Casalinda:



This will be the last reply I will be giving here.. I got my own money. I got my own job I earn close to a million I dnt need most of the things he gave me, I fell in love for God sake was it a crime I committed Me falling in love means I am losing my self worth and esteem In as much I’m hurt by this reply.. I didn’t fall in love because of his money and I have taken both of us on all expense vacations trip all from my purse.. please I am not fool here, all I did was love and for what it’s worth it was never script. I was genuinely happy and it was never scripted

Offpoint:
First of all I want to know the sacrifices you've made for him.... God I hate this line of speech.

I don't see no love here, I see you not wanting to let him go because he's rich, handsome, tall and dark.
He cheats, you're OK with it, he does this: you're OK with it, he does that: you're OK with it. He keeps his Health status away from you: you're OK with it because he's made, he's tall, dark and handsome.

Dude is, was and will still be a jackass, but you don't wanna let him go because of status and physique.

Guys double your hustle: where money talks, bulshitz bow and Love take a backseat.

I still wanna know the sacrifices you've made, do you invest any money on him? do you help him with any contract? do you help him with his job?

His time with you is over and he wanna explore more, so don't try to tie him.

OR just because you....
let me stop before I say something that might got me 100 mentions

Some people no just get self-worth at-all

maak400:
If this guy was earning 40k or 50k salary would you be killing your self like this?!
Guys we need to double our hustle o, na money be fine bobo
Only money and resources can make a woman love you crazily like this!

missimelda01:
Stop trying to explain yourself to these guys with poor mentalities, they think every lady is with a man for money and they have sisters and mothers.. very unreasonable set of people.

Casalinda:



This will be the last reply I will be giving here.. I got my own money. I got my own job I earn close to a million I dnt need most of the things he gave me, I fell in love for God sake was it a crime I committed Me falling in love means I am losing my self worth and esteem In as much I’m hurt by this reply.. I didn’t fall in love because of his money and I have taken both of us on all expense vacations trip all from my purse.. please I am not fool here, all I did was love and for what it’s worth it was never script. I was genuinely happy and it was never scripted

AshiraWealthy:
Casalinda...be truthful to yourself. So if this man was average or poor, you would still continue with him after discovering his HIV status?

You already said in the first line of your statement that, the first time you met him after seeing how rich he is and smells good, you were not going to let go. Which shows you're after what has and not him as a person.
I'm sure guy man must have thought it through and through too and felt if he's was poor, you wouldn't stick with him after discovering his state of health. You think he doesn't have sense?

Just let the man be, abeg. You and I know say na wetin you go chop na im you dey find and guyman don code.
No be naija girl you be again?
It's only the whites I know will stick genuinely to a HIV partner. Commit mind there. Nothing for you. At least go and manage the SUV you acquired through him.
Nor vex.

Kingsteve:
Wow!
The power of money!
A playboy with HIV, and someone is still begging for his love attention?










This is new!

kestolove95:
Am trying to go to the mechanic and tell him about the story and see y all of them are not coming because we really need to address the issue by noon immigration are not at the border sef

Offpoint:
First of all I want to know the sacrifices you've made for him.... God I hate this line of speech.

I don't see no love here, I see you not wanting to let him go because he's rich, handsome, tall and dark.
He cheats, you're OK with it, he does this: you're OK with it, he does that: you're OK with it. He keeps his Health status away from you: you're OK with it because he's made, he's tall, dark and handsome.

Dude is, was and will still be a jackass, but you don't wanna let him go because of status and physique.

Guys double your hustle: where money talks, bulshitz bow and Love take a backseat.

I still wanna know the sacrifices you've made, do you invest any money on him? do you help him with any contract? do you help him with his job?

His time with you is over and he wanna explore more, so don't try to tie him.

OR just because you....
let me stop before I say something that might got me 100 mentions

Some people no just get self-worth at-all

Casalinda:
He is not your average kind of man, he is above average well educated and speak proficiently well.

SO WHAT IS THE AVERAGE KIND OF MAN?
SO AVERAGE MAN IS NOT WELL EDUCATED, AND DOESN'T SPEAK PROFICIENTLY WELL?

DO YOU KNOW YOU WERE DUMPED BECAUSE YOU SAY A LOT OF DUMB SHIT?

Omar09ss:
Summary, anyone?

MAMA'S BOYFRIEND... A VERY RICH MAN, A VERY HANDSOME MAN, A HIGHLY UNFAITHFUL SOUL, AND ALSO THE BIGGEST DEALER OF HIV IN AFRICA..... FINALLY KICKED HER OUT FOR SAYING A LOT OF DUMB SHĮT.

