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Please what is the battle line in a relationship that when crossed, it's best to call up the relationship ?

There's sth I experienced today that makes me create this thread. I called my gf dis evening (we last chatted yesterday o) and guess what she said first on the phone ? She said : "hmmm ... Today you remembered me "

I was reasoning what kinda word was that ? I have thought so many things ....

Well, xterday we chatted, I was not cool with how the chat was going, though there was no quarel but I'm sure she knew I deliberately went off, not to continue in d chat ..... But was that enough to have responded with such response suggesting one was speaking with a stranger ?

To be frank, I have thought to the extent of breaking up stuff please.

So.....


MODIFIED : We Just Reconciled. She said she wasnt cool with me not to have called her since morning. Thanks everyone who responded.

Breakup because of that? I don't think you're more mature than her.

Most people use that phrase, okay? I believe she used it without much thought and that wasn't implying anything.

Don't break up with her, I don't think meant any harm

Successdude:
Please what is the battle line in a relationship that when crossed, it's best to call up the relationship ?

You draw a line when she's cheating. When you no longer feel the vibe of it. When you feel being used and manipulated. Dasol.

You can never understand woman because they have random ways of talking and feeling.
about this your lady i just think she is being less bitchy.

Thank you fam ...... We settled already.

Blu03:



Breakup because of that? I don't think you're more mature than her.

Most people use that phrase, okay? I believe she used it without much thought and that wasn't implying anything.

Tessie01:
Don't break up with her, I don't think meant any harm

Omar09:
You draw a line when she's cheating. When you no longer feel the vibe of it. When you feel being used and manipulated. Dasol.

luvyaself95:
You can never understand woman because they have random ways of talking and feeling.
about this your lady i just think she is being less bitchy.

Omar09:
You draw a line when she's cheating. When you no longer feel the vibe of it. When you feel being used and manipulated. Dasol.

Tessie01:
Don't break up with her, I don't think meant any harm

May I ask ladies, how important is being called to the female folks that not being called for a day, can make her raise the roof ?

I know some people would say, when someone loves you so much little things makes her start a quarell etc .... But this one, I nor understand ...

I know how terrible some issues we have have been and to think these were cos I didn't call for only a full day o .... Like this particular one naw which is obvious ...

What exactly is in just call ? Pls I want to know o

Successdude:
May I ask ladies, how important is being called to the female folks that not being called for a day, can make her raise the roof ?

I know some people would say, when someone loves you so much little things makes her start a quarell etc .... But this one, I nor understand ...

I know how terrible some issues we have have been and to think these were cos I didn't call for only a full day o .... Like this particular one naw which is obvious ...

What exactly is in just call ? Pls I want to know o

You call too much you become a pest. This sends a signal to her that you can't live without her. Which is bad. You don't call too much she thinks you don't love her. But this time it will leave to wonders on how she could make you love her. Which will make her fall the more and would find it difficult to bounce. What was your response when she said this one you remembered me?

Omar09:
You call too much you become a pest. This sends a signal to her that you can't live without her. Which is bad. You don't call too much she thinks you don't love her. But this time it will leave to wonders on how she could make you love her. Which will make her fall the more and would find it difficult to bounce. What was your response when she said this one you remembered me?

I think I was like ; how ? Call too much how ?

That was mine response.

Then she replied with : since morning you didn't call me ..... Etc


I was confused and at same time was feeling uncomfortable

Successdude:
I think I was like ; how ? Call too much how ?

That was mine response.

Then she replied with : since morning you didn't call me ..... Etc


I was confused and at same time was feeling uncomfortable

Ever heard the word “I was busy”?

Omar09:
Ever heard the word “I was busy”?

would that do ?

Repeatedly ?

Successdude:
would that do ?

Repeatedly ?

You could use, “couldn't call you today, hands was tied”. Use different words to convey the message and then ask her why she couldn't call you since you were busy. It will put her off your neck. I don't give out dating drills. I don't know how to date em girls. All I know is how to take care of myself and protect myself once in a relationship. It's easier.

Omar09:
You could use, “couldn't call you today, hands was tied”. Use different words to convey the message and then ask her why she couldn't call you since you were busy. It will put her off your neck. I don't give out dating drills. I don't know how to date em girls. All I know is how to take care of myself and protect myself once in a relationship. It's easier.

u tried .... Blessings