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Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Charisec(m): 10:14pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
It's WRONG to impregnate a lady outside WEDLOCK or get yourself impregnated via sexual intercourse outside WEDLOCK. I mean we are not even to have sex outside marriage, talk less impregnate anyone. It's WORSE to make a marriage decision based on that wrong! You cannot build a future on a mistake! Except you decide in yourself that this lady is actually who you want as a wife and she also decides same. Then the decision is beyond the mistake, the mistake just revealed the decision you would have made. I hope you get the twist. But it's real foolishness to marry someone you have no deep emotions for, someone you have not proven his or her character, someone you would never respect or honour, someone who has no spiritual strength nor mental fervency, ALL BECAUSE YOU ARE PREGNANT FOR HIM OR YOU IMPREGNATED HER. You can't build life on MISTAKES. My one cent! |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by LadySarah: 10:21pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Why sleep unprotected with someone you have no emotions for. How would you as a child feel if you are a product of such loveless copulation? Who are you leaving the single mom for? 17 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Gwagone: 10:22pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
WTF Na fvck up be that oo I must like you before sleeping with you in case this happens but no marriage for local man |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Tallesty1(m): 10:22pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
LadySarah:Single dads and old but not tired widowers |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by IamD18: 1:04am On Feb 18, 2020 |
An unmarried pregnant lady is to blamed for getting pregnant because it's her BODY. No reasonable man should be held responsible for financial contributions to it. When you contest on the decision of ladies keeping a pregnancy, they'll say it's their body and will do whatever deem fit with it. When you want them to keep it, they can decide to abort it because it's their body and they can do whatever that pleases them with it. Why then do they find it difficult to take all the blames when pregnant because it's their body? Abi na men body when things begin hard? 3 Likes
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Lamanii22(f): 5:39am On Feb 18, 2020 |
LadySarah: Abi... Good questions... They would just be bringing up rubbish talk.. They just wanna chop and clean mouth... They just wanna justify their rubbish act.. 10 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by infogenius(m): 1:45pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
And if a man entice a maid that is not betrothed, and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife. EX 22:16 It is so stupid and foolish to sleep with someone you are not married to and have no emotions for 8 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:16pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Charisec: Op the @emboldened, and your entire write up is a classic case of foolishness, you should think critically of what to type before airing it publicly. 3 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:18pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Tallesty1(m): 3:45pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:I actually have audio recording of all my thoughts |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:47pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by lilmax(m): 4:09pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
You're on point You shouldn't get married to a woman because she's pregnant for you You have Right to marry who you want to get married to The best you can do is pay half of what the baby needs every month |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 5:12pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Don't marry a woman because she got pregnant, I repeat, don't do it. A word is enough. 5 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
And when the child later became an adult, u will creep out from the hole u were hiding, monitoring his development to come and claim biological dad, ò kwa ya? Mgbò pìawapùkwà ģi isi If I catch u eeh 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 5:21pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:Don't marry for that reason does not translate into being an absentee father. 7 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Don't enter without raincoat. Simple. U two made the mistake so bear the consequences. Afterall.our forefathers don't know what is love. It's foreign invention. No be so una talk am? 6 Likes
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 5:24pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:Bear the consequences by marrying someone you don't want to for a lifetime? Come on, even you can't be this biased. 4 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus:All of una na absentee father. U think say u dey oyibo land? Who will even take u to court? Which Nigerian court will hold u responsible for not paying child support? It makes majority of our men highly irresponsible. U know that. 5 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 5:25pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:Speak only about your reality. Not everyone is an absentee father in Nigeria. 3 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus:We are talking about reality here na 6 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 5:46pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:Lol, no be everybody be absentee father.. that's the reality. The point is, getting married to someone just because she is pregnant is not wise in the long run. The only exception is if there was already an engagement or marriage in the pipeline before the pregnancy. 5 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Then don't nyansh her. If konji hold u, go and pay for it. I talk lie? 4 Likes
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 6:18pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:See talk.. Like say you no dey set nyansh regularly before you marry... abeg ee 4 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Leave me alone, let's face the topic crackkhaus CD even after saying yes to proposal. Anything can happen o If u are the type that don't wear raincoat, let me tell u this now, coronavirus can be transmitted sexually According to latest research. Hmm 3 Likes
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 6:48pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:I was facing the topic na before you begin tell me not to nyansh without payment or raincoat. Woz your own inside sef? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Haaaahaaaa Just looking out for u na Seems u love it without. I don't want stories that touch. Unless u dey produce empty pap I dey under the influence
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 8:10pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:My pap dey very effective, no try me oo 7 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 8:28pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
sassysure:Diswan no be talk... tested to industry standards already 2 Likes |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
crackkhaus: I give up |
Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by crackkhaus: 8:37pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
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Re: Must You Marry Her Because You Got Her Pregnant? by ImaIma1(f): 2:48am On Feb 19, 2020 |
LadySarah: Why would a woman open her legs and allow someone have unprotected sex with her. Is he her husband? Why should a lady try to pin pregnancy on a guy that has not even made any commitment to her. Something that protection or using "morning after" pill would have sorted out 3 Likes 1 Share |
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