25tolife:
bro am in ur shoes,even sef am just returning from bet9ja shop,i dont know what to do.

in fact I saw the post when I dey bet9ja shop self, na now I enter house to read am

HRHQueenPhil:
U need a wake up call.. I visited someone whose leg was just amputated and left very small thigh, this is a big boy who dey drink like fish and felt he did not need to marry. He is looking like a shadow of himself
I don't know what addictions you are fighting but u need to take control of ur life or it will do a number on you. U alone are absolutely responsible for the outcome of ur life.

Thanks for this ,that’s why I’m taking it easy with my drinking habit , which is whiskey ,sometimes dis country makes one frustrated I swear

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

your contribution and explanation deserve a Grammy award.

Psychologist say the best way to overcome an addiction is to replace it with another less harmful addiction.

HRHQueenPhil:
what wld u now say of me that visits him? i always suck up tears bc if i cry, it will not help the patient. He drank so much and did not know he was diabetic. a small injury at the heel of his foot refused to heal and infection entered the wound, mismanagement too, i never knew a man can have white hair overnight

Damn! Men!!!! Scary. Thanks for the reply. I wish your friend all the best.

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

There are people worst than you.

first of all you need to get a job. It's like you don't have something serious doing.

Secondly, you need a girlfriend, find a girl that is outgoing and out spoken, she can change your attitude.

Thirdly, whenever you have an urge of drinking pepsi just look for water and drink or you get any best fruit of your choice.



Set goals for yourself. what do you want to achieve before the end of the year?

Do you like how you lived your life last year?

What can you offer your children as inheritance?


Football betting can make you poorer if you're greedy, lazy and idle. It can make you richer if you have self control, smart and you don't depend on it at all.



Please flee from Virtual, it will not only destroy your life, it will make you poorer in this your present life and in your next life.

Hello Guy
I feel your pain because I was a former addict myself
I was a former Cocaine Addict,Sex Addict,Porn Addict,Mastubation Addict,Prostitute Addict and lots of other addictions.Have been free for over 2 decades now but it took years to get totally free from it

If I can give you one quick guidance is to get someone that will not judge you but willing to hold you accountable as you journey to recovery

You need a community of support that will accept you for you and help you go through the process and this challenge of negative lifestyle flow

I have a book on this addiction from a spiritual aspect but not medical advice

The book is called FROM DRUG ADDICT TO GOD ADDICT

You can get it on OkadaBooks or Bambooks
Also it will be an privilege to be part of Your accountability team to watch your progress to freedom and full control of yourself

It will be a tough process and such an interesting experience but you will first decide that you need a New lifestyle

From your write up it’s obvious you have gotten to that phase

The next thing is a community of support to help you with:

Control of your circle of influence

Re ordering you old mindset for new

Building reasons why you must stop this habit

Designing new daily focus and monitoring your progress

Celebrating your little victory

Reach out to me and we could chat on WhatsApp

All the best as you find a Better Lifestyle freedom
May God help you find the power in you to walk out on addiction

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

Educate me on this please.

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

First step.

* Change your monicker! *******

Next

* Have a positive mind set*******

You must have the willpower to move forward out of the problems you created for yourself. It's possible... All things are possible!!!!

Just get a hold of yourself like the prodigal son and talk to yourself, then rise up and take a step!

COdeGenesis:


Should I laugh . Sorry bro. You can stop it. You just need to occupy yourself with something that brngs money. Try transcription in place of it. You wont regret it

What's transcription

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

lol..

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

Solid response...but you know fruits like.roange and banana have high sugar content too.

prekumohtim:



Wow this is really funny. A whole 130 Odds wasted just like that!! But If such dream comes again I guess you will play it . Anyway, someone said to me, that it was a divine help. I needed money badly when I had that dream. I could have played it and still forget about gambling. Just like knowing when to come in and exit.

I died a thousand times when the match ended @ 4-0.
I still once in a while bet one or two games, for fun though; it takes a whole lot to overcome the addiction of betting

ChildOfDoom:
I also masturbate a lot. I think its up to 10 years since I started masturbated. I am a chronic masturbator, no lie. i masturbate to almost every thing. from staring at boobs or ass to watching sex pics/porn or doing it to sex chat. I am like a veteran in 2go flirt room.

at the height of it, I masturbate up to 2-3 times a day. now I have irregular erection and flaccid dick no matter how you turn me on. I use cream, oil, saliva or any thing slippery to self-service.


I have started having back pains, painful joint and partial vision impediment. wish I could stop. but anytime I am lonely or frustrated after losing much money, I turn to self-service to give me little reprieve

if I tell you what to Do and be free you won't listen

[lquote author=COdeGenesis post=86710180]

You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make[/quote]what is transcription

joey150:


I don't know if there are any significant side-effects, but it does sound like you're over indulging in it.

Try to wean yourself off it slowly. Drink more water so you always feel full and hence can't drink as much.

