Plumville:
Pete Edochie it’s not that deep na. I’m mildly disappointed at your ‘old school’ mentality.

The new school mentality where as it landed many of you.?
But has clearly turned you to an emasculated,effeminate men.

Those days a woman dare not raise her hands against her husband but today, they cheat on you, slap you and even murder you and they still blame you for it.

Can you see what this new school mentality has turned you guys to.

I have a girl I love and I wish to marry, but I will never ,I repeat, NEVER crane my neck talkless of kneel like an emasculated he-goat because I want to propose.

Who does that!

Rapmoney:
This should be a drama rehearsal but if it is real, I think I'd have to disagree strongly. I mean, his reason is crappy!

What about men who do it in Europe, America (both north and south), Asia and Australia? Have their wives taken over the family?

Chai!!! Papa Yul, you fall my legs for this one.

Maybe your legs were already fallen man. So just what about if the men in Europe and co. do it? My point is what's really the point of it. Isn't it something you think should be done only because you saw white men doing it? Be sincere.

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Sixfeetbelle:


I agree with you on the sexism going both ways part, but I was hoping an 'intelligent' answer would follow my question.

As to what else can a man offer a woman, I want to believe companionship goes a long way. I want to believe security is there as well. Intellectual compatibility might be added her too. Because if peradventure,[/b] dick is declared impotent and money is suddenly lacking[b], wouldn't someone who places such importance on these two be frustrated/depressed?

My perception of the matter is that if men (both sexes) will learn not to put such importance on dick and money, maybe marriages today would last longer.

But this is theoretical and just my opinion.

How can someone be broke and be impotent at the same time? Haba! Na only him kill Jesus?

marvin906:
don't know about others but I can't kneel down to propose to any girl in this life or the next no matter the love I have for her i can't it just feels somehow In my head thinking about it..
buh who ever likes it is free to kneel

Lol but u go fit kneel do doggy style on top bed and for floor ba?

Well-done

decatalyst:
So standing up like Buckingham palace guard shows that the man is strong like Zuma rock, shey?



Wisdom is truly not by number of years spent on earth.

And has your kneeling made your marriage better than these men?

You guys of this generation are clearly emasculated.
It's simple.

IME1:


He said any man he didn't say black man that means he is also trying to berate the white man and his culture.
Now take a look at the 4 pictures above, one man is proposing to his woman who has dwarfism, is he supposed to stand or make her kneel?

How does kneeling make one less a man?
In your tribe doesn't the man and his wife not eventually kneel before their parents for them to pray over them at their wedding?

Also he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord, a wife is like a treasure found that makes a man sell all he has to buy the treasure and even the land join.

You can't do cafeteria when it comes to certain things, like the Christian faith, however, you can when it comes to inter cultural exchange.
When you wear jeans and wristwatch it is the white man's culture, but you don't say that's copy copy?
You eat with cutleries, sitting on a table and use gas or kerosene cookers, those are the white man's techniques, is it not copy copy? You may even have an English name sef
That means all cultures borrow from each other and have many similarities- from the dressing, to the food, to the cloths to the music and more.

When you see someone you wish to spend the rest of your life with, who would be your help mete and would drop her father's name and take yours up, you should, do appreciate her and honour her.

If you can kneel for so many other things and reasons freely why the ego when it comes to a woman you married, not just any waka pass strange woman oh

I'm sure you wore your skirt to write all this. Kudos

iCauseTrouble:
I do not agree Pete Edochie on this. Obembet my NL crush, Am planning a surprise proposal for you. Am gonna kneel down infront of my friends and your friends.....
Hope you will say YES?

What a shame!

gnss:
. Any man that Kneels down to propose to a Lady is a Fool and Compound Baffoon the message is Clear ...Stop looking for unnecessary reasons to defend fools . .

But to kneel for sex is fine ba.. Kontinew

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

so many mentions yet not 1 thing, guess that's all y'all have afterall, but you want a woman to be everything including a mother, househelp, maid, prostitute, manager and nanny for you. SMH

You said ABSOLUTE NONSENSE

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

so many mentions yet not 1 thing, guess that's all y'all have afterall, but you want a woman to be everything including a mother, househelp, maid, prostitute, manager and nanny for you. SMH

If you and your man were attacked by a group of thugs who would be expected to stand up for the other? Even jack as poor as he was died for rose. You women are just ungrateful!!

Confirmedzombie:
Only ibos especially Anambra, Ndi Imo people kneel down to propose a woman.

Very backward people.

you call imo the most educated State in Nigeria backward people

chia who do you this thing

biGDhAp:
.. carrying wife's bag is still logical, it could be for a brief while.. the one I hate is the one which a man carries his own luggage and both the woman's with his hands full while she just catwalk at his back

. A lot of them are on this thread..
Decatalyst is one of em

pocohantas:
Why are these elements quoting me upandan?

Typing with phones produced by white men and calling them fools for starting something you think is a sign of weakness.

Na for woman matter Naija man strength end.

Set awon oniranu ati alabosi oshi.

aunty mu, ogini mere. Eweliwo oh ndo oh

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Beedude:

How can someone be broke and be impotent at the same time? Haba! Na only him kill Jesus?

Like I said it's theoretical. But at least you agree either one of them can happen at anytime.

Respect is fast going into extinction in this generation, I agree with Pete Edochie on this, can we stop the insult already?
Kneeling during proposal is not our culture and it isn't a sign of respect, there are other ways to show respect to each other.
I don't need a man to kneel to propose to me, I am not even interested in any stage managed proposal.

