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Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Nobody: 1:29am On Feb 17, 2020
Someone's daughter is +
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Raalsalghul: 1:39am On Feb 17, 2020
Casalinda:
[s]Hello guys, are there any chances that I will get this virus my partner released his sperm inside me. I am not yet on prep yet are mine safe?? We want to have baby and it is not yet 48hours yet.
Should I take prep even tho he said I should not be afraid that he is undetectable. Doctors in the house help me[/s]
undecided
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Nobody: 4:00am On Feb 17, 2020
AshiraWealthy:
Casalinda Casalinda...you again grin
Enjoy the attention while it lasts. Boredom tinz I guess.
I suspect Val is over she want to give us spill over gist how it all went down.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by kingseg: 4:54am On Feb 17, 2020
U=U. It means if it can't be detected then it can't be transmitted.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Lotusgoddess(f): 9:14am On Feb 17, 2020
Casalinda:
Hello guys, are there any chances that I will get this virus my partner released his sperm inside me. I am not yet on prep yet are mine safe?? We want to have baby and it is not yet 48hours yet.
Should I take prep even tho he said I should not be afraid that he is undetectable. Doctors in the house help me
So far his viral load is low, you're safe but if you're still scared, you could go to the hospital. I work with fhi360 that's how I know it's fine. We have couples that are still safe and having kids with their spouses having the virus because they have low viral load. Let's end the discrimination, they are humans too.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by GraGra247(m): 9:44pm On Feb 18, 2020
Lotusgoddess:
So far his viral load is low, you're safe but if you're still scared, you could go to the hospital. I work with fhi360 that's how I know it's fine. We have couples that are still safe and having kids with their spouses having the virus because they have low viral load. Let's end the discrimination, they are humans too.
Casalinda:
Most of you don’t even border to pick lessons from my story?? You all see it has me being dramatic heheheh Nigeria will always be Nigerians

We will cry in public against people discriminating against people living with hiv, yet in closed door we are the biggest discriminator.

My story here on Nairaland has show how dark some of you. Your heart are
So ending discrimination against carriers means a healthy fellow should go and marry a carrier??

I laugh at unimaginable folly.

So why discriminate against Coronavirus, ebola and SARS victims. Don't even use gloves or cover yourself when you approach them cos its discrimination.

Also why discriminate against a violent mentally deranged mad man. Approach him and have sex with him since you're compassionate.


For that cassalinda lady I can bet with money your attracted to his personality, looks, success and all. So its easy to use HIV discrimination sermon to cover for your totally ridiculous decision.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by mechanics(m): 6:27pm On Feb 19, 2020
Why the rush to have a baby now, why not wait till after he has done the needful.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Lotusgoddess(f): 8:52pm On Feb 19, 2020
Please go and study, that's all I have to say. I don't have time for this. angry

GraGra247:
So ending discrimination against carriers means a healthy fellow should go and marry a carrier??

I laugh at unimaginable folly.

So why discriminate against Coronavirus, ebola and SARS victims. Don't even use gloves or cover yourself when you approach them cos its discrimination.

Also why discriminate against a violent mentally deranged mad man. Approach him and have sex with him since you're compassionate.


For that cassalinda lady I can bet with money your attracted to his personality, looks, success and all. So its easy to use HIV discrimination sermon to cover for your totally ridiculous decision.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by GraGra247(m): 9:01pm On Feb 19, 2020
Lotusgoddess:
Please go and study, that's all I have to say. I don't have time for this. angry
The jokes on you.

You need the studying more. Plus a good working thinking faculty.

Ever wondered why sickle cell carriers are forbidden from marrying each other no matter how they love each other.

You are in the medical field and you can't easily decifer between right and wrong.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by franchasng: 9:25pm On Feb 19, 2020
Casalinda:
Hello guys, are there any chances that I will get this virus my partner released his sperm inside me. I am not yet on prep yet are mine safe?? We want to have baby and it is not yet 48hours yet.
Should I take prep even tho he said I should not be afraid that he is undetectable. Doctors in the house help me
If he is taking his ART judiciously and you are sure that his viral load is truly undetectable when you guys mated, then you have nothing to worry about because he cannot infect you with the virus.