I've tried all methods but I see myself running back to it

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

In simple terms betnaija has ur Mumu button and ur it's Maga and u must pay cos u be Mumu?


Make no mistake, u are SOLELY Responsible for ur actions and behaviour and tbey are 100 correctable. The Major problem are 2 things here.

Ur Mind- what u believe about it addiction and it's assumed power over you

2. Knowledge- u don't know what to do and very simple bt determined steps to take to overcome it.

U hv given up on urself so fast and resolved a common virtual betting game has absolute control over u whereas that is very incorrect and far from the truth. Ur Mind has only made u think so. U are in what I call an addict cycle or strong habit cycle. Ur body is indisciplined and what to do whatever it wants and u mind is also thinking of the wrong things. Once u get money the impulse comes on u to waste it again on betting, sm their impulse is shopping bt its not as bad as betting.

U need to reset it mind and attitude. Train ur mind against ur bad habits. It's not as difficult as u think bt u will experience sm pain. No pain no gain bt at the end ure back In control of ur life and brand new.

U need to make up ur mind and be ready to work on the change process. It's not by magic, it's hard work and training to break habit/addiction cycle and it's a mind game. That's all.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320265

Masturbation is a normal and healthy sexual activity with few side effects. Many bizarre claims surround masturbation, such as going blind, and most of these claims are untrue.
Masturbation is when an individual stimulates their genitals for sexual pleasure, which may or may not lead to orgasm. Masturbation is common among men and women of all ages and plays a role in healthy sexual development.
Research has found that among adolescents aged 14–17 years in the United States, around 74 percent of males and 48 percent of females masturbate.
Among older adults, roughly 63 percent of men and 32 percent of women between 57 and 64 years of age masturbate.
People masturbate for many reasons. These include pleasure, enjoyment, fun, and tension release. Some individuals masturbate alone, while others masturbate with a partner.

ChildOfDoom:
then, I have damaged some vital organs of my body due to excess sugar. don't be deceived that only old people have health issues like kidney/liver failure. I am currently clinching to the left side of my stomach. something is eating me up inside. I just hope I haven't destroyed both livers.


I am a carbonated drink addict (Pepsi to be specific). Right from when I was a bright brain at UNIBEN in 2013, I have always consumed Pepsi superfluously. anytime I am stressed or tired, I take Pepsi. it got to a point that I drank 2-3 Pepsi a day (you heard me right).

I would masturbate for like 2 hours, then drink Pepsi in the morning to regain energy. at night, same thing. masturbate till night fall and quench my thirst/hunger with bread and Pepsi.

this life felt heavenly. now I am suffering the consequences. worse part is that I drank 3 Pepsi yesterday, after losing much. a relation of ours sells drinks, so I do secretly take to consume. Even my mum do gatecrash weddings and burials to bring food and drinks for us. I never say no to drinks I am given. if only my mum knows what I am doing to myself with drinks, she will stop giving me. so I am scared of telling her

few questions, all these bets aren't you winning? On masturbation, don't you go for the girls?

seanwilliam:
U see that betting ehn, you will naturally stop it.. if you no get where to sleep, what to wear and what to eat, u no go dey bet.. na because u dey see support...
Mastubating is very hard to stop, in as much as you have access to internet..

U see that sugar, when you get diabetes, body go tell you .

Solution for betting pos
.1.start daily contribution of money to all these thrift collector
2.Stop going to bet house
3.Book a game for 5 consecutive times, dont put money and watch the end result.. by doing this, u will know how much you are losing and how to stop...
4. Tell your mama about it, she would always caution u time to time
5. See those who gamble as a fool
6. See gambling as a crime
7. Gamble with small money like 100 highest
8. Start HUSLE
9. Believe you cant make it through gambling no matter how u try
10.tell your pastor and change your circle of friends


Solution to mastubation

See this one is worst than betting because you dont need money to do it.. all u need is physical and mental picture and you are good to go..anyway consider the following

1. Get busy.. if you are busy, it will automatically reduce the times of mastubating
2. Get a responsibility,....u no go get time to mastubate.. like u get pikin wey u one pay their school fees,
u get house rent to pay, nepa bills,
family to feed and all that
3. Get a budget range girlfriend
4. Make sure the girl is a sex maniac
5. Download inmessage and find girls to fhuck u
6. Dont stay alone all the time
7. When the urge to mastubate comes, force yourself to go outside, where people dey..
( u sha no go comot prick dey mastubate outside na)
8. See mastubation as gateway to poverty
9. Stop watching porn, stop reading Sex stories and stop looking at hot pictures
10. Believe you are about to commit sin whenever you want to mastubate

Solution to sugar
1. Stop taking carbonated drink
2. Reduce intakes of real sugar
3. Eat more of locally prepared food
4. Squeez bitterleaf and saint leaf
5. Start taking cucumber
6. Reduce carbohydrate food
7. Substitute carbonated drink with milk( without using sugar)
8. Drink more water every time
9. Always do test to know your sugar level
And consult doctors on foods and drugs to take
10. Eat more of fruit


Lastly, when you have a problem, believe you are not the first and last person to have it...
And every problem has a solution only if we could think wide and far.. follow any of my advise and watch your life get back on track...