Kingsteve:
@ Casalinda
I'm just wondering...
If this same tall, handsome and well spoken dude...infected with HIV, was a civil servant in the ministry of Agric, would you still beg him not to leave you, even with all his baggage?

Answer this question, then maybe, we would understand your plight better.

Casalinda:



Without mixing mincing words here if he is neat and he loved me at first. I will love him deeply regardless

harry2sexy:
Fake, no multinational employs anyone without doing certain test e.g drug test, hiv test

Casalinda:



Without mixing words here if he is neat and he loved me at first. I will love him deeply regardless

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MAMA'S BOYFRIEND... A VERY RICH MAN, A VERY HANDSOME MAN, A HIGHLY UNFAITHFUL SOUL, AND ALSO THE BIGGEST DEALER OF HIV IN AFRICA..... FINALLY KICKED HER OUT FOR SAYING A LOT OF DUMB SHĮT.

Kingsteve:
Wow!
The power of money!
A playboy with HIV, and someone is still begging for his love attention?










This is new!

Casalinda:
Good evening guys.. First would love to say this my first time coming any platform to pour my heart and seek you all kind advices and opinions, please i might not get my English and sentence right!! But please pay attention to message. And be kind enough not to judge or insulting because non of can even survive a mile if you walk on my shoe. I plead you all read carefully with understanding

I’m a 27yrs young lady from ibibio. I am your typical pretty, eloquent, a bit of class, fair and 5ft a graduate and working with an non governmental parastatal here at Abuja. I met this guy who is in his mid 30, we both fell in love. He is from the east. work with a multinational company here in Abuja. He is not your average kind of man, he is above average well educated and speak proficiently well.

First time we both went out on a date @blueCuban here in Abuja it was heavenly words will fail me here as he treated as queen. I have never been this well treated with so much kindness and everything about him was just too perfect.. the very first sight when I walked out of office to meet him where he packed. I was blown away by his height, the way he smell god!!!! He smell goooood I must confess he was just everything I had dream of... dark, tall and you typical heterosexual man full with muscularity, he was just the one and I felt glad and lucky that I have met him and I will not let..

We both fell in love and decided to make it official. I got to meet his friends, family and just anyone close to him. Fast forward months into our relationship. While cleaning up the house I found a RVS drugs inside the walk in closet hidden carefully in the bedroom... I got so afraid even knowing we practice safe sex always and never for once have we get carried away. My whole world came down on me!!! Not a word has he was out with friend I ran to the nearest private hospital requested for a full test and it all came out negative, waited for 3 month did another and still negative. I never mentioned this until the last time did the last test. I confronted him and he open up that he is HIV positive.... I cried that night could not sleep.. here is one person who had genuinely make me happy, someone who I am deeply in love. I cried and cried he kept begging me and telling me he will never put me on harm-way those were his words. A weeks later he gifted me a brand new SUV car but felt he was trying to buy and I told him that I love beyond him being hiv positive and that I would want to spend my life with him..

It was not all perfect as I will not paint a false image here, in 2 occasions he has open up to me on him cheating while he was out of the country on official trip. Truth is I am not the kind of girl who will blow things out of proportion because a man decide to be foolish. I will never bronze a man ego but shaming him when things like this comes up. Also I had my own issues. I’m very dramatic I became very protective of him and started monitoring him which had complain off over and over that my attitude is making him fall out of love with me

He was very faithful to his drugs and on one of the visit to the hospital it was shown that the viral load has been suppressed and it became un-dictated.. we both were happy and a little relieved.

Last Christmas we had a serious fight over something that I believe should not had escalated to him smashing his iPhone 11 and getting all aggressive with me. When it got all serious I left the house and went straight to my own house because I needed him to clam down. But oga got a new phone the following day and block me on all social media platforms and even calling him I was blocked from reaching him as I tried too. I quickly reach out to his closest friend who help talk to him and ask him to clam down so we could talk things out.. he eventually did and we talk and things seem a little normal but not like it normally used to be.. I have apologized over and over and he said it was fine and that he has forgiven me, yet things were not normal it got to point that I questioned his love for me and oga said he doesn’t love me anymore down on this are the message he sent me.. I have beg him over and over telling him how much he means to me telling him I will less my drama but oga is not bending

Here I’m confused, tour apart, I have used everyone he knows both family and friends and they telling me to give him space for now and that “what will be will be” truth non of them know all the sacrifices I have made non of them know how well I have gave my life and even put it at risk for him... I do not want to mention this to any of them because I don’t want to betray him even at these point he is hurting me

I love him and really wants him back please guys I need an honest advice on what to do?? I need my man back.