But wait till after 6 months before you go for a HIV test to confirm.

PREP have side effects, it is not also healthy on the kidney, take it with caution.


BTW, you are really strong-willed to carry on with him despite knowing his status, I commend you for that because everybody deserves to be loved.....honestly ladies are stronger than men, because 99.99% of men won't dare what ladies do no matter the condition attached.


Wish you all the best
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 19, 2020
If he is undectable then the virus can't be transferred
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by franchasng: 9:28pm On Feb 19, 2020
Lotusgoddess:
Please go and study, that's all I have to say. I don't have time for this. angry
The guy you quoted is right; discrimination is different from spreading the problem. It is recommended that HIV positive people marry HIV+ positive people too; that is why they have a community for them to socialize and mingle too. It is never recommended for a HIV+ person to willingly marry a HIV- person; that's spreading and multiplying the virus.


The discrimination being preached about is in job opportunities, politics, equal opportunity to survive economically and forge a normal life, not in the area of a negative person willingly getting married to a positive person for some selfish reasons, not advisable at all
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by pesty100(m): 10:46pm On Feb 19, 2020
What won't ladies do for money? Gold digging h0es
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Lotusgoddess(f): 5:32pm On Feb 20, 2020
What are you saying? The person's viral load is low for crying out loud, we aren't talking of people with high viral load!! I'm not saying you should marry someone with a high viral load but one whose viral load is undetectable because of its low. I don't know if you understand me. And do you know the stigma these people have aside other stuff you mentioned? They should have the chance to also have a family so far their viral loads are low.

franchasng:
The guy you quoted is right; discrimination is different from spreading the problem. It is recommended that HIV positive people marry HIV+ positive people too; that is why they have a community for them to socialize and mingle too. It is never recommended for a HIV+ person to willingly marry a HIV- person; that's spreading and multiplying the virus.


The discrimination being preached about is in job opportunities, politics, equal opportunity to survive economically and forge a normal life, not in the area of a negative person willingly getting married to a positive person for some selfish reasons, not advisable at all
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Lotusgoddess(f): 5:39pm On Feb 20, 2020
Omg!! What are you saying? Did you read what I wrote properly? So you think getting pregnant for someone who has a low viral load will transmit the virus to mother and child? Lol. Sickle cell anemia is different please. Anyway, I'm done talking with you. Thank you

GraGra247:
The jokes on you.

You need the studying more. Plus a good working thinking faculty.

Ever wondered why sickle cell carriers are forbidden from marrying each other no matter how they love each other.

You are in the medical field and you can't easily decifer between right and wrong.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by GraGra247(m): 11:25pm On Feb 20, 2020
Lotusgoddess:
Omg!! What are you saying? Did you read what I wrote properly? So you think getting pregnant for someone who has a low viral load will transmit the virus to mother and child? Lol. Sickle cell anemia is different please. Anyway, I'm done talking with you. Thank you
Ma'am what I'm saying is that there are no guarantees. Low viral load is not a guarantee of not being infected.

And where there are no guarantees and the lives of both mother and child are at risk wisdom and common sense simply demands people seek other options especially when there are billions of options available.

This is the simple logic behind why sickle cell carriers and the likes are forbidden to marry a fellow carrier. Because there's a risk, a tendency.

She's not gon die if she doesn't marry him. There are a billion other healthy lovable men available.

Why put an innocent unborn child at risk.
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by oluwatodimu1(m): 12:10am On Feb 21, 2020
But you just got a small engagement ring + "x factors" which in this case is the HIV!
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by emmabucks: 12:23am On Feb 21, 2020
Go to the doctor ask for PrEP
Re: Fiancé Who Is HIV + But Undetected Has Released His Sperm Inside Me by Catchfirez: 11:36am On Feb 21, 2020
Ahahhaha nothing person no go see for Nairaland.
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