Don't commit suicide cos it's a crime, but you're free to kill you're self

The fundamental thing to do is to find way to make money and build your savings. Money in your bank account builds confidence. Secondly you should change what your fall back to when you are down, may be instead of masturbation you can read religious book, listen to songs or hangout with good people. Don't ever kill you self oo. Family cares.

Start with changing your name (child of Doom) and how u see urself. Know that there's no temptation that is meant to destroy you, but for you to overcome and help others out of the same situation.
You have a great destiny that the devil is trying to tweak to it's favour. There's this emptiness in u that should have been filled by the holy Spirit but the devil is using it to it's advantage.
I recommend a daily devotional like Rhapsody of realities. It saved me from an addiction.

Sabby1:
But why every Thursday? Anyway, pray for grace. The battle with addiction is not quite easy and needs determination and discipline amongst other requirements
Take care

Actually I used to do it almost everyday but since I started exercising I really have less urge for it

25tolife:
bro am in ur shoes,even sef am just returning from bet9ja shop,i dont know what to do.

Should I laugh . Sorry bro. You can stop it. You just need to occupy yourself with something that brngs money. Try transcription in place of it. You wont regret it

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

My dear the first way of solving a problem is to identify and know that you have problem. Which you have done. You have solved 50%of the problem

Now listen, why you keep on playing this visual is because you channel your energy your mind set in it, you feel that's the only way to make money,you feel you are getting close to hitting it big.

To stop a habit or addiction you need to find something to feel up that space. You can't just stop something you are addicted to at once it only work for few people.

Try change your mind set find another way to pursue this money, relax don't be desperate, listen to inspirational talks always play it 247, only you can change you. Get busy, try to create a goal to archive from another dimension.

Think my brother think. You just have to channel that energy on something esle and come to reality that visual can't give you that money you are looking for. You own your life you decide how you wanna live it, take control of your life.

And last thing never feel guilty of what you have done. The more you feel guilty the more you soak deep in your mess. Instead of feeling guilty take it as a lesson know one is perfect, we all make mistakes.

COdeGenesis:


Should I laugh . Sorry bro. You can stop it. You just need to occupy yourself with something that brngs money. Try transcription in place of it. You wont regret it

the thing be say,i just rounded up ND. Need something to put my hands on(casual,part-time job)

You seriously need deliverance bro

Childofdoom, you have always blabbed about these your so called bad habits. Are you even doing anything to improve your life?? U are 29 years and it seems you have not yet discovered your purpose in life. Time is really ticking fast and it is never too late to change the tide. Wake up child of doom

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

Be forming juice wrld there

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

Omo you get liver poo chai!!! I hail

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

Dear OP,
You are not alone.


You can overcome this; you just have to believe you can! It takes determination, ''na small small dem dey take lick hot soup''. It's a gradual process, for you to voice out your problems shows how much you wanna stop...

Addiction is not just Something you stop whenever you want to; it all has to do with the ''brain'', it might be difficult to fight it but you have to.

According to wikipedia, ''Addiction is a disorder of the brain's reward system which arises through transcriptional and epigenetic mechanisms and develops over time from chronically high levels of exposure to an
addictive stimulus (e.g., eating food, the use of
cocaine, engagement in sexual activity,
participation in high-thrill cultural activities such as gambling, etc.).''

We all have addictive behaviours, most suffer from depression (example NwaEje), masturbation etc but most of us have decided to fight till the very end.

Join us and fight back OP please, never give up; think about how your momma, papa and your loved ones gon' feel if you give up now

Join us https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/4

CAPSLOCKED:


"2 TO COME", "1 & 2 AWAY"

I'm still trying to help my friend to quit this "2 to come" shit....it has almost finish/ruin him.....he just went to collect his phone back with 10k today after playing on credit with his phone for like 5 days now.

U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

This one must collect gather beating walai

25tolife:
the thing be say,i just rounded up ND. Need something to put my hands on(casual,part-time job)

You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Bro pls , tell me about d transcription , I'll b glad if u can

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Teach me transcription bro......can I forward my email to you?

All your problems, you caused by yourself. The solutions, you know it

Lean with me, pop with me
Get high with me if you rock with me
Smoke with me, drink with me
bleeped up liver with some bad kidneys
Lean with me, pop with me
Get high with me if you rock with me
Smoke with me, drink with me
bleeped up liver with some bad kidneys

Op, your problems have been solved

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

op I understand your problem ok oya listen now let me tell you something, consistency attracts a spirit there’s a spirit behind every addiction. So your problem is spiritual I will advise you to look for a genuine man of God for counseling and deliverance

Abeg where can I get a loan of 30k to pay back in two months time. anybody who can assist or know a platform I can get it should help me..it's very urgent please

maticdamian:




Mehn we in the same boat bro

Hey bro, you're not alone in this, if you have the desire to break free from the addiction, we're ready to accept you into our fold of 'fighters'. Use this link
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread to join us, we're not judgemental if you ever relapse or cannot keep up, but one thing is certain, the thread will be highly instrumental for your recovery and I bet you, you'll realise PMO is a wall hindering you from positive development.

Equal2DeTask:



2 UP, 2 DOWN GOAL-GOAL

LIV 1.28 X 6.15 BUR 12.9

If you know

Banabaz:

Its never too late bor,I was once an addict too,but u Can change it man,be determined.
Check My Posts And Join The Masturbation Quitting Challenge.

Never Say Never

Mentor.

Op play all board over 1 for me 150..may e come out

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

Boss I've been noticing you from that beer parlour thread and I must say that this particular post has increased the e-respect I have for you.

Addiction is not easy to conquer at all. You guys really need help Asap!! Talk to someone around you, that has an understanding of things like this.
Do not think of Suicide biko, especially the guy addicted to masturbation. You are not the only one in this boat, almost 50% of our youths are addicted to masturbation, though it might not be as severe as yours, you can fight it and conquer.
You need help, please seek for help.
And for the person addicted to gambling, as amusing as your case is, you need help.. Maybe all you need is to get punished for all you've done, probably you will get remorseful and never go back to it again..

SageX1444:


Boss I've been noticing you from that beer parlour thread and I must say that this particular post has increased the e-respect I have for you.

senior man I hail oo... most people are really suffering from addiction mhen...especially hard drugs, that one is worst.. but has solution too

Intelligent speech would not solve it, but slow it down.

By force by self will, no way.

Complaining or opening up about it nah.

What will solve it?

You and your God alone.
Enter into agreement with God.

In your own way...

It could be prayer, fasting, anything.

But right what ever you decide with own hand on a book and sign.

And when your tempted, pick the book and read it slowly over and over again.

You would feel great about yourself...