Please nairalanders my homie is in a fix, he needs some advice.
My homie has a girl he loves so much and the girl claims she also love him more than love itself. They are both students in one of the tertiary institutions in the country. The girl is also working to support herself in school, same with my homie. Now here is the issue. She told my homie that one Army personnel came to her workplace and was surprised to see a girl being an auto mechanic. He was surprise according to her. He ask her some questions and got to know she is also a student. He ask her why she's not in school, she told him she doesn't have money for her project. The man volunteered to assist her. She told my homie these things o. So they exchange contacts. My guy said when he meet his girl later that day, he collected her phone to make call, just then a message entered her phone, since it was in silent mode the girl didn't know she had a message. He opened the message and was surprised by what he saw: the army man sent her a message telling her how he loves what she's doing and how he loves her so much and want to take care of all her needs. He deleted the message and returned the phone. He didn't even ask her any thing. After like two days the guy checked her call recordings when she went to buy something. He saw the recording of the army personnel. He listened to it. The man promised her everything and even ask her if she had a man in her life, she told the man that he won't believe it that she does not have, she denied my homie outrightly. The man then told her how he wants to spend some quality time with her, to make her feel like a woman, to cuddle her and make her forget her troubles. The man later send her money to take care of her project stuff. He told her to come to the house which she promised to go. My guy said she has not told him anything pertaining to that man, only that first day the man saw her and promise to send her money. The man is staying in the same road that her aunty is also staying. She told my guy that she won't be seeing him frequently again as she'll be staying with that her aunty for the meantime since she just gave birth and she said my guy should not be calling her frequently since she'll be staying with her aunt, my guy told me she's looking for a way to meet that army personnel in his house. Personally I don't know what to tell my homie since her loves her to a fault. My guy needs advice on what to do.
Please don't mind my Grammer as am rushing to type this.

Tell your homie to go hustle and leave woman matter alone. When money come, woman go come. A guy that is still in school. Better leave the girl alone make she follow who go help her life.

The girl will still come back, no worry. No be only your friend get the girl, Na him turn, Now na Army Guy Turn.


Tell your guy to move on.

At the end of the day, Money answereth all things. Your guy never 'arrive', unlike the soldier. Most ladies are not loyal, so, he should have it at the back of his mind that 'anything is possible'. This is one of the reasons why most broke/ struggling men become redpillers, in future, when they eventually make it. Ladies laugh through their ears and men with their eyes. The soldier has "toasted" her, and she knows he "packaged" well. Anyways, the beautiful ones are not yet born. Your friend should work harder, make money and maybe snatch the "Love of another man," from him.

Women don't love. They are always on the lookout for a promotion. Love that is 'more than love itself' yet was dropped at the first smell of a richer toaster.

Please don't mind my Grammer as am rushing to type this.
Every one on NL are always claiming they are rushing
My guy move on

Firstly; Love does not exist.

Men look for loyal, well-behave, supportive and women to marry, while women look for men that can take care of them and the family.

Your said homie[If not you] is still a student who shouldn't prioritize women, but his studies and other skills so as to succeed in life.While the lady in question is also a student struggling to survive.

She's expected to do what she did as an average Nigerian lady who wants a man that can support her, take care of her and her financial needs. Don't condemn her.

All your homie need to do as a guyman is to erase all invested emotions in her and keep fvcking her just for pleasure. He has lost her.

@mynett11


tell ur guy to move on fast, but he should let the girl know he is aware of the whole drama...


Army guys uses money to woo cheap ladies... if u doubt ask any female undergoing nysc scheme in army barracks...

Infact, if ur gf or sister is being posted to barracks for her PPA, my brother just forget her, unless u really really understand her and knows her excesses and limit.

And one more, women need comfort. She stays if u can provide her that. If not, go and focus on your career and life goals.

I'll gladly say move on....

