ATMs but two just ran out of cash. I was the last person on the second queue and two pretty girls who looked like they supply bleaching creams to Bobrisky walked in with their fat asses and one of them tapped me and asked who was the last, but I didn't answer instantly.

Later on, I replied. Touching me is not a crime, but she acted evasive.

The man currently withdrawing money was there as if he owns the ATM. The two girls started gisting and one of them started talking about her experience in Lagos when she went to withdraw 500k at the ATM and how she spent so much time and the people at the queue were calling her to stop.

The man withdrawing finished and another man entered. The lady at my back grabbed my two shoulders in a bid to tell me to move forward, but I could sense her exerting superiority because I looked simple and calm.

I moved a bit, but not much. With this, she literally thought I'm drooling over her and she can control me, but doesn't know she's playing a leaking gas cylinder waiting for fire to explode.

Another guy went to withdraw and there is only 1 guy in front of me and there is a little space in-between me and the person in front.

Bobrisky's supplier at my back grabbed my shoulders again with her two hands for the 3rd time and tried to control me to move forward, but this time, I decided to handle her and put her in her place.

I glued my two legs on the ground, as I refused to move, tilted my head and said, "Common! Stop that nonsense!"

And boom, the entire place went mute and all attentions were on us. She got angry and said, "Sorry for touching you, but don't tell me common."

I'm a man of few words, so I just ignored her and didn't move as she wanted even though there was space in front.

I brought out my phone, opened YouTube and started streaming Koffee singing Burna Boy's Ye song. Throughout all these, everywhere was silent except the song I was playing.

I turned my head to see people at the other queue and this girl made the longest hissssss I have ever heard this year like a snake.

I knew she was battling with her ego. She's the kind of lady weak men worship and lavish money on — she uses her beauty to get away with anything, but not with someone like me.

Knowing I wasn't one of those men made her feel as if she had lost her allure and power in manipulating men. The pedestal she puts herself on just dropped after that one line I gave her.

It was my turn, so I got in, used my GTB to get the first sets of cash, then UBA Africard to get the second round.

Everything was fast and I confidently walked out, minding my business, without looking at any living soul at the bank or on the queue.

I knew I will be the gossip center of those two girls. There were lots of other slay queens around though, but these two wanted to rule the place.

After putting her in her place, I knew the other slay queens loved it because those two girls were trying to intimidate other girls by telling fat stories about Lagos, Abuja, and I knew their next stories would've been about Dubai and how they dumped Hushpuppy and refused dating Anthony Joshua unlike DJ Cuppy who cheaply fell for him.

I left and that was the end.

The lesson 1 here is: women love to control a man and any man who keeps quiet and obey these manipulation is a weak man and will never be respected/feared by women.

The lesson 2 here is: put a woman in her place, but don't be violent. Always say less than necessary with a woman.

The lesson 3 here is: don't allow a woman's bad behavior scale through more than 3 times without putting her in her place.

The lesson 4 here is: f*ck a woman like a b*tch inside the house, treat her like a queen outside the house, and caution her when she's wrong like a boss — in the house.

If you can't do this, especially number 4, women won't respect/fear you.

That's all for today. If I meet those girls weeks later, they'll respect me or at least fear me. In fact, fear is even better.

In Nigeria today, being feared is better than being respected.

If Boko Haram, a group you fear, or Buhari, a man you fear, gives you command today, your chances of taking action and obeying is 100/100.

If Soyinka or Jonathan, a man you respect do the same, your chances of taking action is 50/100.

Why? Fear = action. When a doctor, a powerful pastor, or a native doctor tells you if you don't do this, you'll die, you'll most likely take action out of fear.

Finally, don't forget lesson 4 above. Don't take nonsense from any living thing more than 3 times. It's good to be humble, but it's not too good to be too humble, weak, or stupid.

vickydankal:
Sorry oooo
But I think you have pride and controlling
All those you listed won’t make a woman like me respect or fear you. Oga please not all us like that part you said “.... a woman like a bitch “ we are humans not machines. Some like it slow and steady not fast and furious

Thoughtfeed:
If people fear you, you will have more enemies and more problems. True or false

abdeiz:
Jeez I am a guy and I cringed while I read this. Ffs you didn't have to tell us this na

illicit:
You both got ego issues

Adeling:
@op you felt intimidated by that lady, nothing less.!

I once had a similar situation as yours when I went to get my voters card. This black beautiful girl was the center of attraction when she decided to rest on my back while standing. Guys were just screaming to me "omo you dey enjoy o" when in fact I wasn't feeling anything. I didn't let her rest on my back (while standing) because I was weak, or because she was beautiful(I mean real natural black beauty), but because I would have done same if she was my sister (who was tired of standing), and she felt so free with me. Las las I didn't care to collect her number as some guys would have done.

You shouldn't be rude to people because their beauty intimidate you or sth else. That young lady might just be looking for a way to be a friend.

BTW this attitude doesn't make you an alpha male.

iLegendd:
Intimidated? No. I have dated whites and Asians who don't use cream and looked better and didn't even want a relationship with them, so why should I be intimidated by the fake versions of those people?