Wow

Sixfeetbelle:


Let me increase the volume so the 'men' on this forum will hear it.

D question should be can u do without d dick and d money?

Wow

Sodomy is worse than White Supremacy

JERRY1925:


Lol but u go fit kneel do doggy style on top bed and for floor ba?

Well-done

how does the two scenario correlate..
am confused

YorubaLord:


Which is why >90% of Igbos are ashamed of their language and cultures by bearing White-man's name.

you try so hard to show us you are a bigot

but you suck as hell at it

oga carry your Igbo vs Yoruba fight go masturbate for one side

IME1:


He said any man he didn't say black man that means he is also trying to berate the white man and his culture.
Now take a look at the 4 pictures above, one man is proposing to his woman who has dwarfism, is he supposed to stand or make her kneel?

How does kneeling make one less a man?
In your tribe doesn't the man and his wife not eventually kneel before their parents for them to pray over them at their wedding?

Also he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord, a wife is like a treasure found that makes a man sell all he has to buy the treasure and even the land join.

You can't do cafeteria when it comes to certain things, like the Christian faith, however, you can when it comes to inter cultural exchange.
When you wear jeans and wristwatch it is the white man's culture, but you don't say that's copy copy?
You eat with cutleries, sitting on a table and use gas or kerosene cookers, those are the white man's techniques, is it not copy copy? You may even have an English name sef
That means all cultures borrow from each other and have many similarities- from the dressing, to the food, to the cloths to the music and more.

When you see someone you wish to spend the rest of your life with, who would be your help mete and would drop her father's name and take yours up, you should, do appreciate her and honour her.

If you can kneel for so many other things and reasons freely why the ego when it comes to a woman you married, not just any waka pass strange woman oh

Even those days when our grand mas and mums were humble, disciplined without living a wayward life, respectful, supportive and persevere no matter how poor u are, we didn't hear of our Grand PAs or Dads kneeling before they propose. But now wey most babes don turn bitches, having more than 1 bf is no longer a crime , dated more than 15 guys before getting married, not ready to struggle with u or support u. That is when we decided to start kneeling down to propose. It didn't really make sense to start with. I'm married but I never did such, u aren't helping me by marrying me neither am I.

prekumohtim:


Ask the late 2Pac
"In his words, If i had a father to teach me how to be a man , my life would have been different. No woman can teach a boy how to be a man, only a father can do that. In an attempt to be a man, I have walked wrongly". The impact is not just on the woman but on her offsprings. Think above the two things you mentioned

Tu pac was a wise man, he could have been wiser if he had a father figure in his life while growing up and he'll still be alive by now. The importance of a strong father figure in the life of a child is very important and paramount. He's the greatest rapper that's ever liveth.

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

so many mentions yet not 1 thing, guess that's all y'all have afterall, but you want a woman to be everything including a mother, househelp, maid, prostitute, manager and nanny for you. SMH

Apart frm d*k and money, the man is the chife security officer, protector,provider,driver even bouncer. respect men

YorubaLord:
Na dem... Chest beaters!

bro hate is not good for your health stop hating so that you will live long EDI ofia

RighteousI:
A lot of the men that are currently brutalising their wives knelt down to propose, hence the only fool is the gullible woman who believes that the man that kneels to propose to her actually loves her. These wicked and evil men will do whatever it takes including kneeling down to propose just to deceive the girl. He kneels because he has not tied her down yet
As soon as they marry and he ties her down with some babies, then he will start giving her slaps and start cheating on her.

Tell these fools who have clearly lost some nuts in their thinking faculty.

It's a shame the kind of irresponsible men we raise these days.
They copy rubbish from the whites, but fail to copy the good from them yet these whites aren't having any better marriages.
They cheat, they lie and they deceive yet these fools who call themselves men think Hollywood is the be all and end all of all there is.


PS:I am not here to discountenance what the white people stands for, but I won't support every rubbish they promote or support simply because of their intellectual,technological and some ethical superiority.
Objectivity should guide us not stupidity.

xendra:
please apart from dick and money, what other impact does a man add to a woman's life?

asking for a friend

D question u should be asking for urself & ur imaginary friend is if u can live independently without d dick and d money

Eliz24:
Respect is fast going into extinction in this generation, I agree with Pete Edochie on this, can we stop the insult already?
Kneeling during proposal is not our culture and it isn't a sign of respect, there are other ways to show respect to each other.
I don't need a man to kneel to propose to me, I am not even interested in any stage managed proposal.

Killing of twins was once our culture, till same FOOLISH white men came and put an end to it. Culture is man made and as much as I am not a fan of “proposals”, I still think calling men who do it fools for copying whites is extreme.

In all our wisdom and strength, we are still ravaged by ordinary malaria and trooping to foreign embassies. I hope all world leaders block every entry for Nigerians. We would be here with our CULTURE.

I see this ack of knelling down to demand for unnecessary responsibility from a girl as idiotic expression,
Due to societal and cultural conditionings of Africa is only woman kneel to a man, no matter how we try to copy on western part of the world we can't change the fact that we are Africans and also live in Africa,

A nigeria man that does this is a good example of Pussy nigga.

iCauseTrouble:
I do not agree Pete Edochie on this. Obembet my NL crush, Am planning a surprise proposal for you. Am gonna kneel down infront of my friends and your friends.....
Hope you will say YES?

You're cheapening yourself just to please an anonymous moniker who may even be a guy like you.. Please try and build your self esteem please.

pocohantas:
Why are these elements quoting me upandan?

Typing with phones produced by white men and calling them fools for starting something you think is a sign of weakness.

And Obasanjo Internet