Tell your homie to chomp the last supper and discharge the hoe forget about love. According to Rick love is a chemical reaction that compels mammals to breed, it come hard and fizzles out leaving one in a failed marriage with two miserable parties. Your friend should do the wise thing.

Your guy should just spread his net and catch bigger fish. This one has found a buyer already.

Mynet11:
Please nairalanders my homie is in a fix, he needs some advice.
My homie has a girl he loves so much and the girl claims she also love him more than love itself. They are both students in one of the tertiary institutions in the country. The girl is also working to support herself in school, same with my homie. Now here is the issue. She told my homie that one Army personnel came to her workplace and was surprised to see a girl being an auto mechanic. He was surprise according to her. He ask her some questions and got to know she is also a student. He ask her why she's not in school, she told him she doesn't have money for her project. The man volunteered to assist her. She told my homie these things o. So they exchange contacts. My guy said when he meet his girl later that day, he collected her phone to make call, just then a message entered her phone, since it was in silent mode the girl didn't know she had a message. He opened the message and was surprised by what he saw: the army man sent her a message telling her how he loves what she's doing and how he loves her so much and want to take care of all her needs. He deleted the message and returned the phone. He didn't even ask her any thing. After like two days the guy checked her call recordings when she went to buy something. He saw the recording of the army personnel. He listened to it. The man promised her everything and even ask her if she had a man in her life, she told the man that he won't believe it that she does not have, she denied my homie outrightly. The man then told her how he wants to spend some quality time with her, to make her feel like a woman, to cuddle her and make her forget her troubles. The man later send her money to take care of her project stuff. He told her to come to the house which she promised to go. My guy said she has not told him anything pertaining to that man, only that first day the man saw her and promise to send her money. The man is staying in the same road that her aunty is also staying. She told my guy that she won't be seeing him frequently again as she'll be staying with that her aunty for the meantime since she just gave birth and she said my guy should not be calling her frequently since she'll be staying with her aunt, my guy told me she's looking for a way to meet that army personnel in his house. Personally I don't know what to tell my homie since her loves her to a fault. My guy needs advice on what to do.
Please don't mind my Grammer as am rushing to type this.

Your guy is you... we nor be small pikin.
But anyway, I advice to simply and maturely tell the said girl how dissapointed you are.
Do it in a calm and sweet voice, the moment you loose your cool, you give her more reason to justify her movement or better still use an emotional rope to tie you with the option of undercover lover(under ground stinking lover without liver)
Just ensure you don't sound like a frustrated and emotional fowl.
Then simply forget everything about her (not even friendship is allowed), she will miss you by your maturity.
Don't start to discuss and do throw back stories.
That's all to do.

Every other form of foolish confrontation and yeye behavior na you go use head carry am o.

OP your homie you have to accept the reality that the girl is not his yours. Move on!

Allow the Sojaman enjoy her and dump her when he is done! No be soja again?

She will come begging with emotional blackmail but make sure your homie you don't give her listening ear...

I'll advice that your homie you face his your studies.

Homie homie homie

Tell your homie that, that's a military zone. It is best he keep off.

Catchfirez:
Tell your homie to go hustle and leave woman matter alone. When money come, woman go come. A guy that is still in school. Better leave the girl alone make she follow who go help her life.

The girl will still come back, no worry. No be only your friend get the girl, Na him turn, Now na Army Guy Turn.


Tell your guy to move on.

Hmmm hard pill to swallow...I hope he'll see things in another perspective. Thanks for you advice. He's reading too

Foodqueen:
Tell your homie that, that's a military zone. It is best he keep off.

Whatever happens to true love then?? Because my guy is head over heels with her... His family knows her wella

TonyeBarcanista:
OP your homie you have to accept the reality that the girl is not his yours. Move on!

Allow the Sojaman enjoy her and dump her when he is done! No be soja again?

She will come begging with emotional blackmail but make sure your homie you don't give her listening ear...

I'll advice that your homie you face his your studies.