I just disliked how she touched me or tried to control/push me forward. No woman tries that with me no matter your beauty, position, wealth, knowledge, exposure, physique, etc. Even my parents can't control me let alone a stranger. They can give suggestions, but they can't control. I don't have anything against her or her friend.

In this thread, I already know two people who won't like it

1. The bleaching cream crew
2. Nice guys

So, I already know the kinds of comments I'll get like

1. You're arrogant
2. You have big ego
3. You think so highly of yourself
4. You're intimidate
5. Etc.

I knew all these, but I created it anyway because I know some wise people will learn a thing or two from it while the rest disagree.

Such is life. No matter how good what you say is, not everyone will agree with it. No matter how bad what you say is, some people will agree. It's life and we can't change it.

Adewale1603:
I just disliked how she
touched me or tried to
control/push me forward like a kid or little child. Thats what got you annoyed

vickydankal:
Sorry oooo
But I think you have pride and controlling
All those you listed won’t make a woman like me respect or fear you. Oga please not all us like that part you said “.... a woman like a bitch “ we are humans not machines. Some like it slow and steady not fast and furious

2shure:
U sound like a 5.4 ft man. They grabbed your shoulders. How much you withdraw.hope say e sha reach 10k. U sound so frustrated bro.
Take it easy

iLegendd:
Nice input, dear. Though, I'm taller than her and she is taller than 5.4 ft.

It seems you haven't seen a stubborn girl from a rich home trying to control a taller man. Don't you know Rita Dominic's hand can reach Kobe Bryant's shoulder?

For the frustration part, I appreciate.

Replying people online with diplomacy at times is the way I prefer to go. It saves me the stress of typing a long epistle because deep down, we all know who is going through frustration in real life.

2shure:
U are frustrated. If not why the meaningless epistles on one stupid atm story. You judge ppl by their looks. Cos u took your self to an atm,u rush here to type abt it.

Simran94:
All these long epistles because a lady touched your shoulder? I don't see how this means she's trying to control you. Rather than her saying "Hello, can you move forward" without sounding rude, she decided to say it in a friendly manner.
I'm sure if it was a guy that tapped your shoulders like that, you won't see it as anything you would probably look away or smile it off.
If you don't like being touched by a lady, just say rather than misinterpret the whole thing.

You said it yourself that you didn't move as she wanted even if there was space, see sometimes there are things you need to overlook. If you had moved, she probably wouldn't have to tap your shoulders to tell you to move. You people just make things hard for yourselves.

iLegendd:
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iLegendd:
I don't know if I should reply you or use this opportunity to open your eyes about the importance of writing articles or your daily stories down.

Anyway, this reply is not for you, but anyone who wants to know why I do what I do.

Each story I tell always end up in a book in one way or another in the future. These books generate me money every single day.

All I do is go to the bank and withdraw or send someone to do it for me. As I type this, I'm lying in the room shirtless with everything I need close by — starting from cartons of bottled water, food, money to use and go out if I want to in the evening, food, drink, constant light, women to call if I want sex, etc. So, if these are frustrations, then trust me, I'm frustrated.

Now, back to why I wrote this post. Eighty years from now, when I'm dead, my kids and grandkids will still be making money with this post when I finally add it in a book and start selling it to the rest of the world just the same way I'm currently making money and will continue to make money forever from posts I made on Nairaland 4, 3, and 2 years ago.

My brother, Nigerian youths suffer and argue for lack of wisdom. At the end of the day, they only have 6 things to comfort them

1. Porn (masturbation)
3. Nairábet
4. Stealing
5. Fraud
6. Money ritual

I'm not supposed to show what I'm about to show, but I'll do it because most people don't believe stories until you show them pictures or videos.

My dear, I make thousands every day from books while I sleep. By God's grace, before 2025, it will move to millions per day while I sleep.

Now is the time for you to wake up or wait for financial depression to hit you. My financial life is already settled. I have different secret investments from money made by these books. All I'm doing is just to entertain and inspire you and nothing more.

We no be mate, my dear, but I can teach you how to mate with your woman and satisfy her in bed or last longer.

Just read my book called Lasticle or TheDAVIDO Fûck Guide and you'll see what I'm telling you. Inside those books, I shared my real life stories which I posted on Nairaland for free some years ago. They abused and attacked me just as you did today.

Finally, I'm smiling to the bank on a regular basis why those who abused me are frowning to work or stealing/crying and searching for work just to make 1/10th of what I make without stress.

You've made me expose one side of my online income.

I hope this exposé helps you as you grow in life.

AshiraWealthy:
Monkey.. You're too prideful. Was that why I asked to PM you to teach me how to make money online and you ignored me? But you like to tell people what to do and they do it while you want to be acting demi-god.
Just the other day you asked people to post their last photo of the year on a faceless forum and they rushed to do it but common show somebody the way, you're here talking trash.
Abeg park well.

Now I know your kind of person. Will stop clicking on your posts.