.

P.s. 89% ( according to stats) of guys mastubate. But they do it with moderation.. I mastubate too cc
Childofdoom
, Martinez39
,harddon
ubunja,
aro1,
Slawomir,
Shibaraba
Iamd18
Donstan18
U people can contribute

you have said it all ..

Am proud of you on this bro..

[s]

shogsman:

I gave him one already, if you don't have any don't bother commenting at all, don't waste that space.

[/s] Receive Help in JESUS NAME...

[quote author=inspirator1 post=86704296][/quote]
What will the Police do to him if he report himself.

Mac12:



I died a thousand times when the match ended @ 4-0.
I still once in a while bet one or two games, for fun though; it takes a whole lot to overcome the addiction of betting

Hahahahaha

ChildOfDoom:
I am 29 years old. from Edo state. I admit that I am a bet9ja virtual (gamble) addict. if you are reading this and you know some one who plays the same virtual, don't bother wasting your saliva to advise them. they will surely go back to the act. it is a dangerous world of no return.

despite advice from friends and family, I still can't stop betting (bet9ja). we only change a little but once a little money gets to our hand, we go back to the act.

my life is being threatened as a result of this addiction. like I have mentioned in previous threads, I dare not step into Benin because I gambled with the phone of a 'strong man'. currently where i stay is top secret. lots of people are looking for me. I sold the Samsung a guy put in my custody and used it on betting. even someone's enrolment money for WAEC I was meant to pay on the person's behalf, was used by me.

there are other instances too numerous to mention. it's only a matter of time before I am caught and dealt with. I know some in my predicament have either been lynched or put in jail

You need Strong Deliverance Sir From T.B Joshua

You have spoken well bro.

RonaldoVido:


The bottomline of all this rhetorics is poverty. The guy does not have a job.

Nature abhors vacuum. Someone who was in UNIBEN in 2013, is supposed to have a regular job by 2020 and possibly dating.

He has no money and in search of it, he resorts to betting. It's like beating about the bush when we all know the source of youth addictions in Nigeria.

Do away with useless leaders in Nigeria. Restore the Nigeria of 1999 democracy and let the youths have jobs, let the economy grow and receive FDIs from abroad.

Make una siddon there..

The addictions you have is diabolical. I strongly suggest giving your life to Christ...visit a church that speaks about Christ relating to you. Na you Jesus dey find. someone he can reform, redesign and use to glorify His existence. you are still a masterpiece. Because you have a bright destiny, the devil creates means to relate with your thought and tells you it is no big deal if you do it, then your natural sense that has no fence agrees.

I was in this similar nature of living but Christ changed it totally and yours is no exception. Mine is weirder than yours. He reverses everything.

Because you share this part of your life, it shows it is time for an intervention divinely.

You do not need any fvking book to create a routine for you on how to disarm those addictions. All you need is another mindset and perspective which will be created by a Light and that Light is understanding which will make your spirit rebel against these acts. The Light is Christ!

Peace My Brother. The bravest person in 2020

Indeed, this is a very crucial issue. The only way our is to cry to The Only Deliverer of the ones being held captives(The Almighty God).
It's He alone that can help you out of this pitiful scenario. Pray and fast sincerely that He should just deliver you. Then, be so determined that you wouldn't come close to any of the aforementioned points being currently faced with. I wish you the best of luck as you're going to be fully restored back to normalcy in thy Mighty Name of Jesus Christ.

i used to suffer from depression for 5 years. until i met Jesus.
even the clinical psycologists in ib couldnt help me
jesus liberated me from pains and gave me joy
give your life to christ

COdeGenesis:


You have a phone, you can afford data.You have time. I make 10k from transcription weekly and it is becos my work doesnt give me time and sometimes I feel less motivated and lazy. Just invest the time and energy you putting into bet9ja to transcription, you can make twice the money i make

guy pls help a fellow Nairalander, want to get involved. how do I go about it? I mean in transcription....thanks

hope1292:
I was addicted to tramadol for a whole 6 months, 400grams everyday which didn't make me detect I was having ulcer, now all my intestine all erupted And i pray to God for healings

Have u gone for text 2 confirm

U all need to pray for the grace of God and also self determination is strongly needed.
When ever that spirit of masturbation comes upon you, is for u to say I REFUSE AND I REJECT U IN MY LIFE U SPIRIT OF MASTURBATION AND GAMBLING! That why the Bible says there is power in our spoken words. It also says life and dead is our mouth. Speak that word! I refuse and rejected you spirit of masturbation in my life and the Lord will help u all.

SweetCunt97:
I'm sure d big boy will now b looking for someone too take him as he is...

U guys have started,

u want to start with the banter things again abi?
una no dey tayaa?? ahh!!!