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Richnerd69:
I have a good friend I've been seeing and dating for a while with no intimacy involved. 80% of our meetings is usually in my crib, and some other days I take her out.


Days ago, after we both closed from work, I invited her over in the cool of the evening and I decided to make a move by initiating romance , she never resisted . I necked her , and I noticed she gets really ticklish anytime I slightly bite or lick her ear. I fondled and played with her bosom , whilst caressing her thighs and hands in slow motion. I was about getting down there when she stopped my hand . I tried and tried , but she was persistently saying "no" in a low tone. I knew if I had pressed, I would have had my way.

She told me she didn't want vaginal sex but she could please me in any way I want, inclusive of BJ . I obliged to non but insisted on the sex , until I later gave up. She is the first to ever resist my advances .

So I asked her today, minutes ago, on why she snapped, she said to me, she would hate me if she had sex with me and I would be the one falling and our friendship will become an avenue for just sex only . She's never had a consensual sex and she snaps out of the mood easily...
She never said why she would hate me , but asks me of my opinion if it's weird?

Ladies, is it normal to hate a guy after sex, or she doesn't find me sexually attractive?

healthserve:
Trust me I know you're super smart. Why else do you think I chat you up.. when you excessively lean upon preconceived intellectualism devoid of having facts in place, you'll fall into errors.


It's simply not taking the forum too seriously to avoid the possibility of addictions. To also, create time for " real life ", to move on, build and develop. Of which, I'm spending my final days on S.M.

XhosaNostra:
So my psycho analysis is off the mark? I can't argue with the bolded. Let's leave it that.

Gotcha. What do you mean by the last part?

healthserve:
Don't wanna talk about it publicly. Many Nigerians don't have joy Days why I made some statements cryptic

XhosaNostra:
Understood

Richnerd69:
I have a good friend I've been seeing and dating for a while with no intimacy involved. 80% of our meetings is usually in my crib, and some other days I take her out.


Days ago, after we both closed from work, I invited her over in the cool of the evening and I decided to make a move by initiating romance , she never resisted . I necked her , and I noticed she gets really ticklish anytime I slightly bite or lick her ear. I fondled and played with her bosom , whilst caressing her thighs and hands in slow motion. I was about getting down there when she stopped my hand . I tried and tried , but she was persistently saying "no" in a low tone. I knew if I had pressed, I would have had my way.

She told me she didn't want vaginal sex but she could please me in any way I want, inclusive of BJ . I obliged to non but insisted on the sex , until I later gave up. She is the first to ever resist my advances .

So I asked her today, minutes ago, on why she snapped, she said to me, she would hate me if she had sex with me and I would be the one falling and our friendship will become an avenue for just sex only . She's never had a consensual sex and she snaps out of the mood easily...
She never said why she would hate me , but asks me of my opinion if it's weird?

Ladies, is it normal to hate a guy after sex, or she doesn't find me sexually attractive?

Richnerd69:
So I asked her today, minutes ago, on why she snapped, she said to me, she would hate me if she had sex with me and I would be the one falling and our friendship will become an avenue for just sex only . She's never had a consensual sex and she snaps out of the mood easily...
She never said why she would hate me , but asks me of my opinion if it's weird?

Ladies, is it normal to hate a guy after sex, or she doesn't find me sexually attractive?

crackkhaus:
You're not asking the right question.

Focus on that statement in bold and find out exactly what she means by it.

I'm thinking she has had bad sexual experiences in the past that could be likened to rape, OR she's someone who gets off on being coerced/forced/roughhandled into having sex.

Either of those two scenarios might explain why she will hate you after having sex with you.

Find out what she means by never having consensual sex before.
That's a red-flag statement.

blackjack21:
Well, this is something. All in all, I think you have a excellent pornographic writing skills.
The way your illustrations of your encounter take one to venue of the happening is remarkable.
I think you should consider writing adult books professionally.

Omar09:
At first I thought I was reading an erotic novel. Bro you went too deep with the details. It wasn't necessary.

That is some manipulation playing itself right there. She doesn't want to have sex, but she does everything that will lead to sex, c'mon. Who keeps a goat and a tuber of yam together? She romances you, can give you a nice head, and all sort yet no sex. BTW what do you think is sex? Is it when there's penetration that it's called sex?

Have you asked yourself how she agreed quickly to give you head, if she didn't know how to do it, she wouldn't have suggested it. .. Bro that girl is not up sex and shouldn't be in a relationship. Ditch her, there are a million girls out there ready to Bleep you without giving a hoot about knowing you.

She's a damaged girl, don't put up with her.

Richnerd69:
She's had forceful sex experience in the past, hence her reason for snapping out every time.

Too damaged man. But I have got some mad love for her. She's had other forms of consensual sex other than vaginal...

Omar09:
Then it's not fair she ties you down for her phobia of sex. Still dump her and move on.



Bro the bolded will ruin you. Pro tip, don't go for a girl you love, rather go for one who loves you. E get why.

Richnerd69:
I have a good friend I've been seeing and dating for a while with no intimacy involved. 80% of our meetings is usually in my crib, and some other days I take her out.


Days ago, after we both closed from work, I invited her over in the cool of the evening and I decided to make a move by initiating romance , she never resisted . I necked her , and I noticed she gets really ticklish anytime I slightly bite or lick her ear. I fondled and played with her bosom , whilst caressing her thighs and hands in slow motion. I was about getting down there when she stopped my hand . I tried and tried , but she was persistently saying "no" in a low tone. I knew if I had pressed, I would have had my way.

She told me she didn't want vaginal sex but she could please me in any way I want, inclusive of BJ . I obliged to non but insisted on the sex , until I later gave up. She is the first to ever resist my advances .

So I asked her today, minutes ago, on why she snapped, she said to me, she would hate me if she had sex with me and I would be the one falling and our friendship will become an avenue for just sex only . She's never had a consensual sex and she snaps out of the mood easily...
She never said why she would hate me , but asks me of my opinion if it's weird?

Ladies, is it normal to hate a guy after sex, or she doesn't find me sexually attractive?

healthserve:
She's not rejecting you. Neither are you sexually unattractive. She simply has psychological blocks that helps her stay in check so she doesn't just succumb to casual sex. If she wants to have sex,especially a first, the mental blocks telsl her it has to be spectacular and for good reasons.

She sees through you that you're trying to exploit your friendships to gain entrance and knows you'll be the hurting sorry if and after you've gotten it


Buy her a drink, she's smart. She's preserving your friendship and protecting your friendship bond from contaminants which you're bringing to the mix. If you want more than sex from her, she'll give it to you. While she may have some attraction, she's undecided about you because even you haven't defined what you want/your stance



Cc XhosaNostra

Sixfeetbelle:
Thank you. Let me send one cartoon of pure heaven to you right now for this wisdom.