I am intending to engage my girl and do trad after 2 months then wedding after 6 months.


Any good opinion shall be welcomed

Few months
Give it like 2 to 3 interval

Froshloaded:
Few months
Give it like 2 to 3 interval

Thanks

chatinent:
It's cool so far you aren't planning to make her Lord of the Rings for six years and no marriage.

I can’t think of doing that to someone I love.... in fact, I have already married her in my heart!!!!
I take ur words as advice

I think its cost effective to do everything at once and to avoid stories that touch. Cos some after trad, waiting for another three months, things were kinda difficult they couldn't do the remaining things. It then begins to extend to years and years....

Just do everything once and get it over with.

AshiraWealthy:
I think its cost effective to do everything at once and to avoid stories that touch. Cos some after trad, waiting for another three months, things were kinda difficult they couldn't do the remaining things. It then begins to extend to years and years....

Just do everything once and get it over with.

I agree.

one month is okay for all preparations to be met because as soon as you start planning marriage there are always too many temptations that can make you want to quit so give no room for that

One year no bad

Homeboiy:
One year no bad

ki lode?

iretiolu92:
ki lode?

Isi gini?

For those that are doing engagement.

Not for me.

When I am dating a girl I want to marry, we both know that we will end up together, hopefully she won’t be cheating on me because she knows that the probability of us ending up together is high.

Me:- babe,

Bae:- yes.

Me:- I think it is high time we get married. I want to us to spend our lives together, what do you think about that?

Bae:- I would love to, I want us to get married.

Me:-I am ready now, are you ready for this journey we are about to embark on?

Bae:- yes I am ready.

Me:- in that case, you will have to inform your people while I inform mine. ( during the course of our dating, we must have been familiar to both families).

Bae:- okay, I will.

Me:- please do, so that we will know how to arrange things and fix dates for proper ceremonies.

Bae:- alright bae, I will.

Simple and short, no time for all these unnecessary nonsense . Once you are ready to marry, you do it, ( financially, emotionally, spiritually and otherwise).


What nonsense engagement?

Do both within 6month
Trad one week to white

one month maximum

Unless you want to turn her to LORD OF THE RING

subtlemee:
one month is okay for all preparations to be met because as soon as you start planning marriage there are always too many temptations that can make you want to quit so give no room for that

Many temptations?
How?

subtlemee:
one month is okay for all preparations to be met because as soon as you start planning marriage there are always too many temptations that can make you want to quit so give no room for that

I agree with you

CosmicJames:

Many temptations?
How?

Temptation of leaving her for another girl
Temptation of impregnating another girl
Temptation of not seeing her beauty anymore
Endless temptations

Sammy07:

I agree with you


Temptation of leaving her for another girl
Temptation of impregnating another girl
Temptation of not seeing her beauty anymore
Endless temptations

But these temptations are always with us even after marriage.
They don't show up at marriage preparations like you said.

Sammy07:

I agree with you


Temptation of leaving her for another girl
Temptation of impregnating another girl
Temptation of not seeing her beauty anymore
Endless temptations

so marrying her within a month will stop all these from happening? chai Nigerians with low IQ