Thanks man I told him this but he won't believe me... Thank God he's also reading the comments

stanliwise:
Your guy is you... we nor be small pikin.
But anyway, I advice to simply and maturely tell the said girl how dissapointed you are.
Do it in a calm and sweet voice, the moment you loose your cool, you give her more reason to justify her movement or better still use an emotional rope to tie you with the option of undercover lover(under ground stinking lover without liver)
Just ensure you don't sound like a frustrated and emotional fowl.
Then simply forget everything about her (not even friendship is allowed), she will miss you by your maturity.
Don't start to discuss and do throw back stories.
That's all to do.

Every other form of foolish confrontation and yeye behavior na you go use head carry am o.

Am not the one, he is here as a guest. Anyways thanks for your advice, he's also reading this.

AfroKnight:


Your guy should just spread his net and catch bigger fish. This one has found a buyer already.

I really hope he reads this particular comment... Thanks man

Munzy14:
@mynett11


tell ur guy to move on fast, but he should let the girl know he is aware of the whole drama...


Army guys uses money to woo cheap ladies... if u doubt ask any female undergoing nysc scheme in army barracks...

Infact, if ur gf or sister is being posted to barracks for her PPA, my brother just forget her, unless u really really understand her and knows her excesses and limit.

And one more, women need comfort. She stays if u can provide her that. If not, go and focus on your career and life goals.

A word is enough for the wise! That's exactly what I told him. He's here I believe he takes this advice

I cannot even count the number of times I read where bae denied me outrightly that year.
I just laugh now when I remember em. It's all part of the growth process.

Your hommie no longer has a bae. It'll hurt like madt but it'll get easier. Talking from experience.
And most importantly, don't let her into your life again. Not even as a fifth choice until you have had enough time to heal away from her.
Hope this helps.

She will end up losing though but can you stand the beatings from soldiers all cos of love? If yes.... Go ahead, your love is blind and foolish!!!! If no.......your love is not blind but smart!!!!!!

Mynet11:

Thanks man I told him this but he won't believe me... Thank God he's also reading the comments

That was a wrong advice from barcanista, your guy should keep enjoying the girl while he limit his financial involvement with her. Last Las she will leave but your friend won't lose anything as he would have been prepared for that. All those kind girl na free fucq dem de for.

student dating student u think anything serious will come out of it.ur homie should forget about her and face his life or dont take her seriously.the denying him is already a red flag.he should face his studies and dont put this issue at heart so his grades dont get affected.

The army guy is a fling, he will not last in her life. Your friend can hold on to get his girl back, this will require patience. If he is not ready to be patient, then he will lose his gal to another man.

Tell your homie to get a couplee of guys to confront the army personnel, after all he loves her so much

Guy, we know say na
you be this "homie"..

The girl was looking for
help & na only forck you fit offer..

Just try & give her some marathon
balling, from back, front, sideways etc,
then tell her what you know.

You have lost her, since she has
denied you severally already.

You are now trying to mess
with an army officer's wife!!

Homie ko, homie ni

Couldn't you find a synonym to interchange with? My homie, my homie up and down.

IamD18:
Firstly; Love does not exist.

Men look for loyal, well-behave, supportive and women to marry, while women look for men that can take care of them and the family.

Your said homie[If not you] is still a student who shouldn't prioritize women, but his studies and other skills so as to succeed in life.While the lady in question is also a student struggling to survive.

She's expected to do what she did as an average Nigerian lady who wants a man that can support her, take care of her and her financial needs. Don't condemn her.

All your homie need to do as a guyman is to erase all invested emotions in her and keep fvcking her just for pleasure. He has lost her.

love still exists..... a lady collected money from one Richie and spent it on me, her middle sweetness untouched by the guy. I was wondering if I deserved that kind of love... This made me stronger and more committed than I had ever been.

LilMissFavvy:
The army guy is a fling, he will not last in her life. Your friend can hold on to get his girl back, this will require patience. If he is not ready to be patient, then he will lose his gal to another man.

The kind of advice some of you dish out ehn...